Ha Ha you do make me laugh.... if we make the choice to take part in this lifestyle then we accept certain risks, be it to our health or our privacy but i find 9 out of 10 posters send out such hypicritical replies... you say on profiles say safe sex a must but don't use them for bj's????? none of us can be 100% safe but please don't put on this holier than thou attitude when others comment about bareback sex.... yes regular health checks do have their place and should be encouraged but how many of you know where or who for definite your playmates have been with???

Hiding behind the sofa awaiting the barrage of abuse i'm about to get but it had to be said.

AND for the record no we do not give or receive oral with condoms, risk assessment and common sense prevail. we will admit to playing both with and without but hey at least we stand up and be counted on that one! go on i'm ready for it.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think most on here have said that they wouldnt wear one for oral.. and that its a calculated risk..

I have on many occassions said I prefer bareback..and with regular partners may decide to forego that.. but as oral sex is less risky than full sex, its the full sex that I am more careful with.

If we didnt have safe sex ticked.. I am sure the asks for no condom would be even higher than they are..

Its our choice if we play safe every time or not.. as it is with anyone that we would consider going without..

Everything in life is a risk.. but all you can do is do what is right for you.

I like to swallow and even if i get a facial will lick and suck fingers clean or be fed the cum.. MANY on here wont because of risks... along with personal reasons.. but its their reasons.

I have been asked once to do a bj with a condom on.. I refused.. he also wouldnt wank over my face and let me taste it.. so I said no.. as I would have got nothing from it.

Not sure why you had to come across quite so angry.. most have answered on bareback threads that they accept the risks of oral... but for some its not just about the std risks.. but something they personally want to keep for their partners.

Just my opinion of course..

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Last time i googled the risks involved then the consensus was that the risk is very slight.

Just ensure you have no mouth ulcers, bleeding gums etc and the risks are not too much. Of course the stomach acids will kill anything that is swallowed... and google results suggest that your best not to hold cum in your mouth for too long....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Last time i googled the risks involved then the consensus was that the risk is very slight.

S. "

but how long is to long... a min, 5 mins, 30 mins.. lol

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Last time i googled the risks involved then the consensus was that the risk is very slight.

but how long is to long... a min, 5 mins, 30 mins.. lol

Katie.x"

Gum clinic said to me about not brushing teeth before hand at least a couple of hours, the best thing is to rinse with corsodyl before and after meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

great news for us girls oopt'north,Durex have announced 2 new flavoured condoms, Lambrini and Greggs steak bakes.sory couldnt resist it,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

HIV infection risk

Because of growing concerns about the possibility of HIV transmission through the widespread practice of oral sex, the British Government’s Department of Health set up an expert group to report back on the matter. In broad summary, their main conclusions were:

HIV can be transmitted by oral sex, though this does not occur frequently

both fellatio and cunnilingus have been known to pass it on

both ‘receiving’ and ‘giving’ fellatio have been incriminated

oral sex is certainly much safer HIV-wise than rectal or anal sex

oral sex is probably safer than vaginal intercourse

ulcers in the mouth could increase the risk

oral sex is more risky than non-penetrative sex (eg mutual masturbation, kissing, etc)

during fellatio, if the man avoids ejaculation, it probably reduces the risk somewhat

in the case of cunnilingus, there may be an increased risk of transmission if the woman is menstruating

there's no evidence that mouthwashes could reduce the risk of infection

using condoms or ‘dental dams’ during oral sex could reduce the chance of infection, but not eliminate it.

You can see from the above that there is always some risk of transmission of HIV during oral sex, whatever precautions you take. However, you cannot get infected if your partner does not have the virus!

Sorry but had to laugh at the following "oral sex is probably safer than vaginal intercourse" is that the best the Department of Health can come up with, probably!!!

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