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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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if someone had a lot of tattoos but didn't tell you about them, how would you feel when you found out?
i know some people hate them, if you really liked someone do you think you could over look them or would you feel conned/disgusted or something else negative?
i love my tattoos. after years of abuse and looking after everyone else before myself my tattoos started me onto a road of actually looking after myself and giving a shit.
but i'm finding most men are treating me like that's all i am and i'm maybe some fetish attraction for them, or even i'm not a person coz of them.
it's seriously pissing me off and i'm considering just hiding them and then when they make some effort to treat me like a human being and not some fetish then they can see them. i don't feel i'm being deceptive doing this but i wonder if other people would understand why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's up to you to reveal what you wish.
If you find your ink is overshadowing you as a person initially, then perhaps you should save them for later.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i'm thinking so too, thanks. and the weather is getting cold so i can cover them up no problem when meeting.
thought someone had nicked your pics then, didn't know you'd changed your name.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck other people.
If people don't accept you for you, then really are their opinions worth worrying about?
Get yourself to tattoo conventions, great people no judgemental fools.
Enjoy your body and decorate it how you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could say the same about my boobs. It's a feature that's very obvious just like your tattoos. But if I hid mine and a guy liked little boobs I'd disappoint him. Just like if you met a guy who didn't like tattoos. You are who you are and I suppose you may just have to sort the wheat from the chaff so to speak |
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By *albec26Man
over a year ago
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We both have a few tatts and we so want more but our little kiddiewinkles cost us an arm and leg (sleeve). Tattoos are memories and how we see ourselves and the world around us. We had this discussion the other night about how tattoos are the dots of our lives and how we join them together.
Personally we feel tattoos makes a person, tells their story. Its refreshing and appealing. They can be sexy but certainly we don't see it as a fetish...can we buy you a drink? Lol Jay & Kat xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i don't mind if people don't like them, i don't want them to be the only thing they like about me. sick of being treated like a piece of meat i guess. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We both have a few tatts and we so want more but our little kiddiewinkles cost us an arm and leg (sleeve). Tattoos are memories and how we see ourselves and the world around us. We had this discussion the other night about how tattoos are the dots of our lives and how we join them together.
Personally we feel tattoos makes a person, tells their story. Its refreshing and appealing. They can be sexy but certainly we don't see it as a fetish...can we buy you a drink? Lol Jay & Kat xx"
haha sure. thanks for making me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i'm thinking so too, thanks. and the weather is getting cold so i can cover them up no problem when meeting.
thought someone had nicked your pics then, didn't know you'd changed your name. "
No worries. I have my reasons for the name change.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I live close to you, your pictures, updates etc come through to my updates. I've often thought 'ooh I like her tattoos, I wonder if there are stories behind them' but they neither attract or detract me solely from you or any other person with tattoos. I'm currently working with upper management at work in looking at visible tattoos in the work place.
From your pictures,profile etc I'd say your tattoos are part of you, without defining you and good for you! |
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well as i tend not to get naked i could probably get away with it by keeping a long sleeve dress on.. the make up would hide my spider web face tattoo.. but i generally let people know if they don't like it they can fuck off..
ohh I'm joking about the spider web tattoo by the way.. its actually a scorpion..  |
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I have tattoos too, but I don't think guys are either meeting or not meeting me because of them. I guess you feel the way you do because of comments made. I am puzzled as it's never been the primary subject of discussion between men and me. I "fuzz" mine out as my personal style is to keep my profile very discreet, would you feel differently if you did that too do you think? I must say you look tattooed and proud and it would be a shame if you changed your profile because of this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have tattoos too, but I don't think guys are either meeting or not meeting me because of them. I guess you feel the way you do because of comments made. I am puzzled as it's never been the primary subject of discussion between men and me. I "fuzz" mine out as my personal style is to keep my profile very discreet, would you feel differently if you did that too do you think? I must say you look tattooed and proud and it would be a shame if you changed your profile because of this. "
i am proud, like i said it was the start of me caring about myself really.
i've tried photoshopping them out but no good at it. i could just use pics and like others have said cover them up with clothes.
it's pretty much the main conversation i have with anyone and it's driving me mad. hardly any guys talk about anything else. |
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"I have tattoos too, but I don't think guys are either meeting or not meeting me because of them. I guess you feel the way you do because of comments made. I am puzzled as it's never been the primary subject of discussion between men and me. I "fuzz" mine out as my personal style is to keep my profile very discreet, would you feel differently if you did that too do you think? I must say you look tattooed and proud and it would be a shame if you changed your profile because of this.
i am proud, like i said it was the start of me caring about myself really.
i've tried photoshopping them out but no good at it. i could just use pics and like others have said cover them up with clothes.
it's pretty much the main conversation i have with anyone and it's driving me mad. hardly any guys talk about anything else."
Not being funny here but if you get tattoos don't whine about people's reaction to them.
You shouldn't get tattoos if you feel you are gonna be affected by reactions in any form of life process by them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have tattoos too, but I don't think guys are either meeting or not meeting me because of them. I guess you feel the way you do because of comments made. I am puzzled as it's never been the primary subject of discussion between men and me. I "fuzz" mine out as my personal style is to keep my profile very discreet, would you feel differently if you did that too do you think? I must say you look tattooed and proud and it would be a shame if you changed your profile because of this.
i am proud, like i said it was the start of me caring about myself really.
i've tried photoshopping them out but no good at it. i could just use pics and like others have said cover them up with clothes.
it's pretty much the main conversation i have with anyone and it's driving me mad. hardly any guys talk about anything else."
They all just talk about my legs  |
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"I have tattoos too, but I don't think guys are either meeting or not meeting me because of them. I guess you feel the way you do because of comments made. I am puzzled as it's never been the primary subject of discussion between men and me. I "fuzz" mine out as my personal style is to keep my profile very discreet, would you feel differently if you did that too do you think? I must say you look tattooed and proud and it would be a shame if you changed your profile because of this.
i am proud, like i said it was the start of me caring about myself really.
i've tried photoshopping them out but no good at it. i could just use pics and like others have said cover them up with clothes.
it's pretty much the main conversation i have with anyone and it's driving me mad. hardly any guys talk about anything else."
You'll have to "manage" their conversations lovely. Steer them in a different direction, try, "so, anyway..." Try the weather, or what's their fav position |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have tattoos too, but I don't think guys are either meeting or not meeting me because of them. I guess you feel the way you do because of comments made. I am puzzled as it's never been the primary subject of discussion between men and me. I "fuzz" mine out as my personal style is to keep my profile very discreet, would you feel differently if you did that too do you think? I must say you look tattooed and proud and it would be a shame if you changed your profile because of this.
i am proud, like i said it was the start of me caring about myself really.
i've tried photoshopping them out but no good at it. i could just use pics and like others have said cover them up with clothes.
it's pretty much the main conversation i have with anyone and it's driving me mad. hardly any guys talk about anything else.
You'll have to "manage" their conversations lovely. Steer them in a different direction, try, "so, anyway..." Try the weather, or what's their fav position "
i've knd of mastered the art of making my tattoos sound as boring as possible by rolling out the answers to all the cliches before they ask more questions lol, they run out of things to say then i think. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have tattoos too, but I don't think guys are either meeting or not meeting me because of them. I guess you feel the way you do because of comments made. I am puzzled as it's never been the primary subject of discussion between men and me. I "fuzz" mine out as my personal style is to keep my profile very discreet, would you feel differently if you did that too do you think? I must say you look tattooed and proud and it would be a shame if you changed your profile because of this.
i am proud, like i said it was the start of me caring about myself really.
i've tried photoshopping them out but no good at it. i could just use pics and like others have said cover them up with clothes.
it's pretty much the main conversation i have with anyone and it's driving me mad. hardly any guys talk about anything else.
Not being funny here but if you get tattoos don't whine about people's reaction to them.
You shouldn't get tattoos if you feel you are gonna be affected by reactions in any form of life process by them."
i don't like to feel like i'm only my tattoos though. a lot of guys message me and even the ones i fancy can put me off them just acting like that's all i am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have tattoos too, but I don't think guys are either meeting or not meeting me because of them. I guess you feel the way you do because of comments made. I am puzzled as it's never been the primary subject of discussion between men and me. I "fuzz" mine out as my personal style is to keep my profile very discreet, would you feel differently if you did that too do you think? I must say you look tattooed and proud and it would be a shame if you changed your profile because of this.
i am proud, like i said it was the start of me caring about myself really.
i've tried photoshopping them out but no good at it. i could just use pics and like others have said cover them up with clothes.
it's pretty much the main conversation i have with anyone and it's driving me mad. hardly any guys talk about anything else.
Not being funny here but if you get tattoos don't whine about people's reaction to them.
You shouldn't get tattoos if you feel you are gonna be affected by reactions in any form of life process by them.
i don't like to feel like i'm only my tattoos though. a lot of guys message me and even the ones i fancy can put me off them just acting like that's all i am."
I think it's nothing to do with the tattoos and more about your feelings about you maybe from what you've said.
If your comfortable with yourself people's opinions of your self worth or image would not matter one jot.
I'm covered in ink, I couldn't give two shits if people see me as "just a tattoo" that's their problem not mine, I wouldn't bother trying to change their minds. I'd just say "fuck you" and find someone less focused in how much body art I have who sees me for me.
Miss met me and I had a lot of ink, not so much as now and I don't think she saw "just tattoos" because I didn't present myself as a person who was JUST a person with tattoos.
I was a funny, gregarious, interesting and entertaining guy who just happened to have lots of body ink.
Not to mention a Greek godlike body and looks that make brad Pitt look like sloth from the goonies
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have tattoos too, but I don't think guys are either meeting or not meeting me because of them. I guess you feel the way you do because of comments made. I am puzzled as it's never been the primary subject of discussion between men and me. I "fuzz" mine out as my personal style is to keep my profile very discreet, would you feel differently if you did that too do you think? I must say you look tattooed and proud and it would be a shame if you changed your profile because of this.
i am proud, like i said it was the start of me caring about myself really.
i've tried photoshopping them out but no good at it. i could just use pics and like others have said cover them up with clothes.
it's pretty much the main conversation i have with anyone and it's driving me mad. hardly any guys talk about anything else.
Not being funny here but if you get tattoos don't whine about people's reaction to them.
You shouldn't get tattoos if you feel you are gonna be affected by reactions in any form of life process by them.
i don't like to feel like i'm only my tattoos though. a lot of guys message me and even the ones i fancy can put me off them just acting like that's all i am.
I think it's nothing to do with the tattoos and more about your feelings about you maybe from what you've said.
If your comfortable with yourself people's opinions of your self worth or image would not matter one jot.
I'm covered in ink, I couldn't give two shits if people see me as "just a tattoo" that's their problem not mine, I wouldn't bother trying to change their minds. I'd just say "fuck you" and find someone less focused in how much body art I have who sees me for me.
