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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all !! I'm a good looking young man with a nice size cock but just can't seem to get any attention is there something wrong with me , all I want is to have a good time like everyone else any advise ? Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all !! I'm a good looking young man with a nice size cock but just can't seem to get any attention is there something wrong with me , all I want is to have a good time like everyone else any advise ? Xxx"
Aside from the cock pic, and let's face it there are gazillions of them on Fab, nothing really jumps out on your profile. Blokes outnumber women on here about 500 to 1, you need to make your profile stand out and scream "meet me" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all !! I'm a good looking young man with a nice size cock but just can't seem to get any attention is there something wrong with me , all I want is to have a good time like everyone else any advise ? Xxx"
You have no public pics, a cock pic as an avatar, and a one line profile...I just can't understand why women aren't throwing themselves at you?    |
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I've asked him. He said this: *sings* whilst strumming a ukulele
....."Now, I know I'm not handsome
No good looks or wealth
But the girls I chase say my plain face
Will compromise their health
Now, I know fellahs worse than me
Bow-legged and boss-eyed
Walking out with lovely women
Clinging to their side
Now, if women like them like men like those
Why don't women like me
Look at Empress Josephine
The most attractive woman that ever was seen
Yet Napoleon, short and fat
Captivates a lovely looking girl like that
Now, if women like them like men like those
Why don't women like me, hey-hey
Why don't women like me
Last night I went out walking
My intentions were to click
But the sights I saw while walking out
They nearly made me sick
I saw a lot of lovely girls
Attractive little dears
Arm in arm with ugly men
With cauliflower ears
Well, if women like them like men like those
Why don't women like me
What can the attraction be
That's the thing that always starts to worry me
Although I haven't got a bean
I've got a lot of things the girls have never seen
Well, if women like them like men like those
Why don't women like me, hey-hey
Why don't women like me
Now, I went on my holidays
Down to the gay seaside
I saw a lot of things there
Being hidden by the tide
The way the women jumped around
The men there in the sea
Made me think that there
Is still a good chance left for me
'Cause if women like them like men like those
Why don't women like me
Of all the shapes and sizes there
I've got a chance of clicking yet, I do declare
Oh, I don't want to be a nark
I saw a lot of things below the water mark
Well, if women like them like men like those
Why don't women like me, hey-hey
Why don't women like me
Well, if women like them like men like those
Why don't women like me
Take Lord Nelson with one limb
Lady William Hamilton, she fell for him
With one eye and one arm gone west
She ran like the devil and she grabbed the rest
Well, if women like them like men like those
Why don't women like me, hey-hey
Why don't women like me...."
It's on YouTube too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Patience is the key lol the key to slot into a hole.....
You've got to find the right key for the right hole though or it won't unlock! "
That is right, like a slot machine and press the right button for the hole to open. |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
You have one pic, it's a cockshot. I'm pretty sure every man on here has a cock.
You have one line in your profile that literally took the best part of 10 seconds to write. In fact you've put more effort into posting in this thread than you have into your profile.
Imagine you are a single lady on here, would you be interested after looking at your profile?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all !! I'm a good looking young man with a nice size cock but just can't seem to get any attention is there something wrong with me , all I want is to have a good time like everyone else any advise ? Xxx"
Does your cock talk? That is the only thing available on your profile. Does it do majic tricks? Dancing?
Do you expect ladies to be attracted to your personality? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi OP... some friendly advice! Coming from someone who did something similar a few weeks ago 
Your profile... it says nothing about you... what you are looking for... what type of meets or people you're interested in... nothing about your sexuality.... and it's easily read and forgotten in 5 seconds.
Some new photos with some features of your body other than your cock women appreciate, some specificity on your actual age preference might help too and it might also be down to some messages you send out too. Very hard to cater to all in a message so don't be generic and try to cater to the person you send a message to.
Hope this helps! |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
I autodelete those messages from fuys with a lazy cock pic as an avatar. An arty one is fine, but just a cameraphone point and click while you're having a wank is the same as maybe the other 250 I've seen that day.
If you changed your cock pic to say a torso one and your first message was more than 'Gorgeous eyes luv,' or 'Hey there,' I might click onto your profile. There's more people on your friends list than words in your profile.
This isn't Dial-A-Shag, put a bit of effort in. I did. Mine's not great and it's way too long, but it gives guys a sense of who I am. Yours? Not a sausage. Well, except for your avatar, that is.
Go to socials as well, get your name known. You'll pick up some veris and people will be more likely to give you a chance.
Most women can only meet maybe once a fortnight or so. Would you chance a meet with someone that doesn't even try on their profile?
