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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've posted on here before about this, but, does anyone else on this forum have herpes?
I caught the virus a few years ago, and now no one will have sex with me.
I've had about 15 or so singles/couples on this site show interest in meeting (until I told them about my condition).
I got lucky when I first joined up, and one girl arranged to meet me - but since then it's just been rejection after rejection. I must have messaged about everyone in York.
What am I supposed to do? Even in real life, the last two girls I met on Tinder rejected me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Carry on being honest and take the necessary precautions. Display your responsible attitude towards the situation and who knows. Maybe one day..."
I've kind of lost hope at this point. I'm still a bit addicted to this site, but I'll probably delete my profile soon. |
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"I've posted on here before about this, but, does anyone else on this forum have herpes?
I caught the virus a few years ago, and now no one will have sex with me.
I've had about 15 or so singles/couples on this site show interest in meeting (until I told them about my condition).
I got lucky when I first joined up, and one girl arranged to meet me - but since then it's just been rejection after rejection. I must have messaged about everyone in York.
What am I supposed to do? Even in real life, the last two girls I met on Tinder rejected me.
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I feel your pain! Good on you to be so honest though |
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"I've posted on here before about this, but, does anyone else on this forum have herpes?
I caught the virus a few years ago, and now no one will have sex with me.
I've had about 15 or so
singles/couples on this site
show interest in meeting
(until I told them about my condition).
I got lucky when I first joined up, and one girl arranged to meet me - but since then it's just been rejection after rejection. I must have messaged about everyone in York.
What am I supposed to do? Even in real life, the last two girls I met on Tinder rejected me.
"
Professor George Kinghorn, a sexual health consultant in Sheffield, says: “… to be infected with a herpes simplex virus is a state of normality. We tend to make this into a big deal instead of saying that to be infected with herpes virus is something that happens to all adults, some with symptoms and some of us without.” Read more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've posted on here before about this, but, does anyone else on this forum have herpes?
I caught the virus a few years ago, and now no one will have sex with me.
I've had about 15 or so
singles/couples on this site
show interest in meeting
(until I told them about my condition).
I got lucky when I first joined up, and one girl arranged to meet me - but since then it's just been rejection after rejection. I must have messaged about everyone in York.
What am I supposed to do? Even in real life, the last two girls I met on Tinder rejected me.
Professor George Kinghorn, a sexual health consultant in Sheffield, says: “… to be infected with a herpes simplex virus is a state of normality. We tend to make this into a big deal instead of saying that to be infected with herpes virus is something that happens to all adults, some with symptoms and some of us without.” Read more."
This is true, but doesn't really impact on the way people actually feel towards it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which version of herpes?
I have both, oral and genital. "
But I'm right in saying you are not always symptomatic, so I cannot see the issue. There are plenty out there who don't even know they have it, or have it and don't say a word.
I think if you use protection, don't do it when you are symptomatic it isn't a problem.
Wish you well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Which version of herpes?
I have both, oral and genital.
But I'm right in saying you are not always symptomatic, so I cannot see the issue. There are plenty out there who don't even know they have it, or have it and don't say a word.
I think if you use protection, don't do it when you are symptomatic it isn't a problem.
Wish you well"
There isn't really much of a problem, except that peopel expect you to be honest about it. When you are honest, you get rejected. I could just lie, or not tell the whole truth, but I'm not sure that's the right thing to do.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which version of herpes?
I have both, oral and genital.
But I'm right in saying you are not always symptomatic, so I cannot see the issue. There are plenty out there who don't even know they have it, or have it and don't say a word.
I would suggest this is not the site for you. There are sites out there for people with herpes, maybe try that
I think if you use protection, don't do it when you are symptomatic it isn't a problem.
Wish you well
There isn't really much of a problem, except that peopel expect you to be honest about it. When you are honest, you get rejected. I could just lie, or not tell the whole truth, but I'm not sure that's the right thing to do.."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which version of herpes?
I have both, oral and genital. "
That's a tough gig, i'm sorry about that and hope you find someone willing to be educated about it. |
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"I've posted on here before about this, but, does anyone else on this forum have herpes?
I caught the virus a few years ago, and now no one will have sex with me.
I've had about 15 or so singles/couples on this site show interest in meeting (until I told them about my condition).
I got lucky when I first joined up, and one girl arranged to meet me - but since then it's just been rejection after rejection. I must have messaged about everyone in York.
What am I supposed to do? Even in real life, the last two girls I met on Tinder rejected me.
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The majority of the human population have herpes, why tell anyone, it's not an issue unless you have active leisions. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've posted on here before about this, but, does anyone else on this forum have herpes?
I caught the virus a few years ago, and now no one will have sex with me.
I've had about 15 or so singles/couples on this site show interest in meeting (until I told them about my condition).
I got lucky when I first joined up, and one girl arranged to meet me - but since then it's just been rejection after rejection. I must have messaged about everyone in York.
What am I supposed to do? Even in real life, the last two girls I met on Tinder rejected me.
The majority of the human population have herpes, why tell anyone, it's not an issue unless you have active leisions."
It can still pass on even without lesions. I have considered not telling people. The rejection is getting a bit much now |
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"I've posted on here before about this, but, does anyone else on this forum have herpes?
I caught the virus a few years ago, and now no one will have sex with me.
I've had about 15 or so singles/couples on this site show interest in meeting (until I told them about my condition).
I got lucky when I first joined up, and one girl arranged to meet me - but since then it's just been rejection after rejection. I must have messaged about everyone in York.
What am I supposed to do? Even in real life, the last two girls I met on Tinder rejected me.
The majority of the human population have herpes, why tell anyone, it's not an issue unless you have active leisions.
It can still pass on even without lesions. I have considered not telling people. The rejection is getting a bit much now"
Those that have rejected you will have it. Just stop admitting it! |
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