FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > Bi female Meets
Bi female Meets
Jump to: Newest in thread
we have been looking to meet a bi female for quite a while now, with little success (1 meet), not sure where we are going wrong!!!
We have decided to try meeting with couples for soft swap now - maybe the next best thing ??
can any1 give us a few tips please!!!!!!!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We have not managed to meet a fem for fun either and have met couples and done soft swao witht them. I found it still to be fun and so did my hubby 
What tips are you after though?
How to find couples to play with?
Hope you get lucky soon
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Profile looks fine from here!
Just takes time we have found.
Stick with it you'll find the right people. We started off exactly the same as you and moved on exactly the same as you. Each time we have a meet we seem to move our boundries abit more lol. Found it quite a surprise what we are actually comfortable with compared to what we thought before we started.
Still an on going quest for adventure though lol
Good luck hope you find the right people and have your fun.
D & S xxx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
When I was meeting couples as a single bi fem I didnt see any point to soft swap.
I found it slightly insulting, as if the sex I was having with the woman was somehow less intimate than what I would have the man. Kinda pointless in having him there really.
I gave up meeting couples after having two bad experiences. One where the husband wanted to meet me alone after I met them both.
And one where the woman would 'let' me have sex with the man any way but missionary even though this was a surprise to me and the bloke and hadn't been mentioned over coffee. . Both occasions made me feel kinda shit.
I have spoken to many single bi fems and they didn't see the poin either. Couples are much freakier than the single men who get a much harder slagging.
I would agree with the people who have said you should be patient. As it often takes a while and I was always seduced by humour, intellect and friendly banter.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
As a Bi Fem, esp when my singles profile was operational, I found that alot of couples were very surprised when they came accross my profile. As they have had issue meeting / finding single Bi Fems x
I dont think there is anything that you can really specify or change within your profile, I myself have found meeting other single Bi and for that matter genuine Bi Fems, really hard.
I think that like single women we are few and far between compared to the amount of single men / couples etc xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have met several couples who were only interested in soft swap, and have had some great meets, and made some great friends, who I now meet regularly and continue with their soft swap preferences. And every couple I meet have diff rules for their soft swap exp, Ive always played by them and always had a great exp x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"we have been looking to meet a bi female for quite a while now, with little success (1 meet), not sure where we are going wrong!!!
We have decided to try meeting with couples for soft swap now - maybe the next best thing ??
can any1 give us a few tips please!!!!!!! "
did you say there are bi femails on here lol.xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Do you think most bi fems are only looking to meet other women
Cause i never understand these posts, even tho my profile states i do not meet women off here i still get several messages from single fems on a weekly basis, yet people looking for them seem to have no luck!!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"we have been looking to meet a bi female for quite a while now, with little success (1 meet), not sure where we are going wrong!!!
We have decided to try meeting with couples for soft swap now - maybe the next best thing ??
can any1 give us a few tips please!!!!!!! "
If you look at this site there are (maybe an exaggeration) about 50 - 100 men for every single woman or couple. Truly single and bisexual women are a bit rare. You have to remember a single bi sexual woman has more choice on her than anybody else. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Well what me and my mrs do is look in the new fems section on ere and have found tones of single females to have fun with so try there guys and u may b succesfull hope that helps |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
we gave up trying with the single bifems but still receive mail from them. They are always young and gorgeous, very friendly and complimentary.... if it looks too good to be true... it usually is!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Profile looks fine from here!
Just takes time we have found.
Stick with it you'll find the right people. We started off exactly the same as you and moved on exactly the same as you. Each time we have a meet we seem to move our boundries abit more lol. Found it quite a surprise what we are actually comfortable with compared to what we thought before we started.
Still an on going quest for adventure though lol
D & S xxx"
thanks for good advice |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"When I was meeting couples as a single bi fem I didnt see any point to soft swap.
I found it slightly insulting, as if the sex I was having with the woman was somehow less intimate than what I would have the man. Kinda pointless in having him there really.
I gave up meeting couples after having two bad experiences. One where the husband wanted to meet me alone after I met them both.
And one where the woman would 'let' me have sex with the man any way but missionary even though this was a surprise to me and the bloke and hadn't been mentioned over coffee. . Both occasions made me feel kinda shit.
I have spoken to many single bi fems and they didn't see the poin either. Couples are much freakier than the single men who get a much harder slagging.
I would agree with the people who have said you should be patient. As it often takes a while and I was always seduced by humour, intellect and friendly banter.
