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over a year ago
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I think they're all lovely. All shapes and sizes. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't express that some variations were unpleasant because so many people spend so much time making women feel like shit about their bodies, that it doesn't seem kind to do that on a site that is supposedly more open-minded and liberated than the mainstream. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't say I've ever met a woman with one that turned me off.
More likely to be turned off by the person than her bits tbf."
saw one lately it looked like an accident in a butchers shop window |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah i suppose it matters to some, but at the end of the day its the sensation that drives us wild. I wouldnt care if it was like a juiced orange, when its wrapped round me or climbing in my mouth whos to argue  |
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"I think they're all lovely. All shapes and sizes. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't express that some variations were unpleasant because so many people spend so much time making women feel like shit about their bodies, that it doesn't seem kind to do that on a site that is supposedly more open-minded and liberated than the mainstream."
 This answer rocks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are all fecking lush when they are mine to play with. Less body shaming please? We should all love what you've got. (Unless like me you got the wrong ones..in which case go do what makes you feel happy about it) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always wonder what you'd do if you got down there and it wasn't to your liking. ?/it wasn't neat or had large labias etc etc ...  "
Sorry, was distracted by your magnificent cleavage!...., what was the question again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't say I've ever met a woman with one that turned me off.
More likely to be turned off by the person than her bits tbf.
saw one lately it looked like an accident in a butchers shop window "
Oooh, harsh!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they're all lovely. All shapes and sizes. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't express that some variations were unpleasant because so many people spend so much time making women feel like shit about their bodies, that it doesn't seem kind to do that on a site that is supposedly more open-minded and liberated than the mainstream."
I agree
I've always been really unsure about mine, it looks really underdeveloped in my opinion I have hardly any labia at all and a tiny tiny clit
When you read threads like these it makes you wonder what men are actually thinking when they see it
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always wonder what you'd do if you got down there and it wasn't to your liking. ?/it wasn't neat or had large labias etc etc ... "
Maybe it's why so many guys dont give oral, maybe if they find it ugly they will still take a blow job and fuck it but aren't licking it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the fact that this topic isn't often discussed says something about how non-judgemental men tend to be about lady-gardens. Some of them look like a pack of wafer thin ham that's been hit with a blunt axe but as long as you're clean and well-kept it wouldn't put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they're all lovely. All shapes and sizes. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't express that some variations were unpleasant because so many people spend so much time making women feel like shit about their bodies, that it doesn't seem kind to do that on a site that is supposedly more open-minded and liberated than the mainstream.
I agree
I've always been really unsure about mine, it looks really underdeveloped in my opinion I have hardly any labia at all and a tiny tiny clit
When you read threads like these it makes you wonder what men are actually thinking when they see it
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How funny, I have seen yours on cam and it looks great to me.
And I love giving oral, it completely mystifies me why some guys don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Went with a lass a while back n when I went down on her I was canny put of at what greeted my eyes. It was like s gunshot wound But hey they all look taste n smell different and always a beauty to behold xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't say I've ever met a woman with one that turned me off.
More likely to be turned off by the person than her bits tbf.
saw one lately it looked like an accident in a butchers shop window
Oooh, harsh!! Lol"
Are you old enough to be on this site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they're all lovely. All shapes and sizes. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't express that some variations were unpleasant because so many people spend so much time making women feel like shit about their bodies, that it doesn't seem kind to do that on a site that is supposedly more open-minded and liberated than the mainstream."
Are we on the same site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the fact that this topic isn't often discussed says something about how non-judgemental men tend to be about lady-gardens. Some of them look like a pack of wafer thin ham that's been hit with a blunt axe but as long as you're clean and well-kept it wouldn't put me off."
Lmfao at hit with a blunt axe.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys if you don't like real women go wank"
Abso-fuckin-lutely!
Some of these comments are so unkind about a body part which is beyond our control aesthetics wise. |
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"Guys if you don't like real women go wank
Abso-fuckin-lutely!
Some of these comments are so unkind about a body part which is beyond our control aesthetics wise."
There's a lot of immaturity going around this place lately  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the fact that this topic isn't often discussed says something about how non-judgemental men tend to be about lady-gardens. Some of them look like a pack of wafer thin ham that's been hit with a blunt axe but as long as you're clean and well-kept it wouldn't put me off."
Charming! |
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To my eyes they're all beautiful. The fact that they're all so different and unique to each woman is what makes them so interesting to me. I'll be honest, they fascinate me. To get to see one in the flesh, as a man, is never anything less than an honour. That may sound overly dramatic but that's how I feel.
Every person may have their own likes or dislikes but there are never any rights or wrongs to the way something looks, and the derogatory attitudes of some people (usually men) regarding this part of a woman's body I find truly staggering. To be in 2016 and hearing this kind of misogynistic childish bullshit is frankly, disgusting. |
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"To my eyes they're all beautiful. The fact that they're all so different and unique to each woman is what makes them so interesting to me. I'll be honest, they fascinate me. To get to see one in the flesh, as a man, is never anything less than an honour. That may sound overly dramatic but that's how I feel.
Every person may have their own likes or dislikes but there are never any rights or wrongs to the way something looks, and the derogatory attitudes of some people (usually men) regarding this part of a woman's body I find truly staggering. To be in 2016 and hearing this kind of misogynistic childish bullshit is frankly, disgusting."
Well said! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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saw one lately it looked like an accident in a butchers shop window
What an unkind thing to say about someone. Are you popular with the ladies?
Sally"
She was stating the obvious! Or? |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"To my eyes they're all beautiful. The fact that they're all so different and unique to each woman is what makes them so interesting to me. I'll be honest, they fascinate me. To get to see one in the flesh, as a man, is never anything less than an honour. That may sound overly dramatic but that's how I feel.
Every person may have their own likes or dislikes but there are never any rights or wrongs to the way something looks, and the derogatory attitudes of some people (usually men) regarding this part of a woman's body I find truly staggering. To be in 2016 and hearing this kind of misogynistic childish bullshit is frankly, disgusting."