Miss met me and I had a lot of ink, not so much as now and I don't think she saw "just tattoos" because I didn't present myself as a person who was JUST a person with tattoos.
I was a funny, gregarious, interesting and entertaining guy who just happened to have lots of body ink.
Not to mention a Greek godlike body and looks that make brad Pitt look like sloth from the goonies
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i'm trying to meet these people for a relationship. so hoping they see me as something more than my looks, although i know looks are important i don't want to be with someone shallow.
i love my tattoos, got them for me and not to amuse people with a fetish for them or who think i'm easy coz of them, or idk what else people think. it's hard, idk if people in general are shallow as fuck and all users but i like to think they are not - i'm struggling to find these people and it's causing me serious trust issues now. i will keep trusting people but i'm sick of being hurt and lied to and used non-consensually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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don't like tattoos on hands or neck of a lass ,I have four two upper arms and two on my chest always have them on show in chat rooms ,never had a adverse comment must be a men with womens tattoos |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Free relationship advice from a tattoo magazine.
Don't try to start a relationship with anyone you may worry might see you in a different light due to body art |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Free relationship advice from a tattoo magazine.
Don't try to start a relationship with anyone you may worry might see you in a different light due to body art "
i think that's everyone, no idea any more. am sure i'm paranoid now lol.
i know it takes months for a relationship to develop. so i suppose hiding them then revealing maybe after a few dates might be better? or reveal them on a first date even?
that way i know they were genuinely interested. i still won't fuck them but will wear something that shows them off a little so they can tell. |
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"I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
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i think women really aren't as shallow as men, that's maybe why?
i know that's a generalisation but i really feel it's true. |
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We love tattoos (even though we domt have many) but it shouldn't effect how people treat you that's a bit shit.
I'm not sure what people's issues are with them. You're ink doesn't change you as a person. It certainly acts as a good talking point though 8n our experience. |
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"I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
i think women really aren't as shallow as men, that's maybe why?
i know that's a generalisation but i really feel it's true."
Possibly. It is a bit tar and brush but it's commonly said that men are more visual creatures so it may tie in with that.
Monkey see monkey want.
Some monkeys like tattoos.
I dunno. It's a theory. Maybe i'm to shallow to grasp it |
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"I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
i think women really aren't as shallow as men, that's maybe why?
i know that's a generalisation but i really feel it's true.
Possibly. It is a bit tar and brush but it's commonly said that men are more visual creatures so it may tie in with that.
Monkey see monkey want.
Some monkeys like tattoos.
I dunno. It's a theory. Maybe i'm to shallow to grasp it "
might get them on my face then guys won't talk about them then coz they daren't, haha.
i suppose if guys are mentioning them as my only feature it helps them out as shallow and rules them out straight away as having potential. |
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"I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
i think women really aren't as shallow as men, that's maybe why?
i know that's a generalisation but i really feel it's true.
Possibly. It is a bit tar and brush but it's commonly said that men are more visual creatures so it may tie in with that.
Monkey see monkey want.
Some monkeys like tattoos.
I dunno. It's a theory. Maybe i'm to shallow to grasp it
might get them on my face then guys won't talk about them then coz they daren't, haha.
i suppose if guys are mentioning them as my only feature it helps them out as shallow and rules them out straight away as having potential."
Like just a straight mike tyson number?
That could go either way 
This is is though..if they focus on them..that's a filter for you if it's not what you want from a person.
We put people through endless filters and barely register doing it so i guess this is one that your concious of |
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"I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
i think women really aren't as shallow as men, that's maybe why?
i know that's a generalisation but i really feel it's true.
Possibly. It is a bit tar and brush but it's commonly said that men are more visual creatures so it may tie in with that.
Monkey see monkey want.
Some monkeys like tattoos.
I dunno. It's a theory. Maybe i'm to shallow to grasp it
might get them on my face then guys won't talk about them then coz they daren't, haha.
i suppose if guys are mentioning them as my only feature it helps them out as shallow and rules them out straight away as having potential.
Like just a straight mike tyson number?
That could go either way
This is is though..if they focus on them..that's a filter for you if it's not what you want from a person.
We put people through endless filters and barely register doing it so i guess this is one that your concious of "
i was thinking more kat von d...
yeah, i'll try and see the positive in this.
i think i'm also pretty upset at just how many are shallow also. and liars. |
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"I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
i think women really aren't as shallow as men, that's maybe why?
i know that's a generalisation but i really feel it's true.
Possibly. It is a bit tar and brush but it's commonly said that men are more visual creatures so it may tie in with that.
Monkey see monkey want.
Some monkeys like tattoos.
I dunno. It's a theory. Maybe i'm to shallow to grasp it
might get them on my face then guys won't talk about them then coz they daren't, haha.
i suppose if guys are mentioning them as my only feature it helps them out as shallow and rules them out straight away as having potential.
Like just a straight mike tyson number?
That could go either way
This is is though..if they focus on them..that's a filter for you if it's not what you want from a person.
We put people through endless filters and barely register doing it so i guess this is one that your concious of
i was thinking more kat von d...
yeah, i'll try and see the positive in this.
i think i'm also pretty upset at just how many are shallow also. and liars."
No familiar...but i'll google them 
There's usually a positive..or one you can apply, in alot of things
I suppose if guys are gonna operate at base level and not be entirely honest it's gonna occur on a site like this with the whiff of sex in the air. It's a pretty powerful driver. One of the base instincts..
Buyer beware unfortunately  |
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"I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
i think women really aren't as shallow as men, that's maybe why?
i know that's a generalisation but i really feel it's true.
Possibly. It is a bit tar and brush but it's commonly said that men are more visual creatures so it may tie in with that.
Monkey see monkey want.
Some monkeys like tattoos.
I dunno. It's a theory. Maybe i'm to shallow to grasp it
might get them on my face then guys won't talk about them then coz they daren't, haha.
i suppose if guys are mentioning them as my only feature it helps them out as shallow and rules them out straight away as having potential.
Like just a straight mike tyson number?
That could go either way
This is is though..if they focus on them..that's a filter for you if it's not what you want from a person.
We put people through endless filters and barely register doing it so i guess this is one that your concious of
i was thinking more kat von d...
yeah, i'll try and see the positive in this.
i think i'm also pretty upset at just how many are shallow also. and liars.
No familiar...but i'll google them
There's usually a positive..or one you can apply, in alot of things
I suppose if guys are gonna operate at base level and not be entirely honest it's gonna occur on a site like this with the whiff of sex in the air. It's a pretty powerful driver. One of the base instincts..
Buyer beware unfortunately "
surprised you've not heard of kat.
i usually see the positives but today i was almost regretting getting my lovely tattoos coz of most mens attitudes. i feel better now though, s out the shallow as soon as they speak although some of them hide it well, which i kind of like if they weren't liars. |
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"I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
i think women really aren't as shallow as men, that's maybe why?
i know that's a generalisation but i really feel it's true.
Possibly. It is a bit tar and brush but it's commonly said that men are more visual creatures so it may tie in with that.
Monkey see monkey want.
Some monkeys like tattoos.
I dunno. It's a theory. Maybe i'm to shallow to grasp it
might get them on my face then guys won't talk about them then coz they daren't, haha.
i suppose if guys are mentioning them as my only feature it helps them out as shallow and rules them out straight away as having potential.
Like just a straight mike tyson number?
That could go either way
This is is though..if they focus on them..that's a filter for you if it's not what you want from a person.
We put people through endless filters and barely register doing it so i guess this is one that your concious of
i was thinking more kat von d...
yeah, i'll try and see the positive in this.
i think i'm also pretty upset at just how many are shallow also. and liars.
No familiar...but i'll google them
There's usually a positive..or one you can apply, in alot of things
I suppose if guys are gonna operate at base level and not be entirely honest it's gonna occur on a site like this with the whiff of sex in the air. It's a pretty powerful driver. One of the base instincts..
Buyer beware unfortunately
surprised you've not heard of kat.
i usually see the positives but today i was almost regretting getting my lovely tattoos coz of most mens attitudes. i feel better now though, s out the shallow as soon as they speak although some of them hide it well, which i kind of like if they weren't liars. "
Awww nah...don't regret them. Your obviously very attatched to them (excuse the inadvertent and shit joke) and it's nobody's place to spoil that.
Look at it as a free sharpening of your own wits
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"I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
i think women really aren't as shallow as men, that's maybe why?
i know that's a generalisation but i really feel it's true.
Possibly. It is a bit tar and brush but it's commonly said that men are more visual creatures so it may tie in with that.
Monkey see monkey want.
Some monkeys like tattoos.
I dunno. It's a theory. Maybe i'm to shallow to grasp it
might get them on my face then guys won't talk about them then coz they daren't, haha.
i suppose if guys are mentioning them as my only feature it helps them out as shallow and rules them out straight away as having potential.
Like just a straight mike tyson number?
That could go either way
This is is though..if they focus on them..that's a filter for you if it's not what you want from a person.
We put people through endless filters and barely register doing it so i guess this is one that your concious of
i was thinking more kat von d...
yeah, i'll try and see the positive in this.
i think i'm also pretty upset at just how many are shallow also. and liars.
No familiar...but i'll google them
There's usually a positive..or one you can apply, in alot of things
I suppose if guys are gonna operate at base level and not be entirely honest it's gonna occur on a site like this with the whiff of sex in the air. It's a pretty powerful driver. One of the base instincts..
Buyer beware unfortunately
surprised you've not heard of kat.
i usually see the positives but today i was almost regretting getting my lovely tattoos coz of most mens attitudes. i feel better now though, s out the shallow as soon as they speak although some of them hide it well, which i kind of like if they weren't liars.
Awww nah...don't regret them. Your obviously very attatched to them (excuse the inadvertent and shit joke) and it's nobody's place to spoil that.
Look at it as a free sharpening of your own wits
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"I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
i think women really aren't as shallow as men, that's maybe why?
i know that's a generalisation but i really feel it's true.
Possibly. It is a bit tar and brush but it's commonly said that men are more visual creatures so it may tie in with that.
Monkey see monkey want.
Some monkeys like tattoos.
I dunno. It's a theory. Maybe i'm to shallow to grasp it
might get them on my face then guys won't talk about them then coz they daren't, haha.
i suppose if guys are mentioning them as my only feature it helps them out as shallow and rules them out straight away as having potential.
Like just a straight mike tyson number?
That could go either way
This is is though..if they focus on them..that's a filter for you if it's not what you want from a person.
We put people through endless filters and barely register doing it so i guess this is one that your concious of
i was thinking more kat von d...
yeah, i'll try and see the positive in this.
i think i'm also pretty upset at just how many are shallow also. and liars.
No familiar...but i'll google them
There's usually a positive..or one you can apply, in alot of things
I suppose if guys are gonna operate at base level and not be entirely honest it's gonna occur on a site like this with the whiff of sex in the air. It's a pretty powerful driver. One of the base instincts..
