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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There have been a number of threads on this in the past that have offered good advice, so might be worth using the forum search as the advice is out there.
I think the one single piece of advice is "don't be a dick" and you'll do ok!
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
just because you have paid your money to enter club .does not mean that you will be able to play with any one in there[mean proper clubs]not organized gang bang meets with working girls.so be polite give females ,couples a bit of space and see how it goes .they will let you know if you can join in , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most single males that we have met in clubs are generally fine. There are a small minority that think because they have paid their £20-£50, it entitles them to a shag! It is these individuals that are often under the misapprehension that because a female is in swinging club, that she will shag anything.
Very rare that is the case!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don't go to a club as a single male due in part to the exorbitant entrance fees. I know clubs are a business but to charge ridiculous amounts and membership in some cases I'd rather not play that game.
When I've been to a club with a fem friend the single blokes can get a bit ratty if they don't get laid... I think some clubs should be aware that their own pricing structure can in some instances frustrate some men thinking they've paid therefore want!!!
Perhaps limit the number of men yet charge a flat fee, make it simple yet be selective, quality driven rather than ££ driven
Did someone say it's rant Thursday ???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best advice I can give to a single guy in a club;
Smile and be friendly.
So many guys whizz round looking for action with a frown as they stress over not getting any fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I personally don't go to a club as a single male due in part to the exorbitant entrance fees. I know clubs are a business but to charge ridiculous amounts and membership in some cases I'd rather not play that game.
When I've been to a club with a fem friend the single blokes can get a bit ratty if they don't get laid... I think some clubs should be aware that their own pricing structure can in some instances frustrate some men thinking they've paid therefore want!!!
Perhaps limit the number of men yet charge a flat fee, make it simple yet be selective, quality driven rather than ££ driven
Did someone say it's rant Thursday ???
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Since they don't seem to have problems with getting numbers of single guys in, I doubt it's a problem. |
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I've got a youtube comedy clip based on single guy stereotypes here :
(might have to copy and paste it into your browser)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McGaEJ6HMjM
It's a joke / ribbing , but avoid being one of these stereotypes....
Mr B |
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Be friendly and socialable , talk to as many people as you can and dont assume just because someone talking to you that its the green light to run for a room, the social side is just as important as the playing side, finally never ever be pushy and try and play without permission, if its a couple your meeting speak to the fella as well so you dont come across as desperate to jump in his partners knickers.
Frank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm currently trying to get a membership at one local to me..had lots of good advice and heard lots of positive reviews...excited is an understatement  "
 second part of outfit arrived today xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm currently trying to get a membership at one local to me..had lots of good advice and heard lots of positive reviews...excited is an understatement second part of outfit arrived today xx"
Haha does the other half approve |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm currently trying to get a membership at one local to me..had lots of good advice and heard lots of positive reviews...excited is an understatement second part of outfit arrived today xx
Haha does the other half approve "
Its just footwear to the main outfit however I'm so excited need the 18th Dec to hurry up xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm currently trying to get a membership at one local to me..had lots of good advice and heard lots of positive reviews...excited is an understatement second part of outfit arrived today xx
Haha does the other half approve Its just footwear to the main outfit however I'm so excited need the 18th Dec to hurry up xx"
Haha it'll be here before you know it just don't forget to do your Xmas shopping with all this excitement  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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just try and relax and be yourself
and dont touch without asking.