Well said !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To my eyes they're all beautiful. The fact that they're all so different and unique to each woman is what makes them so interesting to me. I'll be honest, they fascinate me. To get to see one in the flesh, as a man, is never anything less than an honour. That may sound overly dramatic but that's how I feel.
Every person may have their own likes or dislikes but there are never any rights or wrongs to the way something looks, and the derogatory attitudes of some people (usually men) regarding this part of a woman's body I find truly staggering. To be in 2016 and hearing this kind of misogynistic childish bullshit is frankly, disgusting."
Completely. It's something that some women are self conscious about. So to see some such derogatory remarks about something that can't be changed, has surprised me too. On the plus side, some of the attitudes on here have made for a great filter lol. I don't want someone down there, and feeling like they are judging the aesthetics |
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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago
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No lady should ever be ashaned or worried about other people's coments or thoughts a pussy is a pussy they all taste great & as for the look of them life would be boring if they all looked the same xx |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"To my eyes they're all beautiful. The fact that they're all so different and unique to each woman is what makes them so interesting to me. I'll be honest, they fascinate me. To get to see one in the flesh, as a man, is never anything less than an honour. That may sound overly dramatic but that's how I feel.
Every person may have their own likes or dislikes but there are never any rights or wrongs to the way something looks, and the derogatory attitudes of some people (usually men) regarding this part of a woman's body I find truly staggering. To be in 2016 and hearing this kind of misogynistic childish bullshit is frankly, disgusting.
Completely. It's something that some women are self conscious about. So to see some such derogatory remarks about something that can't be changed, has surprised me too. On the plus side, some of the attitudes on here have made for a great filter lol. I don't want someone down there, and feeling like they are judging the aesthetics"
Very true. I had a cancerous cyst removed a few years back which has left me with scar tissue. This makes me awful self conscious especially with people using terms "butchers shop ' and other derogatory remarks. Not very nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they're all lovely. All shapes and sizes. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't express that some variations were unpleasant because so many people spend so much time making women feel like shit about their bodies, that it doesn't seem kind to do that on a site that is supposedly more open-minded and liberated than the mainstream."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To my eyes they're all beautiful. The fact that they're all so different and unique to each woman is what makes them so interesting to me. I'll be honest, they fascinate me. To get to see one in the flesh, as a man, is never anything less than an honour. That may sound overly dramatic but that's how I feel.
Every person may have their own likes or dislikes but there are never any rights or wrongs to the way something looks, and the derogatory attitudes of some people (usually men) regarding this part of a woman's body I find truly staggering. To be in 2016 and hearing this kind of misogynistic childish bullshit is frankly, disgusting.
Completely. It's something that some women are self conscious about. So to see some such derogatory remarks about something that can't be changed, has surprised me too. On the plus side, some of the attitudes on here have made for a great filter lol. I don't want someone down there, and feeling like they are judging the aesthetics
Very true. I had a cancerous cyst removed a few years back which has left me with scar tissue. This makes me awful self conscious especially with people using terms "butchers shop ' and other derogatory remarks. Not very nice "
Aww I'm sorry to hear that. Things like that being said just make people all the more self conscious  . You are right. Not very nice at all. I've never liked body shaming. There's no need for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they're all lovely. All shapes and sizes. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't express that some variations were unpleasant because so many people spend so much time making women feel like shit about their bodies, that it doesn't seem kind to do that on a site that is supposedly more open-minded and liberated than the mainstream."
Agreed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope my pussy stays pretty but some of the cocks it gets are huge and they don't take it easy on me ??X
Wow you have an amazing pussy xx"
Thank you Hun ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't say I've ever met a woman with one that turned me off.
More likely to be turned off by the person than her bits tbf.
saw one lately it looked like an accident in a butchers shop window "
Bit harsh considering people don't ask for their vaginas to look a certain way |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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"Some look nice, many look like mangled growlers (puke)"
Just looked at this guys profile ant the girl in tje pic 'appears' to be struggling to get more than one finger around his penis, let alpne a whole handful. Ironic he is so critical of others genitals lol |
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"Some look nice, many look like mangled growlers (puke)
Just looked at this guys profile ant the girl in tje pic 'appears' to be struggling to get more than one finger around his penis, let alpne a whole handful. Ironic he is so critical of others genitals lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think they're all lovely. All shapes and sizes. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't express that some variations were unpleasant because so many people spend so much time making women feel like shit about their bodies, that it doesn't seem kind to do that on a site that is supposedly more open-minded and liberated than the mainstream."
Yes...that
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"Some look nice, many look like mangled growlers (puke)
Just looked at this guys profile ant the girl in tje pic 'appears' to be struggling to get more than one finger around his penis, let alpne a whole handful. Ironic he is so critical of others genitals lol"
I just looked too...I agree. Sad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think what guys fail to understand is that all body parts vary from woman to woman.
Faces, body shape, feet, legs, hands, knees, ears, breasts, etc
That's what makes women individuals, no one has control over how we are made up as a person, yes we can alter things through surgery etc but the bulk of us will always remain the same and be unique to us.
How many guys would be up in arms and getting all abusive if we suddenly started slating off cocks and ball sacks? Let's face it, there's much more variance in a cock and balls than there is in a vaginas appearance.
I don't think I have ever seen a woman start a thread where it's attacking the male sexual organ appearance. I think this is a new fab low |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How can a pussy look scary?
Seriously, if a man told me he was scared of a pussy because of the way it looked, I'd slap his head and tell him to fuck off back to mummy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always say to men they don't have to do oral on me as I'm not a massive fan, they ask me why and I tell them it's a mind set thing, the fact that I thing it's ugly and don't understand why anyone would want to put their mouth on it. They look at me like I'm mental and say stuff along the lines of don't be silly, it's about pleasing you etc. But no matter what they say when/if they're between my legs my mind is in over drive wondering what they're thinking and hoping they'll just stop, because surely they don't want to be doing that.
For those I've met more regularly, I'm a lot more relaxed but still have the thought.
So even though they may look at me like I'm mental and try to reassure me; this thread has confirmed that there are men that think that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How can a pussy look scary?