Buyer beware unfortunately
surprised you've not heard of kat.
i usually see the positives but today i was almost regretting getting my lovely tattoos coz of most mens attitudes. i feel better now though, s out the shallow as soon as they speak although some of them hide it well, which i kind of like if they weren't liars.
Awww nah...don't regret them. Your obviously very attatched to them (excuse the inadvertent and shit joke) and it's nobody's place to spoil that.
Look at it as a free sharpening of your own wits
i'm never gonna have wits. it's not in my nature. "
Then you have good front.
You don't come across as stupid on here |
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"I had more done today
I'm always up front on mine i think and i dunno if it works or not but i like to think people can decide on that one up front so they can reply/mesaage accordingly.
I've never had them be the subject of conversation for long either positively or negatively really. They get mentioned from time to time is all.
I don't care who doesn't like them but i've never wondered how id feel if someone went the other way and made a big thing of them.
Interesting post
i think women really aren't as shallow as men, that's maybe why?
i know that's a generalisation but i really feel it's true.
Possibly. It is a bit tar and brush but it's commonly said that men are more visual creatures so it may tie in with that.
Monkey see monkey want.
Some monkeys like tattoos.
I dunno. It's a theory. Maybe i'm to shallow to grasp it
might get them on my face then guys won't talk about them then coz they daren't, haha.
i suppose if guys are mentioning them as my only feature it helps them out as shallow and rules them out straight away as having potential.
Like just a straight mike tyson number?
That could go either way
This is is though..if they focus on them..that's a filter for you if it's not what you want from a person.
We put people through endless filters and barely register doing it so i guess this is one that your concious of
i was thinking more kat von d...
yeah, i'll try and see the positive in this.
i think i'm also pretty upset at just how many are shallow also. and liars.
No familiar...but i'll google them
There's usually a positive..or one you can apply, in alot of things
I suppose if guys are gonna operate at base level and not be entirely honest it's gonna occur on a site like this with the whiff of sex in the air. It's a pretty powerful driver. One of the base instincts..
Buyer beware unfortunately
surprised you've not heard of kat.
i usually see the positives but today i was almost regretting getting my lovely tattoos coz of most mens attitudes. i feel better now though, s out the shallow as soon as they speak although some of them hide it well, which i kind of like if they weren't liars.
Awww nah...don't regret them. Your obviously very attatched to them (excuse the inadvertent and shit joke) and it's nobody's place to spoil that.
Look at it as a free sharpening of your own wits
i'm never gonna have wits. it's not in my nature.
Then you have good front.
You don't come across as stupid on here "
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I like talking about tattoos. They nay not have a meaning but they all have a story.
each to there own I guess.
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would not mind find out theyre heavilly tattood when they arrive |
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It wouldn't bother me at all. I don't ask for naked photos of people and I don't expect to receive them before I meet someone. I don't send naked photos either - so people may well be surprised when they see my tattoos for the first time.
I obviously have my arm tattoo on display on my profile picture, and that should be enough to put off people that don't like tattoos. |
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About objectification - I hate that too. It's the entire reason that I don't send topless/naked pictures of myself to people. I don't want people to meet me because of my body, I want people to meet me because they think we're going to have great fun together. Fetishising the fact I have a particular type of body (or decoration) really bothers me. I want people to meet me because they like *me*, not because of the body I have. |
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"don't like tattoos on hands or neck of a lass ,I have four two upper arms and two on my chest always have them on show in chat rooms ,never had a adverse comment must be a men with womens tattoos "
Why did you need the need to comment on this thread about your personal preferences for what you don't like on women? Nobody cares... |
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you don't want people to talk about the tattoos, maybe change your public pics to shots that don't show as many tats? You put them out there and people will be interested in them.
My personal hate at the moment is people assuming I am unintelligent because I am heavily tattooed. I had it in a pub a couple of weeks ago. They spoke to me terrible and assumed I was on the dole or something. I responded with 'you are obviously misinformed about people with tattoos as these babies cost more than what Job Seekers Allowance could get me'. The guys response was 'maybe a checkout girl then?'. I said 'actually I worked as a checkout girl to help fund my Masters Degree'. Haha Tool!
Don't worry about what people think or if they just see your tats. Just enjoy how you feel about yourself and if you don't want to talk about them, then don't! It's simple really xx |
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" you don't want people to talk about the tattoos, maybe change your public pics to shots that don't show as many tats? You put them out there and people will be interested in them.
My personal hate at the moment is people assuming I am unintelligent because I am heavily tattooed. I had it in a pub a couple of weeks ago. They spoke to me terrible and assumed I was on the dole or something. I responded with 'you are obviously misinformed about people with tattoos as these babies cost more than what Job Seekers Allowance could get me'. The guys response was 'maybe a checkout girl then?'. I said 'actually I worked as a checkout girl to help fund my Masters Degree'. Haha Tool!
Don't worry about what people think or if they just see your tats. Just enjoy how you feel about yourself and if you don't want to talk about them, then don't! It's simple really xx"
some tattoos can cost a rediculous amount of money, especially if theyre very talented |
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" you don't want people to talk about the tattoos, maybe change your public pics to shots that don't show as many tats? You put them out there and people will be interested in them.
My personal hate at the moment is people assuming I am unintelligent because I am heavily tattooed. I had it in a pub a couple of weeks ago. They spoke to me terrible and assumed I was on the dole or something. I responded with 'you are obviously misinformed about people with tattoos as these babies cost more than what Job Seekers Allowance could get me'. The guys response was 'maybe a checkout girl then?'. I said 'actually I worked as a checkout girl to help fund my Masters Degree'. Haha Tool!
Don't worry about what people think or if they just see your tats. Just enjoy how you feel about yourself and if you don't want to talk about them, then don't! It's simple really xx"
Yes, I've had that quite a bit. Guys on here even asking if they can pay for my next tattoo, that kind of thing. A sugar daddy arrangement.
So I point out to them that I proberbly earn more than they do - but no, I wasn't going to spend my money on them... |
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" you don't want people to talk about the tattoos, maybe change your public pics to shots that don't show as many tats? You put them out there and people will be interested in them.
My personal hate at the moment is people assuming I am unintelligent because I am heavily tattooed. I had it in a pub a couple of weeks ago. They spoke to me terrible and assumed I was on the dole or something. I responded with 'you are obviously misinformed about people with tattoos as these babies cost more than what Job Seekers Allowance could get me'. The guys response was 'maybe a checkout girl then?'. I said 'actually I worked as a checkout girl to help fund my Masters Degree'. Haha Tool!
Don't worry about what people think or if they just see your tats. Just enjoy how you feel about yourself and if you don't want to talk about them, then don't! It's simple really xx
some tattoos can cost a rediculous amount of money, especially if theyre very talented "
Oh god yes! My left arm sleeve cost me £800 in total and a further £450 n maintenance over the years and that's just one of my tattoos!! Vic x |
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Some people are attracted to lots of tattoos, to others they are a turn off.
Same as anything else, personal preference.
If you hide them then you run the risk of quite an extreme reaction when you do a big reveal. |
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"About objectification - I hate that too. It's the entire reason that I don't send topless/naked pictures of myself to people. I don't want people to meet me because of my body, I want people to meet me because they think we're going to have great fun together. Fetishising the fact I have a particular type of body (or decoration) really bothers me. I want people to meet me because they like *me*, not because of the body I have."
thanks, yeah this is exactly how i feel. i have covered up most of my tattoos on other sites so nobody will know i'm heavily tattooed, on this one they're usually obvious about it. plus it's NSA on here so i don't really care too much. |
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" you don't want people to talk about the tattoos, maybe change your public pics to shots that don't show as many tats? You put them out there and people will be interested in them.
My personal hate at the moment is people assuming I am unintelligent because I am heavily tattooed. I had it in a pub a couple of weeks ago. They spoke to me terrible and assumed I was on the dole or something. I responded with 'you are obviously misinformed about people with tattoos as these babies cost more than what Job Seekers Allowance could get me'. The guys response was 'maybe a checkout girl then?'. I said 'actually I worked as a checkout girl to help fund my Masters Degree'. Haha Tool!
Don't worry about what people think or if they just see your tats. Just enjoy how you feel about yourself and if you don't want to talk about them, then don't! It's simple really xx"
this made me laugh, about how you responded to that.
didn't think in this day and age people were so backwards in their mindset and that stereotypes still existed. |
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"Some people are attracted to lots of tattoos, to others they are a turn off.
Same as anything else, personal preference.
If you hide them then you run the risk of quite an extreme reaction when you do a big reveal. "
i'm hiding them. if someone really likes me they won't mind, although i will understand if i get a bad reaction to them. |
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"Some people are attracted to lots of tattoos, to others they are a turn off.
Same as anything else, personal preference.
If you hide them then you run the risk of quite an extreme reaction when you do a big reveal.
i'm hiding them. if someone really likes me they won't mind, although i will understand if i get a bad reaction to them."
That's fair enough, I'll start wearing a hat and tell everyone I'm 6'6" if people like me they won't mind when a short arsed baldy turns up |
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"Some people are attracted to lots of tattoos, to others they are a turn off.
Same as anything else, personal preference.
If you hide them then you run the risk of quite an extreme reaction when you do a big reveal.
i'm hiding them. if someone really likes me they won't mind, although i will understand if i get a bad reaction to them.
That's fair enough, I'll start wearing a hat and tell everyone I'm 6'6" if people like me they won't mind when a short arsed baldy turns up"
if people didn't fetishize me i wouldn't have to.
most men on POF are liars themselves anyway. |
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" you don't want people to talk about the tattoos, maybe change your public pics to shots that don't show as many tats? You put them out there and people will be interested in them.
My personal hate at the moment is people assuming I am unintelligent because I am heavily tattooed. I had it in a pub a couple of weeks ago. They spoke to me terrible and assumed I was on the dole or something. I responded with 'you are obviously misinformed about people with tattoos as these babies cost more than what Job Seekers Allowance could get me'. The guys response was 'maybe a checkout girl then?'. I said 'actually I worked as a checkout girl to help fund my Masters Degree'. Haha Tool!
Don't worry about what people think or if they just see your tats. Just enjoy how you feel about yourself and if you don't want to talk about them, then don't! It's simple really xx
some tattoos can cost a rediculous amount of money, especially if theyre very talented "
Some tattooists charge £800 a day, some idiots pay for a full week to get a week done |
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"Some people are attracted to lots of tattoos, to others they are a turn off.
Same as anything else, personal preference.
If you hide them then you run the risk of quite an extreme reaction when you do a big reveal.
i'm hiding them. if someone really likes me they won't mind, although i will understand if i get a bad reaction to them.
