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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there an expectation of giving and receiving oral to a women when it's ffm?
I've experience of this in the past and find it too much of an intimate act in a group setting. Anything else is fair game though  |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"Iv found its expected by the male, id much rarther have a ff and olay with the woman rarther than put on a show for the guy to get his rocks off xx"
But surely the statement "putting on a show" implies he is doing nothing or very little?
Something I personally do not understand nor do I think I want to..It just goes against the grain if you like.
But you do need a couple with no jealousy issues at all..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds very unnatural to me surely there should always be more cocks than pussy. Women are far more capable of entertaining multiple partners. I am too old to keep 2 or more women happy I need a tag buddy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there an expectation of giving and receiving oral to a women when it's ffm?
I've experience of this in the past and find it too much of an intimate act in a group setting. Anything else is fair game though "
I think Mrs would be frustrated in this situation if oral between the ladies didn't happen, it's part of the dynamic. Same as if we were meeting a couple.
It's something we'd try to discuss before any play, just to make sure everyone is happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously it will depend massively on who you meet what their expectations are. We would like oral between ladies but it certainly wouldn't be an expectation nor would pretty much anything else. We have boundaries which we stick to but that is a bit different we think.
The only way you will know is to talk expectations and boundaries before meeting. Preferably not even horny as the acceptable level may well shift and you end up feeling uncomfortable afterwards. If someone has expectations you don't fancy don't meet them, simple as. As a single woman you have plenty of choice |
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Nothing should be expected from anybody when playing. Things should be discussed beforehand though to check everybody is going to be happy.
When we have had ffm's the girls have always given and received oral with each other, and we've all been fully involved. This also feels important to us as we always want to make sure the single lady is completely involved.
So, for us, we wouldn't play in the situation you describe, as it would feel more like an ffm with a straight woman.
Having said all that, you shouldn't change what you do based on other peoples methods. Play within your boundaries in a way that is right for you. Be open and honest about it, then you'll get the right match  xx
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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There shouldn't be any expectations on any type of meet beyond mutually respecting each other's boundaries and enjoying each other within that space.
Oral sex between all participants in FFM (and most sexual meets) is common though, so if it's too intimate for you you should really make that clear before meeting. People can then decide to meet you or not clearly understanding what your boundaries are. |
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