most single guys are friendly towards each other, just dont go round in a pack or conga, break apart, come back together if you make friends with them, because 1 person watching is usually fine, 2,3,4 all in a line circling you can be a bit intimidating x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm currently trying to get a membership at one local to me..had lots of good advice and heard lots of positive reviews...excited is an understatement second part of outfit arrived today xx
Haha does the other half approve Its just footwear to the main outfit however I'm so excited need the 18th Dec to hurry up xx
Haha it'll be here before you know it just don't forget to do your Xmas shopping with all this excitement "
Ssshhhhhhh don't mention Xmas not even started yet xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm currently trying to get a membership at one local to me..had lots of good advice and heard lots of positive reviews...excited is an understatement second part of outfit arrived today xx
Haha does the other half approve Its just footwear to the main outfit however I'm so excited need the 18th Dec to hurry up xx
Haha it'll be here before you know it just don't forget to do your Xmas shopping with all this excitement Ssshhhhhhh don't mention Xmas not even started yet xx"
Nor me..thats what xmas eve is for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got a youtube comedy clip based on single guy stereotypes here :
(might have to copy and paste it into your browser)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McGaEJ6HMjM
It's a joke / ribbing , but avoid being one of these stereotypes....
Mr B"
Hahaha brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm currently trying to get a membership at one local to me..had lots of good advice and heard lots of positive reviews...excited is an understatement second part of outfit arrived today xx
Haha does the other half approve Its just footwear to the main outfit however I'm so excited need the 18th Dec to hurry up xx
Haha it'll be here before you know it just don't forget to do your Xmas shopping with all this excitement Ssshhhhhhh don't mention Xmas not even started yet xx
Nor me..thats what xmas eve is for "
Lol I'll start after sons birthday xx |
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"I've got a youtube comedy clip based on single guy stereotypes here :
(might have to copy and paste it into your browser)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McGaEJ6HMjM
Just watched this ...hilarious
It's a joke / ribbing , but avoid being one of these stereotypes....
Mr B"
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Single men in clubs are the cherry on the icing of the cake for us. Being well mannered, polite, willing to engage in great conversation (with both of us) plus smelling great - oh and smiling - will get us (and keep us) interested. Waving your cock in my face gets you a dismissal from him. Touching without asking gets you curt (and loud) dismissal from me. Behave respectfully to both of us and you'll be returned the courtesy. Be yourself, relax and engage with folk. Enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've got a youtube comedy clip based on single guy stereotypes here :
(might have to copy and paste it into your browser)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McGaEJ6HMjM
It's a joke / ribbing , but avoid being one of these stereotypes....
Mr B"
Childish, puerile and mildly offensive.
I love your work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't be a dickhead. Be smart, smell nice and smile
Meeting single guys at club is my current favourite thing. Even when I go with Beard we look to meet SM. often tho, they don't want to talk but then expect an invite to play. I don't like that. Try and communicate earlier |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't be a dickhead. Be smart, smell nice and smile
Meeting single guys at club is my current favourite thing. Even when I go with Beard we look to meet SM. often tho, they don't want to talk but then expect an invite to play. I don't like that. Try and communicate earlier "
I'd talk the ears off you if I seen you out and about...anything else would be a bonus |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
"Don't be a dickhead. Be smart, smell nice and smile
Meeting single guys at club is my current favourite thing. Even when I go with Beard we look to meet SM. often tho, they don't want to talk but then expect an invite to play. I don't like that. Try and communicate earlier "
I will talk but of as a couple you go and sit away from bar I feel like a stalker going over to chat  |
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By *unLuvazCouple
over a year ago
cheshire |
I would suggest going to a club. A d one that the men dont have bad Rep's. We visit townhouse a lot and there are always a few really nice men there. And they always seem to gave a good night either if they play or not. We hold party's there also and we welcome male members x |
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"I just chat to anyone luckily I know quite a few that go to club I go to so often have a chin wag
With chocolate cake THAT good, we will chat to you anytime Oh, and being a stunning blonde helps too "
Hahaha thanks guys I just love baking and thanks for the lovely compliment x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't be a dickhead. Be smart, smell nice and smile
Meeting single guys at club is my current favourite thing. Even when I go with Beard we look to meet SM. often tho, they don't want to talk but then expect an invite to play. I don't like that. Try and communicate earlier
I will talk but of as a couple you go and sit away from bar I feel like a stalker going over to chat "
Not at all, it's just a sign of confidence. |
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