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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Having had a new thread deleted this afternoon, can a moderator advise what is the criteria for deleting threads?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What was the thread about?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What was the thread about? "

Lol. Yep. Get this one deleted too

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What was the thread about? "

A cam critic.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.

How we moderate

We don't want the forum to be over-moderated, so we'll only remove threads where absolutely necessary if we believe it to be in the best interests of the site or where we're legally obliged to. When threads are closed the mods will add a note explaining why.

Threads we remove

Threads containing racism, threats, nasty stuff like that will be removed and the posters banned or given timeouts. We also don't want discussions of serious illegal subjects like rape, child abuse, illegal drugs because inevitably someone will post about their own crimes / experiences of crimes and we can get hauled up in court to provide evidence. We do this for fun and we don't want the hassle, sorry.

Name and shame

Please don't name and shame other users. There's no way for us to police this so if you have a problem with another user, please REPORT them privately to Admin (via the report link on the profile), and block them. Admin will review, resolve.

Don't be nasty

Abuse against other site users, mods or admin isn't tolerated.

Don't be personal

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Disputing admin or moderator decisions

The mods and site admin are all volunteers who try and keep the site safe. If you think they've made a specific mistake (and we accept that mistakes or mis-judgements do happen), the forum isn't the place to discuss it. Please contact Admin directly and we'll review and make right. If you have general feedback on site moderation or administration, you can post it to the site feedback forum but please ensure it's constructive criticism not personal critisim.

18+ only

Any discussion of sex relating to under 18s isn't allowed and will be removed.

Dirty laundry

The forums aren't for airing your dirty laundry in public. If you've got a problem with another site user, please block them and/or report to admin via the report link on their profile.

Links to other sites

We have restrictions on where you can link to because otherwise people end up posting spam or links to places that host malware/spyware and it's bad for our users.

You can link to:

Any well recognised news site (bbc, times, telegraph, sun, notw, cnn and all the rest)

Youtube

Lovehoney

Wikipedia

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

No phone numbers, addresses, personal details

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Private mail should stay private

Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules.

Commercial services

Most commercial postings are NOT ok. Some that are specifically related to swinging such as swingers club nights might be, so long as it's not annoying site users. Discretion is applied.

Deliberate or malicious disruption of the forum

If you deliberately or maliciously try to interrupt everyone else's enjoyment of the forums, for example by trying to fill up the forum with your own content (just one example), it's not fair and we'll take action.

Locations

Please don't post exact locations of dogging sites or socials in the forum. You can ask people to mail you privately for more information.

Forum timeouts

If you've broken forum rules or we consider it in the interests of the community, we may issue you a timeout on participation. You'll get a message explaining what you did wrong and how long the timeout lasts. It expires automatically. Please don't use any other accounts to try and get around timeouts because they will banned.

Spot any problems? If you see rule breaking on the forums or if you've posted a thread that you'd like to be removed for any reason, please use the report link underneath the forum post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

None of the above!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"None of the above!"

someone might have reported it then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"None of the above!

someone might have reported it then?"

So a thread can be deleted by being reported?

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"None of the above!

someone might have reported it then?

So a thread can be deleted by being reported?"

Yes , but only if it broke the rules. But mods might delete it without it being reported.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thank goodness for these guidelines...manners should always be paramount on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"None of the above!

someone might have reported it then?

So a thread can be deleted by being reported?

Yes , but only if it broke the rules. But mods might delete it without it being reported. "

Quite, but it didn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Thank goodness for these guidelines...manners should always be paramount on here"

We think sex should be paramount on here!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World


"What was the thread about?

A cam critic."

As in you were critiquing someone's performance on cam?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What was the thread about?

A cam critic.

As in you were critiquing someone's performance on cam?

"

No. Someone had messaged us with his critique.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Naming and shaming in forums is against site terms. That's why I named the perevert I reported and forumed about in my status

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World


"What was the thread about?

A cam critic.

As in you were critiquing someone's performance on cam?

No. Someone had messaged us with his critique."

And did you mention their profile name or quote their message to you?

That will get a thread pulled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Naming and shaming in forums is against site terms. That's why I named the perevert I reported and forumed about in my status "

No name was mentioned in our deleted thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Or quote.

