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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"Hi, do people think a small contribution towards the costs of putting on a gangbang is reasonable? "
yes and I'd hazard a guess if you could get the money up front it would stop all the no shows . |
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Yes. Hire an apartment or hotel room and split the cost. Make it a party if you want to. There's always the commercial gangbangs and the amateur/fun ones and the ones in the middle with a small token towards costs. Its a good way of sussing out men's attitudes too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I wanted a load of men to travel to me and fuck me I wouldn't ask them to pay. It's my fantasy,I would pick who attends and provide everything. By everything I mean condoms,lube and water. Anything else is a party,not a gang bang. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I wanted a load of men to travel to me and fuck me I wouldn't ask them to pay. It's my fantasy,I would pick who attends and provide everything. By everything I mean condoms,lube and water. Anything else is a party,not a gang bang."
We can go for a drink together afterwards if they want that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, do people think a small contribution towards the costs of putting on a gangbang is reasonable? "
I dont mind and have paid towards costs in the past, and had a very good time also.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep hearing it's ok to ask for "reasonable costs" but how much is a reasonable cost?
The site kicks off Escorts & the such for asking for payment!!!
So what's the going rate to attend a gangbang?
Maybe those who have attended & contributed could enlighten us all? |
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By *pices69Couple
over a year ago
Gravesend |
A venue hired usually costs about £25 upwards for a couple, £35 for single males. usually some sort of pay bar albeit with no alchohol. But id suggest reasonable costs for a home held would be £10 in advance for single guys £15 for couples to cover soft drinks, condoms and clean up. i.e. it shouldnt be a profit making exercise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I want half a dozen to a dozen guys to come, I'm going to want to hire an apartment. That's £100 straight off. I'd want security, so that's another £50 or so. Condoms/lube/soft drinks/clean up/snacks. Another £75 or so.
So already I'm at £225.
Now, while I understand where Bad Nanna is coming from, it is my fantasy, but these guys aren't hired. It's presumably their fantasy too. So asking each of them for £15 - £20 towards the costs should be absolutely fine. Everybody cums. Everybody goes home happy. I collapse in the bath with a glass of wine and a tired grin. My bank manager doesn't hate me.
Winner.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, if your going to all the trouble to organise this event provide condoms and some bites. Some people don't want to pay that's fine but could they be arsed to do it, Not a chance.  "
Why would people expect to be fed? It's a gang bang not come dine with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, if your going to all the trouble to organise this event provide condoms and some bites. Some people don't want to pay that's fine but could they be arsed to do it, Not a chance.
Why would people expect to be fed? It's a gang bang not come dine with me. "
It's like the icebreaker thing at the start when everyone is waiting for everyone else to show up. Mini salmon blinis makes it all easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My men would do their own cleaning up
In fairness,I would only do it with men I know. I've had two men in my home before,they didn't make a mess. I'd probably not want more than 4 men because I wouldn't want a lot of men standing around wanking. That would put me off. People's ideas of gang bangs differ a lot. |
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Costs - yes. Profits - no. Unless it's a club, then I feel that reasonable cost sharing is fine, such as hotel booking cost or refreshments. People can also bring their own refreshments of course.
Don't try to make a leisure event like a business operation though. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"If I want half a dozen to a dozen guys to come, I'm going to want to hire an apartment. That's £100 straight off. I'd want security, so that's another £50 or so. Condoms/lube/soft drinks/clean up/snacks. Another £75 or so.
So already I'm at £225.
Now, while I understand where Bad Nanna is coming from, it is my fantasy, but these guys aren't hired. It's presumably their fantasy too. So asking each of them for £15 - £20 towards the costs should be absolutely fine. Everybody cums. Everybody goes home happy. I collapse in the bath with a glass of wine and a tired grin. My bank manager doesn't hate me.
Winner. "
careful your talking way to much sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have hosted a couple of gang bangs and charging didn't cross my mind in all honesty, I was going to host at my home and decided against it so got a Travelogue which I paid for, condoms wine and even Cialis, supplied by me, everyone seemed to enjoy both events. Having said that I'd happily pay to attend an event. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never go to a gang bang where a contribution was asked for. What's next? tipping a couple if you meet them in a club. This is good amateur fun. If I took a lady to a hotel to be gang banged I would pay all costs then when all the men have left have a nice night away from home with a bit of room service and a swim in the pool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a few escorts I know of who use this site as part of bringing in the punters!! With the invitation to a gangbang party with a hefty charge!! £60 seems to be the going rate in my area, Which I'm not happy they use a swinging site as a way of making money. I can understand clubs and big house parties for charging but definitely not £60 for a gangbang. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never go to a gang bang where a contribution was asked for. What's next? tipping a couple if you meet them in a club. This is good amateur fun. If I took a lady to a hotel to be gang banged I would pay all costs then when all the men have left have a nice night away from home with a bit of room service and a swim in the pool. "
Ahhh...it's a little different if you're doing it as a couple. I was talking about everyone being single at said gangbang. Everyone should share the cost just as everyone shares the pleasure in that situation. But a couple inviting a couple of guys to join them - inviters definitely should pay. For me, both scenarios are distinctly different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never go to a gang bang where a contribution was asked for. What's next? tipping a couple if you meet them in a club. This is good amateur fun. If I took a lady to a hotel to be gang banged I would pay all costs then when all the men have left have a nice night away from home with a bit of room service and a swim in the pool.
