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Am I doing something wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What do you have to do or say to get a meet on this website ?

I've not gone down the dirty sleezy ad route, but still nothing. I've had a cancellation for tonight & I'm gutted.

Any help appreciated, I didn't think I was that bad lol !!!!!!

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By *rimo4uMan over a year ago

north kensington w10

"What do you have to do or say to get a meet on this website ?

I've not gone down the dirty sleezy ad route, but still nothing. I've had a cancellation for tonight & I'm gutted.

Any help appreciated, I didn't think I was that bad lol !!!!!!"

Not really the right forum subject for advice mate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do you have to do or say to get a meet on this website ?

I've not gone down the dirty sleezy ad route, but still nothing. I've had a cancellation for tonight & I'm gutted.

Any help appreciated, I didn't think I was that bad lol !!!!!!"

Your profile is not attractive. It says very little about you and contains only one photo which is of your member - and that has a toilet in the background.

Your use of grammar does not reflect your claim to be educated. Your lack of explanation of "cannot accommodate" will lead people to suspect that you are attached which will put many off.

Read your profile, OP. Does it sparkle? Is it likely to attract a lady? Or will it repel? Does it show you at your best? You are a salesman but you don't seem to be selling yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have to agree with the poster above. Profile is not attractive, says very little about you and the only pic is your cock. It will never stand out on here no matter how good your opening messages are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it screams married which will put a lot off...and you leave the seat up...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Change your profile pic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First turn off is you have just one pic. Second turn off is the one pic is your cock.

I think we all know you have a cock. I know it's not always easy to have a face pic. I don't have any set to public or friends only but do have some to send in PM. At least give a full body shot from the neck down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You tried begging ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

change you profile name!! one of the worst I've seen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know about that " the cum guzzler" takes some beating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do you have to do or say to get a meet on this website ?

I've not gone down the dirty sleezy ad route, but still nothing. I've had a cancellation for tonight & I'm gutted.

Any help appreciated, I didn't think I was that bad lol !!!!!!"

What's dirty and sleazy about an ad?

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By *lowercandyWoman over a year ago

Lancashire

"What do you have to do or say to get a meet on this website ?

I've not gone down the dirty sleezy ad route, but still nothing. I've had a cancellation for tonight & I'm gutted.

Any help appreciated, I didn't think I was that bad lol !!!!!!

Your profile is not attractive. It says very little about you and contains only one photo which is of your member - and that has a toilet in the background.

Your use of grammar does not reflect your claim to be educated. Your lack of explanation of "cannot accommodate" will lead people to suspect that you are attached which will put many off.

Read your profile, OP. Does it sparkle? Is it likely to attract a lady? Or will it repel? Does it show you at your best? You are a salesman but you don't seem to be selling yourself."

This

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Not the usual kind of guy I've seen on these sites" smacks of conceit and arrogance...not a good look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do you have to do or say to get a meet on this website ?"

The literal answer is to be, or offer, something better than the other 50 guys who've today have messaged the person you are messaging. You are a sales manager so presumably you know about selling. What is your USP (uique selling point)?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op. nobody has the magic word or the secret code. You attract somebody or you don't, but it's up to you to work it out. Your old enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its pretty much all been covered 1 cock pic and a profile that says nothing apart from you work in sales and you wonder why on this site inundated with men your not getting meets.... Couldnt possibly work out why

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do you have to do or say to get a meet on this website ?

I've not gone down the dirty sleezy ad route, but still nothing. I've had a cancellation for tonight & I'm gutted.

Any help appreciated, I didn't think I was that bad lol !!!!!!"

Your whole profile screams no to us. The pic, the words, everything. You need to revisit the it and make it more attractive to those you want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I seem to think that trashing other guys on this site will make women like you.

How about you rewrite your profile without suggesting that tattoos and piercings are bad, and that other guys here have diseases and are dirty?

Also your profile reads like you are married. Every time I read 'discrete' and see the words 'cannot accommodate' you need to do some real work to make me think you're above board.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lose the cock pic

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A) don't like the cock

B) I prefer the toilet in the back ground

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With all due respect your profile comes across as very different from how you seem to think of yourself. You say you haven't gone down the 'dirty sleezy route' and that you are 'not the usual type of guy you get on these websites'. But I look at your profile, I see yet another picture of an unremarkable cock, and I think 'yuck'. And I think yet another dirty sleezy guy who thinks so little of women that all they need is a picture of a dick to tempt them into bed. If you think that you are better than most guys on Fab, then you should demonstrate that in your profile. There are some super guys out there who get regular fun, it doesn't have to be that hard.

Mrs

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

....."it doesn't have to be that hard....."

But it helps.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"....."it doesn't have to be that hard....."

But it helps....."

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By *eliciousladyWoman over a year ago