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what is it with some single guys

By *eicstwo OP Couple over a year ago

Castle Donnington

Hi all

We are quite new to this but have enjoyed our four mmf's

That we have done to date and are looking forward to more

After reading moans on here from single guys saying its hard for them to get a meet and from a couple who are looking to meet such guys we have found one reason they may find it so hard

We only play as a cpl and will never along but some seemingly nice guys that we would have been happy to meet have blown it for themselves when they start txting pushing to meet helen alone, even saying dave will never know

One even pledged undying love after a few txts lol

Guess if they want a girlfriend they should only contact single females or join a dating site, requests like that and any chance of a meet immediately dissapears

Of course, the guys we have met, who partake in the site in the manner its meant, we have had some great times with and can't wait to continue with more

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

sorry i have to say its not just some SINGLE guys . its married/attatched ones too lol !!! quite afew times husbands in cpls that play have contacting saying they wanna meet behind wifes/gf back . plus id think its fair to say its not only some of the guys ,some women will be as gulity of this too lol ! you cant just blanket this as some single guys ....there SOME PEOPLE who will cross bounderies and try and get meet with a married person behind the spouses back and spouses that thry and get meets on there own behind partners back .

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By *riendlymasseurMan over a year ago

birmingham Warwickshire &Worcestershire

I guess its same old think miority can ruin it for the majority! Personally I like the guy being there anyway and always respect people as I ask the same of them!

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By *eicstwo OP Couple over a year ago

Castle Donnington

I guess you are all right.

It hasn't put us off meeting, just meeting the guys that start asking that.

We enjoy sex and the thrill of meeting new ppl but have much more to our relationship so someone offering a quick bunk up it not going to tempt me away from dave, only ignore the other guy and stop any chance of a meet

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By *andy muncherMan over a year ago

Nottingham

it happens some times not here im cpls man a lot more fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

unfortunately there are some that don't know what swinging is about and because of that show a lack of respect!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once a couple say they only play together any guy who asks for a meet with just one person out of that couple shows no respect ! and they should be blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So many single guys on here are giving us honest & genuine guys a bad reputation.

In my opinion a single guy should consider himself lucky if he gets a meet with a couple. As this site is oversubscribed with single guys it is inevitable that there will be some who find it hard to comprehend that no means no and if a couple play as a couple then they ONLY play as a couple!

Respect Respect Respect - that's whats seriously lacking here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"sorry i have to say its not just some SINGLE guys . its married/attatched ones too lol !!! quite afew times husbands in cpls that play have contacting saying they wanna meet behind wifes/gf back . plus id think its fair to say its not only some of the guys ,some women will be as gulity of this too lol ! you cant just blanket this as some single guys ....there SOME PEOPLE who will cross bounderies and try and get meet with a married person behind the spouses back and spouses that thry and get meets on there own behind partners back . "

I agree with this. It's not just single men.

I don't see couples but I often get messages from the husband in a couple asking for a meet alone with me. I usually reply saying I'll need to speak to his missus on the phone to check it's ok. Funny how they go quiet after that.

There are a lot of married men ruining it for everyone else too...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I too get hit on my the male half of couples who state on their profile that they only play as a couple. Go figure

With the single guys ,well tbh I find there's those here who aren't swingers as such so really are not au fait with etiquette.

I don't have a problem with people being here and using the site how they want. It's easy to say thanks but no thanks and block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

have to agree, it's all about swinging and meeting new people and having fun not about having affairs

"unfortunately there are some that don't know what swinging is about and because of that show a lack of respect!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've heard all kinds of stories about this going on.... men/women trying to get one half of a couple to meet on their own or even declaring undying love for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all

These guys are scum.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

i am so glad this has not put you off!There are some fab single guy here ,i know a few

Why do they do it,cos just like anywhere there are chancers and idiots.Sadly the net just means they can easily contact you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi all

These guys are scum. "

That's too polite lol

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By *iteskinMan over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

lol i tend to meet couples who actually LIKE the mrs to meet me alone.

I NEVER ask for it though it usually happens after a few meets and always when they ask me.

I think there are a ton of guys on here who will NEVER meet a couple as they shit themselevs if they actually get an invite but will gladly try to meet the Mrs on their own.

Just block and delete them plenty good guys out here

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

There will always be chances and those that try to get more than what its all about, be it guys, girls, couples, or one half of the couple or the other: I class all those people as "unreliable" ie "do not touch with a barge pole".

Lets face it, I'm not gonna meet everyone (what a fantasy! all at the same time in one massive orgy!! yum!) so only bother with those that accept swinging for the fun simplicity that it is without wishing to complicate things.

If they want more, then they're not for me.

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By *histler21Man over a year ago

Ipswich

"I guess its same old think miority can ruin it for the majority! Personally I like the guy being there anyway and always respect people as I ask the same of them!"
I concur

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