Sorry harsh words, meant kindly, honest! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all !! I'm a good looking young man with a nice size cock but just can't seem to get any attention is there something wrong with me , all I want is to have a good time like everyone else any advise ? Xxx"
To be blunt, your profile sucks. You have no public photos, your avatar is of your dick, you say you're good looking, and no photos to prove it to the ladies, so they aren't going to believe you. Look at your profile from a female perspective, would you mail you? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
Same as others have said. You definitely need to take the time to put some decent photos up. We would pass you by as we like to look at a few pics, before we even get to the profile text.  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Thanks for all the comments and help everyone I will get rid of the cock picture lol I feel like a big enough one now thanks for the help xxxx"
You don't have to feel like that, it is difficult for single guys. Well done for accepting advice and good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women generally want to see the body and face.... so you may have those in private... and message them; but upon receiving a message (and before opening it), women will generally go straight to your profile; now think the following:
"Does my profile make people want to open mail from me?"
getting over the first hurdle can often require that you put them out there... fail to do this and well... you will reap what you sow |
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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago
north kensington w10 |
"Hello all !! I'm a good looking young man with a nice size cock but just can't seem to get any attention is there something wrong with me , all I want is to have a good time like everyone else any advise ? Xxx"
Women don't meet guys on here, you have to "go to a club" so they say.
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"Hello all !! I'm a good looking young man with a nice size cock but just can't seem to get any attention is there something wrong with me , all I want is to have a good time like everyone else any advise ? Xxx"
Women don't always go for the 'good looking' and stunning with a 'nice size cock'. The person underneath is the most important to many with a good profile - many will look at your profile first rather than your message : |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice. Go out to a club, talk to a couple of people maybe play with some. That way you can get some reviews. Good reviews are key on Fab. Noone wants to meet person with no reviews. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice. Go out to a club, talk to a couple of people maybe play with some. That way you can get some reviews. Good reviews are key on Fab. Noone wants to meet person with no reviews. "
That's not true. Some of us do meet unverified people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, its clear that you have taken peoples advice and now provide a more in-depth profile however I think this has resulted in what comes across as a very 'thought about' description. I can just vision the amount of times you deleted, edited, rejigged, scrutanized I might be wrong, im not a woman (obviously) I just think your overall probably trying a little bit to hard to come across the right way, because i have done the same before - it usually fails to send the right message. Try to generalize your likes ad dislikes more, rather than going to deep. For example you give quite a prominent impression that you like to cuddle and snuggle and 'make love' - there will be many women out there that despise the thought and therefore you just lost a chunk of your potential interest or audience because they will be fearing that its love you are looking for or you are too emotionally intense. Do you know what I mean?? On that point alone i think you could of just said something about enjoying all types of sex, sensual or rough (not in those words neccesarily) this way you generalize, but you dont give away to much about your inner self . Tis would be fine and work in your favour on a dating site, but could easily scare off someone who is just looking for casual, no strings fun....
Thats my two-penneths worth anyway, I might well be wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice. Go out to a club, talk to a couple of people maybe play with some. That way you can get some reviews. Good reviews are key on Fab. Noone wants to meet person with no reviews.
That's not true. Some of us do meet unverified people."
Only the really nice ones. |
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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago
secret town |
"Hello all !! I'm a good looking young man with a nice size cock but just can't seem to get any attention is there something wrong with me , all I want is to have a good time like everyone else any advise ? Xxx"
Do you want a razor? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a thought - but when I think about my good points, my second best feature isn't my 'nice-sized cock' (even though I'm quite attached to mine!)
Try selling yourself on your looks and personality, rather than thinking with your dick.
Actually, no, keep doing what you're doing - it reduces the level of competition |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"My advice. Go out to a club, talk to a couple of people maybe play with some. That way you can get some reviews. Good reviews are key on Fab. Noone wants to meet person with no reviews.
That's not true. Some of us do meet unverified people."
I do x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Woman with a gorgeous body ? Well ours aren't so we'd feel we'd be judged . Eating pussy for hours ? Such an off putting phrase .
But those are just our takes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woman with a gorgeous body ? Well ours aren't so we'd feel we'd be judged . Eating pussy for hours ? Such an off putting phrase .
But those are just our takes "
And from the message you've just sent , you need to read profiles to see if they suit you before you message x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last message auto deleted grr!!
You've obviously taken on board some advice, you just need to take it a bit further. Photos are uninteresting, you need some quirky angles, a shower shot, or cheeky towel pic maybe, shirt on but open, that kind of thing.
Profile still needs information, doesn't really tell me much about you & the 'if you want to know just ask' line may as well say 'I'm too lazy to bother writing it down so I'll let you do the work'
It needs to look like you've made an effort with it & currently it doesn't!!
Hope that helps!
M x |
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