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Still no luck on here any advice?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey I'm a young guy and I've been on here for about a month and I still don't seem to be having any luck and I'd love to know if any veterans or swinging could give me some advice that could hopefully change my luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's so many guys on here and single females get bombarded with messages so you have to stand out from the crowd. When I had a single female profile it got to the point where I blocked single guys. |
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It is mostly down to attitude and a bit of luck. Be nice, be well mannered. To be very critical, maybe run a spell checker over the text and take out the bit about living with family and not driving. It kind of screams student which is probably not the most attractive vibe to throw out (in this scene). I'm sure you have some more flattering photos too. We don't need to see your yfronts.  go along to a club, and don't be pushy and you'll gain experience that way too. Good luck. |
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By *rSinfulMan
over a year ago
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Been here 8 years and hardly anything. It's pretty impossible but the chat rooms can be fun for a friendly chat but that's as far as it goes and they don't often talk about anything sexy in there. Work and food are popular topics. Welcome to fabswingers   |
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Remember guys outnumber ladies by aa much as 10 to one. Also your profile is poorly written with spelling and grammatical mistakes. You could be dyslexic, in which case say so as it just looks like you are not putting effort in.
Many guys try for months before getting a meet. This is more of a long game than instashag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We been on for 4 weeks we have talked to loads of really nice people(a few crazies lol) made freindships that i see continuing outside of fab for a long time have had a social meet and have a couple of meets planned, we have had loads of proposed meets that we have declined due to differing wants and needs but on the whole i think if you put yourself out there engage in the forums and above all be nice and respectfull this is a fantastic site with allot of fantastic people personally my only regret is that we didnt sign up years ago haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're one of the younger men on the site; that doesn't mean you're not wanted,you just have to find the people who will meet young men. Have a search for men your age who have met and see how they come across. I can only speak for myself where young men are concerned; I've met some who were a little older than you with a mature mind. There are a lot of men here you are amongst,make your profile stand out. Be the BLT on a plate of cheese and tomato. Good luck |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
It's not luck fella... I point folk of all genders and demographics to the archives there are countless threads there in...
I used to offer advice then I thought if someone couldn't think of how to write an interesting profile by themselves (after all you know you best,).. you need more help than I can offer,
Happy reading fella. |
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