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"Ok so you tell yourself that everday yes? Any wonder you feel like crap... the way we feel on a daily basis starts with our own thought process. Start now by telling yourself you look great, you feel great and you have lots of self confidence...keep telling yourself that every moment you wake up and throughout the day... it will change your whole world my friend! " Well said x | |||
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"Simply put I have non. Mr " Getaway From what I've see, you have oodles of the stuff | |||
"Ok so you tell yourself that everday yes? Any wonder you feel like crap... the way we feel on a daily basis starts with our own thought process. Start now by telling yourself you look great, you feel great and you have lots of self confidence...keep telling yourself that every moment you wake up and throughout the day... it will change your whole world my friend! " I do this every minute of the day, not to big myself up or make me feel better but because it's true 
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things like that I am confident in
But when it comes to my looks I have none
I'm confident that if people got to know me they would like me the thing is I think because of the way I look people won't bother getting to know me
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"Ok so you tell yourself that everday yes? Any wonder you feel like crap... the way we feel on a daily basis starts with our own thought process. Start now by telling yourself you look great, you feel great and you have lots of self confidence...keep telling yourself that every moment you wake up and throughout the day... it will change your whole world my friend! " That only works if you believe it though If deep down inside you know you don't look great then your just putting on a show I've tried it but no matter now many times I tell myself I look great I'm still a fat middle aged woman  | |||
"Simply put I have non. Mr " In what way? It's a sweeping statement Sexual confidence, confidence at work? Confidence with your looks? Confidence socially? Xx | |||
"Simply put I have non. Mr In what way? It's a sweeping statement Sexual confidence, confidence at work? Confidence with your looks? Confidence socially? Xx" A bit of everything. I am good at hiding it. But in relation to swinging it's mainly because of my.... Yep same old Crap from guy's. My penis size or lack of. There I said it. Sorry  | |||
"Simply put I have non. Mr Getaway From what I've see, you have oodles of the stuff" Awww thanks, but I hide it very well xxx | |||
"Simply put I have non. Mr In what way? It's a sweeping statement Sexual confidence, confidence at work? Confidence with your looks? Confidence socially? Xx A bit of everything. I am good at hiding it. But in relation to swinging it's mainly because of my.... Yep same old Crap from guy's. My penis size or lack of. There I said it. Sorry "Having a big cock ain't always the high light you may think it to be | |||
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"Simply put I have non. Mr In what way? It's a sweeping statement Sexual confidence, confidence at work? Confidence with your looks? Confidence socially? Xx A bit of everything. I am good at hiding it. But in relation to swinging it's mainly because of my.... Yep same old Crap from guy's. My penis size or lack of. There I said it. Sorry "Cock size isn't everything Some of my best meets have been with guys who have been under average Personally I find guys with smaller cocks put way more into the foreplay which I prefer anyway Maybe just look for women who are size queens x | |||
"Simply put I have non. Mr In what way? It's a sweeping statement Sexual confidence, confidence at work? Confidence with your looks? Confidence socially? Xx A bit of everything. I am good at hiding it. But in relation to swinging it's mainly because of my.... Yep same old Crap from guy's. My penis size or lack of. There I said it. Sorry "Change what you can and find ways to be content with what you can't, that applies to every area of your life and if something affects you negatively stop doing it if possible. Easier said than done I know but to my knowledge there is no other way to find confidence. | |||
"Simply put I have non. Mr In what way? It's a sweeping statement Sexual confidence, confidence at work? Confidence with your looks? Confidence socially? Xx A bit of everything. I am good at hiding it. But in relation to swinging it's mainly because of my.... Yep same old Crap from guy's. My penis size or lack of. There I said it. Sorry "Sadly there isn't much you can do to change its size.. The shower 'parade' in public can be off putting for guys who are smaller than average.. chances are no one is really looking .. we're all self conscious of doing some things in public .. Question ... Does it work.. ? Question ... does it satisfy your partners ..? If the answer to these questions is no being bigger isn't going to sort that. | |||
 if you were closer and single I certainly wouldn't say no! | |||
"You have a great body, if you have a great mind and personality who cares about cock size? If you can tantalise the mind, the body follows easily! I've had fun years ago with men who were very small manhoodwise and it was how well we got on that made me not care about the size of their cock. I got off easier and so did they! if you were closer and single I certainly wouldn't say no! "Thanks. Much appreciated. And thanks for all the feedback and kind words. To answer a few points. I have no idea if I can satisfy other women, jools and I have been together for over 30 year's and the last person other than her I had sex with was 1985! We have been swinging for about 4years and have been enjoying the experience. But I just can't seem to get the confidence to go that bit further with women, I avoid getting into a situation that may lead to anything because of my lack of confidence. And we all know a non confident guy is probably right up there with smelly armpits (which I don't have btw) of turn offs for women. | |||
"Simply put I have non. Mr In what way? It's a sweeping statement Sexual confidence, confidence at work? Confidence with your looks? Confidence socially? Xx A bit of everything. I am good at hiding it. But in relation to swinging it's mainly because of my.... Yep same old Crap from guy's. My penis size or lack of. There I said it. Sorry "I'm only average down there to be honest. Maybe a little bit more, but I'm not a measurer. N has made it clear she's not that bothered about big cocks either so there's something out there for us all
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"I have loads of confidence in many ways in other ways I have none When it comes to my abilities I have loads, I know I'm good at my job, I know if anything needs doing around the house I can do it, bar anything to do with gas things like that I am confident in
But when it comes to my looks I have none
I'm confident that if people got to know me they would like me the thing is I think because of the way I look people won't bother getting to know me
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sorry this was so long...... K x | |||
"Simply put I have non. Mr " Fantastic user name. NARF! | |||
We have two beautiful children because of him and our sex life is fantastic.
