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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm really intrigued about being a slave or submissive to a mistress
I need advice as I'm not entirely sure what category I'd fall into
I would still like some form of sexual activity so I can come, and I don't want a mistress who asks for money or Amazon vouchers
I want someone who will use me for their pleasure and relieve me too
Is there such a thing?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not sure what category you are.
i would actually not bother with categories so much, people think me being domme means i will peg them or tie them up and i hate both those things.
more look for someone who is into the same things you are and would like to own you in the way you want to be owned. |
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"I'm really intrigued about being a slave or submissive to a mistress
I need advice as I'm not entirely sure what category I'd fall into
I would still like some form of sexual activity so I can come, and I don't want a mistress who asks for money or Amazon vouchers
I want someone who will use me for their pleasure and relieve me too
Is there such a thing?
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set out exactly what you want and see if anyone is interested  it doesn't seem at all unreasonable to me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys
It's quite hard on here being an average bloke with the male to female ratio lol
Is there any other sites more dedicated to it than fabs do you know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys
It's quite hard on here being an average bloke with the male to female ratio lol
Is there any other sites more dedicated to it than fabs do you know?"
i'd say get yourself offline and get meeting people at local socials or fetish clubs.
if you want to be serious about anything then don't look online for it, the web is full of users and liars. |
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"Not sure ive got the confidence to goto one lol"
Then you won't find what you want. Look for munches in your area. They are just a bunch of kinky buggers meeting in a pub for a drink.
On the fet scene, sub men far outweigh the Dommes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys
It's quite hard on here being an average bloke with the male to female ratio lol
Is there any other sites more dedicated to it than fabs do you know?
i'd say get yourself offline and get meeting people at local socials or fetish clubs.
if you want to be serious about anything then don't look online for it, the web is full of users and liars."
I agree with this, be cautious.
If paying bills is your thing then great, however. I don't believe in this.
I am a switch ( ie I top and bottom) and I have come across many people throughout time that take advantage of submission - then have the cheek to question your submission.
I doubted myself for a while, then realised I wasn't an idiot, that makes me no less submissive.
Since switching and topping men and women I cherish what they hand me, and I realise what my submission was worth x
Don't settle for anyone who takes advantage of you, see without a submissive there is no dominant.
Just a person with wants xx |
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By *anklerMan
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys
It's quite hard on here being an average bloke with the male to female ratio lol
Is there any other sites more dedicated to it than fabs do you know?
i'd say get yourself offline and get meeting people at local socials or fetish clubs.
if you want to be serious about anything then don't look online for it, the web is full of users and liars.
I agree with this, be cautious.
If paying bills is your thing then great, however. I don't believe in this.
I am a switch ( ie I top and bottom) and I have come across many people throughout time that take advantage of submission - then have the cheek to question your submission.
I doubted myself for a while, then realised I wasn't an idiot, that makes me no less submissive.
Since switching and topping men and women I cherish what they hand me, and I realise what my submission was worth x
Don't settle for anyone who takes advantage of you, see without a submissive there is no dominant.
Just a person with wants xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure ive got the confidence to goto one lol"
Why is it we see this quoted so often from men on here? Why are there so many men who think that swinging is the place for people who are scared to even go to social events? Jeez I was petrified at my first social but I did it alone and never looked back. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I'm really intrigued about being a slave or submissive to a mistress
I need advice as I'm not entirely sure what category I'd fall into
I would still like some form of sexual activity so I can come, and I don't want a mistress who asks for money or Amazon vouchers
I want someone who will use me for their pleasure and relieve me too
Is there such a thing?
"
My advice for exploring this dynamic with out having the piss taken out of you by wanna bes or time wasters is to attend munches that are organised in your area by those who enjoy the D/S scene and lifestyle .
If your not a member of said site that specializes in such fun pm me with what area of England your in and I will pass on to you a list of munches in your area.
That way you can talk to those who really have experience in the dynamic you are interested in and learn about what you may or may not like from those who are truly into that dynamic .
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