Seriously, if a man told me he was scared of a pussy because of the way it looked, I'd slap his head and tell him to fuck off back to mummy. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think what guys fail to understand is that all body parts vary from woman to woman.
Faces, body shape, feet, legs, hands, knees, ears, breasts, etc
That's what makes women individuals, no one has control over how we are made up as a person, yes we can alter things through surgery etc but the bulk of us will always remain the same and be unique to us.
How many guys would be up in arms and getting all abusive if we suddenly started slating off cocks and ball sacks? Let's face it, there's much more variance in a cock and balls than there is in a vaginas appearance.
I don't think I have ever seen a woman start a thread where it's attacking the male sexual organ appearance. I think this is a new fab low "
Totally agree with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think you guys need to check out
http://www.greatwallofvagina.co.uk/home
All so different and unique, thats what makes them so special.
Rather disgusted by some of the comments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think what guys fail to understand is that all body parts vary from woman to woman.
Faces, body shape, feet, legs, hands, knees, ears, breasts, etc
That's what makes women individuals, no one has control over how we are made up as a person, yes we can alter things through surgery etc but the bulk of us will always remain the same and be unique to us.
How many guys would be up in arms and getting all abusive if we suddenly started slating off cocks and ball sacks? Let's face it, there's much more variance in a cock and balls than there is in a vaginas appearance.
I don't think I have ever seen a woman start a thread where it's attacking the male sexual organ appearance. I think this is a new fab low "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always say to men they don't have to do oral on me as I'm not a massive fan, they ask me why and I tell them it's a mind set thing, the fact that I thing it's ugly and don't understand why anyone would want to put their mouth on it. They look at me like I'm mental and say stuff along the lines of don't be silly, it's about pleasing you etc. But no matter what they say when/if they're between my legs my mind is in over drive wondering what they're thinking and hoping they'll just stop, because surely they don't want to be doing that.
For those I've met more regularly, I'm a lot more relaxed but still have the thought.
So even though they may look at me like I'm mental and try to reassure me; this thread has confirmed that there are men that think that way "
One of my best friends feels this way, it makes me really sad I find the female form absolutely beautiful, in all its variants. I love how different women look and feel and taste. It's a huge turn on to get the opportunity to explore that intimate area.xx |
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Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up. |
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up."
Wow. There's a massive difference between having preferences, and just being downright insulting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up.
Wow. There's a massive difference between having preferences, and just being downright insulting "
Many things are insulting here to both genders. And it's subjective. |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up.
Wow. There's a massive difference between having preferences, and just being downright insulting "
You must remember its half term lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up."
So, there's a big difference.
Take your list as an example. Your list is a perfectly acceptable list of preferences. What wouldn't be acceptable would be:
- 6 foot + because short men look like they had an accident with a wood chipper.
- Must be hung because small penises look like disgusting worms.
- No baldies because bald heads look like a baboons arse.
- No young looking men because I don't want a man who looks like a pre-pubescent child.
There's also social context. Women are treated to a barrage of standards about how they must look in order to conform to society. We are told how skinny we must be, we are told how much makeup we should wear, we are even told what our vaginas should smell like (femfresh anyone?). This has been going on for hundreds of years and women live in this shadow all the time.
So while 'small cocks look like a shriveled up piece of beef jerky' might not feel like an insult to your average bloke, that's because they've not lived their whole life being told by those around them that you have to live up to certain beauty standards in order to be considered womanly. (Even on this site I regularly get told that I must be a man because I don't emphasise my breasts and wear makeup in my profile picture).
So saying 'vulva with crinkly lips and stuff are ugly' plays directly into the fact that we, as women, are brought up to believe that we must be good enough for men. That we have to satisfy them visually in every way possible. Comments like 'crinkly lips are ugly' are the reason that more and more women are having plastic surgery on their vulvas to make them look 'tiny with smooth petal like lips'. Yup, plastic surgery for it. With all the risks that surgery entails, including death on the operating table, serious infection afterwards, or loss of sensation.
Plus if you had actually slept with more than a tiny handful of women, you'd know that the vast majority of women have 'crinkly' inner labia, and an awful lot of them have 'crinkly' outer labia. Or perhaps all the women I've fucked in the past have just had ugly genetalia. Maybe I just got 'unlucky'.
So no, the fact that people have preference and don't answer mails has absolutely fucking nothing to do with the fact that you're on here body-shaming the vast majority of women. Preferences are not the same as body shaming. Answering mails (or not) is not the same as body shaming.
So perhaps maybe you should take your own advice and grow up. And along the way you might want to learn the difference between having a preference and expressing that preference in a way that hurts others. |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up.
So, there's a big difference.
Take your list as an example. Your list is a perfectly acceptable list of preferences. What wouldn't be acceptable would be:
- 6 foot + because short men look like they had an accident with a wood chipper.
- Must be hung because small penises look like disgusting worms.
- No baldies because bald heads look like a baboons arse.
- No young looking men because I don't want a man who looks like a pre-pubescent child.
There's also social context. Women are treated to a barrage of standards about how they must look in order to conform to society. We are told how skinny we must be, we are told how much makeup we should wear, we are even told what our vaginas should smell like (femfresh anyone?). This has been going on for hundreds of years and women live in this shadow all the time.
So while 'small cocks look like a shriveled up piece of beef jerky' might not feel like an insult to your average bloke, that's because they've not lived their whole life being told by those around them that you have to live up to certain beauty standards in order to be considered womanly. (Even on this site I regularly get told that I must be a man because I don't emphasise my breasts and wear makeup in my profile picture).
So saying 'vulva with crinkly lips and stuff are ugly' plays directly into the fact that we, as women, are brought up to believe that we must be good enough for men. That we have to satisfy them visually in every way possible. Comments like 'crinkly lips are ugly' are the reason that more and more women are having plastic surgery on their vulvas to make them look 'tiny with smooth petal like lips'. Yup, plastic surgery for it. With all the risks that surgery entails, including death on the operating table, serious infection afterwards, or loss of sensation.
