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How often do you delete your profile?!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anybody else do this ? Then have to go for through newbie can't get a meet syndrome? And the one couple you did meet who are still on has blocked unverified guys.. I wish I'd listened to fab upon on deleting 'you'll be back.. 80% of people return'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did it once....had people complaining /commenting I had too many verifications....! I've come back, had no problems at all....but been asking people not to bother in general.....just getting occasional ones to avoid looking like a slut lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a nightmare for this! I'm ashamed to actually say how many times I've deleted profiles to prevent me just taking a peek! I kept my single profile when we made this one and they got rid of it  how dare they! So now I'm forced to keep this one because of the verifications. I hate asking people to give me another one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I delete mine once a year, soon as it's almost a year old it's gone but always ask a previous meet to reverify the other week old profile that I make so I can post on the forum straight away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We did it once after being on here for two years because another Mum at the school gates told me she'd heard we were swingers so we wanted to lay low for a while. Annoying really as I would have offered to help out with the admin photo verification thing but now our profile is no longer over 18 months old! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never deleted, we just hide our profile and photos and change our name periodically "
I know but I think if you start a relationship for me I feel I need to fully commit and assume it will work out.. By just hiding the profile it's saying I have doubts |
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I've ne we done that I unashamedly have this and my couple profile and my events one
Im proud of my verifications from lovely meets and lovely friends and I always think if someone has a problem with the amount of them whether it's over 5 years or 5 months then really why would I want to meet them and why are they even contacting me to tell me and let's face it a profile could have only 2 veris but be hiding 100 haha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the profile that I started with on this site, never deleted it.
Only thing that would make be delete it would be starting a relationship that had no possibility of swinging in it. |
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People with issues n drama delete profiles when they don't get enough attention .
Newbies get all attention after all lol
those that go vanilla do it
And those that get addicted to site
Personally I'd just hide it .. after all we all recognise those pictures !!
But guess some like to live in a fantastic realm and some are realists
How boring if we were all same x |
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"I've ne we done that I unashamedly have this and my couple profile and my events one
Im proud of my verifications from lovely meets and lovely friends and I always think if someone has a problem with the amount of them whether it's over 5 years or 5 months then really why would I want to meet them and why are they even contacting me to tell me and let's face it a profile could have only 2 veris but be hiding 100 haha
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But you hide your verification count on your personal account and obviously don't show them all
Isn't that a but kettle pot !!
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
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I've never left ando restarted,but have taken a break away,and came back again,then those I had been chatting to before always tend to grab me with open arms,happy to see me back lol.
I wouldn't want to start again,when I'm quite happy with who and what I have x |
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"I've ne we done that I unashamedly have this and my couple profile and my events one
Im proud of my verifications from lovely meets and lovely friends and I always think if someone has a problem with the amount of them whether it's over 5 years or 5 months then really why would I want to meet them and why are they even contacting me to tell me and let's face it a profile could have only 2 veris but be hiding 100 haha
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But you hide your verification count on your personal account and obviously don't show them all
Isn't that a but kettle pot !!
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Freedom of choice if the site allows it Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is my third profile in 5 years. Started again on this one so I could block everyone and search for people myself without being pestered. Works really well for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would never delete our profile. We've spent nearly 2 years building it up. We love our verifications and the story of our journey that they tell, and certainly do not want to lose that. It's bad enough when we lose a verification by others leaving. But as swinging is a lifestyle choice for us, I can't see a need to delete our profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is incarnation no.3 in about 2 years for me. If I was a man I wouldn't delete but it doesn't really matter about losing veris or looking like a newbie if you're female. So I've deleted mine when I was bored of it and returned when I wasn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've ne we done that I unashamedly have this and my couple profile and my events one
Im proud of my verifications from lovely meets and lovely friends and I always think if someone has a problem with the amount of them whether it's over 5 years or 5 months then really why would I want to meet them and why are they even contacting me to tell me and let's face it a profile could have only 2 veris but be hiding 100 haha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been on and off more times that ive had hot dinners tbh. For various reasons. I mostly come back due to boredom and sit here and think why the hell did I come back because I'm really not having fun. I always use the same name though so people who have met me or chatted to me before know its me. I guess it is down to personal preference. We all have a reasons for being here or not being here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Twice so far.
Once when I was a couple and we're broke up, once when I just wanted a break.
Shame though as lost all my verifications and lost touch with a couple of people I really liked chatting with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When my wife started working away we basically stopped swinging except the occasional club night when time permits.
So I deleted the couples profile, and created this one for forum use only.
Photo verified it, and re joined as a single male, makes messages much easier to handle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I deleted mine when i went into a relationship, but came back again.
It's easier stay away if you delete it, but hiding it makes it tempting just to 'have a quick look' etc. |
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