"
hi, maybe our profile is a bit confusing cos we want more than soft swap with a bi-female 
for a bi-female to soft swap with a couple is very unfair on her and I'm not surprised you felt like you did
its just with other couples that we want soft swap |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Well what me and my mrs do is look in the new fems section on ere and have found tones of single females to have fun with so try there guys and u may b succesfull hope that helps"
we have tried that too but very few new females in our area, maybe Suffolk is very reserved LOL |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"we gave up trying with the single bifems but still receive mail from them. They are always young and gorgeous, very friendly and complimentary.... if it looks too good to be true... it usually is! "
Indeed, most won't even go on cam once you get chatting Fakes, I guess |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
hi, maybe our profile is a bit confusing cos we want more than soft swap with a bi-female
for a bi-female to soft swap with a couple is very unfair on her and I'm not surprised you felt like you did
its just with other couples that we want soft swap"
Aha - maybe there is something in this then, because you're profile otherwise seems fine to me.
I'm a bifem with limited experience with couples. Not because I'm not interested, just because I wonder if it's really worth it.
Maybe they just weren't great experiences, but not even being 'allowed' to give the guy oral and then being given a half-hearted wank by the woman I had just spent a good 25 mins going down on didn't really leave me feeling satisfied. It just felt like I was there to be a sex toy really...
I totally respect that couples have boundaries like anyone else - I just would like to know up front in the future as I would avoid soft swaps. So yes - being clearer about that might help a little.
But then, like other people are saying, it still takes time and patience.
Good luck. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"we gave up trying with the single bifems but still receive mail from them. They are always young and gorgeous, very friendly and complimentary.... if it looks too good to be true... it usually is! "
I always ask for a girl to girl chat straight off.. funny how many single women then vanish. Lol
Katie x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Ms here. I used to have a single profile on here and I stopped meeting couples as a single bi female due to the bad experiences which included a disastrous meet where the woman had a mardy fit about 5 mins into the session so I ended up getting dressed and leaving despite the guy begging me to stay! Big lesson learnt there. Other MFF have made me feel like a performing monkey to please the guy. I have had some great MFF and it's one of the best when the chemistry is right all round. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Miss Flirt here, when I was meeting off my singles page (Little Miss Foxy) I met regularly with couples ands have never had a bad experience. We each agreed and stated our rules and boundaries beforehand and we all had a great time.
Addmitedly not everyone will have the greatest exp perhaps but I found chatting to and finding the right couples have made for fantastic meets.
xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We've always found meeting single girls hard to do online.
Most dont reply (or are just fakes). Even if they do respond, they could be inundated with messages from single guys and other couples etc.
We generally look for girl-girl when looking for single girls, and if all comfortable then MFF and then depends on how it leads to what we do.
We have found more luck going to vanilla bars, and chatting/dancing with girls there. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *zzy45Woman
over a year ago
a village near the suffolk/essex border |
"we have been looking to meet a bi female for quite a while now, with little success (1 meet), not sure where we are going wrong!!!
We have decided to try meeting with couples for soft swap now - maybe the next best thing ??
can any1 give us a few tips please!!!!!!! "
Hi there
I am a genuine bi fem and in Suffolk so should not be too far from you.
There are a few of us about. Let me know if you would like to chat more.
Izzy
xxx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ms here. I used to have a single profile on here and I stopped meeting couples as a single bi female due to the bad experiences which included a disastrous meet where the woman had a mardy fit about 5 mins into the session so I ended up getting dressed and leaving despite the guy begging me to stay! Big lesson learnt there. Other MFF have made me feel like a performing monkey to please the guy. I have had some great MFF and it's one of the best when the chemistry is right all round."
This is so very True as a single Female When meeting a Couple you are there to Please both.They have to many rules and regulation.And as for myself i dont do nothing unless is Pleases me.That's just me and my Opinion of course |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"we gave up trying with the single bifems but still receive mail from them. They are always young and gorgeous, very friendly and complimentary.... if it looks too good to be true... it usually is!
Indeed, most won't even go on cam once you get chatting Fakes, I guess"
Thats not fair...I wont go on cam for anyone..I am not fake!! It makes me very uncomfortable and my point of view is why should i do something I am so uncomfotable with. If i am interested in the couple I would happily chat on the phone briefly and meet for coffee/drink first |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
" Thats not fair...I wont go on cam for anyone..I am not fake!! It makes me very uncomfortable and my point of view is why should i do something I am so uncomfotable with. If i am interested in the couple I would happily chat on the phone briefly and meet for coffee/drink first "
Fair Comment but you will be surprised how many not willing to cam or phone and disappear as soon as you ask for that. Sorry if you took offence but that happens a lot. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
" Thats not fair...I wont go on cam for anyone..I am not fake!! It makes me very uncomfortable and my point of view is why should i do something I am so uncomfotable with. If i am interested in the couple I would happily chat on the phone briefly and meet for coffee/drink first
Fair Comment but you will be surprised how many not willing to cam or phone and disappear as soon as you ask for that. Sorry if you took offence but that happens a lot."
I am sure it does, as it probably does with couples and single males too x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
