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why do guys pretend to be bisexual yet when you message them they say "Don't Meet Men" How can you be bisexual if you dont meet men? to allow someone to touch you or suck you in a mmf doesn't mean your bisexual it means your open minded and having fun..... i wouldn't mind but it is annoying when you message people saying they are Bisexual when they clearly are not it makes their whole profile fake... on the other hand why is it when it says straight they wanna meet you??? does anyone else notice this??  |
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over a year ago
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"why do guys pretend to be bisexual yet when you message them they say "Don't Meet Men" How can you be bisexual if you dont meet men? to allow someone to touch you or suck you in a mmf doesn't mean your bisexual it means your open minded and having fun..... i wouldn't mind but it is annoying when you message people saying they are Bisexual when they clearly are not it makes their whole profile fake... on the other hand why is it when it says straight they wanna meet you??? does anyone else notice this?? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do guys pretend to be bisexual yet when you message them they say "Don't Meet Men" How can you be bisexual if you dont meet men? to allow someone to touch you or suck you in a mmf doesn't mean your bisexual it means your open minded and having fun..... i wouldn't mind but it is annoying when you message people saying they are Bisexual when they clearly are not it makes their whole profile fake... on the other hand why is it when it says straight they wanna meet you??? does anyone else notice this?? "
Because they're bisexual and not interested in one on one with another man?
I imagine that the couple dynamic is what does it for them rather like me. I'm a bisexual female and am uninterested in one on one with males too. or are bi men not allowed to express a preference now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, a lot of them as you suggested are doing anything to get a meet.
Some of them like myself may just prefer to meet women.
I've met quite a few guys recently but want to balance the books so to speak and may turn down some offers from men.
Just because someone is bi, it doesn't mean they'll fuck anything and anyone. It all depends in their mood I guess.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most people when they write a profile have a certain someone in mind when they type it so it ends up being a targeted profile. or as mentioned before maybe they only meet guys when there are with girls because the like both at once as a personal preference. to be honest I would be more inclined to meet a less attractive man if he was part of a couple, because my attention would be divided but if he were meeting solo I would be less inclined but I would just be focused on him and his flaws would stand out more. maybe he doesn't meet men because he likes a scrumptious little 18 year old ass |
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but allowing a guy to play with you during a mmf 3 some or you playing with him does not make you bisexual it makes you open minded you cant just turn on and off your sexual orientation its part of our make up there are gay guys on here who do mmf to sleep with hot str8 guys but they are still gay they are not bisexual to be something is what your made up to do if gay can love only a man if str8 can love only a woman if bi can love both so its a sexual act it doesent make you bi |
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"but to say i dont meet guys at all???"
Because they don't want to...Surely it's not that hard to understand? just because you operate in a certain way does that mean everyone else has to? |
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Is a guy bi if he isn't attracted to men whatsoever but willing to suck cock for a female? To please her.
I'm thinking a Domme female in a Cuck situation.
The guy is sucking cock in this situation
as a form of humiliation.
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"Or they might only meet men with a woman present,just like women who are bi with a couple,but don't meet women alone.
Still can't fucking win. "
This
Or maybe when they say "I don't meet men" they mean they don't want to meet the man that has messaged them. |
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over a year ago
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I'm bi, and yet I am using the site primarily to meet men and possibly couples. Not saying I would turn down a single female if she was hot enough and we really got on, but I'm just not that interested *on here*. I'm not sure why.
It could just be that simple. |
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over a year ago
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In the heat of the moment, I'd probably let it get touched maybe, I'm not bi, and not sure how I'd react.
I'll have to find out one day.
Is that strange?? |
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over a year ago
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"I'm bi, and yet I am using the site primarily to meet men and possibly couples. Not saying I would turn down a single female if she was hot enough and we really got on, but I'm just not that interested *on here*. I'm not sure why.
It could just be that simple."
we're all crazy btches on here, that's why. 
today iv'e realised i'm a dickhead magnet. this has incrased my crazy level (and maybe my hotness, idk). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some men pretend to be straight (my ex did) and they are not. "
Bit of a personal question but how did he manage to get it up?
I've always wondered this.
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over a year ago
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"Some men pretend to be straight (my ex did) and they are not.
Bit of a personal question but how did he manage to get it up?
I've always wondered this.
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Because bi guys fancy both sexes |
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over a year ago
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Is hard. Get messages of guys who it says are straight and comes up that they don't want single males. I'm polite and reply anyway. I'm gay but bicurious to try with ladies but if I put bicurious everyone will assume I'm straight curious for men. So can't win |
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"Is hard. Get messages of guys who it says are straight and comes up that they don't want single males. I'm polite and reply anyway. I'm gay but bicurious to try with ladies but if I put bicurious everyone will assume I'm straight curious for men. So can't win"
Pity you're not closer |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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"Is hard. Get messages of guys who it says are straight and comes up that they don't want single males. I'm polite and reply anyway. I'm gay but bicurious to try with ladies but if I put bicurious everyone will assume I'm straight curious for men. So can't win"
Yup, same boat. My profile states Gay (as I prefer men) but have happily played with women & couples. I also get Straight fellas mail me & some become sexual partners, many become friends.