That's fair enough, I'll start wearing a hat and tell everyone I'm 6'6" if people like me they won't mind when a short arsed baldy turns up
if people didn't fetishize me i wouldn't have to.
most men on POF are liars themselves anyway. "
you are your own person dont pander to there wims be who you are |
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If you feel they're attracting people you don't want to attract, who are perhaps fetishising you for them, could you maybe describe that you have them, rather than showing them on photos? That way people who don't like tattoos are aware you have them, so there's no deception, but it might discourage those where that's all they are attracted to rather than other things about you. |
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"Some people are attracted to lots of tattoos, to others they are a turn off.
Same as anything else, personal preference.
If you hide them then you run the risk of quite an extreme reaction when you do a big reveal.
i'm hiding them. if someone really likes me they won't mind, although i will understand if i get a bad reaction to them.
That's fair enough, I'll start wearing a hat and tell everyone I'm 6'6" if people like me they won't mind when a short arsed baldy turns up
if people didn't fetishize me i wouldn't have to.
most men on POF are liars themselves anyway.
you are your own person dont pander to there wims be who you are "
i'm not even gonna mention them. initially that seems like a good idea but men can read and fetishize me off that.
might just give up looking on the internet. it's not like you can get a proper feel for people off that. and when it's not NSA it really matters that you can tell what people are like.
never been so disappointed in humanity in al my life - and that's saying something. |
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"Some people are attracted to lots of tattoos, to others they are a turn off.
Same as anything else, personal preference.
If you hide them then you run the risk of quite an extreme reaction when you do a big reveal.
i'm hiding them. if someone really likes me they won't mind, although i will understand if i get a bad reaction to them.
That's fair enough, I'll start wearing a hat and tell everyone I'm 6'6" if people like me they won't mind when a short arsed baldy turns up
if people didn't fetishize me i wouldn't have to.
most men on POF are liars themselves anyway. "
Unfortunately people do tho don't they, there should be counseling for people before they have a tattoo, because believe it or not they will change the way people behave towards you.
You could say that every one else should change their attitudes about this sort of thing, and maybe they should but good luck with that.
From my point of view if some one makes a decision to modify their appearance so radically I would have questions about that persons decision making processes.
Because tattoos are for life, tattoos have implications. |
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From my point of view if some one makes a decision to modify their appearance so radically I would have questions about that persons decision making processes.
Because tattoos are for life, tattoos have implications. "
Yes - perhaps it means we are the kind of person that is capable of making lifelong decisions.
Nobody questions other lifelong decisions - like having babies. |
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"Some people are attracted to lots of tattoos, to others they are a turn off.
Same as anything else, personal preference.
If you hide them then you run the risk of quite an extreme reaction when you do a big reveal.
i'm hiding them. if someone really likes me they won't mind, although i will understand if i get a bad reaction to them.
That's fair enough, I'll start wearing a hat and tell everyone I'm 6'6" if people like me they won't mind when a short arsed baldy turns up
if people didn't fetishize me i wouldn't have to.
most men on POF are liars themselves anyway.
Unfortunately people do tho don't they, there should be counseling for people before they have a tattoo, because believe it or not they will change the way people behave towards you.
You could say that every one else should change their attitudes about this sort of thing, and maybe they should but good luck with that.
From my point of view if some one makes a decision to modify their appearance so radically I would have questions about that persons decision making processes.
Because tattoos are for life, tattoos have implications. "
That being said, it's your body and if they make you happy what I think is irrelevant |
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From my point of view if some one makes a decision to modify their appearance so radically I would have questions about that persons decision making processes.
Because tattoos are for life, tattoos have implications.
Yes - perhaps it means we are the kind of person that is capable of making lifelong decisions.
Nobody questions other lifelong decisions - like having babies."
you may have thought it through weighed up the implications and decided your happy, and that is great.
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From my point of view if some one makes a decision to modify their appearance so radically I would have questions about that persons decision making processes.
Because tattoos are for life, tattoos have implications.
Yes - perhaps it means we are the kind of person that is capable of making lifelong decisions.
Nobody questions other lifelong decisions - like having babies.
you may have thought it through weighed up the implications and decided your happy, and that is great.
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Quite.
Perhaps you shouldn't make negative assumptions about everyone who has tattoos? I'm sure I'm not the only one who has thought about it. |
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Nobody questions other lifelong decisions - like having babies.
Actually your wrong about that, especially if some one is young"
Well, I suppose you are true. Some judgemental pricks do indeed question what women do with their bodies. |
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"Some people are attracted to lots of tattoos, to others they are a turn off.
Same as anything else, personal preference.
If you hide them then you run the risk of quite an extreme reaction when you do a big reveal.
i'm hiding them. if someone really likes me they won't mind, although i will understand if i get a bad reaction to them.
That's fair enough, I'll start wearing a hat and tell everyone I'm 6'6" if people like me they won't mind when a short arsed baldy turns up
if people didn't fetishize me i wouldn't have to.
most men on POF are liars themselves anyway.
Unfortunately people do tho don't they, there should be counseling for people before they have a tattoo, because believe it or not they will change the way people behave towards you.
You could say that every one else should change their attitudes about this sort of thing, and maybe they should but good luck with that.
From my point of view if some one makes a decision to modify their appearance so radically I would have questions about that persons decision making processes.
Because tattoos are for life, tattoos have implications.
That being said, it's your body and if they make you happy what I think is irrelevant "
yeah i don't need councelling. don't regret my tattoos at all, haven't really done unless other people fetishize me for them.
i'm not a fetish but hell, as a female you'd think i'd have learned by now seeing as i have always had a pair of tits and nice legs. |
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From my point of view if some one makes a decision to modify their appearance so radically I would have questions about that persons decision making processes.
Because tattoos are for life, tattoos have implications.
Yes - perhaps it means we are the kind of person that is capable of making lifelong decisions.
Nobody questions other lifelong decisions - like having babies.
you may have thought it through weighed up the implications and decided your happy, and that is great.
Quite.
Perhaps you shouldn't make negative assumptions about everyone who has tattoos? I'm sure I'm not the only one who has thought about it."
Perhaps I shouldn't, but I'm not alone. But also a lot of people don't think it through and then suffer the consequences.
At the end of the day I don't care what you do to yourself. But it will affect how others treat you. |
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Nobody questions other lifelong decisions - like having babies.
Actually your wrong about that, especially if some one is young
Well, I suppose you are true. Some judgemental pricks do indeed question what women do with their bodies."
Well indeed but your assuming that this just affects that woman's body. She does all the hard work true enough but there is another little life to consider not to mention how this affects the father and close family.
But I guess none of those people matter cos they are judgemental pricks |
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"Some people are attracted to lots of tattoos, to others they are a turn off.
Same as anything else, personal preference.
If you hide them then you run the risk of quite an extreme reaction when you do a big reveal.
i'm hiding them. if someone really likes me they won't mind, although i will understand if i get a bad reaction to them.
That's fair enough, I'll start wearing a hat and tell everyone I'm 6'6" if people like me they won't mind when a short arsed baldy turns up
if people didn't fetishize me i wouldn't have to.
most men on POF are liars themselves anyway.
Unfortunately people do tho don't they, there should be counseling for people before they have a tattoo, because believe it or not they will change the way people behave towards you.
You could say that every one else should change their attitudes about this sort of thing, and maybe they should but good luck with that.
From my point of view if some one makes a decision to modify their appearance so radically I would have questions about that persons decision making processes.
Because tattoos are for life, tattoos have implications.
That being said, it's your body and if they make you happy what I think is irrelevant
yeah i don't need councelling. don't regret my tattoos at all, haven't really done unless other people fetishize me for them.
i'm not a fetish but hell, as a female you'd think i'd have learned by now seeing as i have always had a pair of tits and nice legs."
I wasn't being contrite when I suggested councelling, we are all judged by our outward appearance, if you modify that then you should have some understanding about the implications of that.
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Sadly being objectified and dehumanised seems too be a common theme for society as a whole and not just a male thing either, i think its going to be common that guys treat women in the way you mentioned because its easier than taking the time too see beyond the outer person, but i don't think they realise the value they lose in the process. Ultimately they miss out and if your looking for more you will find it it just takes more time. |
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I wasn't being contrite when I suggested councelling, we are all judged by our outward appearance, if you modify that then you should have some understanding about the implications of that.
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You seem to be assuming that you think people (women?) who get tattoos are stupid and don't understand that. |
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"Sadly being objectified and dehumanised seems too be a common theme for society as a whole and not just a male thing either, i think its going to be common that guys treat women in the way you mentioned because its easier than taking the time too see beyond the outer person, but i don't think they realise the value they lose in the process. Ultimately they miss out and if your looking for more you will find it it just takes more time."
yes i'm going to be really patient, i can do that. just need to stop rushing ahead of myself. |
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I wasn't being contrite when I suggested councelling, we are all judged by our outward appearance, if you modify that then you should have some understanding about the implications of that.
You seem to be assuming that you think people (women?) who get tattoos are stupid and don't understand that."
This isn't about gender.
And we're not talking about the odd tattoo, because I think that enough people have them for them to be socially acceptable.
I'm talking about when some one has so many it makes the general population go "blimey!"
Or about facial tattoos or tattoos that have swear words or depict graphic or sexual images.
I actually like your tattoos
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"Sadly being objectified and dehumanised seems too be a common theme for society as a whole and not just a male thing either, i think its going to be common that guys treat women in the way you mentioned because its easier than taking the time too see beyond the outer person, but i don't think they realise the value they lose in the process. Ultimately they miss out and if your looking for more you will find it it just takes more time.
yes i'm going to be really patient, i can do that. just need to stop rushing ahead of myself."
Sounds like a good plan, your a beautiful women regardless of the ink and any guy worth his salt will recognise that x |
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"if someone had a lot of tattoos but didn't tell you about them, how would you feel when you found out?
i know some people hate them, if you really liked someone do you think you could over look them or would you feel conned/disgusted or something else negative?
i love my tattoos. after years of abuse and looking after everyone else before myself my tattoos started me onto a road of actually looking after myself and giving a shit.
but i'm finding most men are treating me like that's all i am and i'm maybe some fetish attraction for them, or even i'm not a person coz of them.
it's seriously pissing me off and i'm considering just hiding them and then when they make some effort to treat me like a human being and not some fetish then they can see them. i don't feel i'm being deceptive doing this but i wonder if other people would understand why?"
Doesn't bother me if meets have tattoo s and don't tell me, wouldn't bother me if it was a female either. XXX |
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"if someone had a lot of tattoos but didn't tell you about them, how would you feel when you found out?
i know some people hate them, if you really liked someone do you think you could over look them or would you feel conned/disgusted or something else negative?
i love my tattoos. after years of abuse and looking after everyone else before myself my tattoos started me onto a road of actually looking after myself and giving a shit.
but i'm finding most men are treating me like that's all i am and i'm maybe some fetish attraction for them, or even i'm not a person coz of them.
it's seriously pissing me off and i'm considering just hiding them and then when they make some effort to treat me like a human being and not some fetish then they can see them. i don't feel i'm being deceptive doing this but i wonder if other people would understand why?"