Plus if you had actually slept with more than a tiny handful of women, you'd know that the vast majority of women have 'crinkly' inner labia, and an awful lot of them have 'crinkly' outer labia. Or perhaps all the women I've fucked in the past have just had ugly genetalia. Maybe I just got 'unlucky'.
So no, the fact that people have preference and don't answer mails has absolutely fucking nothing to do with the fact that you're on here body-shaming the vast majority of women. Preferences are not the same as body shaming. Answering mails (or not) is not the same as body shaming.
So perhaps maybe you should take your own advice and grow up. And along the way you might want to learn the difference between having a preference and expressing that preference in a way that hurts others."
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up.
So, there's a big difference.
Take your list as an example. Your list is a perfectly acceptable list of preferences. What wouldn't be acceptable would be:
- 6 foot + because short men look like they had an accident with a wood chipper.
- Must be hung because small penises look like disgusting worms.
- No baldies because bald heads look like a baboons arse.
- No young looking men because I don't want a man who looks like a pre-pubescent child.
There's also social context. Women are treated to a barrage of standards about how they must look in order to conform to society. We are told how skinny we must be, we are told how much makeup we should wear, we are even told what our vaginas should smell like (femfresh anyone?). This has been going on for hundreds of years and women live in this shadow all the time.
So while 'small cocks look like a shriveled up piece of beef jerky' might not feel like an insult to your average bloke, that's because they've not lived their whole life being told by those around them that you have to live up to certain beauty standards in order to be considered womanly. (Even on this site I regularly get told that I must be a man because I don't emphasise my breasts and wear makeup in my profile picture).
So saying 'vulva with crinkly lips and stuff are ugly' plays directly into the fact that we, as women, are brought up to believe that we must be good enough for men. That we have to satisfy them visually in every way possible. Comments like 'crinkly lips are ugly' are the reason that more and more women are having plastic surgery on their vulvas to make them look 'tiny with smooth petal like lips'. Yup, plastic surgery for it. With all the risks that surgery entails, including death on the operating table, serious infection afterwards, or loss of sensation.
Plus if you had actually slept with more than a tiny handful of women, you'd know that the vast majority of women have 'crinkly' inner labia, and an awful lot of them have 'crinkly' outer labia. Or perhaps all the women I've fucked in the past have just had ugly genetalia. Maybe I just got 'unlucky'.
So no, the fact that people have preference and don't answer mails has absolutely fucking nothing to do with the fact that you're on here body-shaming the vast majority of women. Preferences are not the same as body shaming. Answering mails (or not) is not the same as body shaming.
So perhaps maybe you should take your own advice and grow up. And along the way you might want to learn the difference between having a preference and expressing that preference in a way that hurts others."
But it's ok to body shame guys. I happen to think I don't look to bad considering I've had a accident with a wood chipper |
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But it's ok to body shame guys. I happen to think I don't look to bad considering I've had a accident with a wood chipper "
I don't personally think it's ok to body shame men either. I don't see much of that happening though, but perhaps it's just because I'm not on the lookout for it. |
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up.
So, there's a big difference.
Take your list as an example. Your list is a perfectly acceptable list of preferences. What wouldn't be acceptable would be:
- 6 foot + because short men look like they had an accident with a wood chipper.
- Must be hung because small penises look like disgusting worms.
- No baldies because bald heads look like a baboons arse.
- No young looking men because I don't want a man who looks like a pre-pubescent child.
There's also social context. Women are treated to a barrage of standards about how they must look in order to conform to society. We are told how skinny we must be, we are told how much makeup we should wear, we are even told what our vaginas should smell like (femfresh anyone?). This has been going on for hundreds of years and women live in this shadow all the time.
So while 'small cocks look like a shriveled up piece of beef jerky' might not feel like an insult to your average bloke, that's because they've not lived their whole life being told by those around them that you have to live up to certain beauty standards in order to be considered womanly. (Even on this site I regularly get told that I must be a man because I don't emphasise my breasts and wear makeup in my profile picture).
So saying 'vulva with crinkly lips and stuff are ugly' plays directly into the fact that we, as women, are brought up to believe that we must be good enough for men. That we have to satisfy them visually in every way possible. Comments like 'crinkly lips are ugly' are the reason that more and more women are having plastic surgery on their vulvas to make them look 'tiny with smooth petal like lips'. Yup, plastic surgery for it. With all the risks that surgery entails, including death on the operating table, serious infection afterwards, or loss of sensation.
Plus if you had actually slept with more than a tiny handful of women, you'd know that the vast majority of women have 'crinkly' inner labia, and an awful lot of them have 'crinkly' outer labia. Or perhaps all the women I've fucked in the past have just had ugly genetalia. Maybe I just got 'unlucky'.
So no, the fact that people have preference and don't answer mails has absolutely fucking nothing to do with the fact that you're on here body-shaming the vast majority of women. Preferences are not the same as body shaming. Answering mails (or not) is not the same as body shaming.
So perhaps maybe you should take your own advice and grow up. And along the way you might want to learn the difference between having a preference and expressing that preference in a way that hurts others."
Such feminist unempathetic tosh. I HAVE seen women speak about men like this. One here was even bragging that she loved cheating on her man because he was ugly and she "needed more" and another woman would go on about how men are lazy and stuff. I've seen many things like this but you will never notice it. On this thread alone there are insults about a man's cock size and another stated she would attack a man. Seriously?
I don't think you got unlucky. I just think really pretty ones are rare. They are just a delight.
Who are you talking for? All women? No men? Stop projecting your own opinions and paraphrased Gender Studies silliness and use it as the standard and opinion for all of humanity. I reject it.
Do you REALLY think that men aren't raised to make women feel good or that men are never made to feel inadequate? You have no idea, girly.
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up.
So, there's a big difference.
Take your list as an example. Your list is a perfectly acceptable list of preferences. What wouldn't be acceptable would be:
- 6 foot + because short men look like they had an accident with a wood chipper.
- Must be hung because small penises look like disgusting worms.
- No baldies because bald heads look like a baboons arse.
- No young looking men because I don't want a man who looks like a pre-pubescent child.