I tend to ignore the labels folk click when they join (or change to in order to suit their latest mood) & just go with the flow of everyone is comfortable.
In the end what does it matter, & does anyone really care? |
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"Is hard. Get messages of guys who it says are straight and comes up that they don't want single males. I'm polite and reply anyway. I'm gay but bicurious to try with ladies but if I put bicurious everyone will assume I'm straight curious for men. So can't win
Pity you're not closer "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is hard. Get messages of guys who it says are straight and comes up that they don't want single males. I'm polite and reply anyway. I'm gay but bicurious to try with ladies but if I put bicurious everyone will assume I'm straight curious for men. So can't win
Pity you're not closer
Yes it's a crying shame "
If ever near Derby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is hard. Get messages of guys who it says are straight and comes up that they don't want single males. I'm polite and reply anyway. I'm gay but bicurious to try with ladies but if I put bicurious everyone will assume I'm straight curious for men. So can't win
Pity you're not closer
Yes it's a crying shame
If ever near Derby "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some men pretend to be straight (my ex did) and they are not.
Bit of a personal question but how did he manage to get it up?
I've always wondered this.
Because bi guys fancy both sexes "
There are a lot of instances where a male and female couple break off because the guy realises that he prefers cock instead.
I just find it weird how you can stop liking something
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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago
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Some people just don't know who or what they are. I enjoy viewing the bisexual chat room and ogle the cocks that are on show.
A few times now when I'm watching a nice cock being wanked the owner blocks me. To be honest I don't really give a fuck when these morons block me. What I don't understand is why they go into the bisexual chat room when they don't want other guys to watch them.
Imagine actually meeting some prick who behave like that !
Such joy. If any of you guys who have blocked me are reading this, a word of advice - if you can't come to terms with your sexuality there are lots of good shrinks about. |
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over a year ago
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"but to say i dont meet guys at all???"
These bi guys either don't want to meet single guys at all, and only want to play with men as part of a group situation or a couple. Or they weren't attracted to you and found it easier to say they don't meet guys. |
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over a year ago
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I have bi on my profile as I've easily moved beyond the curious stage. I've played one to one with guys and have participated in all guy group fun. However at this stage in my life, I'd rather only indulge that side of my sexual spectrum whilst meeting couples or in mixed group play sessions. But I won't hide what I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not all guys will meet any one, just because we are bi we still have standards, I hate that because I say I'm but every guy I don't reply to I'm a time waster, I get 100 messages I like to use them getting to know people I want to chat to |
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Maybe as a lot of single male it's the only way that they can get to meet a couple, I'm st8 and it saying that on my profile and as I'm single now as parter stop playing and not bi or bi c I cannot get a meet |
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"why do guys pretend to be bisexual yet when you message them they say "Don't Meet Men" How can you be bisexual if you dont meet men? to allow someone to touch you or suck you in a mmf doesn't mean your bisexual it means your open minded and having fun..... i wouldn't mind but it is annoying when you message people saying they are Bisexual when they clearly are not it makes their whole profile fake... on the other hand why is it when it says straight they wanna meet you??? does anyone else notice this?? "
If you are a man playing with a transvestite you are bisexual.
If you are a man playing with both people in a couple, you are bisexual.
This doesn't mean that you will meet men.
The options are very limited and just a guide.
But you can expand your likes and dislikes in the rest of your profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The worst one is when men have "straight" in there profile and message us trying to say they are Bi.
Sorry matey you're not bi, you're bye. "
We say if you're not bi, it's bi-bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The confusion comes in when the need of labels (bi, gay or straight) is imposed on a set of people who could be anywhere on this particular spectrum, from one extreme to another.
In our (albeit limited) experience, the majority of people will move within a band of this spectrum, which may or may not fall within these strict labels. |
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"The confusion comes in when the need of labels (bi, gay or straight) is imposed on a set of people who could be anywhere on this particular spectrum, from one extreme to another.
In our (albeit limited) experience, the majority of people will move within a band of this spectrum, which may or may not fall within these strict labels."
Agreed, but there's enough people on here who don't see it that way that you end up having to use a label to filter out the bi/homophobes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr exemacs is bi to the point where he will suck,rim wank and anything else apart from take anal Lee prefers soft bi play and watching... Its very difficult to generalise what someone likes or how they see themselves... let's just have fun and not worry about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No idea maybe their scared?.
I will chat to any sex but am a straight male I have no problems talking to men just when I get told that I will be sucked dry is a no go do rather then block them I stopped males or TV CD from messaging me and.
I realise not all are like that this one bloke was a stalker though after I said no he wanted to meet for drinks and a film etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like sucking cock during mmf with my wife, but find meeting men 1 on 1 leaves me feeling at odds with myself. So prefer not to.
