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By *ndyehelen OP Couple
over a year ago
stoke on trent |
We have done a bit of camming and enjoyed and are now looking to go one step further and meet a couple or go to a club we would like to start by not swapping and just being in the same room as other couples and making love and playing any tips what is best to do and were to go thanks.  |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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You`re quite near to Chameleons Club which is between Wolverhampton and Birmingham. There would be nothing against you going one night and going into the couples only room for example. You are not obliged to join in and if you get cold feet you could always retire to one of the numerous lockable rooms for some time to yourselves. Ring the club and explain your situation and ask for a tour of the place. Otherwise, your other choice is to befriend another couple that you like the look of and again explain your situation. Problem with doing it this way is if you get cold feet you could be in a situation where you might be in an awkward situation of knowing how to stop. |
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Just how we started, first couple of visits (to La Chambre) we just got used to being nude with others in the playrooms and pool, and having sex together with other people around. There was also a certain amount of touching others too, but not intimately. It wasn't as embarrassing or unusual as we'd thought it would be as everyone else was doing the same.
After a couple of visits we swapped partners with another couple, kissed and did some foreplay then swapped back again for sex. We did this for a few more visits then when we were both ready had our first full swap, and haven't looked back since. Neither of us felt we were rushing into anything and we're glad we took it slowly. People are so conditioned by society, parents and religion to think that group-sex is 'wrong' that it takes a little time to let down your barriers and realize it's not wrong but very good fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Highly recommend chameleons as before try a saturday where it is couples only great club and plenty of space. Just to chill out everyone is really friendly and easy to chat to. Or alternatively try a sunday afternoon a little quieter great in summer time on the roof decking. And if you like then go back on a busier night. |
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Another vote for Chamelons.
We were in the same position, and did our first meet there. Liek already mentioned, great "no pressure" atmosphere, very sociable and you can do as little or as much as you like.
Best chat to another couple and just meet in there without any expections from each other. Like I've mentioned elsewhere, thats what we did and on our first night were teh last to leave 
We'd never swung before that!... and we were back again the following week
Everyone we spoke to was respectful and usually a really good laugh too.
Thanks
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our first club experience was at Chams too.
It's a really relaxed environment, and we would recommend it to anyone thinking of trying it for the first time  |
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