I have been lucky to have been regularly approached by men who would like to play with me at parties, however I have to be attracted of course and only have so much energy lol. What's the nicest way to say no thanks, politely, as I hate to cause offence etc, I'm not always getting through  |
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"I have been lucky to have been regularly approached by men who would like to play with me at parties, however I have to be attracted of course and only have so much energy lol. What's the nicest way to say no thanks, politely, as I hate to cause offence etc, I'm not always getting through "
Do you mean in person, or on here?
If messaged on here I usually just say 'sorry not my type, ty' .. that tends not to elicit a backlash of abuse  |
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if you say it politely that should be enough. but some men take that as you are polite so therefore uncomfortable with saying no and they can pressure you into saying yes.
carry on being polite, the first time only.
if you have to say no again then be firm, even loud, but be rude if you have to be. |
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