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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a first date later tonight. I met the lady in a club. Didn't play or even kiss spent about an hour or so just chatting. OK so I did give her a foot massage as well. Just nervous about it as been a while since going on a date. I am not sure what to wear as in suit or my new jeans. Can't sleep worrying about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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At an Indian restaurant. Then back to hers for a foot rub that's what she wants. We have agreed to take it slow so no sex. For me this is fine as it's a date no sex on the first date rule. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Smart/casual. Jeans, shoes and a nice shirt I'd say xx
Just relax and enjoy. She will be nervous as heck too.
She WANTS to go remember. You've crossed the first hurdle.
And PLEASE promise me you won't try have sex.
Enjoy!!!! Xxx |
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Yea just smart casual my friend, just relax and take the night as it comes, you've already met this lady, she's agreed to go out, the hard part is done, now just relax and be yourself,
Good luck, all the best, X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lovely to see someone use the word 'date', which I sometimes think has become a dirty word on Fab. Shows that it is possible to combine NSA with having a nice time. And hope you have a lovely time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lovely to see someone use the word 'date', which I sometimes think has become a dirty word on Fab. Shows that it is possible to combine NSA with having a nice time. And hope you have a lovely time "
shouldn't combine the two it's not a dating site  it plays with peoples emotions |
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That's trally nice to hear, and I'm excited for you
Okay, nice clean jeans, and shirt plus polished shoes for me! Splash of aftershave too
And someone has already said it... No sex! Try and build on getting to know each other first, if you click there will be plenty of time for sex. Just keep it romantic and both of you wanting more at this stage. Good luck x |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
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"Lovely to see someone use the word 'date', which I sometimes think has become a dirty word on Fab. Shows that it is possible to combine NSA with having a nice time. And hope you have a lovely time shouldn't combine the two it's not a dating site it plays with peoples emotions "
Why are emotions a bad thing? I use this site as a dating site anyway. As long as everyone is honest and upfront, it's a good a place as any to meet someone for more than a quick emotionless fuck. People want different things and use this site in different ways.
Enjoy your date! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lovely to see someone use the word 'date', which I sometimes think has become a dirty word on Fab. Shows that it is possible to combine NSA with having a nice time. And hope you have a lovely time
shouldn't combine the two it's not a dating site it plays with peoples emotions "
That's a matter of choice. Certainly hasn't done me any harm combining the two and enjoying the emotions that for me makes sex so much more intoxicating. Anyway, can't use a dating site for what I'm after - hotwife with multiple lovers, husband joining in, attending sex clubs as a trio.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lovely to see someone use the word 'date', which I sometimes think has become a dirty word on Fab. Shows that it is possible to combine NSA with having a nice time. And hope you have a lovely time
shouldn't combine the two it's not a dating site it plays with peoples emotions
That's a matter of choice. Certainly hasn't done me any harm combining the two and enjoying the emotions that for me makes sex so much more intoxicating. Anyway, can't use a dating site for what I'm after - hotwife with multiple lovers, husband joining in, attending sex clubs as a trio. "
ffs the core foundations it's a swinging site and yes it can be manipulated to suit needs ovviosly but it is a swinging site FACT |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lovely to see someone use the word 'date', which I sometimes think has become a dirty word on Fab. Shows that it is possible to combine NSA with having a nice time. And hope you have a lovely time
shouldn't combine the two it's not a dating site it plays with the peoples emotions
That's a matter of choice. Certainly hasn't done me any harm combining the two and enjoying the emotions that for me makes sex so much more intoxicating. Anyway, can't use a dating site for what I'm after - hotwife with multiple lovers, husband joining in, attending sex clubs as a trio. ffs the core foundations it's a swinging site and yes it can be manipulated to suit needs ovviosly but it is a swinging site FACT"
I must stress that she is on this sight but didn't meet her on here. I used the word daye as that what it is. I met her at a club and we hit it off. No I have no plans sleeping with this lady as, I want something more than a fbw or one off fuck. I know I am on here and met some lovely ladies in a club and by other means. It's what I want and I have no plans of anything else. I know this is not a dating site. I didn't know I would bump into a girl that I hit it off with in a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lovely to see someone use the word 'date', which I sometimes think has become a dirty word on Fab. Shows that it is possible to combine NSA with having a nice time. And hope you have a lovely time
shouldn't combine the two it's not a dating site it plays with peoples emotions
That's a matter of choice. Certainly hasn't done me any harm combining the two and enjoying the emotions that for me makes sex so much more intoxicating. Anyway, can't use a dating site for what I'm after - hotwife with multiple lovers, husband joining in, attending sex clubs as a trio. ffs the core foundations it's a swinging site and yes it can be manipulated to suit needs ovviosly but it is a swinging site FACT"
But we are swinging! We meet guys for threesomes, we go to sex clubs with guys, and I am a married woman with a number of lovers. Is that not swinging? |
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"shouldn't combine the two it's not a dating site it plays with peoples emotions "
As long as both parties are happy and they communicate why not let them use the site in a way that works for them.
