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over a year ago
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Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all "
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky "
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i was part of a couple we had pics of both of us... it was so annoying searching for couples when it was just pics of her, me being straight im not remotely interested what she looked like  |
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"When I look on couples profiles it annoys me that there are hardly any of the guy and only the female.
Mrs SnT "
I get that women are usually the more photogenic but if I'm messaged by a couple she's just the icing to me. I want her husband mainly.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then? "
I was wondering the same thing?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then? "
Not at all. No tattoos actually. Just don't want to publish face pictures of him for obvious reasons We do post pictures of other parts of his torso just not his face. His choice to have more pics of me on our profile and each to their own with their own profiles |
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"When I look on couples profiles it annoys me that there are hardly any of the guy and only the female.
Mrs SnT
I get that women are usually the more photogenic but if I'm messaged by a couple she's just the icing to me. I want her husband mainly. "
Is there enough of mr SnT? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then?
Not at all. No tattoos actually. Just don't want to publish face pictures of him for obvious reasons We do post pictures of other parts of his torso just not his face. His choice to have more pics of me on our profile and each to their own with their own profiles "
same here. Plenty face pictures in private gallery. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When I look on couples profiles it annoys me that there are hardly any of the guy and only the female.
Mrs SnT
I get that women are usually the more photogenic but if I'm messaged by a couple she's just the icing to me. I want her husband mainly.
Is there enough of mr SnT?"
Tbh; not really. He looks great. Take some more of him. Perhaps him holding the candle or crop in the foreground and you in the background showing how you got the marks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then?
Not at all. No tattoos actually. Just don't want to publish face pictures of him for obvious reasons We do post pictures of other parts of his torso just not his face. His choice to have more pics of me on our profile and each to their own with their own profiles same here. Plenty face pictures in private gallery."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then?
Not at all. No tattoos actually. Just don't want to publish face pictures of him for obvious reasons We do post pictures of other parts of his torso just not his face. His choice to have more pics of me on our profile and each to their own with their own profiles "
I concede that it's your profile but if you're looking for couples or want him involved, surly a few body shots wouldn't go amiss ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then?
Not at all. No tattoos actually. Just don't want to publish face pictures of him for obvious reasons We do post pictures of other parts of his torso just not his face. His choice to have more pics of me on our profile and each to their own with their own profiles
I concede that it's your profile but if you're looking for couples or want him involved, surly a few body shots wouldn't go amiss ? "
And surely it shouldn't matter whether they are in the public area or exchanged privately |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guilty of having a lot of pictures of me on our profile although a good few of Inked are there too
Because we tend to prefer to meet single guys it works better for us
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Fairy snuff if it's all about sharing you. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then?
Not at all. No tattoos actually. Just don't want to publish face pictures of him for obvious reasons We do post pictures of other parts of his torso just not his face. His choice to have more pics of me on our profile and each to their own with their own profiles
I concede that it's your profile but if you're looking for couples or want him involved, surly a few body shots wouldn't go amiss ?
And surely it shouldn't matter whether they are in the public area or exchanged privately "
No, but it'll limit your appeal to those searching xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm just a fugly cnut, nobody wants to see that "
If you're looking to do full swap with a couple then surely the mrs needs to see you first? Fugly or not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I look on couples profiles it annoys me that there are hardly any of the guy and only the female.
Mrs SnT
I get that women are usually the more photogenic but if I'm messaged by a couple she's just the icing to me. I want her husband mainly.
Is there enough of mr SnT?
Tbh; not really. He looks great. Take some more of him. Perhaps him holding the candle or crop in the foreground and you in the background showing how you got the marks. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are guilty if having more pics of me then him.. but the reason for that is because we have another profile for him because we play in different ways and not everyone likes to play the way we do. this profile is more about me and other is more about him x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then?
Not at all. No tattoos actually. Just don't want to publish face pictures of him for obvious reasons We do post pictures of other parts of his torso just not his face. His choice to have more pics of me on our profile and each to their own with their own profiles
I concede that it's your profile but if you're looking for couples or want him involved, surly a few body shots wouldn't go amiss ?
And surely it shouldn't matter whether they are in the public area or exchanged privately
No, but it'll limit your appeal to those searching xx"
I totally get where you are coming from but we prefer to do it this way and we think that if someone is genuinely interested in us then they will chat and during that time more pics can be send privately. We always like a social first too anyway so they get a chance to meet both of us there too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When I look on couples profiles it annoys me that there are hardly any of the guy and only the female.
Mrs SnT
I get that women are usually the more photogenic but if I'm messaged by a couple she's just the icing to me. I want her husband mainly.
Is there enough of mr SnT?
Tbh; not really. He looks great. Take some more of him. Perhaps him holding the candle or crop in the foreground and you in the background showing how you got the marks.
Will do Friday "
I personally think pics of the two of you creating the sexy marks you get will be much sexier xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then?