Ditto"
Same here I very rarely will meet a guy just one on on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could answer this with another question as I'm both bi fully switch and tv -
Why do some guys put "straight" rather than bi or gay?
I'm a guy with a penis, differently dressed depending on meet but yeah, you're still screwing a bloke even when I'm in a dress. |
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over a year ago
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"As strange as this is going to sound, I have had a fun meet with a tv and enjoyed it but a man does not turn me on. "
But that's physical attraction not just sexual.
A lot of guys who are straight limit themselves by saying straight only. The world is full of many types and maybe only 1OO in a million guys may be cute to you but I can guarantee one day you will see a guy and secretly think he's cute. |
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over a year ago
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"I recently got told if you can fuck a women then you can fuck a man. So maybe we are all bi? "
I would say don't limit yourself. More open to all sexual choices is therefore more people available as potential fun meets. |
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over a year ago
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"I recently got told if you can fuck a women then you can fuck a man. So maybe we are all bi? "
i'm not bi. have tried sex with a couple of women now and it's really not for me.
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over a year ago
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"I recently got told if you can fuck a women then you can fuck a man. So maybe we are all bi?
i'm not bi. have tried sex with a couple of women now and it's really not for me.
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here's a question cause you have been with girls does this make you bi anyway now, just because I see blokes on here that say they are straight but then mention something sexual about a man then everyone goes in up roar saying he must be gay ps I don't label anyone I'm a free spirit lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently got told if you can fuck a women then you can fuck a man. So maybe we are all bi?
I would say don't limit yourself. More open to all sexual choices is therefore more people available as potential fun meets."
boundaries are for cricket pitches not sex lives ps literally made that up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kat is fully bi we both enjoy sex with convincing tvs id suck and be sucked and fuck also not cock shy if playing with bi cpl but i have no interest in meeting a guy or hairy panty wearer they do nothing for me so do i class as bi or bi playfull god knows lol |
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over a year ago
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I wouldn't class my self as bi and I have no intrest I meeting a guy one on one but I like the idea of a bi Mmf with the women taking over and tell us what to do to her or to each other |
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over a year ago
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"I recently got told if you can fuck a women then you can fuck a man. So maybe we are all bi?
i'm not bi. have tried sex with a couple of women now and it's really not for me.
here's a question cause you have been with girls does this make you bi anyway now, just because I see blokes on here that say they are straight but then mention something sexual about a man then everyone goes in up roar saying he must be gay ps I don't label anyone I'm a free spirit lol "
you're only gay if you like your own sex/gender. |
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over a year ago
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The one thing about tvs meeting straight guys is they seem mostly to assume we are dressed up permanently.
I'll happily meet folks but not at the drop of a pin. (Unless you do want a hairy TV.) |
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over a year ago
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"The one thing about tvs meeting straight guys is they seem mostly to assume we are dressed up permanently.
I'll happily meet folks but not at the drop of a pin. (Unless you do want a hairy TV.)"
i like them hairy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't know what category I fall in... I would say I was orally bi as I like a bit of that but only when meeting a couple.. I wouldn't meet a guy 1 on 1 for oral fun would have to be with his other half... but I don't see the point in fibbing about it x |
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over a year ago
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"I recently got told if you can fuck a women then you can fuck a man. So maybe we are all bi? "
Yeah thats like saying if you can fuck a woman you can fuck anything, doesnt mean you would though....i remember hearing this sentence one time...only faggots fuck girls. |
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over a year ago
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"I wouldn't class my self as bi and I have no intrest I meeting a guy one on one but I like the idea of a bi Mmf with the women taking over and tell us what to do to her or to each other "
But your profile is straight . So how would we possibly ever find you in a search and guess that you want that ? |
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over a year ago
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"I wouldn't class my self as bi and I have no intrest I meeting a guy one on one but I like the idea of a bi Mmf with the women taking over and tell us what to do to her or to each other
But your profile is straight . So how would we possibly ever find you in a search and guess that you want that ? "
I think if people don't disclose their bisexuality, they probably don't want to be found on that type of search. They may not be ready for that, and just quite happy with going with the flow and seeing what happens. Well that's the case with a number of guys we know who say they are straight, but like to experiment if the opportunity arises. |
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over a year ago
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Some say they are bi so they can meet with couples. I personally don't meet single men atm as I'm fussy with men and only really attracted to one atm.
Other bisexuals say they are straight as a lot of women and couples won't meet bisexual men |
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"I wouldn't class my self as bi and I have no intrest I meeting a guy one on one but I like the idea of a bi Mmf with the women taking over and tell us what to do to her or to each other
But your profile is straight . So how would we possibly ever find you in a search and guess that you want that ?
I think if people don't disclose their bisexuality, they probably don't want to be found on that type of search. They may not be ready for that, and just quite happy with going with the flow and seeing what happens. Well that's the case with a number of guys we know who say they are straight, but like to experiment if the opportunity arises."
