FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swinging Support and Advice > Clubs and couples

Clubs and couples

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just wanted a bit of advice...in a couples room in a club is it still the the right thing to ask before touching etc..?? I wouldn't want to find a gorgeous cock close by and ruin the mood with an excuse me...or should I?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its polite to ask. Although im sure the guy wouldnt mind its better to ask

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks...I would hate to annoy someone x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pmsl would think like me he would think all his xmases have arrived lol

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World

Yep always ask, no matter what gender.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We would always ask.....I would expect others to ask also x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Its polite to ask. Although im sure the guy wouldnt mind its better to ask "

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks. Will make sure I do x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always ask.

I go to clubs with my wife and don't always dress as a girl. I'm still not looking for girls to touch my magnificent, sky remote dwarfing, cock

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Always ask.

I go to clubs with my wife and don't always dress as a girl. I'm still not looking for girls to touch my magnificent, sky remote dwarfing, cock

Lucky lady...

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Always ask.

I go to clubs with my wife and don't always dress as a girl. I'm still not looking for girls to touch my magnificent, sky remote dwarfing, cock

Lucky lady...

Lol. It's rare I play with women other than her. Hence best to ask. He might be like me and after cock only

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always ask... as I'm still amazed at how many ladies at clubs think guys single or as part of a couple are free to grope. The guy may not mind... but the partner may well do.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Horny have you ever been to a club? The townhouse is a really good club and if you need an accomplice let me know

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Always ask... as I'm still amazed at how many ladies at clubs think guys single or as part of a couple are free to grope. The guy may not mind... but the partner may well do. "

This

...

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Very true. X

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Always ask... as I'm still amazed at how many ladies at clubs think guys single or as part of a couple are free to grope. The guy may not mind... but the partner may well do. "

Especially that last part, always ask. It's just polite.

I've seen a few "issues" crop up between ladies when someone took it upon themselves to just pop someone elses fella's cock in their mouth without permission. It's quite scary seeing a woman flare up like that

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just wanted a bit of advice...in a couples room in a club is it still the the right thing to ask before touching etc..?? I wouldn't want to find a gorgeous cock close by and ruin the mood with an excuse me...or should I? "
couples rooms only couples allowed,but the way I see it is,I wouldn't like someone just randomly touching me! So ask is always good.x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Always ask... as I'm still amazed at how many ladies at clubs think guys single or as part of a couple are free to grope. The guy may not mind... but the partner may well do. "
or women..i was in the stocks and a woman just came up and decided to lift my skirt and start to touch without asking me or my partner....told her to fuck off..i wasn't amused

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1st rule of a swingers club.... ALWAYS ASK!

It's the first thing any newbie is told, and as a regular you should already know.

2nd rule of a swingers club...

Refer to rule 1.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *oandjohnCouple over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

Often find a knowing look, or a wink is enough to get the OK.. If it is group fun room we have never really said no to anyone

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes but be aware asking is not always a verbal thing in clubs (it is not always possible) so keep a look out for hand signals as well

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *axandbooCouple over a year ago

Bristol

A simple "may i?" to the couple is always the best way forwards.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Is it still the the right thing to ask before touching etc..??"

Just out of interest, OP, how would you feel if I groped you without consent?

Mr ddc

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *he horny kinkstersCouple over a year ago

North West

A beckoning finger should do the trick.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only place in most clubs you can generally touch without consent is the dark room. No still means no though.

If that's not the case, find another club.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *MaleMan over a year ago

Females touching guys is just like guys touching females. Only when invited, welcomed or encouraged

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always ask both if it is a couple

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *weetcorruptionCouple over a year ago

At home

"Always ask... as I'm still amazed at how many ladies at clubs think guys single or as part of a couple are free to grope. The guy may not mind... but the partner may well do. "

Totally agree

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/09/16 17:50:31]

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Always ask... as I'm still amazed at how many ladies at clubs think guys single or as part of a couple are free to grope. The guy may not mind... but the partner may well do. "

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *hoenixcouplexxCouple over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Always ask... as I'm still amazed at how many ladies at clubs think guys single or as part of a couple are free to grope. The guy may not mind... but the partner may well do.

Totally agree

Seen things end badly this way a couple of times. It's a couple so not just one partner that needs to be considered. Each should know Thier boundaries as a couple though so asking is definitely the right thing to do...

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone started touching me (Mr) I would have to tell them to ask the missus if its ok, not a sub/Dom thing, more a She will kick your arse thing!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

best to ask - or at least gain eye contact and give that look

no not the leery tongue hanging out one

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

I'd always ask, it would not break the mood. Sometimes you can tell as they may hold out an arm if there mouth is otherwise occupied. But a quick and breathless can I touch is definitely preferred.

Consent is sexy everyone likes to know someone else likes them even if they are not their type.

assuming consent can be both embarrassing and can lead to loud rejections or worse.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *wicethepleasureCouple over a year ago

falkirk

"best to ask - or at least gain eye contact and give that look

no not the leery tongue hanging out one

My favourite......bit of a nod, nod back and the next phase of fun begins

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I usually just say " can I give you a hand with that".

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well that would depend on where it started...a touch on my leg would indicate interest..and if ok then grope away. Nothing verbal required.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I like that...xx

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *iReyWoman over a year ago

Cheshire East

Isn't a couples room for couples only? Only asking as you're posting as a single fem. Also yes you should ask, my fiance nor I would be happy if anyone touched without asking first. It's happened a lot to us and it isn't appreciated

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

» Add a new message to this topic