Hi been reading lots on the Forum but first time for me to post.
We have arranged our first meet this week (at last) with a single guy in Hotel. A has been chatting to him for a while and we have met him socially.
My dilemma is do I stay in room, leave them to it or leave and come back in sometime later. We have spoke about it and neither of us can decide 
Naturally I am nervous but so excited for her.
Any thoughts from others on their first time?
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"The only people who can decide this is you two, nobody else's experiences will be the same as yours.
People do it but I would never go alone to a hotel room with a man I barely knew."
No we will both be there, besides he is definitely trustworthy.
But cant decide if I stay or leave for a bit. |
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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago
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Welcome to forum and good on you for giving this some thought.
Think about what both of your fantasies are in this area? Are you more of a voyeur or want to join in or is the idea of your partner being with another man without you a turn on?
If it is the latter, the problem is the hotel part as opposed to being in a house.......how about sitting in the bathroom and listening? That way the safety angle is still there as you can hear everything (and maybe watch through a mirror maybe).
A lot of swinging is assessing the situation at the time, you will both need to chat and see how each of you all feel about how it could unfold
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over a year ago
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I would want to be at least within earshot i know he seems trustworthy but how well do you really know him after 1 meet and a few messages personally my wifes safety is my no1 priority
What happens if he wants to do something she doesnt do you know 100% that he is going to respect her boundaries |
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Thanks for the concern... They have spoke about boundaries etc (in fact he raised the issue).. From his veri's etc he is very respectful and courteous, hence why we choose him.
I think I have decided to stick around tho, at least within earshot and join them little later Just need to lose the nerves now lol
Thanks for the advice tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I were a couple expecting a man, I'd want us both to be there for an mmf not to leave a stranger on his own with me wife. Safety is paramount. "
Unlike the guy the other day basically saying his missus will be in this hotel at this time, she looks like this, go fancy your chances with her!! Idiot! |
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Why not be the camera man!
Film the occasion for you and your wife to enjoy watching together afterwards.
This way you will have something useful to do rather than standing there just watching....... |
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"Why not be the camera man!
Film the occasion for you and your wife to enjoy watching together afterwards.
This way you will have something useful to do rather than standing there just watching....... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like 'going to get a drink' and listening before returning to join in.
I find it really hlrby but that's me.
I'm sure you'll do the right thing for both of you, most importantly enjoy it which ever you choose to do |
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"I like 'going to get a drink' and listening before returning to join in.
I find it really hlrby but that's me.
I'm sure you'll do the right thing for both of you, most importantly enjoy it which ever you choose to do"
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