There's also social context. Women are treated to a barrage of standards about how they must look in order to conform to society. We are told how skinny we must be, we are told how much makeup we should wear, we are even told what our vaginas should smell like (femfresh anyone?). This has been going on for hundreds of years and women live in this shadow all the time.
So while 'small cocks look like a shriveled up piece of beef jerky' might not feel like an insult to your average bloke, that's because they've not lived their whole life being told by those around them that you have to live up to certain beauty standards in order to be considered womanly. (Even on this site I regularly get told that I must be a man because I don't emphasise my breasts and wear makeup in my profile picture).
So saying 'vulva with crinkly lips and stuff are ugly' plays directly into the fact that we, as women, are brought up to believe that we must be good enough for men. That we have to satisfy them visually in every way possible. Comments like 'crinkly lips are ugly' are the reason that more and more women are having plastic surgery on their vulvas to make them look 'tiny with smooth petal like lips'. Yup, plastic surgery for it. With all the risks that surgery entails, including death on the operating table, serious infection afterwards, or loss of sensation.
Plus if you had actually slept with more than a tiny handful of women, you'd know that the vast majority of women have 'crinkly' inner labia, and an awful lot of them have 'crinkly' outer labia. Or perhaps all the women I've fucked in the past have just had ugly genetalia. Maybe I just got 'unlucky'.
So no, the fact that people have preference and don't answer mails has absolutely fucking nothing to do with the fact that you're on here body-shaming the vast majority of women. Preferences are not the same as body shaming. Answering mails (or not) is not the same as body shaming.
So perhaps maybe you should take your own advice and grow up. And along the way you might want to learn the difference between having a preference and expressing that preference in a way that hurts others.
Such feminist unempathetic tosh. I HAVE seen women speak about men like this. One here was even bragging that she loved cheating on her man because he was ugly and she "needed more" and another woman would go on about how men are lazy and stuff. I've seen many things like this but you will never notice it. On this thread alone there are insults about a man's cock size and another stated she would attack a man. Seriously?
I don't think you got unlucky. I just think really pretty ones are rare. They are just a delight.
Who are you talking for? All women? No men? Stop projecting your own opinions and paraphrased Gender Studies silliness and use it as the standard and opinion for all of humanity. I reject it.
Do you REALLY think that men aren't raised to make women feel good or that men are never made to feel inadequate? You have no idea, girly.
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Such feminist unempathetic tosh. I HAVE seen women speak about men like this. One here was even bragging that she loved cheating on her man because he was ugly and she "needed more" and another woman would go on about how men are lazy and stuff. I've seen many things like this but you will never notice it. On this thread alone there are insults about a man's cock size and another stated she would attack a man. Seriously?
I don't think you got unlucky. I just think really pretty ones are rare. They are just a delight.
Who are you talking for? All women? No men? Stop projecting your own opinions and paraphrased Gender Studies silliness and use it as the standard and opinion for all of humanity. I reject it.
Do you REALLY think that men aren't raised to make women feel good or that men are never made to feel inadequate? You have no idea, girly.
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Feminist unemphatic tosh? Care to elaborate on how what was said was in any form feminist related?
You mention the gender studies and not to apply it to all humanity, then you go and refer to the poster as a girly... Where did that come from, gender related? Someone is a girly because they have a vagina?
Anyway the comments made on this post regarding a man's penis size came after he criticised the female genitalia, yes a bit of tit for tat, but if you're going to be so harsh with the remarks you make, then at least expect something back. The commect about "attacking a man" was not to do with what a penis looked like, it was down to his reaction, because she wouldn't allow a man to tell her how her area should look. I struggle to see your comparison to women stating their preferences and men insulting a woman's genitalia. Stating how a man is, or what they are looking for is completely different to man making women feel self conscious about themselves because they think their genitalia isn't pretty enough, due to what they say about it.
Men are made to feel "inadequate"/not worthy enough, but more so now then any other time. Women have put up with this for decades, how they should look, how they should act, how they should behave, being compared to other females etc. Men have not had to deal with this for decades, it is seen a lot more now then it ever has been.
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up."
A preference is one thing; saying you're scared of a pussy is another.
There's a difference between saying you want a big cock and saying no ugly cocks, they scare me. |
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over a year ago
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"Some look nice, many look like mangled growlers (puke)
Grow up!
How about you lighten up eh?"
It's your derogatory remark I take offence to so no I won't lighten up to sad old men like yourself |
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I never made any comment aimed at anyone in perticular just a general some are nice others "not to" "better say that this time or you might faint" , unlike your good self unless who seems to take pleasure in singling out someone for verbal abuse and attempted insulting.
You might want to take a closer look at your own attitude, and also, saying i'm sad and old, lol, I think I'm only about 6 or 7 years ahead of you, so you're not too far behind |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"I never made any comment aimed at anyone in perticular just a general some are nice others "not to" "better say that this time or you might faint" , unlike your good self unless who seems to take pleasure in singling out someone for verbal abuse and attempted insulting.
You might want to take a closer look at your own attitude, and also, saying i'm sad and old, lol, I think I'm only about 6 or 7 years ahead of you, so you're not too far behind "
I think you need to re-read your remark it was very derogatory. And I apologise not old just sad |
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up.
A preference is one thing; saying you're scared of a pussy is another.
There's a difference between saying you want a big cock and saying no ugly cocks, they scare me. "
So you are willing to physically assualt another adult because they said this?
I think you need to reassess.
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up.
A preference is one thing; saying you're scared of a pussy is another.
There's a difference between saying you want a big cock and saying no ugly cocks, they scare me.
So you are willing to physically assualt another adult because they said this?
I think you need to reassess.
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Who mentioned physically assault? Can you find that and quote it? |
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over a year ago
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"Oh dear it's all gone downhill!
"It's all gone down hill" - paraphrased : the men are answering back.
Haha."
Sorry but there's only you who's answering can't see any other man agreeing apart from the one that refers to lady's vaginas as mangled growlers. But you think that's fine do you? |
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"I think they're all lovely. All shapes and sizes. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't express that some variations were unpleasant because so many people spend so much time making women feel like shit about their bodies, that it doesn't seem kind to do that on a site that is supposedly more open-minded and liberated than the mainstream.
