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Mid October Birthday Treat for Asian girl-friend
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi,
I have a friend that's a 22 year old Asian girl that looks incredible we regularly meet for fucks etc and we get along well.. Well for her birthday I was going to hire a room for a night and spa treatment at Matfen Hall, Nothumberland, I was then gonna try and find a qualified masseur that was good looking and well hung that would, without her knowledge, set up in he hotel room whilst we were having a meal and also potentially do a strip tease after haha
I was gonna try and see if she would take the bait and introduce her into the world of (kind-of) cuckolding... she's always shown an interest in it but I thought this was the perfect scenario... where do you think the best place to advertise for this would be?
Cheers,
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You will find most people are very suspicious when a single male tries to atrange a meet for a friend. You would be better off doing it from a couples profile but as she has no idea this is happening that isn't really an option. Are you sure she will enjoy this suprise? She won't feel pressured into doing something she doesn't want because of the effort you will have gone to to set it up? Or freak out completely? Maybe it would be better to chat to her about it. That way you can start a couples profile and at least have some pics of her etc so more chance of getting someone to agree to meet |
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"Hi,
I have a friend that's a 22 year old Asian girl that looks incredible we regularly meet for fucks etc and we get along well.. Well for her birthday I was going to hire a room for a night and spa treatment at Matfen Hall, Nothumberland, I was then gonna try and find a qualified masseur that was good looking and well hung that would, without her knowledge, set up in he hotel room whilst we were having a meal and also potentially do a strip tease after haha
I was gonna try and see if she would take the bait and introduce her into the world of (kind-of) cuckolding... she's always shown an interest in it but I thought this was the perfect scenario... where do you think the best place to advertise for this would be?
Cheers,
Georde "
Uh-oh.....
If that was me and my FB did that to me, it would be over in a flash.
So you're going to get someone who YOU think that I'm going to find sexually attractive enough to fuck. How in the hell would you know? Not everyone reveals their kinks. Even to themselves. People are still in discovery. I know I am.
Then you're going to set up a scenario without telling me. What if I doesn't know that the boundaries have been set? What if I think that the professional masseur is not professional. At what point do I stop screaming in fright? And which masseur will risk his profession for a few quid to do a strip tease? Then ask me if I am interested in swinging? Have you really thought this through? Really?
If I was that girlfriend I would find this behaviour highly manipulative. I could never trust the person who would try this on me. In effect your trying to hurry up, no...force a change in a person's sexual habits and lifestyle for your own personal needs. I'd regard you as a person who looks at me as an object. A disposable object.
I'd block you in a heartbeat.
So, in answer to your question, I would not advertise for this service. Ask her if she wants to swing. If she doesn't, then respect her decision and move on with or without her.
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"Hi,
I have a friend that's a 22 year old Asian girl that looks incredible we regularly meet for fucks etc and we get along well.. Well for her birthday I was going to hire a room for a night and spa treatment at Matfen Hall, Nothumberland, I was then gonna try and find a qualified masseur that was good looking and well hung that would, without her knowledge, set up in he hotel room whilst we were having a meal and also potentially do a strip tease after haha
I was gonna try and see if she would take the bait and introduce her into the world of (kind-of) cuckolding... she's always shown an interest in it but I thought this was the perfect scenario... where do you think the best place to advertise for this would be?
Cheers,
Georde "
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"Hi,
I have a friend that's a 22 year old Asian girl that looks incredible we regularly meet for fucks etc and we get along well.. Well for her birthday I was going to hire a room for a night and spa treatment at Matfen Hall, Nothumberland, I was then gonna try and find a qualified masseur that was good looking and well hung that would, without her knowledge, set up in he hotel room whilst we were having a meal and also potentially do a strip tease after haha
I was gonna try and see if she would take the bait and introduce her into the world of (kind-of) cuckolding... she's always shown an interest in it but I thought this was the perfect scenario... where do you think the best place to advertise for this would be?
Cheers,
Georde
Puzzled as to why her race is relevant to your original post?"
Have a look at his profile.
I did. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi,
Thanks for the advice genuinely massively appreciated. I probably should/could have clarified a bit more the scenario I laid out was actually a fantasy of hers.
Take on board everything you have all said and indeed I am going to have a chat with her about it, I had never thought of opening a couples account on here with a FB but that's a good idea thanks.
Jumped the gun a bit there one of those bright ideas that when you stop and think about it isn't that bright haha
Hope it didn't offend anyone.
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If it's something that she herself has tales to you about before then I think that it's a good idea.
I doubt an professional qualified masseuse would risk their job though for a bit of fun. Some might but most wouldnt.
Maybe a guy fRom here to pose as a masseuse? That might work better?
A couples profile for a fuck bud is a good idea too. I have one and its handy for meeting couples and other people together so people don't think you're just a random single guy
Sounds like a hot scenario though. Im going to put this one to my fuck bud |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sounds like a fun night OP, and you know your buddy more than anyone, she may very well be up for this kind of surprise. I'd just try to put yourself in her shoes and think it through as if you were her, cos it could backfire in a big way  |
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over a year ago
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I actually would love that! We are all different! Some of partners don't treat the another half to a nice meal ,hotel ,spa and plus with a treat! She must to be special for you to wish to make that surprise! I would be delighted! |
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"Hi,
Thanks for the advice genuinely massively appreciated. I probably should/could have clarified a bit more the scenario I laid out was actually a fantasy of hers.
Take on board everything you have all said and indeed I am going to have a chat with her about it, I had never thought of opening a couples account on here with a FB but that's a good idea thanks.
Jumped the gun a bit there one of those bright ideas that when you stop and think about it isn't that bright haha
Hope it didn't offend anyone.
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Not offended but your phrase "take the bait" kind of belies what you're saying here. Tread warily. |
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