It's upto you what pics you show
But if I was you I'd keep the heavily tattooed option up so they can say there were conned, because you have stated your heavily tattooed tattooed |
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"Sadly being objectified and dehumanised seems too be a common theme for society as a whole and not just a male thing either, i think its going to be common that guys treat women in the way you mentioned because its easier than taking the time too see beyond the outer person, but i don't think they realise the value they lose in the process. Ultimately they miss out and if your looking for more you will find it it just takes more time.
yes i'm going to be really patient, i can do that. just need to stop rushing ahead of myself.
Sounds like a good plan, your a beautiful women regardless of the ink and any guy worth his salt will recognise that x"
thanks.
i'm thinking if it's shallow men i'm attracting then that's the problem and it's not my tattoos as they don't even represent me. so instead i am showing the tattoos now (so no surprises) but my profile words let people know i am not shallow and am not interested in shallow.
just gotta show some self restraint lol and i'm sorted. |
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"if someone had a lot of tattoos but didn't tell you about them, how would you feel when you found out?
i know some people hate them, if you really liked someone do you think you could over look them or would you feel conned/disgusted or something else negative?
i love my tattoos. after years of abuse and looking after everyone else before myself my tattoos started me onto a road of actually looking after myself and giving a shit.
but i'm finding most men are treating me like that's all i am and i'm maybe some fetish attraction for them, or even i'm not a person coz of them.
it's seriously pissing me off and i'm considering just hiding them and then when they make some effort to treat me like a human being and not some fetish then they can see them. i don't feel i'm being deceptive doing this but i wonder if other people would understand why?
It's upto you what pics you show
But if I was you I'd keep the heavily tattooed option up so they can say there were conned, because you have stated your heavily tattooed tattooed "
lol, right i think i've decided how to sort this and am showing my tattoos again.
don't see why i should hide away just because others have no sense of respect for me and themselves. it also filters them out while i'm looking for someone nice.
just messaged one guy saying i've lost interest in him as i don't like being objectified, he was actually surprised by that. |
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"if someone had a lot of tattoos but didn't tell you about them, how would you feel when you found out?
i know some people hate them, if you really liked someone do you think you could over look them or would you feel conned/disgusted or something else negative?
i love my tattoos. after years of abuse and looking after everyone else before myself my tattoos started me onto a road of actually looking after myself and giving a shit.
but i'm finding most men are treating me like that's all i am and i'm maybe some fetish attraction for them, or even i'm not a person coz of them.
it's seriously pissing me off and i'm considering just hiding them and then when they make some effort to treat me like a human being and not some fetish then they can see them. i don't feel i'm being deceptive doing this but i wonder if other people would understand why?
It's upto you what pics you show
But if I was you I'd keep the heavily tattooed option up so they can say there were conned, because you have stated your heavily tattooed tattooed
lol, right i think i've decided how to sort this and am showing my tattoos again.
don't see why i should hide away just because others have no sense of respect for me and themselves. it also filters them out while i'm looking for someone nice.
just messaged one guy saying i've lost interest in him as i don't like being objectified, he was actually surprised by that. "
It's always best to be open, when like to think we arnt superficial but actually how some one looks physically is part of the equation. By being open you are giving people a chance early on to decide if your for them or not.
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"if someone had a lot of tattoos but didn't tell you about them, how would you feel when you found out?
i know some people hate them, if you really liked someone do you think you could over look them or would you feel conned/disgusted or something else negative?
i love my tattoos. after years of abuse and looking after everyone else before myself my tattoos started me onto a road of actually looking after myself and giving a shit.
but i'm finding most men are treating me like that's all i am and i'm maybe some fetish attraction for them, or even i'm not a person coz of them.
it's seriously pissing me off and i'm considering just hiding them and then when they make some effort to treat me like a human being and not some fetish then they can see them. i don't feel i'm being deceptive doing this but i wonder if other people would understand why?
It's upto you what pics you show
But if I was you I'd keep the heavily tattooed option up so they can say there were conned, because you have stated your heavily tattooed tattooed
lol, right i think i've decided how to sort this and am showing my tattoos again.
don't see why i should hide away just because others have no sense of respect for me and themselves. it also filters them out while i'm looking for someone nice.
just messaged one guy saying i've lost interest in him as i don't like being objectified, he was actually surprised by that.
It's always best to be open, when like to think we arnt superficial but actually how some one looks physically is part of the equation. By being open you are giving people a chance early on to decide if your for them or not.
I hope you find some one nice "
thanks. yeah i'm probably shallow myself as i do want to find someone i find physically attractive also, but i want to know all about them too and have a laugh with them, feel secure with them, their looks alone won't keep me interested as loads of men are good looking. |
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"if someone had a lot of tattoos but didn't tell you about them, how would you feel when you found out?
i know some people hate them, if you really liked someone do you think you could over look them or would you feel conned/disgusted or something else negative?
i love my tattoos. after years of abuse and looking after everyone else before myself my tattoos started me onto a road of actually looking after myself and giving a shit.
but i'm finding most men are treating me like that's all i am and i'm maybe some fetish attraction for them, or even i'm not a person coz of them.
it's seriously pissing me off and i'm considering just hiding them and then when they make some effort to treat me like a human being and not some fetish then they can see them. i don't feel i'm being deceptive doing this but i wonder if other people would understand why?
It's upto you what pics you show
But if I was you I'd keep the heavily tattooed option up so they can say there were conned, because you have stated your heavily tattooed tattooed
lol, right i think i've decided how to sort this and am showing my tattoos again.
don't see why i should hide away just because others have no sense of respect for me and themselves. it also filters them out while i'm looking for someone nice.
just messaged one guy saying i've lost interest in him as i don't like being objectified, he was actually surprised by that.
It's always best to be open, when like to think we arnt superficial but actually how some one looks physically is part of the equation. By being open you are giving people a chance early on to decide if your for them or not.
I hope you find some one nice
thanks. yeah i'm probably shallow myself as i do want to find someone i find physically attractive also, but i want to know all about them too and have a laugh with them, feel secure with them, their looks alone won't keep me interested as loads of men are good looking."
Nah that's not shallow, that's just wanting what you want.
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I am heavily tattooed myself, and have been subjected to verbal a few times. Fuck what people may or may not think.
Wear them with pride!
Had a bloke call me a degenerate at local swimming pool with my 4yo daughter, said I was setting a bad example!!
But on th flip side Iv had an elderly woman compliment me on my ink and spent hours talking to me about them! |
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I've about 13 now and obviously I love them. My parnter is in the process of his very first one at 37..it's fking huge (upper torso one arm ribs) he's in agony lol |
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"Sadly being objectified and dehumanised seems too be a common theme for society as a whole and not just a male thing either, i think its going to be common that guys treat women in the way you mentioned because its easier than taking the time too see beyond the outer person, but i don't think they realise the value they lose in the process. Ultimately they miss out and if your looking for more you will find it it just takes more time.
yes i'm going to be really patient, i can do that. just need to stop rushing ahead of myself.
Sounds like a good plan, your a beautiful women regardless of the ink and any guy worth his salt will recognise that x
thanks.
i'm thinking if it's shallow men i'm attracting then that's the problem and it's not my tattoos as they don't even represent me. so instead i am showing the tattoos now (so no surprises) but my profile words let people know i am not shallow and am not interested in shallow.
just gotta show some self restraint lol and i'm sorted. "
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I wasn't being contrite when I suggested councelling, we are all judged by our outward appearance, if you modify that then you should have some understanding about the implications of that.
You seem to be assuming that you think people (women?) who get tattoos are stupid and don't understand that.
This isn't about gender.
And we're not talking about the odd tattoo, because I think that enough people have them for them to be socially acceptable.
I'm talking about when some one has so many it makes the general population go "blimey!"
Or about facial tattoos or tattoos that have swear words or depict graphic or sexual images.
I actually like your tattoos
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The thing is - you like my tattoo. So you think that I made a good choice. Cool.
Some people (strangers) will just turn round and ask my why I would deface my body that way. They will visibly recoil when I turn my arm over and there's a skeleton there. They will question why I would damage(!) my body, and didn't I realise it was permanent.
As you say - people should get education before having tattoos. According to you. Unless you like them, and then it's ok.
My tattoos are not really socially acceptable. It's not really ok for women to have huge graphic octopuses drawn on their arms. The chest piece I've got booked in will not be considered socially acceptable either by most people. |
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"Sadly being objectified and dehumanised seems too be a common theme for society as a whole and not just a male thing either, i think its going to be common that guys treat women in the way you mentioned because its easier than taking the time too see beyond the outer person, but i don't think they realise the value they lose in the process. Ultimately they miss out and if your looking for more you will find it it just takes more time.
yes i'm going to be really patient, i can do that. just need to stop rushing ahead of myself.
Sounds like a good plan, your a beautiful women regardless of the ink and any guy worth his salt will recognise that x
thanks.
i'm thinking if it's shallow men i'm attracting then that's the problem and it's not my tattoos as they don't even represent me. so instead i am showing the tattoos now (so no surprises) but my profile words let people know i am not shallow and am not interested in shallow.
just gotta show some self restraint lol and i'm sorted.
We can all have issues with restraint sometimes lol, it sounds like you have thought it through and if you stick too it you will find what you want/need eventually."
i actually stopped seeing other guys and didn't have sex with him for 6 weeks, so i do have some restraint (it was really hard for me though). it wasn't worth it imo so i'm changing how i work now.
thanks for all the other replies also people, i have read them. |
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I wasn't being contrite when I suggested councelling, we are all judged by our outward appearance, if you modify that then you should have some understanding about the implications of that.
You seem to be assuming that you think people (women?) who get tattoos are stupid and don't understand that.
This isn't about gender.
And we're not talking about the odd tattoo, because I think that enough people have them for them to be socially acceptable.
I'm talking about when some one has so many it makes the general population go "blimey!"
Or about facial tattoos or tattoos that have swear words or depict graphic or sexual images.
I actually like your tattoos
The thing is - you like my tattoo. So you think that I made a good choice. Cool.
Some people (strangers) will just turn round and ask my why I would deface my body that way. They will visibly recoil when I turn my arm over and there's a skeleton there. They will question why I would damage(!) my body, and didn't I realise it was permanent.
As you say - people should get education before having tattoos. According to you. Unless you like them, and then it's ok.
My tattoos are not really socially acceptable. It's not really ok for women to have huge graphic octopuses drawn on their arms. The chest piece I've got booked in will not be considered socially acceptable either by most people."
Never understood social acceptance in regards too Ink, personally find all tattoo's acceptable, some look silly in my opinion but i would never judge someone for having one, just not brave enough or determined enough too have one myself, the whole prejudice towards them baffles me, they usually add something too someone not destroy or deface them. |
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"Sadly being objectified and dehumanised seems too be a common theme for society as a whole and not just a male thing either, i think its going to be common that guys treat women in the way you mentioned because its easier than taking the time too see beyond the outer person, but i don't think they realise the value they lose in the process. Ultimately they miss out and if your looking for more you will find it it just takes more time.
yes i'm going to be really patient, i can do that. just need to stop rushing ahead of myself.