Sorry guys I was sure it was set to bi curious I'll ammend it now x |
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Hmm yer one thing i dont get is the amount of guys that msg, fab photos or comment for me but have "straight" on their profiles?? Haven't yet blocked single guys yet as im hoping there is a genuine single guy that actually has a genuine female fuck buddy lol which is what ive stated in my profile but ya know not enought read your profile lol Does my head in at times |
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By *uluf999Couple
over a year ago
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After too many years of guys stating to be bi just to get into my partners knickers I usually have a rule that I will play with the guy alone first. Oh and if he thinks it fine for me to suck him off but does no want to return the favour then that's the last I'll see of him. |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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If a straight fella messages me it's not something I get up in arms about. He clicked a button when he joined & he's stated his preference. Big deal. That's his prerogative.
After all the years of Fab people can become more fluid & accepting of what, where, who & how they find their sexual fun.
As a Gay guy I've had fun with both men & women. It doesn't make me Bi, & never will. It wouldn't stop me playing with a woman in a MF Couple so long as everyone was enjoying themselves. You can find stimulation from lots of things you'd normally never consider in the right circumstances if you're in the right frame of mind.
Leave the Bi folk & Straight folk alone who explore their sexuality & concentrate on what gives you stimulation sexually.
Seriously, kvetching about other folks sexual preferences rather than focussing on your own only makes you negative & far less accepting of other people's choices in life & says a lot more about you than it does other folk. Peace out people  |
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"Seriously, kvetching about other folks sexual preferences rather than focussing on your own only makes you negative & far less accepting of other people's choices in life & says a lot more about you than it does other folk. Peace out people "
Random?
Given it's other people affecting you, rather than you affecting others in these instances, I'd have thought?
(Having just had a big post / thread about the Male Bi phobia in the swinging scene...)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People, not just men will say anything if it means it'll get them what they want..
We've actually had meets with guys who state they're comfortable with m/m play only to go soft once they're touched 
Sure is a passion killer! |
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"why do guys pretend to be bisexual yet when you message them they say "Don't Meet Men" How can you be bisexual if you dont meet men? to allow someone to touch you or suck you in a mmf doesn't mean your bisexual it means your open minded and having fun..... i wouldn't mind but it is annoying when you message people saying they are Bisexual when they clearly are not it makes their whole profile fake... on the other hand why is it when it says straight they wanna meet you??? does anyone else notice this?? "
I was getting a lot of mail and winks from guys (until I changed my settings), begging me to the point of making themselves look ridiculous and desperate asking if I was sure I was not gay or bi and would I like to try, while all very flattering (to a point), guys are just not my cup of tea, having your cock sucked at the same time as someone else's or even having a woman's husband "helping you in" does not in my eyes make you bi or confused it is an enjoyable in the moment situation, as for all the pretenders out there, I think they need to have a sit down and a chat with themselves and ask what it is they really want. |
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I think there are two issues: one is terminological and the other behavioural. I consider myself to be orally-bi-only-in-an-mfm-context (which can be a bit of a mouthful). "MFM-orally-bi" (prefaced by "optionally" if applicable) could be a useful addition to a more nuanced lexicon (with the obvious range of variants). The behavioural issue is that the term "bi-sexual" limits the field for the single male because both the male and female halves of some (many?) couples are repelled by the idea of bisexual males, possibly because of its taboo associations with anal sex. This, together with imprecise terminology, encourages what some regard as dishonesty. |
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Who are you to dictate someone else's sexual identity? I have just set up a single guy profile, as I may start meeting on my own, with that I'm only looking to meet couples, not single guys or girls. According to the OP's logic that makes me asexual! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because a lot (not all) men will say anything for a fuck  "
ain't that the truth a lot say they are bi but when you look on their profile it says straight and no verification to prove otherwise. Behave single blokes ffs, you are ruining it for the genuine peeps. |
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over a year ago
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Theres a lot of guys who live by, "its not gay if theres a lass there" i can understand sometimes when your curious its good to meet with a couple and try being with a guy whilst also having the women there. However i totally get the scenario where a couple just wants a bi guy whos cool with himself and can just get down with it.
Im much more interested in meeting people who are experienced and know what they want. Sometimes its hot to just play with a guy while his wife goes to make some drinks or pops out for a cig.
As always its a shame when people tell porkys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want cock in your mouth, as a guy, you are at least bi.
If a guy is not prepared to put another mans penis in his mouth and suck it, they are not bi.
Bisexual, bicurious both to me are bi. Straight is not.
