 |
By *amboo OP Couple
over a year ago
kings lynn |
We only do about half a dozen 3sums a year , all with the same guy we like and get on with. At the last meeting, I got held up with a phone call as we were all heading for the bedroom so my lady and the guy ended up having some 6/7 minutes alone before I joined them where as expected they were both naked and enjoying each others bodies.
Later, I asked my lady how she enjoyed being alone with the guy and she said it was exciting. Asked if she would do it again she said she would but if I was ok with it would like a longer time, say about 15 mins. The guy feels the same.
I find the thought of her alone with him quite a turn on but wonder if there are any risks in allowing our relationship with him to develop in this way.
Sensible comments please.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's great that you 2 are comfortable with leaving each other alone for a while. Mrs N likes me to leave her alone too, but likes me to be around. I really don't mind as I love hearing the noises of her seduction from outside the room.
Ask her to leave the door open a crack so that you can peep in. Mine does that as she says she finds it very erotic to think I am close by, probably with dick in hand. I have often stood outside the door listening to the grunts and groans and your cock gets as stiff as a board and the temptation to wank and cum is almost too much.
It must have glorious to come home and hear the noises from upstairs. I have dreamed of that happening but I don't think it ever will. Mrs N is not keen to have a fella round before I get there. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Hi. My wife wants to have another man all to her self but I'm not sure how i feel about it as we are still fairly new to swinging. I like the idea but I would want to be near however I share the same reservations about something developing  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If it truly turns the make half on to imagine , rather than see what's going on , then it's all good .
The potential problem is that he may get that gut wrenching pang instead , and that isn't good for anyone .
The only way to be sure is to try it and see . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *atgenMan
over a year ago
Kings Lynn |
I really want my lady to experience and enjoy her sexual freedom now she is out of a long boring marriage. The two of us have a great relationship and trust each other completely so maybe give it a go. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
When we started swinging we were adamant we'd always be same room. However, over time things developed and Kate has met alone. To date it's been one of the most erotic experiences we've had.
We started off where she met the guy alone and I turned up 30 mins later.
The next time they just had a hotel together.
It will all boil down to how you both feel, but I think if you are comfortable swinging in same room, it's not a huge leap to go separate.
It's not for everyone I'm sure, but all the same rules still apply. For us the deal is I want all the details and pics  - works great and she's texts me during the meet so still feel very much involved.
Talk it through. If it doesn't work, chalk it up to experience and don't do it again.
D |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Beware, emotion can pop up at any time in one on one meets after all sex was designed to create relationships.
Do you want to gamble that you wife will not form an attatchment to this guy and him to her?
Only you can answer if its ok; but if she starts talking of evenings alone with him and then nights alone, when does play become potentially destructive? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
As long as you are both ok with it and always communicate about it you should be fine but don't be afraid to raise your concerns with her or if you start feeling it's not right for you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