Sounds like a good plan, your a beautiful women regardless of the ink and any guy worth his salt will recognise that x
thanks.
i'm thinking if it's shallow men i'm attracting then that's the problem and it's not my tattoos as they don't even represent me. so instead i am showing the tattoos now (so no surprises) but my profile words let people know i am not shallow and am not interested in shallow.
just gotta show some self restraint lol and i'm sorted.
We can all have issues with restraint sometimes lol, it sounds like you have thought it through and if you stick too it you will find what you want/need eventually.
i actually stopped seeing other guys and didn't have sex with him for 6 weeks, so i do have some restraint (it was really hard for me though). it wasn't worth it imo so i'm changing how i work now.
thanks for all the other replies also people, i have read them."
The best thing you can ever do from an experience is learn and grow from it, good or bad, and it sounds like you have, its his loss and i wish more guys would realise their choices have consequences for others not just themselves, it might be easier for everybody if this happened. |
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"Sadly being objectified and dehumanised seems too be a common theme for society as a whole and not just a male thing either, i think its going to be common that guys treat women in the way you mentioned because its easier than taking the time too see beyond the outer person, but i don't think they realise the value they lose in the process. Ultimately they miss out and if your looking for more you will find it it just takes more time.
yes i'm going to be really patient, i can do that. just need to stop rushing ahead of myself.
Sounds like a good plan, your a beautiful women regardless of the ink and any guy worth his salt will recognise that x
thanks.
i'm thinking if it's shallow men i'm attracting then that's the problem and it's not my tattoos as they don't even represent me. so instead i am showing the tattoos now (so no surprises) but my profile words let people know i am not shallow and am not interested in shallow.
just gotta show some self restraint lol and i'm sorted.
We can all have issues with restraint sometimes lol, it sounds like you have thought it through and if you stick too it you will find what you want/need eventually.
i actually stopped seeing other guys and didn't have sex with him for 6 weeks, so i do have some restraint (it was really hard for me though). it wasn't worth it imo so i'm changing how i work now.
thanks for all the other replies also people, i have read them.
The best thing you can ever do from an experience is learn and grow from it, good or bad, and it sounds like you have, its his loss and i wish more guys would realise their choices have consequences for others not just themselves, it might be easier for everybody if this happened."
i'm a slow learner i think because i did something similar a couple of months ago.
but yeah i'd appreciate honesty. and he was a good fuck so i'd have been happy to have him as a fuck buddy but would've continued to see other guys as well. |
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"Personally I don't like tattoos on men or women but if it's your thing then it's not for anyone else to worry about. If I was meeting someone with tats I'd prefer to know up front. "
yes i've decided to be overly honest so am showing them now. like i said the fetishists are an extra filter. |
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I do like tats on a lady. Does it define you? No! I just looked at your profile and to be honest it was your hair that got me! I'm drawn to ladies who are different. Be it colourful hair, tattoos. Their attitude. Would I ask about them. Yes. But more the memories behind them. And as I looked at your profile I won't message you as you state you don't want any single males!. I think I've seen your profile before and didn't message for that very reason. But every tattoo has a story! I'd like to hear it.
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"I do like tats on a lady. Does it define you? No! I just looked at your profile and to be honest it was your hair that got me! I'm drawn to ladies who are different. Be it colourful hair, tattoos. Their attitude. Would I ask about them. Yes. But more the memories behind them. And as I looked at your profile I won't message you as you state you don't want any single males!. I think I've seen your profile before and didn't message for that very reason. But every tattoo has a story! I'd like to hear it.
Very nice pics btw. "
thanks, yeah i only enjoy 3sums now so not looking for single men. you're also 150 miles away.
i do struggle with NSA tbh and being shallow like that, which is why i don't enjoy 1 on 1 any more. |
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Well your tattoo's tell a story about where you once were and cover your journey to where you are now. They are only a small part of who you are so you need to do what suits you best. If covering them at the outset suits how you are feeling then do it because it is what you want not what others expect.
Personally it wouldn't bother me if a person had tattoos or not as if I have a connection with someone then that's the overwhelming factor. |
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I wasn't being contrite when I suggested councelling, we are all judged by our outward appearance, if you modify that then you should have some understanding about the implications of that.
You seem to be assuming that you think people (women?) who get tattoos are stupid and don't understand that.
This isn't about gender.
And we're not talking about the odd tattoo, because I think that enough people have them for them to be socially acceptable.
I'm talking about when some one has so many it makes the general population go "blimey!"
Or about facial tattoos or tattoos that have swear words or depict graphic or sexual images.
I actually like your tattoos
The thing is - you like my tattoo. So you think that I made a good choice. Cool.
Some people (strangers) will just turn round and ask my why I would deface my body that way. They will visibly recoil when I turn my arm over and there's a skeleton there. They will question why I would damage(!) my body, and didn't I realise it was permanent.
As you say - people should get education before having tattoos. According to you. Unless you like them, and then it's ok.
My tattoos are not really socially acceptable. It's not really ok for women to have huge graphic octopuses drawn on their arms. The chest piece I've got booked in will not be considered socially acceptable either by most people."
I'm guessing that's why you have decided to have them then.
I certainly think some people should be made to think it through, and whether I think their tattoo is cool or not is irrelevant.
At the end of the day an individual can do what ever they like to their own body, as that kind of poor judgment has no affect on me. Unless it was some one I care about. Where I would offer advice like I would for anything else they might do that would fuck them up.
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"I do like tats on a lady. Does it define you? No! I just looked at your profile and to be honest it was your hair that got me! I'm drawn to ladies who are different. Be it colourful hair, tattoos. Their attitude. Would I ask about them. Yes. But more the memories behind them. And as I looked at your profile I won't message you as you state you don't want any single males!. I think I've seen your profile before and didn't message for that very reason. But every tattoo has a story! I'd like to hear it.
Very nice pics btw.
thanks, yeah i only enjoy 3sums now so not looking for single men. you're also 150 miles away.
i do struggle with NSA tbh and being shallow like that, which is why i don't enjoy 1 on 1 any more."
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"I do like tats on a lady. Does it define you? No! I just looked at your profile and to be honest it was your hair that got me! I'm drawn to ladies who are different. Be it colourful hair, tattoos. Their attitude. Would I ask about them. Yes. But more the memories behind them. And as I looked at your profile I won't message you as you state you don't want any single males!. I think I've seen your profile before and didn't message for that very reason. But every tattoo has a story! I'd like to hear it.
Very nice pics btw.
thanks, yeah i only enjoy 3sums now so not looking for single men. you're also 150 miles away.
i do struggle with NSA tbh and being shallow like that, which is why i don't enjoy 1 on 1 any more.
I'm interested, you only like 3somes but you wanted something more, do you think that your looking for a poly relationship "
i think i'd love a relationship with 2 guys, used to want that ever since i had my first 3sum with an ex.
but i know i don't enjoy NSA 1 on 1 any more, the thought of this turns me off.
also some guys are selfish in 3sums and i hate that, so i have to be really picky about who i have them with.
i'm ok with NSA sex, and i do want a relationship with someone who cares, be nice to have both, which is also why cuckold appeals to me.
idk not really looking for anything now, one day of looking on POF and being messaged by all the guys who bullshit about wanting relationship and aren't even kinky has put me off and i'm back to NSA for a while. |
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"I do like tats on a lady. Does it define you? No! I just looked at your profile and to be honest it was your hair that got me! I'm drawn to ladies who are different. Be it colourful hair, tattoos. Their attitude. Would I ask about them. Yes. But more the memories behind them. And as I looked at your profile I won't message you as you state you don't want any single males!. I think I've seen your profile before and didn't message for that very reason. But every tattoo has a story! I'd like to hear it.
Very nice pics btw.
thanks, yeah i only enjoy 3sums now so not looking for single men. you're also 150 miles away.
i do struggle with NSA tbh and being shallow like that, which is why i don't enjoy 1 on 1 any more.
I'm interested, you only like 3somes but you wanted something more, do you think that your looking for a poly relationship
i think i'd love a relationship with 2 guys, used to want that ever since i had my first 3sum with an ex.
but i know i don't enjoy NSA 1 on 1 any more, the thought of this turns me off.
also some guys are selfish in 3sums and i hate that, so i have to be really picky about who i have them with.
i'm ok with NSA sex, and i do want a relationship with someone who cares, be nice to have both, which is also why cuckold appeals to me.
idk not really looking for anything now, one day of looking on POF and being messaged by all the guys who bullshit about wanting relationship and aren't even kinky has put me off and i'm back to NSA for a while."
you sound like the opposite of me i love 3somes too, but its like trying to find hens teeth, least you get opportunity to have them |
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"I do like tats on a lady. Does it define you? No! I just looked at your profile and to be honest it was your hair that got me! I'm drawn to ladies who are different. Be it colourful hair, tattoos. Their attitude. Would I ask about them. Yes. But more the memories behind them. And as I looked at your profile I won't message you as you state you don't want any single males!. I think I've seen your profile before and didn't message for that very reason. But every tattoo has a story! I'd like to hear it.
Very nice pics btw.
thanks, yeah i only enjoy 3sums now so not looking for single men. you're also 150 miles away.
i do struggle with NSA tbh and being shallow like that, which is why i don't enjoy 1 on 1 any more.
I'm interested, you only like 3somes but you wanted something more, do you think that your looking for a poly relationship
i think i'd love a relationship with 2 guys, used to want that ever since i had my first 3sum with an ex.
but i know i don't enjoy NSA 1 on 1 any more, the thought of this turns me off.
also some guys are selfish in 3sums and i hate that, so i have to be really picky about who i have them with.
i'm ok with NSA sex, and i do want a relationship with someone who cares, be nice to have both, which is also why cuckold appeals to me.
idk not really looking for anything now, one day of looking on POF and being messaged by all the guys who bullshit about wanting relationship and aren't even kinky has put me off and i'm back to NSA for a while.
you sound like the opposite of me i love 3somes too, but its like trying to find hens teeth, least you get opportunity to have them "
it's easy to find 2 guys for sex, so yeah i'm gonna get what i want easy enough. |
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"I do like tats on a lady. Does it define you? No! I just looked at your profile and to be honest it was your hair that got me! I'm drawn to ladies who are different. Be it colourful hair, tattoos. Their attitude. Would I ask about them. Yes. But more the memories behind them. And as I looked at your profile I won't message you as you state you don't want any single males!. I think I've seen your profile before and didn't message for that very reason. But every tattoo has a story! I'd like to hear it.
Very nice pics btw.
thanks, yeah i only enjoy 3sums now so not looking for single men. you're also 150 miles away.
i do struggle with NSA tbh and being shallow like that, which is why i don't enjoy 1 on 1 any more.
