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Gf wants to dress in sexy underwear and stockings then tie me up make me wear a cock cage and get fucked off another guy or two . The sound of it is a turn on but not too sure how it would play out like in reality . Might not like it if it actually happens right in front of me . She really does want to try it though. Any advice? |
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How about building up to it in stages rather than go straight to the ultimate fantasy?
Perhaps try chatting with a few guys on here making it clear at this time that you are NOT going to meet. The ones who stay you might try having a social meeting with on your own to see if they seem decent enough to understand that its all acting and that you're not interested in having them steal your partner. The ones who stay are on your shortlist to meet with both of you so that you can both agree on who you will go on with
Make the first few meetings social drinks only and see how you all get on then maybe go to a club and get a room for some soft swing, take things from there.
It may take months to find a suitable guy or you may not find on at all although it's better to not go through with it unless all is right for everyone.
Good luck with your search |
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"Gf wants to dress in sexy underwear and stockings then tie me up make me wear a cock cage and get fucked off another guy or two . The sound of it is a turn on but not too sure how it would play out like in reality . Might not like it if it actually happens right in front of me . She really does want to try it though. Any advice?"
Yeah.
Theory and Practice are two very different things.
And the differences between theory and practice are greater in practice than in theory (engineering wisdom)
So if one or both of you does not like it to the extent that afterwards you see either yourself or the other person in a different way, it can be an end to the relationship.
Having said that, unfulfilled needs can also end a relationship, unfulfilled fantasies not so much.
Our advice would be to break it down into baby steps, so step 1 is you aren't tied up and the other guy just molests her a bit, maybe in a pub or some other scene where it can't develop too far, then see how you both feel after.
Best advice is to determine who you both really are under the fascade, and never even think about blaming the other person for being what they really are.
Whether you are destined to grow together or grow apart, do it with dignity and nobody gets hurt, dive in head first without communication and respect and someone will for sure.
Notably absent from your brief post is any mention of immediate post event interaction between you two, she going to see them out the door and then see to your needs and make it worth it for you? |
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I'd say go for it and try it. Tie you up to a chair in the bedroom whilst she gets fucked on the bed wearing lingerie and heels. Nothing better  Me and the gf at the time did it. Also once I was in next bedroom listening in. All started from our first 3 sum we had that's when I knew. It's horny as hell you'll be instantly hard. And having a cock ring on during it is a great idea too  |
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I've got a cuck, and he loves it when I don't tell him I'm meeting another guy and just send him pictures or a naughty video or whatever. I understand that maybe not everyone wants to 'cheat' like this (we aren't together), but I'd say go for it.
Start wearing a cage whilst shes on here chatting to other men, that will help with the association in your mind. Cucks get off on 'my cock isn't good enough for you, but this random guy's is,' and the humiliation that surrounds that. Love love love!!! |
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Hi I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x |
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"Yeah I might she has a single profile on this as well "
The above ^^ couple of posts are a standard fab response when a "single man" asks a question about a partner.... |
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"Gf wants to dress in sexy underwear and stockings then tie me up make me wear a cock cage and get fucked off another guy or two . The sound of it is a turn on but not too sure how it would play out like in reality . Might not like it if it actually happens right in front of me . She really does want to try it though. Any advice?"
Try just letting your girl fuck another guy on a meet and get her to put a skype call or regular phone call on speaker phone.
It will be more of a psychological cuckold turn on because your be miles away and the bull's will be more eager to fuck her when not watched.
Also most new guys to swinging will be more confident to meet up and fuck your partner. |
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