"Never dress when you are cross. You will make combination decisions you will only regret later x"
This is very true. I've ended up with underwear on my feet and it gave me blisters on my heels when I wore shoes.
On a serious note, on a site like this try and throw some of the shyness to the wind and be open and honest with people you're interested in. You can retain a large amount of anonymity whilst also sharing your desires. If you like dressing, keep doing it in private as that's all part of the experimentation. There are plenty of people out there who like it, too - it's just a case of finding them. Don't give up if you don't find them straightaway  |
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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago
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Right, may I ask a question. I was at an event this afternoon with my family. Son is 11 and daughter is 9. There was a gentleman there dressed as a female. I asked there name and he introduced him as Stanley, my mates call me Stan the man. Was his reply. I was a little shocked as I expected a more feminine name. My curiosity got the better of me so I asked if he always dressed as a female. His reply was 'no, it's just a bit of a kink I have for wearing women's clothes, and my wife thinks it's sexy as fuck.'
I'm by no way a prude and fully understand trans gender, though this was not the case. He was a man and associated himself as a man and was happy about that.
I have no problem with the dressing up but thought that under the setting was not quite appropriate. I know this is going to upset a few people, but I just thought in those circumstances it was more of a private thing.
I love to wear latex and leather and be cuffed but I would not do it at my nieces 7th birthday party. Same thing or am I being ignorant?????
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"Right, may I ask a question. I was at an event this afternoon with my family. Son is 11 and daughter is 9. There was a gentleman there dressed as a female. I asked there name and he introduced him as Stanley, my mates call me Stan the man. Was his reply. I was a little shocked as I expected a more feminine name. My curiosity got the better of me so I asked if he always dressed as a female. His reply was 'no, it's just a bit of a kink I have for wearing women's clothes, and my wife thinks it's sexy as fuck.'
I'm by no way a prude and fully understand trans gender, though this was not the case. He was a man and associated himself as a man and was happy about that.
I have no problem with the dressing up but thought that under the setting was not quite appropriate. I know this is going to upset a few people, but I just thought in those circumstances it was more of a private thing.
I love to wear latex and leather and be cuffed but I would not do it at my nieces 7th birthday party. Same thing or am I being ignorant?????
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Nope; if it's a kink keep it private.
People like him give the rest of us a hard time! |
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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago
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"Right, may I ask a question. I was at an event this afternoon with my family. Son is 11 and daughter is 9. There was a gentleman there dressed as a female. I asked there name and he introduced him as Stanley, my mates call me Stan the man. Was his reply. I was a little shocked as I expected a more feminine name. My curiosity got the better of me so I asked if he always dressed as a female. His reply was 'no, it's just a bit of a kink I have for wearing women's clothes, and my wife thinks it's sexy as fuck.'
I'm by no way a prude and fully understand trans gender, though this was not the case. He was a man and associated himself as a man and was happy about that.
I have no problem with the dressing up but thought that under the setting was not quite appropriate. I know this is going to upset a few people, but I just thought in those circumstances it was more of a private thing.
I love to wear latex and leather and be cuffed but I would not do it at my nieces 7th birthday party. Same thing or am I being ignorant?????
Nope; if it's a kink keep it private.
People like him give the rest of us a hard time!"
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"Right, may I ask a question. I was at an event this afternoon with my family. Son is 11 and daughter is 9. There was a gentleman there dressed as a female.
I love to wear latex and leather and be cuffed but I would not do it at my nieces 7th birthday party. Same thing or am I being ignorant?????
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Tell me this wasn't at a 7 year olds party  |
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By *ollipop77Couple
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"Right, may I ask a question. I was at an event this afternoon with my family. Son is 11 and daughter is 9. There was a gentleman there dressed as a female.
I love to wear latex and leather and be cuffed but I would not do it at my nieces 7th birthday party. Same thing or am I being ignorant?????
Tell me this wasn't at a 7 year olds party "
. No this wasn't a child's birthday party but it was a family bbq with a few children there as well as my own x |
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That sounds a bit unusual to say the least. I have been to events with friends who only know me as Heather where they had non-kinky friends but they'd invited me on that basis. And I'm dressed appropriately for the event - ie jeans & t shirt rather than crop top, hotpants and fishnets!
I'm always a bit conscious when doing that that I might be meeting people who've never met an openly trans person before (actually I'm not but that's not immeditately obvious!)
Anyway on the OP if you google for TV and chicks (spelt with an X) then you'll find a pretty good and supportive site with lots of advice. |
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