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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
Gran Canaria |
We don't have children. We don't have lodgers or roommates. Or even nosey neighbours. Lol.
For two years we haven't been able to get a couple to either of our flats for fun. Socials and dinners etc, yeah all good. It's odd. Perfect situation. What alot of couples want or hope for and we can't get it. Miss C. |
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
Gran Canaria |
"I'm surprised. I often think couples have it easy on here. "
We've played at clubs and parties and other ppl's places but we have never had a couple at our flat. This new one or the old one. It's weird. Lol. Can't explain it. Miss C. |
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
Gran Canaria |
"We wouldn't meet at anyone's house without having had a social in public place first. That's our preference anyway "
Yeah we get that but it never happens that way. It's always meet again at a club/party or back to their place. |
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"Yet you have verifications from couples that have been round to your home and you all had fun!
Social fun. No playing involved. "
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So you have couples round for just a social and no play involved? Is that agreed in advance or just no sexual attraction there? |
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
Gran Canaria |
"Yet you have verifications from couples that have been round to your home and you all had fun!
Social fun. No playing involved. .
So you have couples round for just a social and no play involved? Is that agreed in advance or just no sexual attraction there?"
Usually it's a couple who we maybe met at a party/club, maybe played with them there arranged a dinner or drinks night and no play involved. It just hasn't happened. Or we go back to their place.
We also have had sex with ppl at clubs/parties and not done it again as we have a friendship with them.
My original post was an observation that we have never had a couple come to OUR place for a play meet. Is this the same for others in our situation or is it just us. Lol. |
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"Yet you have verifications from couples that have been round to your home and you all had fun!
Social fun. No playing involved. .
So you have couples round for just a social and no play involved? Is that agreed in advance or just no sexual attraction there?
Usually it's a couple who we maybe met at a party/club, maybe played with them there arranged a dinner or drinks night and no play involved. It just hasn't happened. Or we go back to their place.
We also have had sex with ppl at clubs/parties and not done it again as we have a friendship with them.
My original post was an observation that we have never had a couple come to OUR place for a play meet. Is this the same for others in our situation or is it just us. Lol. "
We never have a problem getting couples to come to ours for a play evening, we are very lucky.  |
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
Gran Canaria |
"Yet you have verifications from couples that have been round to your home and you all had fun!
Social fun. No playing involved. .
So you have couples round for just a social and no play involved? Is that agreed in advance or just no sexual attraction there?
Usually it's a couple who we maybe met at a party/club, maybe played with them there arranged a dinner or drinks night and no play involved. It just hasn't happened. Or we go back to their place.
We also have had sex with ppl at clubs/parties and not done it again as we have a friendship with them.
My original post was an observation that we have never had a couple come to OUR place for a play meet. Is this the same for others in our situation or is it just us. Lol.
We never have a problem getting couples to come to ours for a play evening, we are very lucky. "
What's your secret??? Lol. We have nice candles. Lol. Have the heating on. Lots of drinks in the fridge. Ha ha ha! |
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"Yet you have verifications from couples that have been round to your home and you all had fun!
Social fun. No playing involved. .
So you have couples round for just a social and no play involved? Is that agreed in advance or just no sexual attraction there?
Usually it's a couple who we maybe met at a party/club, maybe played with them there arranged a dinner or drinks night and no play involved. It just hasn't happened. Or we go back to their place.
We also have had sex with ppl at clubs/parties and not done it again as we have a friendship with them.
My original post was an observation that we have never had a couple come to OUR place for a play meet. Is this the same for others in our situation or is it just us. Lol.
We never have a problem getting couples to come to ours for a play evening, we are very lucky.
What's your secret??? Lol. We have nice candles. Lol. Have the heating on. Lots of drinks in the fridge. Ha ha ha!"
