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First threesome experience - advice

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Completely new to this.

I've been speaking to some couples that may be interested in meeting, but I'm a little bit nervous about it.

I've never had a threesome unfortunately, and don't really know what I'd do, especially when it's a MMF threesome with an already established couple.

I'm worried I'll just be standing around like an idiot, completely embarrassing myself.

With a single girl - easy. But a married couple - clueless.

Any advice? What's been your experience?

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By *ischief ManagedCouple over a year ago

manchester

Speak to the couple about what they want from the meet. Ask questions "what would you liked to do"

Some might not know others may have a plan! If you don't ask you don't get xx

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

Get some info as to what they want to happen. Put forward your suggestions as to what you would like to happen. Go with flow and be respectful.

Not that i actually know, we only do ffm and i tend to look for an opening in the sapphic scrumage and get stuck in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Boundaries are also important

Yours.... Aswell as the couples !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our first 3some was very much trial and error lol, he came round for a social and got a little bit more

We arranged to meet him again, shortly after, but planned what we would like to do. So I agree, best just to ask, but if the couple are up for it, you have to try dvp; totally amazing and best experience we have had to date

The Mrs loved being the centre of attention and having 2 guys lust after her

Good luck, and most of all have fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sure once you get into the swing of things OP you'll be having a fantastic time and not worrying.

Good luck and have have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi yes agree with all the above discuss with your potential meets they're wants establish ground rules and remember at end of day respect the lady after all she is someone's love and u are a guest

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By *estmidscoupleCouple over a year ago

West Midlands

All sound advice on here, we had a social meet a week ahead of the proposed 3some, were all very nervous come the day itself, but once we were all together in the room, the nerves triggered some laughter and things got started and it was beautiful. But communication is key, as is not overstepping the mark (for both parties), best of luck OP

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple over a year ago

near cardiff

"Completely new to this.

I've been speaking to some couples that may be interested in meeting, but I'm a little bit nervous about it.

I've never had a threesome unfortunately, and don't really know what I'd do, especially when it's a MMF threesome with an already established couple.

I'm worried I'll just be standing around like an idiot, completely embarrassing myself.

With a single girl - easy. But a married couple - clueless.

Any advice? What's been your experience?"

If I invited you over you wouldn't be standing around..you are there to help me fuck my wife's brains out..

I usually direct proceedings and will let you know in advance what will happen on the night, and we'd figure that out by finding out what you are comfortable with.We tend to go with the flow when it kicks and are not formulaic in our approach though.

Just try not to blow your load in thirty seconds!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Completely new to this.

I've been speaking to some couples that may be interested in meeting, but I'm a little bit nervous about it.

I've never had a threesome unfortunately, and don't really know what I'd do, especially when it's a MMF threesome with an already established couple.

I'm worried I'll just be standing around like an idiot, completely embarrassing myself.

With a single girl - easy. But a married couple - clueless.

Any advice? What's been your experience?"

I've had plenty of 3sum's My first ever 3sum was ok with a couple I was a little nervous because I didn't know what to expect at that time,now I do know what to expect I'm very relaxed and excited to have 3sum's I soon started having 3sum's with guy's My best 3sum's ever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most guys like to see their lady pleasured an vice versa lots of ladies get a buzz from swing there fella giving it to someone else so as long as u all have fun then theres no issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies! I'll take it all onboard.

I know someone who is okay to have a one-to-ones first, before meeting as a couple. I think that'll help me feel a bit more comfortable when the threesome comes around (get to know what the woman likes etc).

I was hoping to find myself a MFF threesome (as opposed to a MMF) but they seem quite hard to come by for a single male

Also, what's dvp? lol

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By *ap AdgeMan over a year ago

Wirral

Dvp

Wow what a experience. For the lady ignore the fact that your cock is alongside another guy this is pleasuring the lady in a nicest possible way lots and lots of lube and never rush it right away you all need to be relaxed and see where you would like to.position yourself being under the lady is best if your first time. Doing it. It's two cocks at the same time in the lady's puss. Shaven.is even better too so get a trim

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol I see. Not sure I'm quite ready for that yet

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By *punky-guyMan over a year ago

Farnborough

Fuck yeah, DVP all the way. Still need to do an airtight DVP but we'd actually have to meet again for that to happen.

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By *layfulserfMan over a year ago

Northolt

Ive been lucky enough to meet a few couples and to enjoy both MFM and MMF threesomes.

My advice would be to remember that you are a guest within their relationship.

As Im certainly not a stud, my luck must be down to my laid back attitude and kinky imagination. I enjoy role play and like scenarios where Im invited to join in whereas some couples are looking for a man to take charge.

My advice would be to ask how they would like to break the ice and if there is anything in particular that they want and dont want as you want to abide by their wishes and desires

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like a guy to be respectful and to play totally on our terms......speak to the couple to see if it's soft play....watching....role play or full sex etc when you get there be introduce yourself and be friendly and if the couple is experienced they should tell you what they want....if I was you I would wait and do whatever they tell you.....you are there as part of it but ultimately your there as an extra.....mmf's are amazing and if you relax and just enjoy it....good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sadly only ever had two and I have to say it was the best sex I have ever had. Just go with the flow.

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