I just wish there was more that I could do to boost his confidence.
Love you mr brain | |||
"I am the other half of Jools and the brain. We have sat for hours talking over this issue. I adore him and his cock. I can deep throat him....enough said!
We have two beautiful children because of him and our sex life is fantastic.
I just wish there was more that I could do to boost his confidence.
Love you mr brain "He needs to listen to you doesn't he! | |||
"I am the other half of Jools and the brain. We have sat for hours talking over this issue. I adore him and his cock. I can deep throat him....enough said!
We have two beautiful children because of him and our sex life is fantastic.
I just wish there was more that I could do to boost his confidence.
Love you mr brain
He needs to listen to you doesn't he! " | |||
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"Many blokes may be able to relate. I'm dating a stunning lady who I utterly adore who is 15 years younger... and there are times I look in the mirror and wonder what the hell she is doing with me. But when a relationship is solid, it's not solid because of sex. Sex is just the topping Sorry if this is unfair, but if your confidence is low, I doubt your missus having a single profile will help! We've dabbled with a single BBC, but I could only cope emotionally as I was looking after my gal during the session, and we never left each other's side " I agree with you about the sex just being a part of it. We have a super strong relationship. We talk about everything. We've been together for a very long time and swinging is just making us stronger. As for the single profile...it was his idea! Mainly to separate couples meeting us and single guys. So many couples won't meet us because we play with single guys.   | |||
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"Im not very confident either i am a bbw lost a lot of weight x but still feel the same size i was b4 x am getting better x " Same here. Lost a lot of confidence over the weight I gained. Lost most of what I wanted to lose, but still see a very large woman looking back. It's a slow process regaining my confidence, especially after having someone who used to love putting me down on a daily basis. Slowly building my self esteem back up. Like you OP, I hide it well. But I'm of the mentality of fake it till you make it. It just takes a little more self belief evert day | |||
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"So that means that maybe the women that are only interested in playing with certain men because of their cock size may not be interested in playing with you. Would you want to play with a woman that's only interested in cock size and nothing else? We are what we are. You can't change it so own it. I would I hope that like us you guys are here for fun. People that want fun like you won't be worrying about your cock size only on the amount of fun that everyone is having. A bigger cock doesn't equal more orgasms so stop stressing and practice your 'don't give a fuck' attitude. We all have things we worry about don't let them effect the fun you have life's to short..." I am a chronic over thinker! Thanks for the message and thanks all for your support xx | |||
"So that means that maybe the women that are only interested in playing with certain men because of their cock size may not be interested in playing with you. Would you want to play with a woman that's only interested in cock size and nothing else? We are what we are. You can't change it so own it. I would I hope that like us you guys are here for fun. People that want fun like you won't be worrying about your cock size only on the amount of fun that everyone is having. A bigger cock doesn't equal more orgasms so stop stressing and practice your 'don't give a fuck' attitude. We all have things we worry about don't let them effect the fun you have life's to short... I am a chronic over thinker! Thanks for the message and thanks all for your support xx" Need to get rid of that habit it'll hold you back  lol | |||
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"Ok so you tell yourself that everday yes? Any wonder you feel like crap... the way we feel on a daily basis starts with our own thought process. Start now by telling yourself you look great, you feel great and you have lots of self confidence...keep telling yourself that every moment you wake up and throughout the day... it will change your whole world my friend! Well said x" i agree but when people put you down its not that easy | |||
"Simply put I have non. Mr In what way? It's a sweeping statement Sexual confidence, confidence at work? Confidence with your looks? Confidence socially? Xx A bit of everything. I am good at hiding it. But in relation to swinging it's mainly because of my.... Yep same old Crap from guy's. My penis size or lack of. There I said it. Sorry
Having a big cock ain't always the high light you may think it to be"no its not ive a big cock but lack self confidence its horrible sometimes | |||
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"I don't know why you have no confidence! We met at a social and you were hilariously funny, extremely sexy, dressed well, smelled gorgeous and were a pleasure to spend time with! S&S (Mrs)" Thank you very much you flatter me xxx | |||
"I don't know why you have no confidence! We met at a social and you were hilariously funny, extremely sexy, dressed well, smelled gorgeous and were a pleasure to spend time with! S&S (Mrs) Thank you very much you flatter me xxx" are you sure its all about confidence? I used to think I had no confidence, but it turned out I was just an introvert...which is a very different thing | |||
"Simply put I have non. Mr In what way? It's a sweeping statement Sexual confidence, confidence at work? Confidence with your looks? Confidence socially? Xx A bit of everything. I am good at hiding it. But in relation to swinging it's mainly because of my.... Yep same old Crap from guy's. My penis size or lack of. There I said it. Sorry "You must have seen all the threads about how most women don't care about cock size? | |||
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