This answer rocks."
Here here. Well put |
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"Some ive errr... cum across, are beautiful.
Others can be quite scary looking.
Good job we haven't met then I wouldn't want to scare little frightened you "
And I wouldn't want to scare you either... |
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"Oh dear it's all gone downhill!
"It's all gone down hill" - paraphrased : the men are answering back.
Haha.
Sorry but there's only you who's answering can't see any other man agreeing apart from the one that refers to lady's vaginas as mangled growlers. But you think that's fine do you?"
Actually the guy in the superman top agreed with me. He gave me a thumbs up.
I don't think it's particularly nice, no, but I don't see anyone up in arms when it's men being trashed.
And yes I'm answering you back, don't be sorry |
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over a year ago
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"Oh dear it's all gone downhill!
"It's all gone down hill" - paraphrased : the men are answering back.
Haha.
Sorry but there's only you who's answering can't see any other man agreeing apart from the one that refers to lady's vaginas as mangled growlers. But you think that's fine do you?
Actually the guy in the superman top agreed with me. He gave me a thumbs up.
I don't think it's particularly nice, no, but I don't see anyone up in arms when it's men being trashed.
And yes I'm answering you back, don't be sorry "
I've never ever seen any man or woman describe a mans penis in a derogatory way, can you find some examples? |
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"Damn, well things escalated quickly on this thread!!  "
Oh things always escalate and turn into mini wwIII on here. Funny how the fems on here can bang on about ugly cocks and we're expected to accept it.
Just sayin... |
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Funny how someone's opinion aimed at no one invokes insults aimed back personally with weak minded individuals feeling the need to artificially inflate their own egos by chipping in with thinly veiled insults of their own when they sense someone's on the receiving end of being insulted and verbally abused.
I may be sad and old to some, people can insult me on an open forum if it helps them feel better about themselves, it doesn't affect me, it just says far more about themselves than anything
I see this kind of behaviour at school pickup time but it's quite prevalent on here too 
Anyway feel free to continue to the small handful of keyboard warriors, I do hope it helps you in the long run. |
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"Damn, well things escalated quickly on this thread!!
Oh things always escalate and turn into mini wwIII on here. Funny how the fems on here can bang on about ugly cocks and we're expected to accept it.
Just sayin... "
Read them many times but theres nothing to take to heart about it |
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By *adyDangerWoman
over a year ago
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"Damn, well things escalated quickly on this thread!!
Oh things always escalate and turn into mini wwIII on here. Funny how the fems on here can bang on about ugly cocks and we're expected to accept it.
Just sayin... "
Sorry but again I've never ever seen a post or thread about ugly cocks. Are you confused over some woman's preferences about big cocks? Big difference |
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"Oh dear it's all gone downhill!
"It's all gone down hill" - paraphrased : the men are answering back.
Haha.
Sorry but there's only you who's answering can't see any other man agreeing apart from the one that refers to lady's vaginas as mangled growlers. But you think that's fine do you?"
I could understand if i referred to all women but I didn't , did I ? Nope I didn't
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"Funny how someone's opinion aimed at no one invokes insults aimed back personally with weak minded individuals feeling the need to artificially inflate their own egos by chipping in with thinly veiled insults of their own when they sense someone's on the receiving end of being insulted and verbally abused.
I may be sad and old to some, people can insult me on an open forum if it helps them feel better about themselves, it doesn't affect me, it just says far more about themselves than anything
I see this kind of behaviour at school pickup time but it's quite prevalent on here too
Anyway feel free to continue to the small handful of keyboard warriors, I do hope it helps you in the long run."
And calling a ladies vagina a 'mangled growler' is very grown up. Did I mention your pictures as others have? No. I've just responded to your very derogatory and childish remark |
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"Oh dear it's all gone downhill!
"It's all gone down hill" - paraphrased : the men are answering back.
Haha.
Sorry but there's only you who's answering can't see any other man agreeing apart from the one that refers to lady's vaginas as mangled growlers. But you think that's fine do you?
Actually the guy in the superman top agreed with me. He gave me a thumbs up.
I don't think it's particularly nice, no, but I don't see anyone up in arms when it's men being trashed.
And yes I'm answering you back, don't be sorry
I've never ever seen any man or woman describe a mans penis in a derogatory way, can you find some examples? "
Yes. On this thread a woman insulted a man's girth. |
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"Oh dear it's all gone downhill!
"It's all gone down hill" - paraphrased : the men are answering back.
Haha.
Sorry but there's only you who's answering can't see any other man agreeing apart from the one that refers to lady's vaginas as mangled growlers. But you think that's fine do you?
Actually the guy in the superman top agreed with me. He gave me a thumbs up.
I don't think it's particularly nice, no, but I don't see anyone up in arms when it's men being trashed.
And yes I'm answering you back, don't be sorry
I've never ever seen any man or woman describe a mans penis in a derogatory way, can you find some examples?
Yes. On this thread a woman insulted a man's girth. "
A couple of women did actually. Another threatened violence. Funny how self absorbed women are really. |
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"Funny how someone's opinion aimed at no one invokes insults aimed back personally with weak minded individuals feeling the need to artificially inflate their own egos by chipping in with thinly veiled insults of their own when they sense someone's on the receiving end of being insulted and verbally abused.
I may be sad and old to some, people can insult me on an open forum if it helps them feel better about themselves, it doesn't affect me, it just says far more about themselves than anything
I see this kind of behaviour at school pickup time but it's quite prevalent on here too
Anyway feel free to continue to the small handful of keyboard warriors, I do hope it helps you in the long run."
Oh right,so it's ok for you to be insultive toward's women,make it a general insult and that's ok in your opinion....okayyyyy |
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- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up.
So, there's a big difference.
Take your list as an example. Your list is a perfectly acceptable list of preferences. What wouldn't be acceptable would be:
- 6 foot + because short men look like they had an accident with a wood chipper.
- Must be hung because small penises look like disgusting worms.
