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By *oxes OP   Man  over a year ago

Southend, Essex

just had a sureal moment on here.

I saw a couple on here and liked what I saw. I read their profile and, they had reasonable amount of varis that sounded genuine not forged and were from people with large ammounts of varis themselves so I sent them a message without pics which is what they said on their profile, I asked about their status "you can't seem to give it away these days"

well 3 messages later over the last few days and things are going well I can see that they clearly are interested in me.

"they explain they have had 309 messages in the last hour and that I am one of them."

I went to send them a message detailing that seems excessive and that I hope you did not see me as a timewaister. only to find I was blocked.

1) bezare why the sudden change in hart?

2) had this ever happened to someone else on here?

3) where did I go wrong?

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

You got your hopes up

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By *oxes OP   Man  over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"You got your hopes up"

haha lol fab newbie error (although I have been on here nearly 4 years, you would think I should know better lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It happens all the time, could be any number of reasons for it. People are entitled to change their minds at any step of the way. It's called consent

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe only one of them read the message and when the other saw it, it was a no. We've done that before

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By *ertsguy2000Man  over a year ago

hertford

Yes could be a simple change of heart

I've had similar experiences myself, all going along swimmingly and then when it starts getting down to the business end it suddenly starts to take a different tone!!

Some people just like the chase I think, I find it best to let go and move on!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You got your hopes up"

That about sums fab up sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes could be a simple change of heart

I've had similar experiences myself, all going along swimmingly and then when it starts getting down to the business end it suddenly starts to take a different tone!!

Some people just like the chase I think, I find it best to let go and move on!!"

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By *oxes OP   Man  over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Yes could be a simple change of heart

I've had similar experiences myself, all going along swimmingly and then when it starts getting down to the business end it suddenly starts to take a different tone!!

Some people just like the chase I think, I find it best to let go and move on!! "

yeah maybe so. it's a shame but i haven't lost anything or gained anything other than to be more cynical and not get me hopes up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You will never know so don't dwell on it a nano second more.

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By *c-ukMan  over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Easy.... Its a dude pretending to be a couple.. when the shit gets real he needs to block...

Move on and forget it..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Easy.... Its a dude pretending to be a couple.. when the shit gets real he needs to block...

Move on and forget it.. "

Yeh and all the people they have met where fakes too.

In all honesty OP the only people who know are the couple.

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By *rbane PlayerMan  over a year ago

London


"just had a sureal moment on here.

I saw a couple on here and liked what I saw. I read their profile and, they had reasonable amount of varis that sounded genuine not forged and were from people with large ammounts of varis themselves so I sent them a message without pics which is what they said on their profile, I asked about their status "you can't seem to give it away these days"

well 3 messages later over the last few days and things are going well I can see that they clearly are interested in me.

"they explain they have had 309 messages in the last hour and that I am one of them."

I went to send them a message detailing that seems excessive and that I hope you did not see me as a timewaister. only to find I was blocked.

1) bezare why the sudden change in hart?

2) had this ever happened to someone else on here?

3) where did I go wrong?

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I don't think you should see it as you having done anything wrong. The truth is that you will never know. It does happen. I am sure it has been there loss !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Three messages isn't that many, I wouldn't know if I wanted to meet someone after only three.

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