I'm interested, you only like 3somes but you wanted something more, do you think that your looking for a poly relationship
i think i'd love a relationship with 2 guys, used to want that ever since i had my first 3sum with an ex.
but i know i don't enjoy NSA 1 on 1 any more, the thought of this turns me off.
also some guys are selfish in 3sums and i hate that, so i have to be really picky about who i have them with.
i'm ok with NSA sex, and i do want a relationship with someone who cares, be nice to have both, which is also why cuckold appeals to me.
idk not really looking for anything now, one day of looking on POF and being messaged by all the guys who bullshit about wanting relationship and aren't even kinky has put me off and i'm back to NSA for a while.
you sound like the opposite of me i love 3somes too, but its like trying to find hens teeth, least you get opportunity to have them
it's easy to find 2 guys for sex, so yeah i'm gonna get what i want easy enough."
Not so easy the other way round
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"I do like tats on a lady. Does it define you? No! I just looked at your profile and to be honest it was your hair that got me! I'm drawn to ladies who are different. Be it colourful hair, tattoos. Their attitude. Would I ask about them. Yes. But more the memories behind them. And as I looked at your profile I won't message you as you state you don't want any single males!. I think I've seen your profile before and didn't message for that very reason. But every tattoo has a story! I'd like to hear it.
Very nice pics btw.
thanks, yeah i only enjoy 3sums now so not looking for single men. you're also 150 miles away.
i do struggle with NSA tbh and being shallow like that, which is why i don't enjoy 1 on 1 any more.
I'm interested, you only like 3somes but you wanted something more, do you think that your looking for a poly relationship
i think i'd love a relationship with 2 guys, used to want that ever since i had my first 3sum with an ex.
but i know i don't enjoy NSA 1 on 1 any more, the thought of this turns me off.
also some guys are selfish in 3sums and i hate that, so i have to be really picky about who i have them with.
i'm ok with NSA sex, and i do want a relationship with someone who cares, be nice to have both, which is also why cuckold appeals to me.
idk not really looking for anything now, one day of looking on POF and being messaged by all the guys who bullshit about wanting relationship and aren't even kinky has put me off and i'm back to NSA for a while.
you sound like the opposite of me i love 3somes too, but its like trying to find hens teeth, least you get opportunity to have them
it's easy to find 2 guys for sex, so yeah i'm gonna get what i want easy enough.
Not so easy the other way round
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it'll take me a while tonight. most guys want one on one. i wish more men had MM profiles so i could block single guys...  |
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"I do like tats on a lady. Does it define you? No! I just looked at your profile and to be honest it was your hair that got me! I'm drawn to ladies who are different. Be it colourful hair, tattoos. Their attitude. Would I ask about them. Yes. But more the memories behind them. And as I looked at your profile I won't message you as you state you don't want any single males!. I think I've seen your profile before and didn't message for that very reason. But every tattoo has a story! I'd like to hear it.
Very nice pics btw.
thanks, yeah i only enjoy 3sums now so not looking for single men. you're also 150 miles away.
i do struggle with NSA tbh and being shallow like that, which is why i don't enjoy 1 on 1 any more.
I'm interested, you only like 3somes but you wanted something more, do you think that your looking for a poly relationship
i think i'd love a relationship with 2 guys, used to want that ever since i had my first 3sum with an ex.
but i know i don't enjoy NSA 1 on 1 any more, the thought of this turns me off.
also some guys are selfish in 3sums and i hate that, so i have to be really picky about who i have them with.
i'm ok with NSA sex, and i do want a relationship with someone who cares, be nice to have both, which is also why cuckold appeals to me.
idk not really looking for anything now, one day of looking on POF and being messaged by all the guys who bullshit about wanting relationship and aren't even kinky has put me off and i'm back to NSA for a while.
you sound like the opposite of me i love 3somes too, but its like trying to find hens teeth, least you get opportunity to have them
it's easy to find 2 guys for sex, so yeah i'm gonna get what i want easy enough.
Not so easy the other way round
it'll take me a while tonight. most guys want one on one. i wish more men had MM profiles so i could block single guys... "
So your going to organise a 3 some for this evening |
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"I do like tats on a lady. Does it define you? No! I just looked at your profile and to be honest it was your hair that got me! I'm drawn to ladies who are different. Be it colourful hair, tattoos. Their attitude. Would I ask about them. Yes. But more the memories behind them. And as I looked at your profile I won't message you as you state you don't want any single males!. I think I've seen your profile before and didn't message for that very reason. But every tattoo has a story! I'd like to hear it.
Very nice pics btw.
thanks, yeah i only enjoy 3sums now so not looking for single men. you're also 150 miles away.
i do struggle with NSA tbh and being shallow like that, which is why i don't enjoy 1 on 1 any more.
I'm interested, you only like 3somes but you wanted something more, do you think that your looking for a poly relationship
i think i'd love a relationship with 2 guys, used to want that ever since i had my first 3sum with an ex.
but i know i don't enjoy NSA 1 on 1 any more, the thought of this turns me off.
also some guys are selfish in 3sums and i hate that, so i have to be really picky about who i have them with.
i'm ok with NSA sex, and i do want a relationship with someone who cares, be nice to have both, which is also why cuckold appeals to me.
idk not really looking for anything now, one day of looking on POF and being messaged by all the guys who bullshit about wanting relationship and aren't even kinky has put me off and i'm back to NSA for a while.
you sound like the opposite of me i love 3somes too, but its like trying to find hens teeth, least you get opportunity to have them
it's easy to find 2 guys for sex, so yeah i'm gonna get what i want easy enough.
Not so easy the other way round
it'll take me a while tonight. most guys want one on one. i wish more men had MM profiles so i could block single guys...
So your going to organise a 3 some for this evening"
sorted it 20 mins ago.
a while means more than 10 mins sorting it. |
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"Well I loved your tattoos when we met, plus it's the person behind the tattoos that counts
who you on about?"
You
we met last year just before x mas and it was the fact that you had tattoos and were not afraid of other people's opinions that attracted me as well as your looks |
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Am I right in assuming that one of your concerns is that some guys are partly attracted to you because of your tattoos and are therefore missing or not sufficiently interested in your many other good points? Unfortunately it takes time for trust to develop between people regardless of how you meet. Of course this can lead to frustration and disappointment but when you do meet the right person or persons then hopefully even if the journey has been difficult the final destination will make it worthwhile.
So having read your considered posts my advice would be to be true to yourself and be confident that you will spot those who wish to meet for the wrong reasons. |
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"Am I right in assuming that one of your concerns is that some guys are partly attracted to you because of your tattoos and are therefore missing or not sufficiently interested in your many other good points? Unfortunately it takes time for trust to develop between people regardless of how you meet. Of course this can lead to frustration and disappointment but when you do meet the right person or persons then hopefully even if the journey has been difficult the final destination will make it worthwhile.
So having read your considered posts my advice would be to be true to yourself and be confident that you will spot those who wish to meet for the wrong reasons."
Not even sure it's even my tattoos now, but yeah that was my concern. I've had interest from 100s of guys this past 24 hrs on another site, every single profile pretty much isn't interested in anything more than casual sex, i think the ones who want a relationship are just lying as well. The men i'm coming across seem to all be users and liars that's all. |
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"Am I right in assuming that one of your concerns is that some guys are partly attracted to you because of your tattoos and are therefore missing or not sufficiently interested in your many other good points? Unfortunately it takes time for trust to develop between people regardless of how you meet. Of course this can lead to frustration and disappointment but when you do meet the right person or persons then hopefully even if the journey has been difficult the final destination will make it worthwhile.
So having read your considered posts my advice would be to be true to yourself and be confident that you will spot those who wish to meet for the wrong reasons.
Not even sure it's even my tattoos now, but yeah that was my concern. I've had interest from 100s of guys this past 24 hrs on another site, every single profile pretty much isn't interested in anything more than casual sex, i think the ones who want a relationship are just lying as well. The men i'm coming across seem to all be users and liars that's all. "
I'm not sure what the other site is, but fab probably isn't the place to be looking for a relationship, what with it being a casual sex site and all |
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My view is that it's very difficult over the Internet to understand other people's agendas. A quickly written message and maybe a photo lack the vital information required to make an informed choice.
Unfortunately the commitments of modern life leave us little time or energy to discovery people we can trust and therefore we rely on the Internet and on many occasions we end up feeling let down.
So my depressing conclusion is that the Internet is not the best place to meet people with whom we wish to have a deep relationship. I can understand why you therefore have doubts over the people who have contacted you. To end on a more upbeat note am sure that there are guys somewhere who will be well meaning etc |
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"My view is that it's very difficult over the Internet to understand other people's agendas. A quickly written message and maybe a photo lack the vital information required to make an informed choice.
Unfortunately the commitments of modern life leave us little time or energy to discovery people we can trust and therefore we rely on the Internet and on many occasions we end up feeling let down.
So my depressing conclusion is that the Internet is not the best place to meet people with whom we wish to have a deep relationship. I can understand why you therefore have doubts over the people who have contacted you. To end on a more upbeat note am sure that there are guys somewhere who will be well meaning etc"
I've got to be honest - I've met most of the people I've had committed relationships with over the internet. I find it very good in that respect. Text based communication reveals alot about a person. |
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"My view is that it's very difficult over the Internet to understand other people's agendas. A quickly written message and maybe a photo lack the vital information required to make an informed choice.
Unfortunately the commitments of modern life leave us little time or energy to discovery people we can trust and therefore we rely on the Internet and on many occasions we end up feeling let down.
So my depressing conclusion is that the Internet is not the best place to meet people with whom we wish to have a deep relationship. I can understand why you therefore have doubts over the people who have contacted you. To end on a more upbeat note am sure that there are guys somewhere who will be well meaning etc
I've got to be honest - I've met most of the people I've had committed relationships with over the internet. I find it very good in that respect. Text based communication reveals alot about a person."
I also meet the majority of the people I have had committed relationships with in the internet, I just think that maybe fabs not the best place for that. It's not impossible tho |
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"My view is that it's very difficult over the Internet to understand other people's agendas. A quickly written message and maybe a photo lack the vital information required to make an informed choice.
Unfortunately the commitments of modern life leave us little time or energy to discovery people we can trust and therefore we rely on the Internet and on many occasions we end up feeling let down.
So my depressing conclusion is that the Internet is not the best place to meet people with whom we wish to have a deep relationship. I can understand why you therefore have doubts over the people who have contacted you. To end on a more upbeat note am sure that there are guys somewhere who will be well meaning etc
I've got to be honest - I've met most of the people I've had committed relationships with over the internet. I find it very good in that respect. Text based communication reveals alot about a person.
I also meet the majority of the people I have had committed relationships with in the internet, I just think that maybe fabs not the best place for that. It's not impossible tho"
I dunno. I get a couple of messages a day from guys who turn out to be looking for monogamy. |
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"My view is that it's very difficult over the Internet to understand other people's agendas. A quickly written message and maybe a photo lack the vital information required to make an informed choice.
