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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll be fine, people will talk to you and you'll make friends amd wonder what you were so nervous about.
Being nervous is good though, all adds to the excitement  |
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I was the same and said so on the Fourm page about a club night, I got a message from a lady who said she and her mate would meet me which they did had a great time and been a few more times with them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You'll be fine, people will talk to you and you'll make friends amd wonder what you were so nervous about.
Being nervous is good though, all adds to the excitement "
Yeah you're probably right, its just makin the first move isnt it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was the same and said so on the Fourm page about a club night, I got a message from a lady who said she and her mate would meet me which they did had a great time and been a few more times with them. "
Awh that would be perfect, i dunno why i get weird about going to new places on my own! I'm a confident woman!! Lol x |
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"I was the same and said so on the Fourm page about a club night, I got a message from a lady who said she and her mate would meet me which they did had a great time and been a few more times with them.
Awh that would be perfect, i dunno why i get weird about going to new places on my own! I'm a confident woman!! Lol x"
I'm the same going to the cinema is no big thing as your sitting there watching a film but a place where you have to talk to someone is a different story lol
I went to a social group meet on my own I was the first one there lol but the staff where great and kept me company. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You'll be fine, people will talk to you and you'll make friends amd wonder what you were so nervous about.
Being nervous is good though, all adds to the excitement
Yeah you're probably right, its just makin the first move isnt it!"
You probably won't even have to make the first move, there's going to be someone who will just randomly start talking
Or advertise for a club buddy, that way you'll have someone to talk to |
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"I was the same and said so on the Fourm page about a club night, I got a message from a lady who said she and her mate would meet me which they did had a great time and been a few more times with them.
Awh that would be perfect, i dunno why i get weird about going to new places on my own! I'm a confident woman!! Lol x"
Me too - until it comes to this!! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm going to chams on my own tonight  it will be my 1st time as a single. "
come say hi to us, we are going..ill be the only collared, in the club, but you'll recognize the hair. my partner doesn't bite x |
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"I was the same and said so on the Fourm page about a club night, I got a message from a lady who said she and her mate would meet me which they did had a great time and been a few more times with them.
Awh that would be perfect, i dunno why i get weird about going to new places on my own! I'm a confident woman!! Lol x"
Probably because your instinct for survival is kicking in .... I think it is a natural thing to feel. |
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By *iss ACWoman
over a year ago
london |
"I'm relatively new to the scene and i'm dying to go to more clubs but i'm nervous about going on my own!! Advise please! X"
Shame we don't live closer or we could go together.... I feel the same about going alone  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm relatively new to the scene and i'm dying to go to more clubs but i'm nervous about going on my own!! Advise please! X
Shame we don't live closer or we could go together.... I feel the same about going alone "
Awhh that is a shame!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on my own loads of times. Im a very shy anti social person so would never start a conversation with someone but guys always chat and once they realise i love footy and can chat about it we chat away which breaks the ice  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have been on my own loads of times. Im a very shy anti social person so would never start a conversation with someone but guys always chat and once they realise i love footy and can chat about it we chat away which breaks the ice "
Hahaha i know naff all about footy unfortunately hah! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm relatively new to the scene and i'm dying to go to more clubs but i'm nervous about going on my own!! Advise please! X"
Im new too and i would also love to go to a club. Maybe we could tag along together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's a reputable club, the staff will help you settle in and make sure you are ok. I went to a club alone - the people were lovely and made me feel welcome. I had a great night chatting to people and they answered a lot of newbie questions.
My advice would be not to go with any set intentions, just go with an open mind. Don't be scared To chat to people at the bar - swingers are a very friendly and chatty lot.
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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago
A Galaxy far far away |
I'm comfortable in my own skin, and life is too short to worry.
Based on that, I've been to two clubs by myself after being let by others.
Good times and character building.
Go, meet people and have some fun.
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"I'm relatively new to the scene and i'm dying to go to more clubs but i'm nervous about going on my own!! Advise please! X"
I felt the same. Now I wish I'd had the bottle years ago. If you choose your club well, then staff will be really supportive. I've even phoned/messaged ahead when going to a new club alone and told them, so they've hand held a little at first. Again, if you choose your club wisely, the regulars will make you feel welcome and there are usually social areas in the club such as bars, lounge, smoking areas, jacuzzi etc where it's really easy to strike up conversation. People will usually approach you. After a few visits, you'll probably find you have a new circle of swinging friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i go alone to bi fem events quite happily - i went once to a club night for someones birthday - i knew the staff well and chatted to a few but was way out of my comfort zone - and i had gone purely as a social not a play night - just didnt sit right with me - dunno why |
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"I'm relatively new to the scene and i'm dying to go to more clubs but i'm nervous about going on my own!! Advise please! X"
I have no doubt you'll be fine but if you ever fancy a natter and travel companion let me know |
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