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd just move on now. Threads tend not to be deleted without reason, and you aren't actually solving anything in this one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'd just move on now. Threads tend not to be deleted without reason, and you aren't actually solving anything in this one."

An answer will solve it same as any other thread that asks a question.

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"I'd just move on now. Threads tend not to be deleted without reason, and you aren't actually solving anything in this one.

An answer will solve it same as any other thread that asks a question."

Admin won't answer and you can't rewrite the post for others ideas.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'd just move on now. Threads tend not to be deleted without reason, and you aren't actually solving anything in this one.

An answer will solve it same as any other thread that asks a question.

Admin won't answer and you can't rewrite the post for others ideas."

Read the original post again

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By *unandbuckCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield


"

Read the original post again "

Mods won't discuss it. Good luck and goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

Read the original post again

Mods won't discuss it. Good luck and goodbye."

Thank you and goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 14/11/16 16:03:03]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What was the thread about?

A cam critic."

And you then wrote a thread to discuss an incident between you?

That's seen as airing your dirty laundry and will get your thread pulled.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What was the thread about?

A cam critic.

And you then wrote a thread to discuss an incident between you?

That's seen as airing your dirty laundry and will get your thread pulled. "

Not really.

That kind of generic thinking would see the majority of threads pulled.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"None of the above!

someone might have reported it then?

So a thread can be deleted by being reported?

Yes , but only if it broke the rules. But mods might delete it without it being reported. "

can't you report something not against the rules? i know there's no guarantee of it getting pulled but there might be occasions when it will be?

idk, read the rest of the thread and not sure what's going on still.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

also, if you break the forum rules don't you get banned from posting in the forums?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"None of the above!

someone might have reported it then?

So a thread can be deleted by being reported?

Yes , but only if it broke the rules. But mods might delete it without it being reported.

can't you report something not against the rules? i know there's no guarantee of it getting pulled but there might be occasions when it will be?

idk, read the rest of the thread and not sure what's going on still."

Guessing you can report anything but not so sure about deleting beyond the stated rules.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"also, if you break the forum rules don't you get banned from posting in the forums?"

Good point.

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"What was the thread about?

A cam critic.

And you then wrote a thread to discuss an incident between you?

That's seen as airing your dirty laundry and will get your thread pulled.

Not really."

You've had a few suggestions now, including, in my view, the likeliest one (quoted), but you continue to refuse them and ask for more detail.

So, let's turn it round. Given that (as said) mods will not give you the specific reason, what answer will satisfy you? What are the words that will make you say "OK, fair enough, thanks to everyone for helping"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What was the thread about?

A cam critic.

And you then wrote a thread to discuss an incident between you?

That's seen as airing your dirty laundry and will get your thread pulled.

Not really.

You've had a few suggestions now, including, in my view, the likeliest one (quoted), but you continue to refuse them and ask for more detail.

So, let's turn it round. Given that (as said) mods will not give you the specific reason, what answer will satisfy you? What are the words that will make you say "OK, fair enough, thanks to everyone for helping"?

"

'Refuse them' and 'ask for more detail'?

Do you have authorisation to turn my query around?

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Authorisation

OK, I approached the chair, curtseyed, and picked up the Staff of Authorisation with my left hand (pinky finger raised). Where did I go wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Authorisation

OK, I approached the chair, curtseyed, and picked up the Staff of Authorisation with my left hand (pinky finger raised). Where did I go wrong?"

Think your delusions are taking the thread off topic.

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Think your delusions are taking the thread off topic."

Oh, that's a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So just out of interest then; this staff of authorisation.

Is it available to all site users who approach in the correct, respectful manner or is it a bit like the 'show friend pics' facility afforded to platinum members only?

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"So just out of interest then; this staff of authorisation.

Is it available to all site users who approach in the correct, respectful manner or is it a bit like the 'show friend pics' facility afforded to platinum members only? "

No idea, I'm delusional, doncha know...

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By *LUKCouple  over a year ago

Loughborough


"Dirty laundry"

Phew! I was just about to post a thread asking whether Daz or Radion was better for getting stains out of silk sheets

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What was the thread about?