- No baldies because bald heads look like a baboons arse.
- No young looking men because I don't want a man who looks like a pre-pubescent child.
There's also social context. Women are treated to a barrage of standards about how they must look in order to conform to society. We are told how skinny we must be, we are told how much makeup we should wear, we are even told what our vaginas should smell like (femfresh anyone?). This has been going on for hundreds of years and women live in this shadow all the time.
So while 'small cocks look like a shriveled up piece of beef jerky' might not feel like an insult to your average bloke, that's because they've not lived their whole life being told by those around them that you have to live up to certain beauty standards in order to be considered womanly. (Even on this site I regularly get told that I must be a man because I don't emphasise my breasts and wear makeup in my profile picture).
So saying 'vulva with crinkly lips and stuff are ugly' plays directly into the fact that we, as women, are brought up to believe that we must be good enough for men. That we have to satisfy them visually in every way possible. Comments like 'crinkly lips are ugly' are the reason that more and more women are having plastic surgery on their vulvas to make them look 'tiny with smooth petal like lips'. Yup, plastic surgery for it. With all the risks that surgery entails, including death on the operating table, serious infection afterwards, or loss of sensation.
Plus if you had actually slept with more than a tiny handful of women, you'd know that the vast majority of women have 'crinkly' inner labia, and an awful lot of them have 'crinkly' outer labia. Or perhaps all the women I've fucked in the past have just had ugly genetalia. Maybe I just got 'unlucky'.
So no, the fact that people have preference and don't answer mails has absolutely fucking nothing to do with the fact that you're on here body-shaming the vast majority of women. Preferences are not the same as body shaming. Answering mails (or not) is not the same as body shaming.
So perhaps maybe you should take your own advice and grow up. And along the way you might want to learn the difference between having a preference and expressing that preference in a way that hurts others.
Such feminist unempathetic tosh. I HAVE seen women speak about men like this. One here was even bragging that she loved cheating on her man because he was ugly and she "needed more" and another woman would go on about how men are lazy and stuff. I've seen many things like this but you will never notice it. On this thread alone there are insults about a man's cock size and another stated she would attack a man. Seriously?
I don't think you got unlucky. I just think really pretty ones are rare. They are just a delight.
Who are you talking for? All women? No men? Stop projecting your own opinions and paraphrased Gender Studies silliness and use it as the standard and opinion for all of humanity. I reject it.
Do you REALLY think that men aren't raised to make women feel good or that men are never made to feel inadequate? You have no idea, girly.
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"It's all gone down hill" - paraphrased : the men are answering back.
Haha.
Sorry but there's only you who's answering can't see any other man agreeing apart from the one that refers to lady's vaginas as mangled growlers. But you think that's fine do you?
Actually the guy in the superman top agreed with me. He gave me a thumbs up.
I don't think it's particularly nice, no, but I don't see anyone up in arms when it's men being trashed.
And yes I'm answering you back, don't be sorry
I've never ever seen any man or woman describe a mans penis in a derogatory way, can you find some examples?
Yes. On this thread a woman insulted a man's girth.
A couple of women did actually. Another threatened violence. Funny how self absorbed women are really."
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"Oh dear it's all gone downhill!
"It's all gone down hill" - paraphrased : the men are answering back.
Haha.
Sorry but there's only you who's answering can't see any other man agreeing apart from the one that refers to lady's vaginas as mangled growlers. But you think that's fine do you?
Actually the guy in the superman top agreed with me. He gave me a thumbs up.
I don't think it's particularly nice, no, but I don't see anyone up in arms when it's men being trashed.
And yes I'm answering you back, don't be sorry
I've never ever seen any man or woman describe a mans penis in a derogatory way, can you find some examples?
Yes. On this thread a woman insulted a man's girth.
A couple of women did actually. Another threatened violence. Funny how self absorbed women are really."
AFTER he made a derogatory remark! Like I said it was a bit of tit for tat, going to insult people then some will feel the need to insult back.
The violence part, like I said, was referring to if a man made a remark about her vagina while going down there.
If people can't accept that all women have different vaginas then why meet them? Not like you know what it looks like until she takes her clothes off |
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Such feminist unempathetic tosh. I HAVE seen women speak about men like this. One here was even bragging that she loved cheating on her man because he was ugly and she "needed more" and another woman would go on about how men are lazy and stuff. I've seen many things like this but you will never notice it. On this thread alone there are insults about a man's cock size and another stated she would attack a man. Seriously?
I don't think you got unlucky. I just think really pretty ones are rare. They are just a delight.
Who are you talking for? All women? No men? Stop projecting your own opinions and paraphrased Gender Studies silliness and use it as the standard and opinion for all of humanity. I reject it.
Do you REALLY think that men aren't raised to make women feel good or that men are never made to feel inadequate? You have no idea, girly.
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Which bit of my post do you 'reject' considering it's all factual statement rather than opinion? You seem to have no idea about the world, boy. |
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"Oh dear it's all gone downhill!
"It's all gone down hill" - paraphrased : the men are answering back.
Haha.
Sorry but there's only you who's answering can't see any other man agreeing apart from the one that refers to lady's vaginas as mangled growlers. But you think that's fine do you?
Actually the guy in the superman top agreed with me. He gave me a thumbs up.
I don't think it's particularly nice, no, but I don't see anyone up in arms when it's men being trashed.
And yes I'm answering you back, don't be sorry
I've never ever seen any man or woman describe a mans penis in a derogatory way, can you find some examples?
Yes. On this thread a woman insulted a man's girth.
A couple of women did actually. Another threatened violence. Funny how self absorbed women are really."
How self absorbed women are? Good generalisation there. I would never think to demean a man based on the way his penis looks, or the size/girth. Likewise, I don't put a list of preferences on my profile of what I expect a potential meet to adhere to. If you have a preference to the way you think a vagina should look, you are perfectly within your rights to have that preference. It's insulting that which is not your preference that is the issue. There is just no need for it. |
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"Oh dear it's all gone downhill!
"It's all gone down hill" - paraphrased : the men are answering back.
