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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi all this is my first forum reply.
I have no problem telling anyone that asks that I'm involved with swinging. My 86 year old mother can't get a handle on it and probably never will and my brothers and sisters don't give a hoot one way or another. As far as I'm concerned swinging is nothing to be ashamed of and if anyone has a problem with it then it's their problem not mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's people's views on telling family they swing? any of you done it? Would they disagree, be shocked?"
Would they disagree- yes
Would they be shocked- no
Would we tell them- no
Do we care about their opinion on the matter- no |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx"
wow, that is quite rare, surely?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx"
Oh dear, you know what kind of messages you're about to get don't you .... best get your filters up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx"
hello... yous sound great fun! x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx
Oh dear, you know what kind of messages you're about to get don't you .... best get your filters up! "
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By *ubbsWoman
over a year ago
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"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx hello... yous sound great fun! x"
tyvm we are all very open n talk bout everything together x
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By *ubbsWoman
over a year ago
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"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xxwow, that is quite rare, surely?"
no not really theres alot of us on here...obviously we dont play together n neva eba meet same guys..she goes for ppl her age n i go for my age.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xxwow, that is quite rare, surely?no not really theres alot of us on here...obviously we dont play together n neva eba meet same guys..she goes for ppl her age n i go for my age....."
how you mean, 'a lot of us on here'?
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By *ubbsWoman
over a year ago
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"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xxwow, that is quite rare, surely?no not really theres alot of us on here...obviously we dont play together n neva eba meet same guys..she goes for ppl her age n i go for my age..... how you mean, 'a lot of us on here'?"
mothers n daughters  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xxwow, that is quite rare, surely?no not really theres alot of us on here...obviously we dont play together n neva eba meet same guys..she goes for ppl her age n i go for my age..... how you mean, 'a lot of us on here'?mothers n daughters "
Really? anyone else think this? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really feel no need to discuss our sex life with our family.
However, they have met several of our swinging friends at our wedding reception and have no idea lol"
lucky no one slipped up then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My family don't know and don't need to know. If they somehow found out i wouldn't hide it but I'm not about to go shouting from the rooftops that I'm a swinger just yet
Kinky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mum knows I am on sites like this, but whenever I have a meet I just say I'm going to see a friend.
The other day she saw some condoms in my draw and was horrified since I must have been screwing all kinds of women. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My mum knows I am on sites like this, but whenever I have a meet I just say I'm going to see a friend.
The other day she saw some condoms in my draw and was horrified since I must have been screwing all kinds of women. lol"
"Don't worry mum, I screw men as well" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i really have no need at all to tell my family i do this
Seem odd to me that people would
saying that in pretty sure my kids know, they are 22 and 23 and not stupid, they have said a few thing in the past thats made me think they have worked it out, ive been single for 9 years yet buy sexy underwear etc they aren't daft enugh to think i buy it to sit at home alone in my room, ive never confirmed it nor would i ever, i just leave their minds working |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My mum knows I am on sites like this, but whenever I have a meet I just say I'm going to see a friend.
The other day she saw some condoms in my draw and was horrified since I must have been screwing all kinds of women. lol
"Don't worry mum, I screw men as well" "
lol lol Yeah - I keep that bit quiet! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My family and friends know i do online dating, but nothing more. They wouldn't understand, and I can't be doing with all the grief i'd get off them. My mum already worries and thinks i'm taking risks by meeting people in real life that i've met online, she'd spontaneously combust if she knew everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have much contact with family but my friends know. Two of my best friends are on here and we go to clubs together with our long suffering other halves 
Beard has told his brother. He couldn't care less 
Red xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't have much contact with family but my friends know. Two of my best friends are on here and we go to clubs together with our long suffering other halves
Beard has told his brother. He couldn't care less
Red xx"
Please note we only suffer until we get into the playrooms
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am pretty sure my family know I have sex with my wife, I have never felt the urge to discuss favourite positions etc with any of them, nor do I feel the urge to tell them sometimes there are more than 2 of us having sex. |
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My eldest daughter knows now as I explained we run events at the 'club' we go to and she told me she's known for ages as saw Inked in the paper when he was papped at swingfields
We have a bit of a laugh about it as she is 19
Actually saw my brother on here when he split with his gf too so he knows too
A few of Inked's family and friends know but for
us strictly on a need to know basis ... x |
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I'm single with two grown children. They know I have friends that I meet for sex, I'm not a nun! They don't get told details, they don't need to know and neither of them are the slighted bit phased by it.
I've heard a few stories regarding accidents in clubs and I've been to a couple of events where an ambulance has been called and I don't want my children to find out what I do from a nurse in a hospital in another part of the country. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's people's views on telling family they swing? any of you done it? Would they disagree, be shocked?"
Our sex life is our business. Don't think my family would like to know about our sex life |
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There are a good few things we don't discuss with family as its our business, not ashamed or anything like that, just that we don't think they are interested in every detail of the minutia of our lives ....this includes what I had for breakfast, what my bank balance is and details of my sex life. Guess I am not an exhibitionist ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can just imagine me going to visit my mum she asks over a cup of tea what we been upto
"Well mum we had a random couple on line, had a few drinks n a chat n we all decided to have sex with each other. How was your weekend?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My kids n family know im on here...im not ashamed n if they didnt like it..tough its my life...my daughter is on here aswel lol xx"
What's ur daughters profile |
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"My family and friends know i do online dating, but nothing more. They wouldn't understand, and I can't be doing with all the grief i'd get off them. My mum already worries and thinks i'm taking risks by meeting people in real life that i've met online, she'd spontaneously combust if she knew everything. "
Very much this |
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Bugs told her mother who replied with as long as your happy that's fine just don't bring it up again.
I wouldn't dream of telling my mother as she's too straight laced. I have told some work collegues and very close friends however  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Punks brother knows he just said good on you not bothered one little bit ,as for me supposed family non there business at all but don't suppose they would be shocked but are very narrow minded |
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Most of my family and close friends know
Dads response "good on you if I was single I'd be doing same"
Mums response "well what a progressive girl you are just stay safe"
My best friends response "where do I sign up and why did you not tell me sooner"
Sisters respnse "I wouldn't do it but you're not me so crack on".
Brother in laws response (via on fab pm) "wanna fuck? I always fancied you" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most of my family and close friends know
Dads response "good on you if I was single I'd be doing same"
Mums response "well what a progressive girl you are just stay safe"
My best friends response "where do I sign up and why did you not tell me sooner"
Sisters respnse "I wouldn't do it but you're not me so crack on".
Brother in laws response (via on fab pm) "wanna fuck? I always fancied you" "
Brilliant! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's people's views on telling family they swing? any of you done it? Would they disagree, be shocked?"
My family has no idea about this and I wouldn't tell them
I come from a Christian upbringing and they would freak.
Its my life and my body so my choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well my parents don't know but my uncle is on here and we only knew that as we bumped into him at a swinger party I was shocked at first but hey we all adults now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Told a few of my many siblings. Youngest (gay) brothers comment was 'when are we taking him to Kestrels/Abfabs bi night'.
So far avoided, some things I could never unsee!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's people's views on telling family they swing? any of you done it? Would they disagree, be shocked?"
No but my sister knows i promoted swinging sites and she has used them! |
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My sister and her boyfriend are very open about using this site. I would probably be too but I'd prefer to open that avenue of interpretation for my parents. "You and your brother are on the same online swinging site you say?" |
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