Ahhh...it's a little different if you're doing it as a couple. I was talking about everyone being single at said gangbang. Everyone should share the cost just as everyone shares the pleasure in that situation. But a couple inviting a couple of guys to join them - inviters definitely should pay. For me, both scenarios are distinctly different."
Hi Elcee, I hadn't seen your post and yes I agree it would be different for you. I was thinking of a couple having a nice night away. Maybe you could find a man you can trust and he can pay for the room and act as your security and as payment he gets to fuck you in the morning too. Women should never be out of pocket with this lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never go to a gang bang where a contribution was asked for. What's next? tipping a couple if you meet them in a club. This is good amateur fun. If I took a lady to a hotel to be gang banged I would pay all costs then when all the men have left have a nice night away from home with a bit of room service and a swim in the pool.
Ahhh...it's a little different if you're doing it as a couple. I was talking about everyone being single at said gangbang. Everyone should share the cost just as everyone shares the pleasure in that situation. But a couple inviting a couple of guys to join them - inviters definitely should pay. For me, both scenarios are distinctly different.
Hi Elcee, I hadn't seen your post and yes I agree it would be different for you. I was thinking of a couple having a nice night away. Maybe you could find a man you can trust and he can pay for the room and act as your security and as payment he gets to fuck you in the morning too. Women should never be out of pocket with this lifestyle. "
Now there's double standards women shouldn't be out of pocket but it's ok for the guys!!! |
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When I meet guys I expect them to pay for the venue/hotel even if my master is there watching or joining in.
The way we see it is that he pays for me for most things, why should random guys get a free ride  |
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"Hi, do people think a small contribution towards the costs of putting on a gangbang is reasonable? "
Yes . No one is compelled to attend and you have to spend time and money organising it. In addition there is always the risk of damage to your property.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging capitalists!! In other words pimps and prostitutes disguised as swingers  Oooh I know a tad controversial and I will be condemned to swinging hell for it. But when Men have to pay 4 times as much as couples and females to enter clubs, Then so called swingers charging men £60 a pop to attend a gangbang it speaks volumes.  |
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"Why would i want to pay??????? As a recognition that these events cost time and money to organise .."
Really don't understand the whole charging for GBs concept. If we want to do it, we do it, we don't worry about the cost! (which really isn't much anyway).
If I really fancy driving around in a Ferrari, I don't buy One, then pass the cost on to those who I give a lift to! |
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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of people citing 'reasonable' amounts, but what would a reasonable amount be in £££. Curious what Fabbers think."
We charged £30 for all.
Max 5
Covered cost of hotel, condoms and lube.
We think it's fine as long as it's not a profit game your trying to run. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a few escorts I know of who use this site as part of bringing in the punters!! With the invitation to a gangbang party with a hefty charge!! £60 seems to be the going rate in my area, Which I'm not happy they use a swinging site as a way of making money. I can understand clubs and big house parties for charging but definitely not £60 for a gangbang."
Very Cheap for Escorts they are Self Employed and have to pay Tax National insurance P.A.Y.E and a Accountant!the going rate should be £175 Minimum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condoms are free from local clinic. I wouldn't charge men to come and fuck me, I do it because I enjoy it! "
Fab response!!!!!
perfect!!!!! Wish everybody had your mentality... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never go to a gang bang where a contribution was asked for. What's next? tipping a couple if you meet them in a club. This is good amateur fun. If I took a lady to a hotel to be gang banged I would pay all costs then when all the men have left have a nice night away from home with a bit of room service and a swim in the pool.
Ahhh...it's a little different if you're doing it as a couple. I was talking about everyone being single at said gangbang. Everyone should share the cost just as everyone shares the pleasure in that situation. But a couple inviting a couple of guys to join them - inviters definitely should pay. For me, both scenarios are distinctly different.
Hi Elcee, I hadn't seen your post and yes I agree it would be different for you. I was thinking of a couple having a nice night away. Maybe you could find a man you can trust and he can pay for the room and act as your security and as payment he gets to fuck you in the morning too. Women should never be out of pocket with this lifestyle.