A cam critic.

And you then wrote a thread to discuss an incident between you?

That's seen as airing your dirty laundry and will get your thread pulled. "

Hold on, I'll get me pegs.

BRB.........

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Ooh, a pegging thread, haven't had one of those for a while.

Traditional wood or newfangled plastic?

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By *o-jCouple  over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


" In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.

How we moderate

We don't want the forum to be over-moderated, so we'll only remove threads where absolutely necessary if we believe it to be in the best interests of the site or where we're legally obliged to. When threads are closed the mods will add a note explaining why.

Threads we remove

Threads containing racism, threats, nasty stuff like that will be removed and the posters banned or given timeouts. We also don't want discussions of serious illegal subjects like rape, child abuse, illegal drugs because inevitably someone will post about their own crimes / experiences of crimes and we can get hauled up in court to provide evidence. We do this for fun and we don't want the hassle, sorry.

Name and shame

Please don't name and shame other users. There's no way for us to police this so if you have a problem with another user, please REPORT them privately to Admin (via the report link on the profile), and block them. Admin will review, resolve.

Don't be nasty

Abuse against other site users, mods or admin isn't tolerated.

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action.

Disputing admin or moderator decisions

The mods and site admin are all volunteers who try and keep the site safe. If you think they've made a specific mistake (and we accept that mistakes or mis-judgements do happen), the forum isn't the place to discuss it. Please contact Admin directly and we'll review and make right. If you have general feedback on site moderation or administration, you can post it to the site feedback forum but please ensure it's constructive criticism not personal critisim.

18+ only

Any discussion of sex relating to under 18s isn't allowed and will be removed.

Dirty laundry

The forums aren't for airing your dirty laundry in public. If you've got a problem with another site user, please block them and/or report to admin via the report link on their profile.

Links to other sites

We have restrictions on where you can link to because otherwise people end up posting spam or links to places that host malware/spyware and it's bad for our users.

You can link to:

Any well recognised news site (bbc, times, telegraph, sun, notw, cnn and all the rest)

Youtube

Lovehoney

Wikipedia

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

No phone numbers, addresses, personal details

Please don't post any phone numbers, addresses or personal details of someone on or off the site. In the past people have posted other people's phone numbers as a joke/harassment so it's strictly off limits now.

Private mail should stay private

Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules.

Commercial services

Most commercial postings are NOT ok. Some that are specifically related to swinging such as swingers club nights might be, so long as it's not annoying site users. Discretion is applied.

Deliberate or malicious disruption of the forum

If you deliberately or maliciously try to interrupt everyone else's enjoyment of the forums, for example by trying to fill up the forum with your own content (just one example), it's not fair and we'll take action.

Locations

Please don't post exact locations of dogging sites or socials in the forum. You can ask people to mail you privately for more information.

Forum timeouts

If you've broken forum rules or we consider it in the interests of the community, we may issue you a timeout on participation. You'll get a message explaining what you did wrong and how long the timeout lasts. It expires automatically. Please don't use any other accounts to try and get around timeouts because they will banned.

Spot any problems? If you see rule breaking on the forums or if you've posted a thread that you'd like to be removed for any reason, please use the report link underneath the forum post.

Return to the forum or Return to homepage "

I'm sure its all lovely and correct , but just like a long profile you start with good intentions but after one paragraph you get bored and skip bits .

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So just out of interest then; this staff of authorisation.

Is it available to all site users who approach in the correct, respectful manner or is it a bit like the 'show friend pics' facility afforded to platinum members only? "

Let's not get ahead of ourselves here.

First we need to establish qualification's.......

*picks up clipboard.

Right, do any of you lot have any experience in gripping a staff firmly?

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By *rimo4uMan  over a year ago

north kensington w10

Fancy a fuck any one!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What was the thread about? "

This is a contender for today's "you just won the internet" award.

I properly cried....

Thank you.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple  over a year ago

Derbyshire


"also, if you break the forum rules don't you get banned from posting in the forums?"

Not necessarily.

If the infraction was considered minor, unintentional and not malicious, I've had threads/posts deleted without a ban.

