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I've met one young black cock lover slut before in my old profile. It wasn't much as a social but she left me an awesome veri which got me a lot of meets after. I've come back on here and seen her again. I've messaged her winked aswell but no reply. Am being a little petty but shall I leave another veri on her profile or shall I just leave it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most people tend to move on when previous meets leave.
i've had previous meets reverify me in the hopes of getting another fuck but i've moved on now and being reverified does not make me feel under any pressure to meet them again.
i mean i wasn't offended or anything like that but i don't want to meet them again and tell them that.
i can get what most men have to offer from anyone. you have to be a really amazing meet for me to show any interest in meeting you again.
you in general, not you OP. |
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"most people tend to move on when previous meets leave.
i've had previous meets reverify me in the hopes of getting another fuck but i've moved on now and being reverified does not make me feel under any pressure to meet them again.
i mean i wasn't offended or anything like that but i don't want to meet them again and tell them that.
i can get what most men have to offer from anyone. you have to be a really amazing meet for me to show any interest in meeting you again.
you in general, not you OP."
That's the thing feir we didn't fuck. Just a social, but left me an awesome veri. So for me it has looked like she's moved on a lot. I was like her 20th veri and now she's on 50+ would love to see what the Commotion all about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would leave it. When i came back after a break some of my lovely fab friends reverified me but i would have felt odd asking. If she's ignoring you there's probably a reason. Harsh but fair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my most recent verification was from someone I had a coffee with 5 years ago..
when we were both on another site..
I didn't ask him to verify me so it was very kind of him to do so and I was happy to reciprocate as from what I remember he was a nice guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"most people tend to move on when previous meets leave.
i've had previous meets reverify me in the hopes of getting another fuck but i've moved on now and being reverified does not make me feel under any pressure to meet them again.
i mean i wasn't offended or anything like that but i don't want to meet them again and tell them that.
i can get what most men have to offer from anyone. you have to be a really amazing meet for me to show any interest in meeting you again.
you in general, not you OP.
That's the thing feir we didn't fuck. Just a social, but left me an awesome veri. So for me it has looked like she's moved on a lot. I was like her 20th veri and now she's on 50+ would love to see what the Commotion all about "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"most people tend to move on when previous meets leave.
i've had previous meets reverify me in the hopes of getting another fuck but i've moved on now and being reverified does not make me feel under any pressure to meet them again.
i mean i wasn't offended or anything like that but i don't want to meet them again and tell them that.
i can get what most men have to offer from anyone. you have to be a really amazing meet for me to show any interest in meeting you again.
you in general, not you OP.
That's the thing feir we didn't fuck. Just a social, but left me an awesome veri. So for me it has looked like she's moved on a lot. I was like her 20th veri and now she's on 50+ would love to see what the Commotion all about "
Ask her for a veri and see what she puts? Even message her asking if she'd like to see you again. 
got to admit a lot of guys do this, meet then leave, and some piss me off if they do it a lot but there are a very few meets where i've been happy to meet them again and i will always reverify a previous great meet. |
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"I've verified people I've met on old profiles. People have re verified me. If it was years ago I wouldn't bother. "
Likewise. When someone leaves and then comes back I've no problem re-verifying them, but I wouldn't always expect them to go to the trouble in return.
Always better to just hide the profile, rather than deleting and then coming back.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my most recent verification was from someone I had a coffee with 5 years ago..
when we were both on another site..
I didn't ask him to verify me so it was very kind of him to do so and I was happy to reciprocate as from what I remember he was a nice guy"
My latest is from someone I've met several times but i haven't met for ages (because i hadn't been meeting)....wonder if it's his way of wanting to meet again??  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"I've met one young black cock lover slut before in my old profile. It wasn't much as a social but she left me an awesome veri which got me a lot of meets after. I've come back on here and seen her again. I've messaged her winked aswell but no reply. Am being a little petty but shall I leave another veri on her profile or shall I just leave it"
If you've messaged , winked .. and she's not responded it seems you're yesterdays news .. move on if she'd wanted to chat or whatever she'd have responded..
It's in the faq's no response is a polite no thanks.  |
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It was just a social so she may not be able to place you...
My thinking is... when I buy someone a drink, I dont expect one back...
Using that logic,I would just leave her the veri that you want saying that its nice to see her back.
Anything else after that is a bonus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we had a couples profile and it was hacked so i set up this for now - loads of friends have verified within first couple of days of being back - some i messaged havent - its no biggy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've left veri's for old playmates on their new profiles. As they have done for me in return. If you have genuinely met them, then i don't see why you shouldn't. Just don't build your hopes up. That you'll automatically get one in return.  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
If I met someone who left and they came back of course I would reverify them; a veri is just confirmation they're real after all. I wouldn't do it unless they asked me to though and I can't guarantee I wouldn't write a slightly silly one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It annoys me like hell when guys I've met leave, re join and mail me for a verification
Not sure why it just does
I had one guys leave several times and every time he re joined he would ask for a verification, the first couple of times I did, but that would be the only message I'd get off him, soon as he got his verification he stopped talking to me
I'm not here to aid other people's sex  |
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It can be dodgy.
You could actually be somebody else completely. Then just say Hi, we met on my old profile. I would be dubious about somebody doing that, unless she then contacted you and verified you were the same person somehow.
Not saying that's the case here, just in general for people to watch out for. |
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"It annoys me like hell when guys I've met leave, re join and mail me for a verification
Not sure why it just does
I had one guys leave several times and every time he re joined he would ask for a verification, the first couple of times I did, but that would be the only message I'd get off him, soon as he got his verification he stopped talking to me
I'm not here to aid other people's sex "
This for me too |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"most people tend to move on when previous meets leave.
i've had previous meets reverify me in the hopes of getting another fuck but i've moved on now and being reverified does not make me feel under any pressure to meet them again.
i mean i wasn't offended or anything like that but i don't want to meet them again and tell them that.
i can get what most men have to offer from anyone. you have to be a really amazing meet for me to show any interest in meeting you again.
you in general, not you OP.
That's the thing feir we didn't fuck. Just a social, but left me an awesome veri. So for me it has looked like she's moved on a lot. I was like her 20th veri and now she's on 50+ would love to see what the Commotion all about "
Quick bit of advice from an old head, slut shaming isn't attractive.  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I will verify once only, if they are what I call yo yo members of fab they are not using me as an easy way to get verified, they need to do the hard work themselves.
If they want to keep their verifications they should hide rather than leave. Some may think this sounds petty, but I have had this happen numerous times over the years and why I now refuse |
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