We entice them into our two well equipt playrooms  |
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"I'm surprised. I often think couples have it easy on here. "
Relatively compared to men I'd agree but it's also a real challenge to find couples that you are both attracted to that actually feel the same. So it is a bit more of a challenge in that respect, atleast in our experience |
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
Gran Canaria |
"Yet you have verifications from couples that have been round to your home and you all had fun!
Social fun. No playing involved. .
So you have couples round for just a social and no play involved? Is that agreed in advance or just no sexual attraction there?
Usually it's a couple who we maybe met at a party/club, maybe played with them there arranged a dinner or drinks night and no play involved. It just hasn't happened. Or we go back to their place.
We also have had sex with ppl at clubs/parties and not done it again as we have a friendship with them.
My original post was an observation that we have never had a couple come to OUR place for a play meet. Is this the same for others in our situation or is it just us. Lol.
We never have a problem getting couples to come to ours for a play evening, we are very lucky.
What's your secret??? Lol. We have nice candles. Lol. Have the heating on. Lots of drinks in the fridge. Ha ha ha!
We entice them into our two well equipt playrooms "
Cool....better get renovating then! Bye bye gym equipment!! Lol |
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"Yet you have verifications from couples that have been round to your home and you all had fun!
Social fun. No playing involved. .
So you have couples round for just a social and no play involved? Is that agreed in advance or just no sexual attraction there?
Usually it's a couple who we maybe met at a party/club, maybe played with them there arranged a dinner or drinks night and no play involved. It just hasn't happened. Or we go back to their place.
We also have had sex with ppl at clubs/parties and not done it again as we have a friendship with them.
My original post was an observation that we have never had a couple come to OUR place for a play meet. Is this the same for others in our situation or is it just us. Lol.
We never have a problem getting couples to come to ours for a play evening, we are very lucky.
What's your secret??? Lol. We have nice candles. Lol. Have the heating on. Lots of drinks in the fridge. Ha ha ha!
We entice them into our two well equipt playrooms
Cool....better get renovating then! Bye bye gym equipment!! Lol"
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
Gran Canaria |
"Yet you have verifications from couples that have been round to your home and you all had fun! haha! Busted!  "
Not really. The two veris we have from couples who came to out place we didn't play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a bit confused, is your post saying that you have played with couples at clubs and at their places, but just not at your own place?
Yep. Exactly this  "
Ahh ok, why is it so important to you to play at home?
Not being funny about it, we prefer to as well, but you're getting your meets so just wondered why.
You know a lot of people (most single guys ) would give a lot for any meet anywhere |
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
Gran Canaria |
"I'm a bit confused, is your post saying that you have played with couples at clubs and at their places, but just not at your own place?
Yep. Exactly this
Ahh ok, why is it so important to you to play at home?
Not being funny about it, we prefer to as well, but you're getting your meets so just wondered why.
You know a lot of people (most single guys ) would give a lot for any meet anywhere "
Oh we aren't worried. Just made an observation. And wondered if it's like that for others in the same situation. That's all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you have pets?
Nope. No pets. No kids. No roommates or lodgers."
Hmm, I don't know then.
Unless it's dirty/grubby. But you don't seem like the type of couple to have a dirty house.
Tell you what - we'll pop over and give you both a bloody good seeing to to break your duck. |
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
Gran Canaria |
"Do you have pets?
That would certainly entice us 
Wtf??
They meant pets as in pet/sir, silly "
Ohhhhh! Hear that......
The sounds of 1000 pennies dropping. And that's just ME in my head!! (Miss C) Lol. |
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By *ouble C OP Couple
over a year ago
Gran Canaria |
"Do you have pets?
Nope. No pets. No kids. No roommates or lodgers.
Hmm, I don't know then.
Unless it's dirty/grubby. But you don't seem like the type of couple to have a dirty house.
Tell you what - we'll pop over and give you both a bloody good seeing to to break your duck. "
That's what Mr C calls it. Our 'duck' neve4 heard that expression before. And thank you. Anytime......I will even clean up. Lol. Xx |
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