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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there actually many bi couples out there as only replies I seem to get when on the search is a bi guy who could bring his female friend n that's not for me I like the idea of playing with a proper couple |
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There are lots of guys who pretend they're fully bi but the reality of them enjoying cock or man on man action sorts the men from the boys. So couples looking for bi guys prefer the more secure option by finding guys who are comfortable and accomplished with men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wouldn't be interested in anyone insecure enough to write what you have in your profile.
Major reason we blocked single guys was the sheer amount saying they were bi but listed straight on profile.
Immediate alarm bells.
Seen it in clubs and heard it happen with friends; guys insecure about being bi have issues accepting they like cock or only do it to get at the female. Or they freak out mid play and expect the session to continue as a straight play scenario.
You strike me as no different and epitomise the reason we block single guys.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We wouldn't be interested in anyone insecure enough to write what you have in your profile.
Major reason we blocked single guys was the sheer amount saying they were bi but listed straight on profile.
Immediate alarm bells.
Seen it in clubs and heard it happen with friends; guys insecure about being bi have issues accepting they like cock or only do it to get at the female. Or they freak out mid play and expect the session to continue as a straight play scenario.
You strike me as no different and epitomise the reason we block single guys.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't get how you can presume I am like that "
Ok, I'll take a line from your profile:
"just cos it says bi-curious on my profile it doesn't mean I'm going to jump on the next male who comes along I do play straight and only bi when feeling comfortable with that person /people"
To us this reads so poorly. Feeling comfortable with a guy to play bi? So you play with women if you feel uncomfortable?
We only play with people we feel comfortable with. Full stop. Your only proviso seems to infer that the woman in a couple is fair game no matter what.
Accept your sexuality before posting about wanting to meet bi couples. You've already been caught out with having straight on your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think your twisting my words in my profile ,have I done something wrong to you ??? "
I agree with this, your words are being totally misunderstood.
I know exactly where you're coming from. |
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"There are lots of guys who pretend they're fully bi but the reality of them enjoying cock or man on man action sorts the men from the boys. So couples looking for bi guys prefer the more secure option by finding guys who are comfortable and accomplished with men. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And that also was referring to the single guys who pester other single guys "
So if only referring to single guys, why did you write couple straight after?
You keep making a fool of yourself.
Ask yourself why you have no meets or veris. Answer is right in front of your eyes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And that also was referring to the single guys who pester other single guys
So if only referring to single guys, why did you write couple straight after?
You keep making a fool of yourself.
Ask yourself why you have no meets or veris. Answer is right in front of your eyes. "
I think the answer is you have nothing better to do than pick fault with what people have wrote your twisting my words I have wrote , but I look at it this way if your on at me your leaving some other poor bugger who would probably take offence to what u say alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't get how you can presume I am like that
Ok, I'll take a line from your profile:
"just cos it says bi-curious on my profile it doesn't mean I'm going to jump on the next male who comes along I do play straight and only bi when feeling comfortable with that person /people"
To us this reads so poorly. Feeling comfortable with a guy to play bi? So you play with women if you feel uncomfortable?
We only play with people we feel comfortable with. Full stop. Your only proviso seems to infer that the woman in a couple is fair game no matter what.
Accept your sexuality before posting about wanting to meet bi couples. You've already been caught out with having straight on your profile. "
Exactly this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's a "proper couple"?
Meaning a genuine one due to the time wasters that pretend to be a couple x
But what's a "genuine couple" in your eyes?"
A couple which say who they are from the start no a single male pretending to be a couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We wouldn't be interested in anyone insecure enough to write what you have in your profile.
Major reason we blocked single guys was the sheer amount saying they were bi but listed straight on profile.
Immediate alarm bells.
Seen it in clubs and heard it happen with friends; guys insecure about being bi have issues accepting they like cock or only do it to get at the female. Or they freak out mid play and expect the session to continue as a straight play scenario.
You strike me as no different and epitomise the reason we block single guys.
