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By * Kiwis and a Banana OP Man over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

So I have been on here a few months and have had a few ping pong messages but nothing. I get constantly winked at by couples but thats about it. I message people very politely only to be blocked.

Is there something I'm missing?

I'm a pretty friendly smart funny guy once you get to know me.

I just want to know if I'm doing something wrong as I feel like giving up.

Any help would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5ft 8 will honestly be your biggest problem i reckon. women online tend to go for 6ft+ men and there's not a lot you can do about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you asking for a critique?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your orofile's first two paragraphs are complaining. That's not particularly helping your case. After that you sound better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your orofile's first two paragraphs are complaining. That's not particularly helping your case. After that you sound better."

Couldn't agree more, it's quite a negative profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 months and moaning try a year then see where you are constantly moaning is not good on profile or here I was over a year before I got really into this site you have too work at it not just let things come to you and try socials or clubs if your serious about meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The profile wording would make it a definite no from my perspective.

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By *issy louWoman over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Oh dear, you sound like a right miserable bugger! Cheer up man, being positive never hurt anyone!

Oh and I don't think many ladies here would be impressed if someone turned up to a meet in a tracksuit, so you may have to rethink that bit of your profile as well!

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By * Kiwis and a Banana OP Man over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"Your orofile's first two paragraphs are complaining. That's not particularly helping your case. After that you sound better.

Couldn't agree more, it's quite a negative profile "

To be honest it was a lot lot better I spent quite a bit of time constructing it before I got annoyed. I will change it probably throw in a joke or two see if that helps

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By * Kiwis and a Banana OP Man over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"Oh dear, you sound like a right miserable bugger! Cheer up man, being positive never hurt anyone!

Oh and I don't think many ladies here would be impressed if someone turned up to a meet in a tracksuit, so you may have to rethink that bit of your profile as well!

I have seen some profiles who state they don't like skinny jean wearing guys or guys who wear hats etc etc etc. But I understand the whole dress to impress thing and will make an effort to dress accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a numbers game. Remember every woman gets hundreds of messages a day - it's got to be something extra-special to make her take notice, complaining and negative profiles are an instant turn-off for many.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You need to seriously work on your profile and i would remove the pic with you and your mate as well.

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By *ifuwMan over a year ago

Hull

I found all my meets through socials. That way they see the real you. I just use fab to contact the people I meet. Unless I have there details. I have a friend and she gets stupid amounts of messages and one lady in my area got 60 messages in 60 seconds. I felt the same as you did when I was only 3 months in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think this site is pretty shite for single guys from what I hear.....most women don't meet is common also....you might be lucky tho x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this site is pretty shite for single guys from what I hear.....most women don't meet is common also....you might be lucky tho x"

Even if every woman on here has a meet every day there still wouldnt be enough to go round!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this site is pretty shite for single guys from what I hear.....most women don't meet is common also....you might be lucky tho x"

it's good for attractive and honest guys. both of which are sadly lacking on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

and on the internet in general. i'm not blaming this site for anything, it's the men who are the problem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh and while i'm whinging it would help if men could read and comprehend profiles and were able to socialise without being focused on their dick.

sorry OP am just in one of those moods today.

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By *ndykinkyMan over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

"5ft 8 will honestly be your biggest problem i reckon. women online tend to go for 6ft+ men and there's not a lot you can do about it."

?????

Never heard that before !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I found all my meets through socials. That way they see the real you. I just use fab to contact the people I meet. Unless I have there details. I have a friend and she gets stupid amounts of messages and one lady in my area got 60 messages in 60 seconds. I felt the same as you did when I was only 3 months in."

I have meets arising out of socials too. I also know someone whose profile is absolutely pants but is always in the chat rooms and gets plenty of meets through there. It's not just about messaging or your profile.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Any 50 Shades reference puts me off.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

I look at your pictures OP and just see a young boy not a man.

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

"5ft 8 will honestly be your biggest problem i reckon. women online tend to go for 6ft+ men and there's not a lot you can do about it.

?????

Never heard that before !"

Guess it depends if you are a short arse like me. 5 foot 7 or 8 suits me. I think that 8 inches is plenty big enough

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By *axandbooCouple over a year ago

Bristol

Your profile is very negative and also if a TV,TG or bi bloke likes your profile you will block them?

It is a genuine question as that seems a tad extreme. Nothing wrong with people having their own likes and dislikes but that does come across as very homophobic and a very closed mind considering the type of site your on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think this site is pretty shite for single guys from what I hear.....most women don't meet is common also....you might be lucky tho x

it's good for attractive and honest guys. both of which are sadly lacking on here."

I've been on here for 4 weeks I think. It does work! Go to socials im going to my second tonight. And just relax. Go on the forums and engage. I can't talk about profiles I've not read yours. And I haven't got a clue about mine. But the site does work.

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