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Bi females judging bi males.
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"Are the majority of ladies on here, allegedly bi, under pressure from their male partners? What price honesty? Ok, so I'm devil's advocate here."
I doubt it but it's possible, for sure.
Pressure would be abuse, in my book.
However, some ladies I know who are 'straight', claim they would have sex with another girl to fulfil their partner's FFM fantasy. Hard to believe but some other girls will simply be bi 
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"Are the majority of ladies on here, allegedly bi, under pressure from their male partners? What price honesty? Ok, so I'm devil's advocate here."
I'm bi and its down to no ones preference but mine...
its also partly the reason why I'm no longer married...
I have had messages of men who want me to turn their wife bi, but I tell them it doesn't work like that...sad fuckers |
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"Are the majority of ladies on here, allegedly bi, under pressure from their male partners? What price honesty? Ok, so I'm devil's advocate here."
I thin there are some who do this, but I dont. I d it for my own pleasure and did before I met him. He is the same with men, he did it before he met me and still does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was bi from an early age way before I met him...
not sure what your question has got to do with your title?"
Glad it wasn't just me that was confused  |
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"Are the majority of ladies on here, allegedly bi, under pressure from their male partners? What price honesty? Ok, so I'm devil's advocate here."
i play with women but do not count myself as bi... no pressure.. if i dont want to then i dont.. has to be the right situation.
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I don't think that bi ladies do judge bi men. This also has nothing to do with your post. ..
There will be some ladies who are only playing with women to please their partner. Which doesn't bode well for the relationship in my opinion.
However, I have not come across this as far as I'm aware.
I am definitely bi as are many women on here to different degrees.
I don't find all women sexually attractive any more than I find all men attractive.
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"Am openly bi. Was advised that my profile was putting ladies and couples off. Help.......!!!"
Its more likely to be putting off the 'straight' males in the couples as you obviously wouldn't be able to resist them ... or you would take their women away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am openly bi. Was advised that my profile was putting ladies and couples off. Help.......!!!"
And what in your rational, reasonably intelligent, sane brain made you think "oh yeah that's good advice that I need to take" as opposed to "Hmmm well they can fuck right off"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have played with women in the past. I did enjoy it, but didn't feel a specific attraction towards the female. More getting carried away in the moment. I don't class myself as bisexual or bi-curious, simply because the attraction or intent is not there. Playing with women has never been down to pressure, it's always been my choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am openly bi. Was advised that my profile was putting ladies and couples off. Help.......!!!"
what on earth has that got to do with women being bi and under pressure from their partners? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am openly bi. Was advised that my profile was putting ladies and couples off. Help.......!!!
what on earth has that got to do with women being bi and under pressure from their partners?"
Karl Pilkington has a fab account... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've met couples where the female on there profile stated they were bi,when they approached us the emphasis was " the female must be bi " when we met the female of the couple wasn't remotely bi  we do think that some couples ( emphasis on SOME) put the female is bi as they think it will attract more couples when actually they are far from it.....our experience only |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We haven't met any people who we believe is under pressure to partake in bi play by their partner, be that the male or female partner.
I love my bi side and I love Mr's bi side as it's a massive turn on for me.
We won't look at messages from men who say straight in their profile but bi in messages as we value honesty (to the man saying its offputting)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have bicurious down as I'm not bisexual, and there's no biplayful option which I think is a better description. I don't fancy women particularly and wouldn't seek to meet them one on one, but I enjoy playing with them in a group situation, in the moment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see what you're getting at. It's ok to be a bi female,but not a bi man? Possibly because the male of a couple is ok with ff sex,especially with him watching,but not with mm sex?
I'm inclined to think that two women licking,fingering and scissor sistering each others cunts is seen as less risky than men sucking and fucking each others arse holes,and also more of a turn on for both man and woman in a couple.
I'm not saying nobody likes mm sex,I'm one of the people who does,just that on here it's more acceptable for women to be openly bi than men. Which is why so many men hide the fact. |
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"Are the majority of ladies on here, allegedly bi, under pressure from their male partners? What price honesty? Ok, so I'm devil's advocate here."
What has this to do with judging bi males? or is this just a troll? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As we say we are more bi playful than bi but there isn't an option on here for that,we love all being involved and when it comes to guys we always want bi guys (always ignored but hey ho) but when we see a profile that has " we want female on female whilst men watch before joining in " nah not for us,seems to much towards the guys satisfaction.....although we respect there profile |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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I'm bi maybe more than some as I've been in exclusive relationships with women. It's me that signed us up to Fab, although it's S that spends more of his time on the forums..Any pressure is on S, but he doesn't complain
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over a year ago
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I'm bi because I love a woman's body. I don't play with women because men want to see. Been in a ff relationship in the past and adored it until things went down hill. I would absolutely love to play with bi men if the opportunity arose! |
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It was because Kate wanted to explore her bi side thatvwe got into swinging at all. That said, now she's scratched that itch, she enjoys it but really only when it's part of say group play. As a male i can take it or leave it but then, The whole 2 women thing, while it can be and has been lovely, it's not at the top of my list of things to do. I much prefer seeing Kate with 1 or more guys... fortunately... so does she. 
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"not sure your thread heading matches the question but im bi of my own accord - meet ladies alone at all fem events - no guys to impress there "
What events are those? We've been looking for places where MJ can go without male hassle.
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"not sure your thread heading matches the question but im bi of my own accord - meet ladies alone at all fem events - no guys to impress there
What events are those? We've been looking for places where MJ can go without male hassle.
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townhouse every 2 months and cupids every month - check out the websites
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"not sure your thread heading matches the question but im bi of my own accord - meet ladies alone at all fem events - no guys to impress there
What events are those? We've been looking for places where MJ can go without male hassle.
townhouse every 2 months and cupids every month - check out the websites
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"Are the majority of ladies on here, allegedly bi, under pressure from their male partners? What price honesty? Ok, so I'm devil's advocate here.
I'm bi and its down to no ones preference but mine...
its also partly the reason why I'm no longer married...
I have had messages of men who want me to turn their wife bi, but I tell them it doesn't work like that...sad fuckers "
... can only agree with all you've said ... has the same here too ... |
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I am bi and Jon is orally bi, I love to see him suck and wank other guys but some guys aren't comfortable with that, just the same as not every woman wants to play with a woman.... Each to their own
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