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This ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs and I are both bi, but only meet at clubs so wouldn't agree to meet a single guy anyway. What we have found, and not generalising here, but a lot of guys say they are bi, but are only saying that to get at the woman. They will let a guy suck them. But wont reciprocate, or touch the guy back which in my eyes doesnt make you bi (what does? Who knows). I'm not saying thats you, but there will be a few on here that are that. Juat my 2 penneth worth though, for what its worth. If you aren't bi, surely letting a guy suck your cock is akin to tightrope walking....its great but don't look down?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs and I are both bi, but only meet at clubs so wouldn't agree to meet a single guy anyway. What we have found, and not generalising here, but a lot of guys say they are bi, but are only saying that to get at the woman. They will let a guy suck them. But wont reciprocate, or touch the guy back which in my eyes doesnt make you bi (what does? Who knows). I'm not saying thats you, but there will be a few on here that are that. Juat my 2 penneth worth though, for what its worth. If you aren't bi, surely letting a guy suck your cock is akin to tightrope walking....its great but don't look down? "
We find this too!  so annoying! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Unfortunately there's so many guys on here that claim to be bi but really are only after getting to the female. Witch then spoils it for the genuine ones. Or there only interested in oral with the guys. |
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"Mrs and I are both bi, but only meet at clubs so wouldn't agree to meet a single guy anyway. What we have found, and not generalising here, but a lot of guys say they are bi, but are only saying that to get at the woman. They will let a guy suck them. But wont reciprocate, or touch the guy back which in my eyes doesnt make you bi (what does? Who knows). I'm not saying thats you, but there will be a few on here that are that. Juat my 2 penneth worth though, for what its worth. If you aren't bi, surely letting a guy suck your cock is akin to tightrope walking....its great but don't look down? "
I've seen a lot of guys say that! Not so much on here, but do also get guys on another site who say they are bi but clearly just horny, have a wank and no longer bi or gay and just leave the site haha and if a guy gives me a blow job, well only kind to give him one back  |
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We tend to meet only in clubs these days - it's just too hard trying to arrange a meet with a single bi male who more often than not turns straight once he's sent a message. I feel for the single guys who are bi trying to get a meet with a couple but put yourself in our shoes for a few moments - hundreds of daft messages from guys who say they are bi but have straight in their profile! It just doesn't work for us. Good luck. I don't have any answers but good luck anyway. |
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"Straight, and then fab straight .
Best thing is go to a bi night at a club, see whats going on and dip in if invited, have a wank if not."
Agree with you there! Aplenty of clubs have bi nights and normally always a nice evening meeting like minded people be singles or couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Quite a few Bi couples don't advertise their Bi and have single guys blocked, that way they can choose who they want instead of being inundated with messages.
You will find some won't verify you either when you have met, then there are the open Bi couples who have a lot of guys to choose from so you need to stand out and have a little luck |
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Wow
Fully verified bi guy here.
Interesting thread. Seems like here are loads of so called straight guys in their profile so they don't get rejected by couples who don't like bi guys (but will most certainly unknowingly, have been with one) but send messages to me asking for meets.
So finding there are lots of bi couples who are not confident in guys who do put their profile as bi surprises me, but worth knowing.
And OP, if you are asking for feedback, you should not complain when you don't like what others tell you. It's just feedback, take it or leave it, at least they took the time to post their view.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow
Fully verified bi guy here.
Interesting thread. Seems like here are loads of so called straight guys in their profile so they don't get rejected by couples who don't like bi guys (but will most certainly unknowingly, have been with one) but send messages to me asking for meets.
So finding there are lots of bi couples who are not confident in guys who do put their profile as bi surprises me, but worth knowing.
And OP, if you are asking for feedback, you should not complain when you don't like what others tell you. It's just feedback, take it or leave it, at least they took the time to post their view.
