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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you get there ?
In normal clothes
You can shower and get changed ?
Is locker big enough for two with towels and shower gear ?
Drink ?
If you bring your own 4 cans do they keep them for you ?
Me and Miss's so bear back ,will this be frowned on ?
We won't swing in any way ,so what's best was to keep us not getting hassled ?
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Chameleons is a lovely club. No pressure at all .
If you are driving there and back I'd say arrive ready. If you are booked in somewhere again arrive ready.
The lockers will hold clothes but they're not suitcase sized 
Chat with people and should anyone ask you to play politely decline.
As for BB you have the couples room or private rooms so no issues .. after all it is your choice.
Drink is given in on arrival and then you order it at the bar from your locker number
Enjoy
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"Am i missing something?
Why would you go to a swinging club if you won't swing?
I know there is never any pressure or expectation to play but don't understand why you would rule it out beforehand
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Isn't that a bit of a narrow minded view of the swinging scene?
Because they don't actually want to play with others? It's their choice.
The club offers far more than just sex with others.
The social aspect, to chat with like minded people.
The sexy atmosphere which a couple can just enjoy together, as well as the facilities, you can't fuck each other in the jacuzzi at your local leisure centre, (or you can, just expect to be behind bars of a different kind than what the club offers....) and not everyone has a cage, sex swing or cinema or glory holes at home..
The voyeurism, both watching others or being watched?
A safe, open and none judgmental environment to test the waters, expand boundaries or discover likes/dislikes?
To name but a few.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am i missing something?
Why would you go to a swinging club if you won't swing?
I know there is never any pressure or expectation to play but don't understand why you would rule it out beforehand
Isn't that a bit of a narrow minded view of the swinging scene?
Because they don't actually want to play with others? It's their choice.
The club offers far more than just sex with others.
The social aspect, to chat with like minded people.
The sexy atmosphere which a couple can just enjoy together, as well as the facilities, you can't fuck each other in the jacuzzi at your local leisure centre, (or you can, just expect to be behind bars of a different kind than what the club offers....) and not everyone has a cage, sex swing or cinema or glory holes at home..
The voyeurism, both watching others or being watched?
A safe, open and none judgmental environment to test the waters, expand boundaries or discover likes/dislikes?
To name but a few.this is what swinging is about
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thank you for that reply ,it's true we want to get sexy but not arrested ,we have never been and sex/swingers club and see it a place we can get sexy in a nice safe place ..if this is wrong I guess I'm going a bit mad ? |
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Have been to Chams a few times and love it. On some visits we have just played alone and other times we have played with others. There is no rule that says you have to play with others so go and enjoy yourselves doing whatever you both want x |
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Hope you have fun OP