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So I've winked this one couple and they winked me back. Great I thought that's the ice breaker there. So I message them and they read and deleted it. But confused so I leave it. But started seeing they viewed my profile every time they were online. So I sent them a friends request which they accepted. Sent another message they read it but not delete it. But still waiting on.a response. Does anyone get this or isit this couple being weird. Any advice anybody can give me? |
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Some people just want to look,fab pics,wink and invite as friend..No messages, no meets.
However you need to be a mind reader to recognise such..Odd but it has happened to me a number of times and is currently happening, I guess they maybe wanking over pics and reading verifications. |
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over a year ago
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Not sure what advice I can offer OP but in relation to the multiple viewing thing, I keep getting views from the same MM couple even though my profile clearly states that I'm straight and only looking for women.
I have absolutely no problem with the lifestyle of people on Fab, but I must admit the frequent number of viewings I'm getting from people who I'm not interested in is starting to bug me slightly! |
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"Not sure what advice I can offer OP but in relation to the multiple viewing thing, I keep getting views from the same MM couple even though my profile clearly states that I'm straight and only looking for women.
I have absolutely no problem with the lifestyle of people on Fab, but I must admit the frequent number of viewings I'm getting from people who I'm not interested in is starting to bug me slightly!"
Yeah I had a same problem. But from single male who lived like half a mile from me. Kept winking every month fabbing my pics. I clearly said in a status will talk to anyone on here but not interested if gay or bi. But yet it continued till I blocked him. It's annoying when people ask for bi or gay activity when clearly states not interested. But I guess that's how women feel when they state something and us hungry men only see tits and Fanny lol  |
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"i think they're interested but not sure for whatever reasons.
maybe they're not sure if they want to meet anyone at all, could be literally anything."
They have met before. They have been meet verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i think they're interested but not sure for whatever reasons.
maybe they're not sure if they want to meet anyone at all, could be literally anything.
They have met before. They have been meet verified "
i meant they might not wanna meet right now.
you won't know unless they tell you anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been guilty of doing similar. For me, I've just been too busy trying to keep up with everything and haven't been keeping tabs on who's who. But as feir said, could be literally any reason. |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
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"So I've winked this one couple and they winked me back. Great I thought that's the ice breaker there. So I message them and they read and deleted it. But confused so I leave it. But started seeing they viewed my profile every time they were online. So I sent them a friends request which they accepted. Sent another message they read it but not delete it. But still waiting on.a response. Does anyone get this or isit this couple being weird. Any advice anybody can give me?"
We've had multiple looks but no messages, bit pointless really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure what advice I can offer OP but in relation to the multiple viewing thing, I keep getting views from the same MM couple even though my profile clearly states that I'm straight and only looking for women.
I have absolutely no problem with the lifestyle of people on Fab, but I must admit the frequent number of viewings I'm getting from people who I'm not interested in is starting to bug me slightly!"
If we're not interested in people who keep looking, we block them. it saves having to tell them they're not for us when they eventually do message...either that or we assume that one of a couple likes the look of us but the other doesn't so they keep looking but don't bother to message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't worry OP. As weird as it may seem to you and me. This is perfectly normal behaviour on fab. I'm sure they'll let you know if they want to take things further. Or just block them and move on. |
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So the couple viewed me again today. It's like every time they log on they peep my profile even if there is no new content on there. I politely said what are you looking for in my latest message to them. And said don't feel pressured into thinking have to meet me. But I'm find it weird that you view it every time u log on. If you want I am okay with just chatting. Let's see what they do with this message this time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's people I view daily just because I can. Doesn't mean I want to either speak to them or meet them. Stop reading anything into it and if you don't like it just block them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So the couple viewed me again today. It's like every time they log on they peep my profile even if there is no new content on there. I politely said what are you looking for in my latest message to them. And said don't feel pressured into thinking have to meet me. But I'm find it weird that you view it every time u log on. If you want I am okay with just chatting. Let's see what they do with this message this time"
If it bothers you that much just block them...simple and move on there are others. You can unblock in a few days or week or never  if you feel like it. My block list tends to be permanent when done and quite long lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've winked this one couple and they winked me back. Great I thought that's the ice breaker there. So I message them and they read and deleted it. But confused so I leave it. But started seeing they viewed my profile every time they were online. So I sent them a friends request which they accepted. Sent another message they read it but not delete it. But still waiting on.a response. Does anyone get this or isit this couple being weird. Any advice anybody can give me?"
Peeps need to chill the fuck out..don't over think these things.. if someone wants to chat or meet they will sooner rather than later.. |
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"So I've winked this one couple and they winked me back. Great I thought that's the ice breaker there. So I message them and they read and deleted it. But confused so I leave it. But started seeing they viewed my profile every time they were online. So I sent them a friends request which they accepted. Sent another message they read it but not delete it. But still waiting on.a response. Does anyone get this or isit this couple being weird. Any advice anybody can give me?"
Just going to have to wait but would not hold your breath for anything more  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I've winked this one couple and they winked me back. Great I thought that's the ice breaker there. So I message them and they read and deleted it. But confused so I leave it. But started seeing they viewed my profile every time they were online. So I sent them a friends request which they accepted. Sent another message they read it but not delete it. But still waiting on.a response. Does anyone get this or isit this couple being weird. Any advice anybody can give me?"
Be aware if they are not verified could be a man posing as a couple xx |
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By *ick71Man
over a year ago
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"So I've winked this one couple and they winked me back. Great I thought that's the ice breaker there. So I message them and they read and deleted it. But confused so I leave it. But started seeing they viewed my profile every time they were online. So I sent them a friends request which they accepted. Sent another message they read it but not delete it. But still waiting on.a response. Does anyone get this or isit this couple being weird. Any advice anybody can give me?
Just going to have to wait but would not hold your breath for anything more "
I have had this a few times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you're on their hotlist? I have several on there that I have no intention of meeting so I don't message - but I'll still check out their profile sporadically to remind myself why they are on it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're over thinking it OP. It's near impossible to read some people's thought processes on here. Just know that if they're really interested in meeting you - they will let you know!! I'd concentrate on people with whom there is an established mutual attraction and desire to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Imy afraid I must confess I do regular check out the same profiles myself. I've either added them to my hot list as I am interested but either i don't meet all of their criteria. So will occasional check then out in the weird hope its change and I'm now what they are looking for.. pointless I know but fun all the same  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably not the case for the OP but often I just forget that I've looked at a certain profile and end up looking several times then realising. I guess the people think I'm being weird then...oh well. haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably not the case for the OP but often I just forget that I've looked at a certain profile and end up looking several times then realising. I guess the people think I'm being weird then...oh well. haha "
I have a terrible short term memory, so that's my excuse and I'm sticking too it. |
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By *xx1Man
over a year ago
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People do, what people do.
Just because others do things differently it doesn't make them any different to you or I.
It doesn't matter how many times someone looks at a profile or even likes photos.
If you don't receive a message, reply or any response.... So what, It's not the end of he world.
I can't see why people get annoyed, frustrated or anything else for that matter.
Why should it bother you to that extent?
Move on there's always tomorrow for another fab meet x |
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