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We can pick and choose at leisure so it's easy to root out the bad s. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a bi couple and proud.
its easy for us to sort the ones who say they are but aren't. Let the men play first and that sorts them straight out lol. also if it says straight on profile then no joy from us they at least have to be honest with there selves first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see why so many bi couple's block single guys our profile is clear on what we want but have so many messages of straight guys trying there luck or claiming they don't mind having there cock sucked by a guy. Seems really hard to get genuine fully bi males. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow
Fully verified bi guy here.
Interesting thread. Seems like here are loads of so called straight guys in their profile so they don't get rejected by couples who don't like bi guys (but will most certainly unknowingly, have been with one) but send messages to me asking for meets.
So finding there are lots of bi couples who are not confident in guys who do put their profile as bi surprises me, but worth knowing.
And OP, if you are asking for feedback, you should not complain when you don't like what others tell you. It's just feedback, take it or leave it, at least they took the time to post their view.
We can pick and choose at leisure so it's easy to root out the bad s. "
This. We are in no rush! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We echo most of what is said above . If your profile doesn't say bi , it's bi- bi from us . We removed all our photos to deflect the enormous number of straight profiled Men claiming to be bisexual in a message to various degrees .
The ones you meet who are suddenly straight again when we girls explain over a drink how we like to watch the guys fuck each other up the arse before we even remove our costs runs at around 98 percent |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs and I are both bi, but only meet at clubs so wouldn't agree to meet a single guy anyway. What we have found, and not generalising here, but a lot of guys say they are bi, but are only saying that to get at the woman. They will let a guy suck them. But wont reciprocate, or touch the guy back which in my eyes doesnt make you bi (what does? Who knows). I'm not saying thats you, but there will be a few on here that are that. Juat my 2 penneth worth though, for what its worth. If you aren't bi, surely letting a guy suck your cock is akin to tightrope walking....its great but don't look down? "
I find cocks sexy but what they're attached to does nowt for me. I'd be up for mutual cock play but kissing or grabbing that hairy skinny arse or snogging a bloke is a big nah. So what category do I live in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs and I are both bi, but only meet at clubs so wouldn't agree to meet a single guy anyway. What we have found, and not generalising here, but a lot of guys say they are bi, but are only saying that to get at the woman. They will let a guy suck them. But wont reciprocate, or touch the guy back which in my eyes doesnt make you bi (what does? Who knows). I'm not saying thats you, but there will be a few on here that are that. Juat my 2 penneth worth though, for what its worth. If you aren't bi, surely letting a guy suck your cock is akin to tightrope walking....its great but don't look down?
I find cocks sexy but what they're attached to does nowt for me. I'd be up for mutual cock play but kissing or grabbing that hairy skinny arse or snogging a bloke is a big nah. So what category do I live in "
You dont have to snog a guy, im not into kissing guys myself, but enjoy a mouthful or arseful of cock. If a guy turns you off that much, you must spend a lot of time with eyes closed otherwise yiu would see a fat, or skinny guy and be turned off. Or are you into tv/ts so its a cock on a feminine form? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs and I are both bi, but only meet at clubs so wouldn't agree to meet a single guy anyway. What we have found, and not generalising here, but a lot of guys say they are bi, but are only saying that to get at the woman. They will let a guy suck them. But wont reciprocate, or touch the guy back which in my eyes doesnt make you bi (what does? Who knows). I'm not saying thats you, but there will be a few on here that are that. Juat my 2 penneth worth though, for what its worth. If you aren't bi, surely letting a guy suck your cock is akin to tightrope walking....its great but don't look down?
I find cocks sexy but what they're attached to does nowt for me. I'd be up for mutual cock play but kissing or grabbing that hairy skinny arse or snogging a bloke is a big nah. So what category do I live in "
Probably have intimacy issues. Or fear of men in general. Or socially conditioned to think men are not sexual objects in themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have bi on our profile but we get very little response. Oh well, maybe 20 years ago we might have had more interest but we live in hope xx"
Maybe a couple of pictures of Paul might help, we find it quite off putting when couples only have pics of the female.
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