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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey everyone ive been wondering, in the crazy world of swinging are there any couples on here who are just swinging couples and not in a real relationship, just two single people who just play together regularly with others.
Im a single guy and ive met a few great couples off this site already but im looking for a single girl who would be my 'partner' just for swinging fun. Someone who could join me when i meet couples for cross bi fun.
Im sure there are loads of guys who are after this kind of thing but im just interested in your thoughts.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I see so what would be the best way to find someone, ive sent girls some messages but i dont want to seem like some kind of timewaster who is looking for a girlfriend because that is the total opposite of what im looking for. Are clubs and socials a good way to meet people interested in this kind of thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are lots of 'couples' who are just 'couples' for swinging purposes.
But coming on here and asking for a lady to 'couple' with you for this purpose????
Not being funny but...... as a single female, I can get as many meets as I want. Without a partner. Why would I want to 'couple' with you?
It appears to me that you're just looking for the 'golden ticket' to swinging... you want a female as a 'lure' to try to get you more meets.
Sorry, but it doesn't work that way! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Got to agree with SunnyOptimist. I've already got an 'arrangement' with a nice single bloke in Sheffield for couples swinging but I get MUCH more fun playing alone. The problem with two fuckbuddies playing as a couple is that the men might get more fun, but the women would get less.
You're better off cultivating a FWB relationship with a single woman or two on here first then see if they want to play as a pair. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It appears to me that you're just looking for the 'golden ticket' to swinging... you want a female as a 'lure' to try to get you more meets.
Sorry, but it doesn't work that way!"
I was afraid people would think that but thats not the case, i already meet quite a few couples on a regular basis and we discussed how it would be fun to involve a single girl in the mix just to add some more spice to our fun.
Im not someone whos looking to meet as many people as i can off this site just some nice sexy people and i already have a regular group of people who i meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey everyone ive been wondering, in the crazy world of swinging are there any couples on here who are just swinging couples and not in a real relationship, just two single people who just play together regularly with others.
Im a single guy and ive met a few great couples off this site already but im looking for a single girl who would be my 'partner' just for swinging fun. Someone who could join me when i meet couples for cross bi fun.
Im sure there are loads of guys who are after this kind of thing but im just interested in your thoughts.
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personally, from a single females point of view, i cannot see the attraction in this
Being a single woman everything is cheaper, most clubs are free or very little to get in, ive never been charged to go to private parties where men and couples have, i get loads of offers to meet, because im a single female so having a guy in tow would just drop my cances of meeting dowm, firstly because id get less offers as a couple secondly id also have to consider him when choosing who meet and we arnt always going to like the same people, so there will be time i will have to turn down people i want to meet because he does'nt
I just think meeting alone and only having to consider yourself is easier
I do understand its not te same for men and many men feel they need a woman to get into the swinging scene better, but to be quite blunt why should i be some guys offering so he can shag another mans wife  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You're better off cultivating a FWB relationship with a single woman or two on here first then see if they want to play as a pair. Good luck."
Hmmm maybe your right, after reading some comments maybe i just need to find a girl who would join me from time to time, a fb. I must stress though that im not just looking for a partner to get more meets. I dont want to boast but i get enough meets myself i was just looking for something a bit extra. Im not interested in changeing my profile to 'Couple' when i meet a girl, im just literally looking for some different fun. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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My view is that finding someone like this just sort of happens naturally...or it doesnt.
Not sure you can find someone to 'couple up' with unless youve met them, like playing with them, both want to do it more and maybe with other people...
And some of the other posters have said this sort of arrangement wouldnt suit a lot of women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am looking for female partner to swing with. I normally go to clubs as single male. I suppose some of the clun=b requires a cple only. Please message me if you are intrested and would like to be my FB.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet with a male off here as a cuple n we not a proper couple. I think its great proper cuples meet in here for fun but I can see y some proper couples find doing what we do affects their relationships if me n him was a proper couple wed have split up by now as wen we argue nine times out of ten its related to this site in some way i sticking at it tho as not gonna let the minority on here spoil it as there's many great people on here n I just hide my profile wen I need time out from the madness hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience I've often found fuck buddy couples are often more prone to jealousy issues... as most real couples are doing it because they are happy with each other..
I don't think any arguments should be caused by swinging and if they do... what is the point...
Katie x |
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