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Yes i see there is already a similar Chat But its not relivante to me or my profile!!
So any opinions or ideas wil be great thanks!
O And i Womtind Getting A Few Fabs on My Pics xx
HAPPY FABBING.. PEACE!! |
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over a year ago
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Your profile sounds very young as you use smilies every where, and start your profile with "WASSUP" or however you spelt it. People will be put off by the fact that you're young and probably by the fact that you're playing away at such a young age.
People do tend to read profiles before messages. |
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over a year ago
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Sounds like you are delivering a power point. There's no flow to your profile. And like someone said... The wasssup is very child-like in its context. Perhaps inject a little more personality into your profile, and be a little more respectful towards your target audience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes i see there is already a similar Chat But its not relivante to me or my profile!!
So any opinions or ideas wil be great thanks!
O And i Womtind Getting A Few Fabs on My Pics xx
HAPPY FABBING.. PEACE!!"
Absolutely dreadful. Can't you speak in proper sentences? It is all abbreviated. Are you 16?
The content? Why would anyone find you attractive? It is all about you.
And, yes, I do not normally judge but in your case I do have to ask why you are cheating on your partner. |
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over a year ago
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business "
Ouch!!
Not the best answer to give in public.
You want to guess where you may have gone wrong? |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business "
There are countless threads offering generic profile advice in the archives, they generally offer the same advice.. happy reading |
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over a year ago
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business "
Spelling, grammar, punctuation - your profile and posts are hard to read.
At least you're honest about your relationship though, and kudos for your response  |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
Spelling, grammar, punctuation - your profile and posts are hard to read.
At least you're honest about your relationship though, and kudos for your response "
Aha thanks . Yeahh exactly! !
Atleast im doing well as for telling the truth   |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care. "
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it? |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care. "
It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.
People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.
The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals  |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it? "
I am afraid that it did go that way. |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.
People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.
The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals "
Thanks Glad have someone who understand's or shall i say have a point on my side.. |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?
I am afraid that it did go that way."
Go what way? Now your not making sense..
It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??
you was just giving your opinion |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?
I am afraid that it did go that way.
Go what way? Now your not making sense..
It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??
you was just giving your opinion "
You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then. |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?
I am afraid that it did go that way.
Go what way? Now your not making sense..
It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??
you was just giving your opinion
You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then."
No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it  |
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"No mention of a partner now, which is bad.
Still a 'come get me' profile. Women don't go get men on here so much.
You need to impress us."
Sorry i just deleted the lot as obviously didnt sound anything close to a good profile |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?
I am afraid that it did go that way.
Go what way? Now your not making sense..
It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??
you was just giving your opinion
You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.
No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it "
Respect |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?
I am afraid that it did go that way.
Go what way? Now your not making sense..
It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??
you was just giving your opinion
You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.
No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it "
No change there......  |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.
People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.
The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?
I am afraid that it did go that way.
Go what way? Now your not making sense..
It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??
you was just giving your opinion
You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.
No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it "
Snide? No.
Judgemental? Yes. That was what was asked. No apologies there. |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?
I am afraid that it did go that way.
Go what way? Now your not making sense..
It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??
you was just giving your opinion
You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.
No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it
Snide? No.
Judgemental? Yes. That was what was asked. No apologies there."
I don't recall the OP asking for opinions on his relationship or inviting questions as to why he cheats? Must have missed that bit! Or maybe like everyone else I understand that it's none of my fucking business
Yours was the most vitriolic and insulting of all the posts...you saw an easy target and went for it. Just goes to show, single guys being honest about their circumstances counts for nothing on here when there's judgemental spiteful folk like you around |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?
I am afraid that it did go that way.
Go what way? Now your not making sense..
It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??
you was just giving your opinion
You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.
No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it
Snide? No.
Judgemental? Yes. That was what was asked. No apologies there.
I don't recall the OP asking for opinions on his relationship or inviting questions as to why he cheats? Must have missed that bit! Or maybe like everyone else I understand that it's none of my fucking business
Yours was the most vitriolic and insulting of all the posts...you saw an easy target and went for it. Just goes to show, single guys being honest about their circumstances counts for nothing on here when there's judgemental spiteful folk like you around "
Good point and well made. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?
I am afraid that it did go that way.
Go what way? Now your not making sense..
It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??
you was just giving your opinion
You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.
No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it
Snide? No.
Judgemental? Yes. That was what was asked. No apologies there.
I don't recall the OP asking for opinions on his relationship or inviting questions as to why he cheats? Must have missed that bit! Or maybe like everyone else I understand that it's none of my fucking business
Yours was the most vitriolic and insulting of all the posts...you saw an easy target and went for it. Just goes to show, single guys being honest about their circumstances counts for nothing on here when there's judgemental spiteful folk like you around "
I really don't care about whether someone is cheating.
I do, however, really dislike the use of the word "honest" in those circumstances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It seems that selective honesty is acceptable on this site.
We always wonder how the person would feel if the roles were reversed and they were being cheated on.
We know someone exactly that happened to.
He cricried like a baby. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Be consistent in your search but also patience is the key. Don't be pushy and if someone does engage with you in conversation just talk to them normally without asking to fuck them in the first sentence. If you click then things will progress naturally.. It's taken me a few weeks but things are looking up, good luck! |
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"Be consistent in your search but also patience is the key. Don't be pushy and if someone does engage with you in conversation just talk to them normally without asking to fuck them in the first sentence. If you click then things will progress naturally.. It's taken me a few weeks but things are looking up, good luck! "
Thanks mate amd good luck in the future |
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I always think carefully when replying to someone asking about their profile.
If you make too many changes then it no longer reflect you.
You're young, you're looking for young people, so if you like text speak then use it.