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"Smart/casual. Jeans, shoes and a nice shirt I'd say xx
Just relax and enjoy. She will be nervous as heck too.
She WANTS to go remember. You've crossed the first hurdle.
And PLEASE promise me you won't try have sex.
Enjoy!!!! Xxx"
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"I must stress that she is on this sight but didn't meet her on here. I used the word daye as that what it is. I met her at a club and we hit it off. No I have no plans sleeping with this lady as, I want something more than a fbw or one off fuck. I know I am on here and met some lovely ladies in a club and by other means. It's what I want and I have no plans of anything else. I know this is not a dating site. I didn't know I would bump into a girl that I hit it off with in a club. "
Does it matter where you meet someone you like? Don't worry about that and enjoy your date |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must stress that she is on this sight but didn't meet her on here. I used the word daye as that what it is. I met her at a club and we hit it off. No I have no plans sleeping with this lady as, I want something more than a fbw or one off fuck. I know I am on here and met some lovely ladies in a club and by other means. It's what I want and I have no plans of anything else. I know this is not a dating site. I didn't know I would bump into a girl that I hit it off with in a club.
Does it matter where you meet someone you like? Don't worry about that and enjoy your date "
It's actually ideal to find a long term partner who has been on the scene. At least you don't have to explain your lifestyle to someone who doesn't understand. And who knows maybe you can continue swininging but as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lovely to see someone use the word 'date', which I sometimes think has become a dirty word on Fab. Shows that it is possible to combine NSA with having a nice time. And hope you have a lovely time shouldn't combine the two it's not a dating site it plays with peoples emotions "
The site is whatever you want it to be, as is the lifestyle. I've had many FWBs (men, women and couples) on the scene, and for me there's always some level of emotion. I like to play with people I like....
OP I hope you have a really lovely date.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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like everybody's saying my friend, you're worrying over nothing! in fact you met her in a swingers club, you spent an hour just talking.
You were intimate (massaging her feet)
But it went no further? This sounds like the start of an actual, real world relationship
You'll be off the site in a month..you've not met a fb, you've met a keeper by the sounds
You should be beaming not stressing mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lovely to see someone use the word 'date', which I sometimes think has become a dirty word on Fab. Shows that it is possible to combine NSA with having a nice time. And hope you have a lovely time
shouldn't combine the two it's not a dating site it plays with peoples emotions
That's a matter of choice. Certainly hasn't done me any harm combining the two and enjoying the emotions that for me makes sex so much more intoxicating. Anyway, can't use a dating site for what I'm after - hotwife with multiple lovers, husband joining in, attending sex clubs as a trio. "
Sounds the same as us x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How did it go OP? went really well, food was good company even better. I am going to be seeing her again. Hopefully next week. "
Thats really great
Good luck! |
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"How did it go OP? went really well, food was good company even better. I am going to be seeing her again. Hopefully next week. "
Yay... That's good!
Did it feel odd to have 20-odd Fabbers along with you?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How did it go OP? went really well, food was good company even better. I am going to be seeing her again. Hopefully next week.
Yay... That's good!
Did it feel odd to have 20-odd Fabbers along with you?? "
It was just like you where all there with me haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just been told now. She dose not want a second date. Oh well she was honest with me. 
Sorry buddy, chin up though yeah?
Don't get too disheartened "
I am a little but oh well as the POF site goes plenty more fish in the see. Hummmm wonder what fabs would be?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just been told now. She dose not want a second date. Oh well she was honest with me.
Sorry buddy, chin up though yeah?
Don't get too disheartened
I am a little but oh well as the POF site goes plenty more fish in the see. Hummmm wonder what fabs would be? "
Understandable mate, I know you liked her. However, no major time invested so, pull up your big boy boxers and try, try again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just been told now. She dose not want a second date. Oh well she was honest with me.
Sorry buddy, chin up though yeah?
Don't get too disheartened
I am a little but oh well as the POF site goes plenty more fish in the see. Hummmm wonder what fabs would be?
Understandable mate, I know you liked her. However, no major time invested so, pull up your big boy boxers and try, try again "
and it was going so well !rejection stinks but hey  there is fab still Try the sex clubs for inspiration take your mind of the disapointment and get back in the saddle |
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