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over a year ago
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"I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol   "
You realise that message recipients will look at your profile before deciding whether to respond to you or delete your message?
You are 28. You have some life experience. Use it. Do you think that a lady looking at your profile might say to herself, "Ah, yes, he looks an interesting prospect" or do you think that she might move on to one of the many other prospects who are inviting?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol
You realise that message recipients will look at your profile before deciding whether to respond to you or delete your message?
You are 28. You have some life experience. Use it. Do you think that a lady looking at your profile might say to herself, "Ah, yes, he looks an interesting prospect" or do you think that she might move on to one of the many other prospects who are inviting?
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it's not a place to put your life story there's nothing wrong with talk to someone to find out about them rarther than just read a life story |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol
You realise that message recipients will look at your profile before deciding whether to respond to you or delete your message?
You are 28. You have some life experience. Use it. Do you think that a lady looking at your profile might say to herself, "Ah, yes, he looks an interesting prospect" or do you think that she might move on to one of the many other prospects who are inviting?
it's not a place to put your life story there's nothing wrong with talk to someone to find out about them rarther than just read a life story "
I gave my view. It is not yours. That is fine.
Nowhere, by the way, did I mention telling a life story.
I simply asked you to read your own profile, your statement to other swingers about yourself, and ask yourself whether you would be attracted. |
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"I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol
You realise that message recipients will look at your profile before deciding whether to respond to you or delete your message?
You are 28. You have some life experience. Use it. Do you think that a lady looking at your profile might say to herself, "Ah, yes, he looks an interesting prospect" or do you think that she might move on to one of the many other prospects who are inviting?
it's not a place to put your life story there's nothing wrong with talk to someone to find out about them rarther than just read a life story "
Not your life story no, but more about what you seek and what kind of person you are...have more set out in your shop window, rather than just a sign saying "Enquire within"....why would they?
I also don't believe that declaring how hard it is to get a meet is not really making you more enticing either... |
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OP I always read profiles before I look at the message. In your case I would delete the message without reading it.
The reason for this is because you have no public photos. Your profile text tells me nothing - you have written more in this forum post than in your profile. You have conflicting information on your profile - how can you be 28 years old and 33 years old. Would you really meet a 99 year old?
There are probably 100 single men on here for every couple or single lady. That means that you need to make a big effort to get any results on Fab |
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"OP I always read profiles before I look at the message. In your case I would delete the message without reading it.
The reason for this is because you have no public photos. Your profile text tells me nothing - you have written more in this forum post than in your profile. You have conflicting information on your profile - how can you be 28 years old and 33 years old. Would you really meet a 99 year old?
There are probably 100 single men on here for every couple or single lady. That means that you need to make a big effort to get any results on Fab "
All the above plus negativity.
At least you have had meets, maybe try a club.
Single men who are good socially do well in clubs, if they behave well.
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"I must be doing something wrong...meets are like unicorns....conversations are like fairy dust ....what am I doing wrong lol "
Maybe you should lower your expectations? |
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