Now there's double standards women shouldn't be out of pocket but it's ok for the guys!!!"
I actually agree - I like to pay my way and get secretly annoyed if someone gallantly swoops in and pays for me. I like to make the big gestures too However I put a lot of stock in chivalry and general good manners so I rarely say anything, just die a little inside  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have certain special fab friends that do Social gatherings ,Gbs ,a bit of a do,shindigs, swarays etc etc lol and provide everything you find in a club,hotel meet and I even help out lol it's all free and noticeable our generosity, valuable time to provide to organize the events for the lucky people who go.....p's oh and throw in refreshments,booze, oh and nibbles,finger food, buffets lol sometimes pizza and chips lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wousldnt charge men to attend my gang bang, I've invited them after all so why should they pay
Nor would I pay anybody I was meeting
The only time I pay on a meet is half's towards hotels we have booked together or club entry, I'd never pay for a room then expect people I invite after to contribute towards it, I would only expect that of it was a room we had booked together |
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Depends really - there are some business-like attempts at gang bangs where professional women are hired...and that isn't to everybody's taste (including me). Similarly, many of us aren't interested in sponsoring a money-making event that strays into 'sex worker' territory. I've never repled to an ad that cites a cost - i.e. single males £50...because I'm always left wondering if the lady would enjoy it. On the other hand I've met with a few couples in hotel rooms that have said 'don't feel obliged but if you'd like to contribute to the room it would be great'....and I've always contributed handsomely. That said if I turned up to meet a grumpy pair of people who were a bit weird (it happend once) I would just 'make my excuses and leave' as they say (so sorry...had a curry last night...revisiting....have to dash etc!). I guess if it's a gang bang and you're pretty transparent abot the costs it should all be OK though....
Good luck with your extravaganza!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends really - there are some business-like attempts at gang bangs where professional women are hired...and that isn't to everybody's taste (including me). Similarly, many of us aren't interested in sponsoring a money-making event that strays into 'sex worker' territory. I've never repled to an ad that cites a cost - i.e. single males £50...because I'm always left wondering if the lady would enjoy it. On the other hand I've met with a few couples in hotel rooms that have said 'don't feel obliged but if you'd like to contribute to the room it would be great'....and I've always contributed handsomely. That said if I turned up to meet a grumpy pair of people who were a bit weird (it happend once) I would just 'make my excuses and leave' as they say (so sorry...had a curry last night...revisiting....have to dash etc!). I guess if it's a gang bang and you're pretty transparent abot the costs it should all be OK though....
Good luck with your extravaganza!!!"
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"I wousldnt charge men to attend my gang bang, I've invited them after all so why should they pay
Nor would I pay anybody I was meeting
The only time I pay on a meet is half's towards hotels we have booked together or club entry, I'd never pay for a room then expect people I invite after to contribute towards it, I would only expect that of it was a room we had booked together "
Love to attend your gangbang ! |
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If its a hotel a contribution to the room. If its at home no.
Water, condoms, lube, tissues, wipes.
What does it cost money wise to clean up.
I reckon i could do a 12 man gangbang for less than £10. So id be charging them about 80p a head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a minefield. I have no hesitation in splitting costs for a hotel if I meet a couple or lady id shy away from a home contribution id rather take a nice bottle otherwise I think it might feel like a transaction. As far as socials go id always buy the drinks. Well at least the first round and if all the seats opposite arnt all of a sudden empty or someone is taking an hour to arrive back from the bathroom then hell I may celebrate and order another round. Its a fine line between being polite and not wanting to look like a tight git. |
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
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Call me old fashioned but I always felt a guy should pay for the hotel.. Not trying to curry favour!! In a gangbang situation I don't see why the woman should be expected to contribute..
Just my opinion, don't mean any offence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Call me old fashioned but I always felt a guy should pay for the hotel.. Not trying to curry favour!! In a gangbang situation I don't see why the woman should be expected to contribute..
Just my opinion, don't mean any offence. "
But what if it's the women who's arranged it
How can you arrange a gang bang and book a hotel without paying for it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People will charge because people will pay. As much as there are genuine swingers on here, (including "off-duty" sex workers), if people can get away with it, they will.
Personally, if I have a GB or party, a bottle of wine or something from a guest is nice but I don't expect it.
Just because I have a vagina, doesn't mean the world owes me a favour, despite what this site may suggest sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't want a gang bang where all the guys had contributed to it but not me, I would feel somehow obligated or expected
I would just feel the guys where thinking.....oh she's a woman so we won't charge her because we want to fuck her not put her off with costs
I just feel if I put the same in financially as everybody else I'd have equal say in what happens
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