I choose not to meet straight men. |
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over a year ago
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"After too many years of guys stating to be bi just to get into my partners knickers I usually have a rule that I will play with the guy alone first. Oh and if he thinks it fine for me to suck him off but does no want to return the favour then that's the last I'll see of him. "
you do right ......sorry i am totally STRAIGHT... I GUESS HAVIN A DROUGHT IS PART OF THE JUNGLE LOL |
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"why do guys pretend to be bisexual yet when you message them they say "Don't Meet Men" How can you be bisexual if you dont meet men? to allow someone to touch you or suck you in a mmf doesn't mean your bisexual it means your open minded and having fun..... i wouldn't mind but it is annoying when you message people saying they are Bisexual when they clearly are not it makes their whole profile fake... on the other hand why is it when it says straight they wanna meet you??? does anyone else notice this?? "
If you let a man touch you or suck you that would make you bi in most people's eyes I'm sure
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over a year ago
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It's simple, with me I don't mind sharing my cock with a couple I think it's adds to the excitement, but I would never just do it with a guy alone, I think their is bi in most people. |
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Is it really such a big deal. I've recently changed my preference from bi-sexual back to straight because I don't currently want to meet anymore guys off here. If you are a guy and you want to meet other guys for sex it's far better and quicker on FabGuys. |
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"They should have a bi playful option on here as it fits some situations much better we think x"
Agree I have changed from straight to Bi and back straight!
Still up for having ass and mouth ram'd as part of mmf (Sex Toy play), but no inclination towards mm meet. Don't want to do m action voluntarily! If that make's sense!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a threesome with a lovely lady from here who went and found another guy so she could enjoy her long-held ambition of experiencing a bi MMF. He tensed up every time I touched him and it kinda ruined the evening. |
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over a year ago
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my angle on this is I am probably what most people would call Bi. I love it when we meet other guys for threesomes with me and Mrs N. I have had quite a few guys asking me if I'd like to meet them alone and it is very very tempting to do it as I love dressing up in her panties and stuff and it feels sooo erotic.
I do have one big problem with it. I still feel those pangs that I've cheated on Mrs N and it doesn't feel good so I say no even though my balls and cock are saying Yessssssss. get on with it LOL. So I keep it in me trousers and say no and hope we continue to have thressomes together rather than me disappear off and do my own thing.
That's why I think alot of Bi guys wont do the male to male stuff alone too. Am I right. It's a bit subtle. |
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over a year ago
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"Is it really such a big deal. I've recently changed my preference from bi-sexual back to straight because I don't currently want to meet anymore guys off here. If you are a guy and you want to meet other guys for sex it's far better and quicker on FabGuys."
Trouble with this is that you're deceiving couples and women who don't want to meet guys who have played with other guys. Are you honest and tell all potential meets this?
They are entitled to have their preferences respected as much as anyone! |
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"Is it really such a big deal. I've recently changed my preference from bi-sexual back to straight because I don't currently want to meet anymore guys off here. If you are a guy and you want to meet other guys for sex it's far better and quicker on FabGuys.
Trouble with this is that you're deceiving couples and women who don't want to meet guys who have played with other guys. Are you honest and tell all potential meets this?
They are entitled to have their preferences respected as much as anyone!"
Read my profile, the answer is there.
PS, You can always reapply the block after, I won't beak between times. |
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"Is it really such a big deal. I've recently changed my preference from bi-sexual back to straight because I don't currently want to meet anymore guys off here. If you are a guy and you want to meet other guys for sex it's far better and quicker on FabGuys.
Trouble with this is that you're deceiving couples and women who don't want to meet guys who have played with other guys. Are you honest and tell all potential meets this?
They are entitled to have their preferences respected as much as anyone!
Read my profile, the answer is there.
PS, You can always reapply the block after, I won't beak between times. "
No you're fine thanks, we'll take your word for it, we don't need to see. We only meet guys with bi on their profile for the reason we mentioned, the majority quite openly say that this is why they don't state they are bi so makes a change to find someone who does. |
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I have a profile on here and fabguys, the one here if for meeting women and couples although I haven't met any yet, unfortunately. I did have a straight profile for a bit but that didn't work either but feel better being honest . |
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over a year ago
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"Because a lot (not all) men will say anything for a fuck "
This is it. When I had my old fbuddy/couples profile on here, the amount of men who'd say anything to get their cock wet with us was horrendous. We even had one guy who travelled from Borehamwood to Solihull for him to say "I'm 10 minutes away but I don't want to play with a man"... So we told him to f*** off. |
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We are regulars at Chameleons Monday Bi-Night and we have on many occasion stood in the entrance waiting to gain entrance. The staff are very good and will explain to anyone that they don't recognise that it is a Bi evening. We have never known anyone at that stage turn and walk back out but once inside the number of guys who suddenly claim to be straight is quite revealing.
For us the definition of gay is a guy who prefers the company of another guy and a lady has no part in the relationship .
The definition for us of a Bi person is someone who enjoys the attention of a member of the same sex but a person of the opposite sex needs also to be present.
The number of male perves who trail round Chameleons in the hope of getting a look at some lady doing her stuff is quite sad. |
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"We are regulars at Chameleons Monday Bi-Night and we have on many occasion stood in the entrance waiting to gain entrance. The staff are very good and will explain to anyone that they don't recognise that it is a Bi evening. We have never known anyone at that stage turn and walk back out but once inside the number of guys who suddenly claim to be straight is quite revealing.