Read so other profiles and get ideas from them, but make sure you give a true reflection of you. Not someone you think they want to meet.
The more you are yourself, the more you will attract likewise people.
Good luck.
Sugar x |
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"I always think carefully when replying to someone asking about their profile.
If you make too many changes then it no longer reflect you.
You're young, you're looking for young people, so if you like text speak then use it.
Read so other profiles and get ideas from them, but make sure you give a true reflection of you. Not someone you think they want to meet.
The more you are yourself, the more you will attract likewise people.
Good luck.
Sugar x "
Yes very true. Thankyou xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes i see there is already a similar Chat But its not relivante to me or my profile!!
So any opinions or ideas wil be great thanks!
O And i Womtind Getting A Few Fabs on My Pics xx
HAPPY FABBING.. PEACE!!"
Profile looks OK to me and at least you are honest! Brownie points for that
You need to work on some better pictures though. |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.
People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.
The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals "
Oh, for the days when swinging still had morals and standards of behavior  |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.
People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.
The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals
Oh, for the days when swinging still had morals and standards of behavior "
Oh dear, heaven forbid that attached people dare to join a swinging site...we should all know by now that only couples are allowed to be swingers!
The judgmental snotty comments have been done to death on this thread. The OP asked for profile advice, took it on board and acted on it. So you can put your claws away you're too late |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.
People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.
The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals
Oh, for the days when swinging still had morals and standards of behavior
Oh dear, heaven forbid that attached people dare to join a swinging site...we should all know by now that only couples are allowed to be swingers!
The judgmental snotty comments have been done to death on this thread. The OP asked for profile advice, took it on board and acted on it. So you can put your claws away you're too late "
Who has said only couples are allowed to be swingers? We've not seen anyone say that.....strange comment |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.
People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.
The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals
Oh, for the days when swinging still had morals and standards of behavior
Oh dear, heaven forbid that attached people dare to join a swinging site...we should all know by now that only couples are allowed to be swingers!
The judgmental snotty comments have been done to death on this thread. The OP asked for profile advice, took it on board and acted on it. So you can put your claws away you're too late
Who has said only couples are allowed to be swingers? We've not seen anyone say that.....strange comment "
We haven't seen that comment passed either.
We have seen a comment stating that cheating is not swinging, but again that is an opinion.
Thing is, on a Forum it will always be people voicing their opinions, and there will never be agreement.
Makes interesting reading though!
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
It's not actually...it's nobody's business, just as your relationship isn't.
People who don't meet cheaters will pass him by. People who aren't bothered won't care.
The guy asked for profile advice not judgement on his morals
Oh, for the days when swinging still had morals and standards of behavior
Oh dear, heaven forbid that attached people dare to join a swinging site...we should all know by now that only couples are allowed to be swingers!
The judgmental snotty comments have been done to death on this thread. The OP asked for profile advice, took it on board and acted on it. So you can put your claws away you're too late
Who has said only couples are allowed to be swingers? We've not seen anyone say that.....strange comment
We haven't seen that comment passed either.
We have seen a comment stating that cheating is not swinging, but again that is an opinion.
Thing is, on a Forum it will always be people voicing their opinions, and there will never be agreement.
Makes interesting reading though!
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Agreed however to some if you don't agree or go with there opinion then your wrong and in there eyes they are right |
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"Thanks for advice and as for last qs my amswer would be not your business
You asked. It is the business of anyone wanting to meet you, if they care.
Hmm very true but we all know that's not realy where it was going was it?
I am afraid that it did go that way.
Go what way? Now your not making sense..
It had none of your buisness as wasnt looking for a meet with me! Was you??
you was just giving your opinion
You asked for opinions. I gave mine. But apparently it is none of my business. It was a pretty pointless thread then.
No...you were being snide and judgemental and you know it
Snide? No.
Judgemental? Yes. That was what was asked. No apologies there.
I don't recall the OP asking for opinions on his relationship or inviting questions as to why he cheats? Must have missed that bit! Or maybe like everyone else I understand that it's none of my fucking business
Yours was the most vitriolic and insulting of all the posts...you saw an easy target and went for it. Just goes to show, single guys being honest about their circumstances counts for nothing on here when there's judgemental spiteful folk like you around
I really don't care about whether someone is cheating.
I do, however, really dislike the use of the word "honest" in those circumstances."
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"Your profile sounds very young as you use smilies every where, and start your profile with "WASSUP" or however you spelt it. People will be put off by the fact that you're young and probably by the fact that you're playing away at such a young age.
People do tend to read profiles before messages."
Wassup is back in, it's retro and oh so cool.
Page me X |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Looks much better than it did, is readable now and says much more about you.
Cheers sunshine xox"
It's a lot better than before , nothing to stop you adding to it over time..
My only comment about your new text.... I see no reason to set yourself above other guys of yours or any age..
the comment I'm not immature unlike someother guys my age....
Myself I don't like to see others done down, let others judge their behaviour and immaturity.. I'd have finished with something like please don't judge me only by my age, let my actions speak for themselves . You get the gist |
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"Looks much better than it did, is readable now and says much more about you.
Cheers sunshine xox
It's a lot better than before , nothing to stop you adding to it over time..
My only comment about your new text.... I see no reason to set yourself above other guys of yours or any age..
the comment I'm not immature unlike someother guys my age....
Myself I don't like to see others done down, let others judge their behaviour and immaturity.. I'd have finished with something like please don't judge me only by my age, let my actions speak for themselves . You get the gist "
Ok cheers mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Look for what it's worth people make snap judgements here on what u say and what your profile says if they want to get to know you op they will engage in conversation and maybe get a better picture of what your about best of luck remember respect gets respect |
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