Mr ddc

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple  over a year ago

Derbyshire


" In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.

How we moderate

We don't want the forum to be over-moderated, so we'll only remove threads where absolutely necessary if we believe it to be in the best interests of the site or where we're legally obliged to. When threads are closed the mods will add a note explaining why.

Threads we remove

Threads containing racism, threats, nasty stuff like that will be removed and the posters banned or given timeouts. We also don't want discussions of serious illegal subjects like rape, child abuse, illegal drugs because inevitably someone will post about their own crimes / experiences of crimes and we can get hauled up in court to provide evidence. We do this for fun and we don't want the hassle, sorry.

Name and shame

Please don't name and shame other users. There's no way for us to police this so if you have a problem with another user, please REPORT them privately to Admin (via the report link on the profile), and block them. Admin will review, resolve.

Don't be nasty

Abuse against other site users, mods or admin isn't tolerated.

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action.

Disputing admin or moderator decisions

The mods and site admin are all volunteers who try and keep the site safe. If you think they've made a specific mistake (and we accept that mistakes or mis-judgements do happen), the forum isn't the place to discuss it. Please contact Admin directly and we'll review and make right. If you have general feedback on site moderation or administration, you can post it to the site feedback forum but please ensure it's constructive criticism not personal critisim.

18+ only

Any discussion of sex relating to under 18s isn't allowed and will be removed.

Dirty laundry

The forums aren't for airing your dirty laundry in public. If you've got a problem with another site user, please block them and/or report to admin via the report link on their profile.

Links to other sites

We have restrictions on where you can link to because otherwise people end up posting spam or links to places that host malware/spyware and it's bad for our users.

You can link to:

Any well recognised news site (bbc, times, telegraph, sun, notw, cnn and all the rest)

Youtube

Lovehoney

Wikipedia

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

No phone numbers, addresses, personal details

Please don't post any phone numbers, addresses or personal details of someone on or off the site. In the past people have posted other people's phone numbers as a joke/harassment so it's strictly off limits now.

Private mail should stay private

Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules.

Commercial services

Most commercial postings are NOT ok. Some that are specifically related to swinging such as swingers club nights might be, so long as it's not annoying site users. Discretion is applied.

Deliberate or malicious disruption of the forum

If you deliberately or maliciously try to interrupt everyone else's enjoyment of the forums, for example by trying to fill up the forum with your own content (just one example), it's not fair and we'll take action.

Locations

Please don't post exact locations of dogging sites or socials in the forum. You can ask people to mail you privately for more information.

Forum timeouts

If you've broken forum rules or we consider it in the interests of the community, we may issue you a timeout on participation. You'll get a message explaining what you did wrong and how long the timeout lasts. It expires automatically. Please don't use any other accounts to try and get around timeouts because they will banned.

Spot any problems? If you see rule breaking on the forums or if you've posted a thread that you'd like to be removed for any reason, please use the report link underneath the forum post.

Return to the forum or Return to homepage

I'm sure its all lovely and correct , but just like a long profile you start with good intentions but after one paragraph you get bored and skip bits .

Jo x "

That's why sometimes they give you 24hrs to read it more carefully...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"also, if you break the forum rules don't you get banned from posting in the forums?

Not necessarily.

If the infraction was considered minor, unintentional and not malicious, I've had threads/posts deleted without a ban.

Mr ddc"

oh ok. thanks for clearing that up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.

How we moderate

We don't want the forum to be over-moderated, so we'll only remove threads where absolutely necessary if we believe it to be in the best interests of the site or where we're legally obliged to. When threads are closed the mods will add a note explaining why.

Threads we remove

Threads containing racism, threats, nasty stuff like that will be removed and the posters banned or given timeouts. We also don't want discussions of serious illegal subjects like rape, child abuse, illegal drugs because inevitably someone will post about their own crimes / experiences of crimes and we can get hauled up in court to provide evidence. We do this for fun and we don't want the hassle, sorry.

Name and shame

Please don't name and shame other users. There's no way for us to police this so if you have a problem with another user, please REPORT them privately to Admin (via the report link on the profile), and block them. Admin will review, resolve.