For us the definition of gay is a guy who prefers the company of another guy and a lady has no part in the relationship .
The definition for us of a Bi person is someone who enjoys the attention of a member of the same sex but a person of the opposite sex needs also to be present.
The number of male perves who trail round Chameleons in the hope of getting a look at some lady doing her stuff is quite sad. "
Ohhhhhh, so true!
The sad reality of Monday nights when me and my ex-buddy used to attend was shocking. Forever the false guys that frequented the Bi nights it actually felt like we were both walking on eggshells - I'm sure Mark had it figured out though.
There were some great couples and a few singles met there though (once we'd relaxed) but a few of those wannabe dickheads that kind of ruined our nights on occasion. C'est La Vie! |
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"We are regulars at Chameleons Monday Bi-Night and we have on many occasion stood in the entrance waiting to gain entrance. The staff are very good and will explain to anyone that they don't recognise that it is a Bi evening. We have never known anyone at that stage turn and walk back out but once inside the number of guys who suddenly claim to be straight is quite revealing.
For us the definition of gay is a guy who prefers the company of another guy and a lady has no part in the relationship .
The definition for us of a Bi person is someone who enjoys the attention of a member of the same sex but a person of the opposite sex needs also to be present.
The number of male perves who trail round Chameleons in the hope of getting a look at some lady doing her stuff is quite sad. "
Do you mean they are straight men hoping to watch girl on girl ? |
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"We are regulars at Chameleons Monday Bi-Night and we have on many occasion stood in the entrance waiting to gain entrance. The staff are very good and will explain to anyone that they don't recognise that it is a Bi evening. We have never known anyone at that stage turn and walk back out but once inside the number of guys who suddenly claim to be straight is quite revealing.
For us the definition of gay is a guy who prefers the company of another guy and a lady has no part in the relationship .
The definition for us of a Bi person is someone who enjoys the attention of a member of the same sex but a person of the opposite sex needs also to be present.
The number of male perves who trail round Chameleons in the hope of getting a look at some lady doing her stuff is quite sad.
Do you mean they are straight men hoping to watch girl on girl ? "
In reference to the point about being bi means wanting male fun, but needing a female present, it is completely wrong  Being bisexual means you are attracted sexually and may want a relationship with members of either the same sex or opposite sex. I can say that I have had boyfriends and girlfriends in the past. That is what a bisexual is. Not someone who needs a lady to hold his hand as he finally does what he feels, but still holds in |
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"In reference to the point about being bi means wanting male fun, but needing a female present, it is completely wrong "
It's not completely wrong, it's just different to your definition. |
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"In reference to the point about being bi means wanting male fun, but needing a female present, it is completely wrong
It's not completely wrong, it's just different to your definition."
Mine was the scientific definition |
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"In reference to the point about being bi means wanting male fun, but needing a female present, it is completely wrong
It's not completely wrong, it's just different to your definition.
Mine was the scientific definition"
Call it whatever you want. It still wasn't completely wrong. |
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"but allowing a guy to play with you during a mmf 3 some or you playing with him does not make you bisexual it makes you open minded you cant just turn on and off your sexual orientation its part of our make up there are gay guys on here who do mmf to sleep with hot str8 guys but they are still gay they are not bisexual to be something is what your made up to do if gay can love only a man if str8 can love only a woman if bi can love both so its a sexual act it doesent make you bi"
Then the guy "hot str8 guy" is clearly not straight....thus illustrating your point. I think there are more bi guys stating they are straight than the other way around. It just means that us genuinely straight guys get approaches from bi/gay guys hoping we might actually be bi! It's somethingvwe havecto put up with.
Normally I just laugh it off....if someone gets too persistent then I just block them. It's no big deal.
If a bi guy turns you down then maybe he just doesn't fancy you. I turn women down for the same reason. It doesn't mean I'm suddenly not straight....I just have standards. |
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By *mben8Man
over a year ago
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I have and do fuck gay lads sometimes after MMF meets ( they hook me up ) and have no problem with it but never done a one to one yet.
Only been here a week and the amount of ' straight ' blokes asked me for a meet is a eye opener so its all BS on here.
Do what you want and be be honest. |
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"I have and do fuck gay lads sometimes after MMF meets ( they hook me up ) and have no problem with it but never done a one to one yet.
Only been here a week and the amount of ' straight ' blokes asked me for a meet is a eye opener so its all BS on here.
Do what you want and be be honest. "
Tbf, dude, yr profile says 'straight' |
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"I have and do fuck gay lads sometimes after MMF meets ( they hook me up ) and have no problem with it but never done a one to one yet.
Only been here a week and the amount of ' straight ' blokes asked me for a meet is a eye opener so its all BS on here.
Do what you want and be be honest.
