On our profile it says we only meet in a club which has been true up to now. We are thinking it may be good to meet outside of the club now. Looking for advice on how to go about this safely. We can't accommodate so just interested in how others manage this? |
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"On our profile it says we only meet in a club which has been true up to now. We are thinking it may be good to meet outside of the club now. Looking for advice on how to go about this safely. We can't accommodate so just interested in how others manage this? "
There is no 100% safe method.
Commonsense plays an important part.
Always meet in a public place first. |
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"On our profile it says we only meet in a club which has been true up to now. We are thinking it may be good to meet outside of the club now. Looking for advice on how to go about this safely. We can't accommodate so just interested in how others manage this? "
As a relative newbie i haven't had many meets but have only ever met in a public place for a social first. I haven't ventured to a club yet but will do at some point.
I have seen on many profiles that people only meet in clubs. A lot used to do home or hotel meets but stopped due to no-shows. At least if you are at a club and they don't turn up you can still have a night out |
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If it's somebody you have not previously met, do try a social meet first for safety and to see how you feel in each other's company. A pub, coffee shop or park all work.
After that, hotels are good or possibly the other party's home if you feel comfy. |
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We do all our first meets in pubs, then if we are happy we bring him home with us. If we weren't able to accommodate or he wasn't, a hotel would need to be arranged at a future date. |
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Social drink in a pub with the option of going back to a hotel. Book two rooms but you may end up only occupying one room if you hit it off. We've had one hotel meet and was a great experience. |
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