Haha.
Sorry but there's only you who's answering can't see any other man agreeing apart from the one that refers to lady's vaginas as mangled growlers. But you think that's fine do you?
Actually the guy in the superman top agreed with me. He gave me a thumbs up.
I don't think it's particularly nice, no, but I don't see anyone up in arms when it's men being trashed.
And yes I'm answering you back, don't be sorry
I've never ever seen any man or woman describe a mans penis in a derogatory way, can you find some examples?
Yes. On this thread a woman insulted a man's girth.
A couple of women did actually. Another threatened violence. Funny how self absorbed women are really.
How self absorbed women are? Good generalisation there. I would never think to demean a man based on the way his penis looks, or the size/girth. Likewise, I don't put a list of preferences on my profile of what I expect a potential meet to adhere to. If you have a preference to the way you think a vagina should look, you are perfectly within your rights to have that preference. It's insulting that which is not your preference that is the issue. There is just no need for it. "
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"Oh dear it's all gone downhill!
"It's all gone down hill" - paraphrased : the men are answering back.
Haha.
Sorry but there's only you who's answering can't see any other man agreeing apart from the one that refers to lady's vaginas as mangled growlers. But you think that's fine do you?
Actually the guy in the superman top agreed with me. He gave me a thumbs up.
I don't think it's particularly nice, no, but I don't see anyone up in arms when it's men being trashed.
And yes I'm answering you back, don't be sorry
I've never ever seen any man or woman describe a mans penis in a derogatory way, can you find some examples?
Yes. On this thread a woman insulted a man's girth.
A couple of women did actually. Another threatened violence. Funny how self absorbed women are really.
AFTER he made a derogatory remark! Like I said it was a bit of tit for tat, going to insult people then some will feel the need to insult back.
The violence part, like I said, was referring to if a man made a remark about her vagina while going down there.
If people can't accept that all women have different vaginas then why meet them? Not like you know what it looks like until she takes her clothes off "
Oh!so after! I don't buy it. Chicken and egg. I did it because he did it...
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Yes. On this thread a woman insulted a man's girth.
A couple of women did actually. Another threatened violence. Funny how self absorbed women are really.
AFTER he made a derogatory remark! Like I said it was a bit of tit for tat, going to insult people then some will feel the need to insult back.
The violence part, like I said, was referring to if a man made a remark about her vagina while going down there.
If people can't accept that all women have different vaginas then why meet them? Not like you know what it looks like until she takes her clothes off
Oh!so after! I don't buy it. Chicken and egg. I did it because he did it...
You actually prove my point."
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There's no need for any form of generalisation at all or personal insults.
I apologise if insult was taken but i never gave a generalised every one is the same did i ? nor did i point the comment in anyone's particular direction.
Some people get very insulting directly if they read something they don't agree with.
To pacify the minority I'll say all pussies look like Venus's own
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"There's no need for any form of generalisation at all or personal insults.
I apologise if insult was taken but i never gave a generalised every one is the same did i ? nor did i point the comment in anyone's particular direction.
Some people get very insulting directly if they read something they don't agree with.
Not often I agree with strangers ha
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Never seen a bad one, personally. Meet a lady once who was fairly insistent on keeping the room dark "because she was not an oil painting"... Said she seemed fine to me, both above and below. I'm hardly a stellar specimen either, not that I care..
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"Are the women on this thread serious? How many female profile do you see with :
- 6 foot +
- Must be hung.
- No baldies.
- No wee boys.
But when guys have prefences, that's not on?
Some vulva are just ugly with crinkly lips and stuff, some look great and tiny with smooth petal like lips.
So either it's the fact that men have preferences that you dislike or the way they expressed it. The latter makes you hypocrites considereing you reject men by the dozen, daily without even a reply.
Grow up.
So, there's a big difference.
Take your list as an example. Your list is a perfectly acceptable list of preferences. What wouldn't be acceptable would be:
- 6 foot + because short men look like they had an accident with a wood chipper.
- Must be hung because small penises look like disgusting worms.
- No baldies because bald heads look like a baboons arse.
- No young looking men because I don't want a man who looks like a pre-pubescent child.
There's also social context. Women are treated to a barrage of standards about how they must look in order to conform to society. We are told how skinny we must be, we are told how much makeup we should wear, we are even told what our vaginas should smell like (femfresh anyone?). This has been going on for hundreds of years and women live in this shadow all the time.
So while 'small cocks look like a shriveled up piece of beef jerky' might not feel like an insult to your average bloke, that's because they've not lived their whole life being told by those around them that you have to live up to certain beauty standards in order to be considered womanly. (Even on this site I regularly get told that I must be a man because I don't emphasise my breasts and wear makeup in my profile picture).
So saying 'vulva with crinkly lips and stuff are ugly' plays directly into the fact that we, as women, are brought up to believe that we must be good enough for men. That we have to satisfy them visually in every way possible. Comments like 'crinkly lips are ugly' are the reason that more and more women are having plastic surgery on their vulvas to make them look 'tiny with smooth petal like lips'. Yup, plastic surgery for it. With all the risks that surgery entails, including death on the operating table, serious infection afterwards, or loss of sensation.
Plus if you had actually slept with more than a tiny handful of women, you'd know that the vast majority of women have 'crinkly' inner labia, and an awful lot of them have 'crinkly' outer labia. Or perhaps all the women I've fucked in the past have just had ugly genetalia. Maybe I just got 'unlucky'.
So no, the fact that people have preference and don't answer mails has absolutely fucking nothing to do with the fact that you're on here body-shaming the vast majority of women. Preferences are not the same as body shaming. Answering mails (or not) is not the same as body shaming.
So perhaps maybe you should take your own advice and grow up. And along the way you might want to learn the difference between having a preference and expressing that preference in a way that hurts others."
This! Just this. I love this response so much I want to marry it!
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"I think they're all lovely. All shapes and sizes. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't express that some variations were unpleasant because so many people spend so much time making women feel like shit about their bodies, that it doesn't seem kind to do that on a site that is supposedly more open-minded and liberated than the mainstream."
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