Don't be nasty

Abuse against other site users, mods or admin isn't tolerated.

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them. If you've got a problem with someone on the site, block them. If you've got a problem with what someone writes on the forum just skip over their messages or report to admin if you think they need to take action.

Disputing admin or moderator decisions

The mods and site admin are all volunteers who try and keep the site safe. If you think they've made a specific mistake (and we accept that mistakes or mis-judgements do happen), the forum isn't the place to discuss it. Please contact Admin directly and we'll review and make right. If you have general feedback on site moderation or administration, you can post it to the site feedback forum but please ensure it's constructive criticism not personal critisim.

18+ only

Any discussion of sex relating to under 18s isn't allowed and will be removed.

Dirty laundry

The forums aren't for airing your dirty laundry in public. If you've got a problem with another site user, please block them and/or report to admin via the report link on their profile.

Links to other sites

We have restrictions on where you can link to because otherwise people end up posting spam or links to places that host malware/spyware and it's bad for our users.

You can link to:

Any well recognised news site (bbc, times, telegraph, sun, notw, cnn and all the rest)

Youtube

Lovehoney

Wikipedia

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

No phone numbers, addresses, personal details

Please don't post any phone numbers, addresses or personal details of someone on or off the site. In the past people have posted other people's phone numbers as a joke/harassment so it's strictly off limits now.

Private mail should stay private

Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules.

Commercial services

Most commercial postings are NOT ok. Some that are specifically related to swinging such as swingers club nights might be, so long as it's not annoying site users. Discretion is applied.

Deliberate or malicious disruption of the forum

If you deliberately or maliciously try to interrupt everyone else's enjoyment of the forums, for example by trying to fill up the forum with your own content (just one example), it's not fair and we'll take action.

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I'm sure its all lovely and correct , but just like a long profile you start with good intentions but after one paragraph you get bored and skip bits .

Jo x

That's why sometimes they give you 24hrs to read it more carefully...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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I'm sure its all lovely and correct , but just like a long profile you start with good intentions but after one paragraph you get bored and skip bits .

Jo x

That's why sometimes they give you 24hrs to read it more carefully...

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aw, not funny. i get 48hrs to go over it.

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

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Starting threads about deleted threads is also a forum no no OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Starting threads about deleted threads is also a forum no no OP "

You should have said!!!!!!

9 hours ago.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So just out of interest then; this staff of authorisation.

Is it available to all site users who approach in the correct, respectful manner or is it a bit like the 'show friend pics' facility afforded to platinum members only?

Let's not get ahead of ourselves here.

First we need to establish qualification's.......

*picks up clipboard.

Right, do any of you lot have any experience in gripping a staff firmly?"

Yes Sir. That'd be me. I grip shafts very firmly when required. Usually I grip them very lightly though. The sensations created by a lighter touch are much more intense

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So just out of interest then; this staff of authorisation.

Is it available to all site users who approach in the correct, respectful manner or is it a bit like the 'show friend pics' facility afforded to platinum members only?

Let's not get ahead of ourselves here.

First we need to establish qualification's.......

*picks up clipboard.

Right, do any of you lot have any experience in gripping a staff firmly?

Yes Sir. That'd be me. I grip shafts very firmly when required. Usually I grip them very lightly though. The sensations created by a lighter touch are much more intense "

Qualified or not, it doesn't look like anyone else wants the job, so it's yours if you want it.

The wages are shite and you'll have to work a week in hand......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So just out of interest then; this staff of authorisation.

Is it available to all site users who approach in the correct, respectful manner or is it a bit like the 'show friend pics' facility afforded to platinum members only?

Let's not get ahead of ourselves here.

First we need to establish qualification's.......

*picks up clipboard.

Right, do any of you lot have any experience in gripping a staff firmly?

Yes Sir. That'd be me. I grip shafts very firmly when required. Usually I grip them very lightly though. The sensations created by a lighter touch are much more intense

Qualified or not, it doesn't look like anyone else wants the job, so it's yours if you want it.

The wages are shite and you'll have to work a week in hand......"

A week?

I'm strong but I'm not sure I could do a whole week

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