Hello, I tried searching for Threads on this topic (on Swingers Chat & Support and advice)but I couldn't really find anything (possibly too far behind).
My question is pretty much, Based on peoples experiences and perspectives, What would you do if you randomly found/came across a profile of someone you know in your day to day "regular" life?
Someone you know who doesn't understand discretion/confidentiality or maybe someone you generally don't get along with.
The first thing that came to my mind was, "Just block them." But then I realised that there's a VERY HIGH chance that we could both attend the same socials, events, etc.
Long story short, what I'm asking is, if you were in such a situation, what would you do?
P.S.
Apologies if my expression isn't very clear, I usually only post on events and never been an OP.
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you have three choices.
Block them and deal with it if you ever do meet them at a social.
Do nothing.
Leave the site.
Personally I would block and forget if you are concerned hide any identifiable photos, change your location slightly and carry on enjoying the site. |
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"you have three choices.
Block them and deal with it if you ever do meet them at a social.
Do nothing.
Leave the site.
Personally I would block and forget if you are concerned hide any identifiable photos, change your location slightly and carry on enjoying the site."
Hmm... Interesting.
I actually only found out about them as I was about to sign up for an event and noticed the profile.
I won't be going to that event as a result as I think it's too soon/I've obviously not come up with an appropriate solution yet...
But I won't leave or stop attending events because of them... That's why I feel the need to find a solution... |
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"I just block them. I don't meet anyone local so the chances of our paths crossing are minimal. "
I got a message off a guy 30 odd miles away, totally not local, I knew him so that doesn't always work. Lol  |
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"you have three choices.
Block them and deal with it if you ever do meet them at a social.
Do nothing.
Leave the site.
Personally I would block and forget if you are concerned hide any identifiable photos, change your location slightly and carry on enjoying the site.
Hmm... Interesting.
I actually only found out about them as I was about to sign up for an event and noticed the profile.
I won't be going to that event as a result as I think it's too soon/I've obviously not come up with an appropriate solution yet...
But I won't leave or stop attending events because of them... That's why I feel the need to find a solution..."
I don't think there's a solution as such because the person or people are an unknown quantity. It's possible that in this case they will be discreet or will avoid you...you don't know. |
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