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lots of effort little reward
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I realise my age and gender may be against me but please is there something wrong with this profile?"
What do you think? Do you think that you spent time making your profile shine?
My guess would be that you wrote it in 30 seconds and that your profile pictures took another 30.
What do you think that a lady would make of it? Would she be interested? Would she be able to work out whether she had anything at all in common with you or anything about you that might be of interest to her?
Use your noggin, man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends what you call 'lots of effort'
Do you feel you have put lots of effort into your profile and it sells you in the best possible light and tells us ladies why we would love to meet you? |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I realise my age and gender may be against me but please is there something wrong with this profile?"
You use the phrase "lots of effort". I don't think that means what you think it means...  |
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"Okay thanks everyone, I meant the effort in searching. I tend not to look at other male's profiles as some sort of benchmark because Im straight and don't want to give the wrong impression to them.
I'll take on board what you all say... that's what's left of me after being chewed and spat out ?? "
well you could always browse in stealth mode  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay thanks everyone, I meant the effort in searching. I tend not to look at other male's profiles as some sort of benchmark because Im straight and don't want to give the wrong impression to them.
I'll take on board what you all say... that's what's left of me after being chewed and spat out ?? "
I say this with respect but your profile reads like a dating ad in a newspaper.
Mine isn't great (admittedly) but a spark of extending it to what you have to offer and what you like might push it further.
Age is but a number. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Sorry nothing piques any interest, plus looks like your married as well  What would pique or grab attention as a matter of interest?"
I want to know about the male, what he is looking for, what he can offer and why should I pick him over anyone else?
Plus I want a good array of imaginative pictures, and not of their cock, as I know what one looks like, it's not that difficult, trust me |
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"Okay thanks everyone, I meant the effort in searching. I tend not to look at other male's profiles as some sort of benchmark because Im straight and don't want to give the wrong impression to them.
I'll take on board what you all say... that's what's left of me after being chewed and spat out ??"
Aren't you aware of Fab Rule #16? Any single male that can't accommodate is automatically assumed to be a lowdown cheating scumbag?
Anyway, just go into stealth mode to look at other fellas profiles as yours is quite shit. No-one will think your gay then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okay thanks everyone, I meant the effort in searching. I tend not to look at other male's profiles as some sort of benchmark because Im straight and don't want to give the wrong impression to them.
I'll take on board what you all say... that's what's left of me after being chewed and spat out ?? well you could always browse in stealth mode "
OP, you thought something might be amiss with your profile and you therefore asked for advice.
You have received advice.
You can either spit your dummy out and ignore it (which is fine by everyone), continue believing that your profile is OK (which, again, is fine) ... or do something about it. |
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Its all about you... reads like an add in the classified section... only missing 'a good runner and 6 months MOT'
Try relaxing and move away from 'bullet points'
Inject a little bit of personality and reach out to people... So that they can gauge if you would be interested in them |
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