Unfortunately the commitments of modern life leave us little time or energy to discovery people we can trust and therefore we rely on the Internet and on many occasions we end up feeling let down.
So my depressing conclusion is that the Internet is not the best place to meet people with whom we wish to have a deep relationship. I can understand why you therefore have doubts over the people who have contacted you. To end on a more upbeat note am sure that there are guys somewhere who will be well meaning etc
I've got to be honest - I've met most of the people I've had committed relationships with over the internet. I find it very good in that respect. Text based communication reveals alot about a person.
I also meet the majority of the people I have had committed relationships with in the internet, I just think that maybe fabs not the best place for that. It's not impossible tho
I dunno. I get a couple of messages a day from guys who turn out to be looking for monogamy."
You probably do, but are they telling the truth, also are you looking for monogamy if not that still kinda proves my point |
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You probably do, but are they telling the truth, also are you looking for monogamy if not that still kinda proves my point"
Considering that monogamy is likely to be offputting to most people on this site, I would imagine that they are not lying.
It backs up my point that there are lots of people on this site looking for relationships... |
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You probably do, but are they telling the truth, also are you looking for monogamy if not that still kinda proves my point
Considering that monogamy is likely to be offputting to most people on this site, I would imagine that they are not lying.
It backs up my point that there are lots of people on this site looking for relationships..."
im sure there are people on this site looking for relationships but it's not a relationship web site it's a casual sex web site.
Also a lot of the women I talk to on here have said that they would ultimately like a relationship.
So armed with this little snippet of information and also knowing how damn hard it is for single guys to get a look in, do you think it may not be too much of a stretch of the imagination to think that they may just be saying that cos they think it may improve their chances of getting a shag. |
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"if someone had a lot of tattoos but didn't tell you about them, how would you feel when you found out?
i know some people hate them, if you really liked someone do you think you could over look them or would you feel conned/disgusted or something else negative?
i love my tattoos. after years of abuse and looking after everyone else before myself my tattoos started me onto a road of actually looking after myself and giving a shit.
but i'm finding most men are treating me like that's all i am and i'm maybe some fetish attraction for them, or even i'm not a person coz of them.
it's seriously pissing me off and i'm considering just hiding them and then when they make some effort to treat me like a human being and not some fetish then they can see them. i don't feel i'm being deceptive doing this but i wonder if other people would understand why?"
To me if you like a person it shouldn't matter |
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You probably do, but are they telling the truth, also are you looking for monogamy if not that still kinda proves my point
Considering that monogamy is likely to be offputting to most people on this site, I would imagine that they are not lying.
It backs up my point that there are lots of people on this site looking for relationships...
im sure there are people on this site looking for relationships but it's not a relationship web site it's a casual sex web site.
Also a lot of the women I talk to on here have said that they would ultimately like a relationship.
So armed with this little snippet of information and also knowing how damn hard it is for single guys to get a look in, do you think it may not be too much of a stretch of the imagination to think that they may just be saying that cos they think it may improve their chances of getting a shag. "
Obviously not, if they're messaging couples and singles after nsa sex. Plus it's how big and juicy their dick looks that improves their chances of a shag, saying they're looking after a relationship only improves their chance of finding... a relationship.
Some people come to this site to look for likeminded people for relationships, and they might not find their compatible sexual partner at book club or chatting on the bus stop, so this place would work for them. It's totally mind blowing, this internet, isn't it? |
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You probably do, but are they telling the truth, also are you looking for monogamy if not that still kinda proves my point
Considering that monogamy is likely to be offputting to most people on this site, I would imagine that they are not lying.
It backs up my point that there are lots of people on this site looking for relationships...
im sure there are people on this site looking for relationships but it's not a relationship web site it's a casual sex web site.
Also a lot of the women I talk to on here have said that they would ultimately like a relationship.
So armed with this little snippet of information and also knowing how damn hard it is for single guys to get a look in, do you think it may not be too much of a stretch of the imagination to think that they may just be saying that cos they think it may improve their chances of getting a shag.
Obviously not, if they're messaging couples and singles after nsa sex. Plus it's how big and juicy their dick looks that improves their chances of a shag, saying they're looking after a relationship only improves their chance of finding... a relationship.
Some people come to this site to look for likeminded people for relationships, and they might not find their compatible sexual partner at book club or chatting on the bus stop, so this place would work for them. It's totally mind blowing, this internet, isn't it?"
It really is, do you think it will catch on? |
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You probably do, but are they telling the truth, also are you looking for monogamy if not that still kinda proves my point
Considering that monogamy is likely to be offputting to most people on this site, I would imagine that they are not lying.
It backs up my point that there are lots of people on this site looking for relationships...
im sure there are people on this site looking for relationships but it's not a relationship web site it's a casual sex web site.
Also a lot of the women I talk to on here have said that they would ultimately like a relationship.
So armed with this little snippet of information and also knowing how damn hard it is for single guys to get a look in, do you think it may not be too much of a stretch of the imagination to think that they may just be saying that cos they think it may improve their chances of getting a shag. "
someone i met on here not long after i joined wants a cuckold relationship with me. we've decided we're going for it. |
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over a year ago
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Personally I would just block those that don't treat you respectfully and properly. You are more than just your tattoos, you are a wonderful sexy human being with much more than just your tattoos.
If they can't be bothered them move on and find a playmate who enjoys all of you.
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You probably do, but are they telling the truth, also are you looking for monogamy if not that still kinda proves my point
Considering that monogamy is likely to be offputting to most people on this site, I would imagine that they are not lying.
It backs up my point that there are lots of people on this site looking for relationships...
im sure there are people on this site looking for relationships but it's not a relationship web site it's a casual sex web site.
Also a lot of the women I talk to on here have said that they would ultimately like a relationship.
So armed with this little snippet of information and also knowing how damn hard it is for single guys to get a look in, do you think it may not be too much of a stretch of the imagination to think that they may just be saying that cos they think it may improve their chances of getting a shag.
someone i met on here not long after i joined wants a cuckold relationship with me. we've decided we're going for it."
Does that mean you get all the loveliness of a relationship but with the added bonus of being able to fuck other guys, whilst your other half watches |
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You probably do, but are they telling the truth, also are you looking for monogamy if not that still kinda proves my point
Considering that monogamy is likely to be offputting to most people on this site, I would imagine that they are not lying.
It backs up my point that there are lots of people on this site looking for relationships...
im sure there are people on this site looking for relationships but it's not a relationship web site it's a casual sex web site.
Also a lot of the women I talk to on here have said that they would ultimately like a relationship.
So armed with this little snippet of information and also knowing how damn hard it is for single guys to get a look in, do you think it may not be too much of a stretch of the imagination to think that they may just be saying that cos they think it may improve their chances of getting a shag.
someone i met on here not long after i joined wants a cuckold relationship with me. we've decided we're going for it.
Does that mean you get all the loveliness of a relationship but with the added bonus of being able to fuck other guys, whilst your other half watches "
haha no. blocked him already now. i'm too picky. shame coz i do like him but he's not for me really i've decided.
i've stopped caring now. just gonna love and fuck myself. i trust me and can rely on me and i'm a good fuck so it's ok. |
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You probably do, but are they telling the truth, also are you looking for monogamy if not that still kinda proves my point
Considering that monogamy is likely to be offputting to most people on this site, I would imagine that they are not lying.
It backs up my point that there are lots of people on this site looking for relationships...
im sure there are people on this site looking for relationships but it's not a relationship web site it's a casual sex web site.
Also a lot of the women I talk to on here have said that they would ultimately like a relationship.
So armed with this little snippet of information and also knowing how damn hard it is for single guys to get a look in, do you think it may not be too much of a stretch of the imagination to think that they may just be saying that cos they think it may improve their chances of getting a shag.
someone i met on here not long after i joined wants a cuckold relationship with me. we've decided we're going for it.
Does that mean you get all the loveliness of a relationship but with the added bonus of being able to fuck other guys, whilst your other half watches
haha no. blocked him already now. i'm too picky. shame coz i do like him but he's not for me really i've decided.
i've stopped caring now. just gonna love and fuck myself. i trust me and can rely on me and i'm a good fuck so it's ok."
Did he do something wrong or did you just get fed up |
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You probably do, but are they telling the truth, also are you looking for monogamy if not that still kinda proves my point
Considering that monogamy is likely to be offputting to most people on this site, I would imagine that they are not lying.
It backs up my point that there are lots of people on this site looking for relationships...
im sure there are people on this site looking for relationships but it's not a relationship web site it's a casual sex web site.
Also a lot of the women I talk to on here have said that they would ultimately like a relationship.
So armed with this little snippet of information and also knowing how damn hard it is for single guys to get a look in, do you think it may not be too much of a stretch of the imagination to think that they may just be saying that cos they think it may improve their chances of getting a shag.
someone i met on here not long after i joined wants a cuckold relationship with me. we've decided we're going for it.
Does that mean you get all the loveliness of a relationship but with the added bonus of being able to fuck other guys, whilst your other half watches
haha no. blocked him already now. i'm too picky. shame coz i do like him but he's not for me really i've decided.
i've stopped caring now. just gonna love and fuck myself. i trust me and can rely on me and i'm a good fuck so it's ok.
Did he do something wrong or did you just get fed up"
he's too young.
i did think to myself age shouldn't matter but my 19 yr old told me about a 40 yr old woman he's seeing and it just put it all into perspective for me that 24 is way too young for anything serious. |
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You probably do, but are they telling the truth, also are you looking for monogamy if not that still kinda proves my point
Considering that monogamy is likely to be offputting to most people on this site, I would imagine that they are not lying.
It backs up my point that there are lots of people on this site looking for relationships...
im sure there are people on this site looking for relationships but it's not a relationship web site it's a casual sex web site.
Also a lot of the women I talk to on here have said that they would ultimately like a relationship.
So armed with this little snippet of information and also knowing how damn hard it is for single guys to get a look in, do you think it may not be too much of a stretch of the imagination to think that they may just be saying that cos they think it may improve their chances of getting a shag.
someone i met on here not long after i joined wants a cuckold relationship with me. we've decided we're going for it.
Does that mean you get all the loveliness of a relationship but with the added bonus of being able to fuck other guys, whilst your other half watches
haha no. blocked him already now. i'm too picky. shame coz i do like him but he's not for me really i've decided.
i've stopped caring now. just gonna love and fuck myself. i trust me and can rely on me and i'm a good fuck so it's ok.
Did he do something wrong or did you just get fed up
he's too young.
i did think to myself age shouldn't matter but my 19 yr old told me about a 40 yr old woman he's seeing and it just put it all into perspective for me that 24 is way too young for anything serious."
For sex age doesn't matter, but relationships only work of the people in them have similar life goals. That's not often the case when there is a big age gap |
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