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Seen people on here you know ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't actively look for people I know on here. If I came across anyone they woukd he blocked.
So OP how will you approach people you know without coming across as creepy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't actively look for people I know on here. If I came across anyone they woukd he blocked.
So OP how will you approach people you know without coming across as creepy? "
It wouldn't be creepy at all, their both members of a swingers website???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't actively look for people I know on here. If I came across anyone they woukd he blocked.
So OP how will you approach people you know without coming across as creepy?
It wouldn't be creepy at all, their both members of a swingers website??? "
Depending on the approach it can be seen as creepy, irrespective of whether someone is on a swingers site. As a single female if I got a message off someone who knew me and they said that in their first message then that is creepy. THAT is why I asked the question. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"I don't actively look for people I know on here. If I came across anyone they woukd he blocked.
So OP how will you approach people you know without coming across as creepy?
It wouldn't be creepy at all, their both members of a swingers website??? "
I got some real creepy messages off someone a while ago who just kept saying 'i saw you in Sainsbury today....' they were listed as a couple and had no face pics up, so I had no idea who they were. It went on for weeks til I found out who it was via a friend who met the lady of the couple.
I've since found out she's lovely and didn't intend to scare me, but it did for some time as I got a message everytime I went!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only seen one lass I knew on here, who was in my old college class. Horrible girl. Made my lessons hell, trying to get me to drop the class. Plus I found it ironic as she kept saying that people who use tinder and other sites like it must be desperate and sad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Creepy very creepy.
It's also creepy that while your trawling (OFTEN) as you put it looking for people you might know that you hide any pictures of yourselfs.
And no varifications as such after more than a year on the site makes us wonder are you here just to look for people you know and if so why! |
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A couple of years ago we were contacted on here by a guy who was in school with Tif, turned out she had actually quite fancied him in school so we hooked up and had some fun.
Only other one is a well-verified profile which belongs to the wife of a work colleague of mine. Her profile says she has his full permission to be on the site and play, as we have absolutely no idea we simply blocked and moved on. Sometimes best let to sleeping dogs lie! |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
Birmingham |
We've had a message off someone on here saying they've seen us round town. No idea who they as their profile pics are just typical single guy dick pics  which we have no interest in. Now a female on the other hand we'd be interested in finding out who they are. |
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i was messaging with a girl for a while on here she never shared any pictures and any I sent her was just of my body then I suggested that we might have a meeting and and then the next day she sent me a couple of texts and For some reason i realised it was my ex girlfriend ???????? who I have a daughter with safe to say we haven't spoken since |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i was messaging with a girl for a while on here she never shared any pictures and any I sent her was just of my body then I suggested that we might have a meeting and and then the next day she sent me a couple of texts and For some reason i realised it was my ex girlfriend ???????? who I have a daughter with safe to say we haven't spoken since "
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"i was messaging with a girl for a while on here she never shared any pictures and any I sent her was just of my body then I suggested that we might have a meeting and and then the next day she sent me a couple of texts and For some reason i realised it was my ex girlfriend ???????? who I have a daughter with safe to say we haven't spoken since "
think this maybe a bad porno screen  |
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By *ustMe06Woman
over a year ago
...the naughty spot. |
Someone I thought I knew in 'real life' messaged me with a face pic...I was unsure but after speaking it was confirmed. I said I didn't want to take things any further as we knew each other (albeit only in passing) but that he had no issues as what happens on fab stays on fab.  |
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Messaged a couple on here a few months ago suggesting a meet; this is out in Spain. They realised who we were and said sure but we have already met !!Nahh, yes, we had got chatting a year previously ( before we started swinging) in the local marina bar and invited them back to our boat for a nightcap.We are now good friends. |
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By *rSinfulMan
over a year ago
mysteryville |
Just saying hello to somone these days is considered creepy. Saying someone looks nice or complimenting them on their new hair is creepy. Just admiting your sexually attracted to someone is also considered creepy these days. I think most people are fucking weird now. It's normal for anyone to have sexual desires and seek out who they like it's healthy and someone being attracted to you should be taken as a compliment even if it's not mutual. As long as in the normal polite bounderies we usually live by.
In this new digital era it seems people have forgotten how to really interact as humans. At least in my experience. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
Filthy Fuckeryville |
"Just saying hello to somone these days is considered creepy. Saying someone looks nice or complimenting them on their new hair is creepy. Just admiting your sexually attracted to someone is also considered creepy these days. I think most people are fucking weird now. It's normal for anyone to have sexual desires and seek out who they like it's healthy and someone being attracted to you should be taken as a compliment even if it's not mutual. As long as in the normal polite bounderies we usually live by.
In this new digital era it seems people have forgotten how to really interact as humans. At least in my experience. "
Not true - it depends on how its done tbh..... the experience I had that described above was bloody creepy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen tons. Doesn't bother me a bit. One annoyed me as he typed 'I went to school with you. You'd be surprised who I was'
Frankly, no. I'm not bothered. Seee yaaaaa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen old school friends on here and a colleague!! I told the school friends I'd recognised them and we have since all bumped into each other at a social! Was a funny situation but nice to catch up actually!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A neighbour a few doors away had looked at ours one night.
I looked at his back and only realised it was him when I saw a face pic. Just to confirm I showed our 8yr old who instantly confirmed 'thats *****'
He needed verified, I debated it, verified him then fb'd him to let him know.
Theres been no awkwardness whatsoever x |
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By *N_FunMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
Yep..my first meet from the site turned out to be someone I had worked with and she'd not long left the company..absolutely noo awkwardness at all..in fact it made the meet even better as we chatted about people we knew there |
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Well we found out about fab from a woman at our kids school on another site got talking to her had a few meet and we r good friends she now left site and now got a new partner and got kid on way
But really funny sum time in play ground said to j to keep trying to say fab when u talk to people c if they smile we think there is a single woman in the school on here d looked her pics now can't find her to show me |
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has anyone else seen people they know off of the site ?? 