Tbf, dude, yr profile says 'straight' "
That's just what we thought ! |
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over a year ago
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Caught between the devil and the deep blue sea! I enjoy bi but only in certain circumstances. I love cuckold, I am the bull for couples and dont mind the cucked man wanking sucking or handling my cock if thats that they find horny! I find that very horny. But i would meet a guy on his own for oral because i dont find men attractive in that way. Does that make sense! I have never tried penatrive sex with a guy but would be open to fuck a man in the arse in front of his missis if thats there turn on, bucket list item, but i dont want to be penatrated by a man! I would not mind the cuck rimming and would consider mutual oral but again only with a MF couple
Clear as MUD! good! Does this make me bi?! I dont think so, so therefor my status is straight as bi guys par-say are no go for a lot of straight couples, i dont want to alienate them and equally enjoy playing straight as i appriciate that Cuckold is a particulat niche
Just my humble OP 
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"Caught between the devil and the deep blue sea! I enjoy bi but only in certain circumstances. I love cuckold, I am the bull for couples and dont mind the cucked man wanking sucking or handling my cock if thats that they find horny! I find that very horny. But i would meet a guy on his own for oral because i dont find men attractive in that way. Does that make sense! I have never tried penatrive sex with a guy but would be open to fuck a man in the arse in front of his missis if thats there turn on, bucket list item, but i dont want to be penatrated by a man! I would not mind the cuck rimming and would consider mutual oral but again only with a MF couple
Clear as MUD! good! Does this make me bi?! I dont think so, so therefor my status is straight as bi guys par-say are no go for a lot of straight couples, i dont want to alienate them and equally enjoy playing straight as i appriciate that Cuckold is a particulat niche
Just my humble OP
Meant to say wouldnt meet a guy on his own sorry! Bad finger, nawty finger!
Jayxxx"
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"Caught between the devil and the deep blue sea! I enjoy bi but only in certain circumstances. I love cuckold, I am the bull for couples and dont mind the cucked man wanking sucking or handling my cock if thats that they find horny! I find that very horny. But i would meet a guy on his own for oral because i dont find men attractive in that way. Does that make sense! I have never tried penatrive sex with a guy but would be open to fuck a man in the arse in front of his missis if thats there turn on, bucket list item, but i dont want to be penatrated by a man! I would not mind the cuck rimming and would consider mutual oral but again only with a MF couple
Clear as MUD! good! Does this make me bi?! I dont think so, so therefor my status is straight as bi guys par-say are no go for a lot of straight couples, i dont want to alienate them and equally enjoy playing straight as i appriciate that Cuckold is a particulat niche
Just my humble OP
Jayxxx"
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So sucking a cock , having your cock sucked and fucking a chap up the bum doesn't make you bisexual ? O,,,,,,,,K
We are of course sure the bukkake couple in this post will disagree with your definition of " straight so as not to put couples off me. ". ! |
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I dont know why people are so desperate to put labels on other people! I dont consider myself bi because i dont find men sexually attractive why is that so hard To understand and comprehend???? Live and let live i say! Jayxxx |
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over a year ago
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To be fair I've had my cock sucked a few times by straight guys from straight couples, one couple I met were adamant they wouldn't meet Bi guys but he sucked cock as well as his wife |
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"Caught between the devil and the deep blue sea! I enjoy bi but only in certain circumstances. I love cuckold, I am the bull for couples and dont mind the cucked man wanking sucking or handling my cock if thats that they find horny! I find that very horny. But i would meet a guy on his own for oral because i dont find men attractive in that way. Does that make sense! I have never tried penatrive sex with a guy but would be open to fuck a man in the arse in front of his missis if thats there turn on, bucket list item, but i dont want to be penatrated by a man! I would not mind the cuck rimming and would consider mutual oral but again only with a MF couple
Clear as MUD! good! Does this make me bi?! I dont think so, so therefor my status is straight as bi guys par-say are no go for a lot of straight couples, i dont want to alienate them and equally enjoy playing straight as i appriciate that Cuckold is a particulat niche
Just my humble OP
Jayxxx.
So sucking a cock , having your cock sucked and fucking a chap up the bum doesn't make you bisexual ? O,,,,,,,,K
We are of course sure the bukkake couple in this post will disagree with your definition of " straight so as not to put couples off me. ". ! "
All this is on my list but my preference for bi play is to have the lady involved and without that it is not something I would consider doing. That's I i have put bicurious rather than bi. |
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over a year ago
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I think the real problem is women that pretend to be straight. I mean I have messaged several ladies today also attached cock pic and nothing. AlI I can see is a line through the subject line which also said hi.
Anyone else noticed this? |
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"I dont know why people are so desperate to put labels on other people! I dont consider myself bi because i dont find men sexually attractive why is that so hard To understand and comprehend???? Live and let live i say! Jayxxx"
Yet you say you'd let one rim you ??? |
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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago
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As others have said sexuality is on a scale no doubt about it. As for I will let you suck me off but not return the favour, bi selfish is it called? I (her) felt like that years ago about going with women because I wrestled with it, don't know if the same for some men? Who knows there is no one answer.