Not at all. No tattoos actually. Just don't want to publish face pictures of him for obvious reasons We do post pictures of other parts of his torso just not his face. His choice to have more pics of me on our profile and each to their own with their own profiles
I concede that it's your profile but if you're looking for couples or want him involved, surly a few body shots wouldn't go amiss ?
And surely it shouldn't matter whether they are in the public area or exchanged privately
No, but it'll limit your appeal to those searching xx
I totally get where you are coming from but we prefer to do it this way and we think that if someone is genuinely interested in us then they will chat and during that time more pics can be send privately. We always like a social first too anyway so they get a chance to meet both of us there too "
Like I say; it's your profile xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are guilty if having more pics of me then him.. but the reason for that is because we have another profile for him because we play in different ways and not everyone likes to play the way we do. this profile is more about me and other is more about him x"
As I said earlier; if it's about sharing the femme with guys then this approach is spot on imo xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then?
Not at all. No tattoos actually. Just don't want to publish face pictures of him for obvious reasons We do post pictures of other parts of his torso just not his face. His choice to have more pics of me on our profile and each to their own with their own profiles
I concede that it's your profile but if you're looking for couples or want him involved, surly a few body shots wouldn't go amiss ?
And surely it shouldn't matter whether they are in the public area or exchanged privately
No, but it'll limit your appeal to those searching xx
I totally get where you are coming from but we prefer to do it this way and we think that if someone is genuinely interested in us then they will chat and during that time more pics can be send privately. We always like a social first too anyway so they get a chance to meet both of us there too
Like I say; it's your profile xxx"
Indeed it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all "
I (Jools) must admit it is so bloody frustrating when you click on a couples profile and every pic is her! That said, we are guilty of it ourselves. I put pics on our profile of mr, and when I'm not looking, he takes them off!  I try to have an equal amount of both of us on our profile, but he constantly changes them.
At the end of the day, it really does depend on each couple and what they are looking for from this site. It does make me wonder what's wrong with the male half if there are no pics of him? As for the excuses about jobs.....sorry! That is a lame excuse! We both work in the public sector hence why you will not see any face pics on our profile unless we see fit to share.
That's just our opinion...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just a fugly cnut, nobody wants to see that
If you're looking to do full swap with a couple then surely the mrs needs to see you first? Fugly or not? "
And they can, there's uncensored versions in our private collection. |
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We try to put both on, but to be perfectly blunt, nobody gives a shit about mr telford. We get zero messages about him. Or what he looks like, or if he's meeting, of if he will be there, or..... etc. His single orofile gets one or so view every other week, no messages. My single one? Hundreds every day.
When I put a pic up of me, or me in action, it gets fabbed. We make the hot pics sometimes. That's fantastic, people message. We meet. It's fun.
When we put a pic up of mr telford, it doesn't get any FABs. People don't message. Nobody meets. Nobody gives a shit about him, and that hurts me, but it's the sad truth.
Is he hideous? No. but thinking of this from a business point of view looking for clients and selling a product, you put out what sells more. And while I'm not perfect, I get more attention than him.
Pictures of him ARE there. Both alone and with me and others. Picture of him are in private too. Faces as well. But we don't show what people don't want to see. The day we get messages about him, is he day we upload pics of him.
Plus we're both teachers.., and it's.hard enough being secret as it is.
So there are reasons, at least for us, to that.
C xx |
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
I (Jools) must admit it is so bloody frustrating when you click on a couples profile and every pic is her! That said, we are guilty of it ourselves. I put pics on our profile of mr, and when I'm not looking, he takes them off! I try to have an equal amount of both of us on our profile, but he constantly changes them.
At the end of the day, it really does depend on each couple and what they are looking for from this site. It does make me wonder what's wrong with the male half if there are no pics of him? As for the excuses about jobs.....sorry! That is a lame excuse! We both work in the public sector hence why you will not see any face pics on our profile unless we see fit to share.
That's just our opinion... "
It is NOT a lame excuse! If he is found to be on here he could get the sack. Yes we very much enjoy what the site offers but it's not worth losing 20 plus years of service over. Each employer may react differently but I can assure you from previous experience with his employers people can be and have been discharged. So for us it's a very valid reason why we don't display face pics on our profile as is our right. We don't criticise why others do what they do with their profile and don't think people should pick holes in our choices for ours either
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
I (Jools) must admit it is so bloody frustrating when you click on a couples profile and every pic is her! That said, we are guilty of it ourselves. I put pics on our profile of mr, and when I'm not looking, he takes them off! I try to have an equal amount of both of us on our profile, but he constantly changes them.
At the end of the day, it really does depend on each couple and what they are looking for from this site. It does make me wonder what's wrong with the male half if there are no pics of him? As for the excuses about jobs.....sorry! That is a lame excuse! We both work in the public sector hence why you will not see any face pics on our profile unless we see fit to share.
That's just our opinion...