As for men lying about being bi curious or whatever label suits, It's such a shame as its clearly acceptable in swinging world for women to be so but not for men. But for us as a couple if a profile says the guy (couple or single) is straight as long as he makes no moves at all towards hubby (he is just not attracted in anyway to mens bodies) then that works for us, what he doesnt know wont hurt him |
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"I dont know why people are so desperate to put labels on other people! I dont consider myself bi because i dont find men sexually attractive why is that so hard To understand and comprehend???? Live and let live i say! Jayxxx"
Because if you will fuck a guy up the bum...in any circumstances then it is as clear a definition as possible. A straight guy would never consider that. I agree...live and let live...but just saying you consider yourself straight does not make it so. It just clouds the waters. |
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We met a "Bi Guy" and after a few drinks we left to go to our place. When we got back Lou said to me, get your cock out i want to see suck it.....he made an excuse that he dropped his watch in the pub and left! We have had others who say they are Bi, and when you say you will have prove it before Lou joins in they block you. Bi to us is everything incl kissing. |
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"I dont know why people are so desperate to put labels on other people! I dont consider myself bi because i dont find men sexually attractive why is that so hard To understand and comprehend???? Live and let live i say! Jayxxx
Because if you will fuck a guy up the bum...in any circumstances then it is as clear a definition as possible. A straight guy would never consider that. I agree...live and let live...but just saying you consider yourself straight does not make it so. It just clouds the waters."
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"i always prove it by when meeting them, i drop to my knees, unleash his cock and suck it while the girl watches and directs it,,,,
But your profile says straight?
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Like so many other "bi" profiles do ! |
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"why do guys pretend to be bisexual yet when you message them they say "Don't Meet Men" How can you be bisexual if you dont meet men? to allow someone to touch you or suck you in a mmf doesn't mean your bisexual it means your open minded and having fun..... i wouldn't mind but it is annoying when you message people saying they are Bisexual when they clearly are not it makes their whole profile fake... on the other hand why is it when it says straight they wanna meet you??? does anyone else notice this??
Because they're bisexual and not interested in one on one with another man?
I imagine that the couple dynamic is what does it for them rather like me. I'm a bisexual female and am uninterested in one on one with males too. or are bi men not allowed to express a preference now?"
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"why do guys pretend to be bisexual yet when you message them they say "Don't Meet Men" How can you be bisexual if you dont meet men? to allow someone to touch you or suck you in a mmf doesn't mean your bisexual it means your open minded and having fun..... i wouldn't mind but it is annoying when you message people saying they are Bisexual when they clearly are not it makes their whole profile fake... on the other hand why is it when it says straight they wanna meet you??? does anyone else notice this??
Because they're bisexual and not interested in one on one with another man?
I imagine that the couple dynamic is what does it for them rather like me. I'm a bisexual female and am uninterested in one on one with males too. or are bi men not allowed to express a preference now?
THIS!!!! "
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Becasue loads of adds say no bi sex men or if your not bi dont apply so they pick a side they think will get them meets and just do what they want lol had loads of straight guys message me and cpls turn me down for being bi curious but they had meet or would meet the guy that just asked if i want a meet its fab and its fucked up but we love it |
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"i always prove it by when meeting them, i drop to my knees, unleash his cock and suck it while the girl watches and directs it,,,,
But your profile says straight?
Like so many other "bi" profiles do !"
have a bi profile cause straight couples don't like bi guys, you can try me out, she tells me what to do and i,l do it,,, |
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"i always prove it by when meeting them, i drop to my knees, unleash his cock and suck it while the girl watches and directs it,,,,
But your profile says straight?
Like so many other "bi" profiles do !
have a bi profile cause straight couples don't like bi guys, you can try me out, she tells me what to do and i,l do it,,,"
So you're prepared to pull the wool over straight couples to get laid but expect bi couples ( or triples as we ) to take your word that you are what you say ? |
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because they think it will get them into a couples bedroom where they can get what they really want as the expense of just touching a willy for a second. |
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"why do guys pretend to be bisexual yet when you message them they say "Don't Meet Men" How can you be bisexual if you dont meet men? to allow someone to touch you or suck you in a mmf doesn't mean your bisexual it means your open minded and having fun..... i wouldn't mind but it is annoying when you message people saying they are Bisexual when they clearly are not it makes their whole profile fake... on the other hand why is it when it says straight they wanna meet you??? does anyone else notice this??
Because they're bisexual and not interested in one on one with another man?
I imagine that the couple dynamic is what does it for them rather like me. I'm a bisexual female and am uninterested in one on one with males too. or are bi men not allowed to express a preference now?"
I agree. Just because they don't want 1 on 1 doesn't make them not bisexual. I am a bi female but don't meet women alone. |
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" to allow someone to touch you or suck you in a mmf doesn't mean your bisexual it means your open minded and having fun."
No, it means you are bisexual - as you have sex with each gender...
I'm heterosexual (but not homophobic). I have some fabulous gay and TS friends - but no desire for sexual contact with them! If I did, I would consider myself bi, or at least bi-curious.
Ah, who needs labels, eh? |
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