It is NOT a lame excuse! If he is found to be on here he could get the sack. Yes we very much enjoy what the site offers but it's not worth losing 20 plus years of service over. Each employer may react differently but I can assure you from previous experience with his employers people can be and have been discharged. So for us it's a very valid reason why we don't display face pics on our profile as is our right. We don't criticise why others do what they do with their profile and don't think people should pick holes in our choices for ours either
Kinky "
Oh and just to clarify there is "nothing wrong with my Mr" either |
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"We try to put both on, but to be perfectly blunt, nobody gives a shit about mr telford. We get zero messages about him. Or what he looks like, or if he's meeting, of if he will be there, or..... etc. His single orofile gets one or so view every other week, no messages. My single one? Hundreds every day.
When I put a pic up of me, or me in action, it gets fabbed. We make the hot pics sometimes. That's fantastic, people message. We meet. It's fun.
When we put a pic up of mr telford, it doesn't get any FABs. People don't message. Nobody meets. Nobody gives a shit about him, and that hurts me, but it's the sad truth.
Is he hideous? No. but thinking of this from a business point of view looking for clients and selling a product, you put out what sells more. And while I'm not perfect, I get more attention than him.
Pictures of him ARE there. Both alone and with me and others. Picture of him are in private too. Faces as well. But we don't show what people don't want to see. The day we get messages about him, is he day we upload pics of him.
Plus we're both teachers.., and it's.hard enough being secret as it is.
So there are reasons, at least for us, to that.
C xx"
All good points, us ladies are the Venus fly trap...
Although your hubby is hot I'd ravish him! Well both of you actually  |
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Mr here.
Tbh I could have pic's of a turnip or a tin of beans a massive pile of manure and they would probably get more interest than my pictures.
Totally agree with the previous comments about misters being invisible.
We have even tried having our profile pic of me,all our pic's of me and jools still gets all the messages!!
Also sorry I am certain Jools didn't mean any offence with her comments she really is the nicest person you could meet, but has a habit of coming across as abrupt in messages and forums. |
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"Mr here.
Tbh I could have pic's of a turnip or a tin of beans a massive pile of manure and they would probably get more interest than my pictures.
Totally agree with the previous comments about misters being invisible.
We have even tried having our profile pic of me,all our pic's of me and jools still gets all the messages!!
Also sorry I am certain Jools didn't mean any offence with her comments she really is the nicest person you could meet, but has a habit of coming across as abrupt in messages and forums. "
Aww thank you. That's really very appreciated |
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Most of our public ones are off me... as I am always taking photos to send to Mr.
We always send photos of us together and of Mr when contacting people x |
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all "
If their profile doesn't suit you, move on. Why should other people present a profile that suits you in particular?
If it doesn't work for them they'll change it.
Problem resolved, next...
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
If their profile doesn't suit you, move on. Why should other people present a profile that suits you in particular?
If it doesn't work for them they'll change it.
Problem resolved, next...
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"Just looked at yet another couples profile where 55 pics are of her wobbly body and one of his dick.
Looking for couples and ask for pics of both halves of the couple.
Ffs: look at your own profile!
That is all
We are unable to post pictures publicly of my partner due to his job which I'm sure you will agree is of much more importance than Fab. We do however exchange pictures of us both privately after we have chatted with potential meets so all good in the end
Kinky
I guess he's covered in distinguishing tattoos then?
Not at all. No tattoos actually. Just don't want to publish face pictures of him for obvious reasons We do post pictures of other parts of his torso just not his face. His choice to have more pics of me on our profile and each to their own with their own profiles same here. Plenty face pictures in private gallery."
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I concede that it's your profile but if you're looking for couples or want him involved, surly a few body shots wouldn't go amiss ?
And surely it shouldn't matter whether they are in the public area or exchanged privately "
Except I think the point that the OP is trying to make is that people reduce the chance of it even getting to the private message stage if there is nothing on the profile. We rarely PM first, but when we did it was only if we both liked something about both individuals. We simply wouldn't PM what is effectively a semi-blank profile.
And again, this isn't aimed at you, just a general observation like the OP's. So long as people's profiles work for them, then all is good.
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I concede that it's your profile but if you're looking for couples or want him involved, surly a few body shots wouldn't go amiss ?
And surely it shouldn't matter whether they are in the public area or exchanged privately
Except I think the point that the OP is trying to make is that people reduce the chance of it even getting to the private message stage if there is nothing on the profile. We rarely PM first, but when we did it was only if we both liked something about both individuals. We simply wouldn't PM what is effectively a semi-blank profile.
And again, this isn't aimed at you, just a general observation like the OP's. So long as people's profiles work for them, then all is good.
Mr ddc"
No problem and that is totally understood. Think we have to agree to disagree on this one though. What we are doing is working how we want it to as I'm sure is the same for you |
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"When i was part of a couple we had pics of both of us... it was so annoying searching for couples when it was just pics of her, me being straight im not remotely interested what she looked like "
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