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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok so the hubby M and I both agree that we want to bring another woman into our play and soon.

We are looking to hopefully both join in, but if the person in question is not comfortable with that then we would be happy to play girl on girl with hubby just watching.

Any ideas of how to make this happen?? Or any females who are local want to join us??

PandMp Xxx

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By *hocko87Man over a year ago

dublin

Sometimes it can hard to get women to join a couple cos they don't mind playing girl on girl but hate guys around at times . But wish u d best of luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There was a post on here about how many meets people had this year and the single females were either none or only a few....that combined with the amount of single guys and a female wanting a couple etc etc I have came to the conclusion it's not going to happen for us....hope it does for you tho....good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I can get that. Hubby has even said that he would be willing to watch.

Thanks for the reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In all honesty OP, single bisexual women who meet couples on this site are in the minority. First you have to find a woman who you're both attracted to, and most importantly she finds you both equally attractive too and you all get on - personally I don't even look for couples anymore as I never found the threeway attraction.

Added to that, wanting a woman to put on a show for the hubby won't appeal to a fair few single women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can get that. Hubby has even said that he would be willing to watch.

Thanks for the reply "

The ones we have spoke to on here are up their own arse

Probably more chance of it happening at a club on couples and single female night x

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"In all honesty OP, single bisexual women who meet couples on this site are in the minority. First you have to find a woman who you're both attracted to, and most importantly she finds you both equally attractive too and you all get on - personally I don't even look for couples anymore as I never found the threeway attraction.

Added to that, wanting a woman to put on a show for the hubby won't appeal to a fair few single women."

I agree, I play as a single and would not meet a couple for the reasons stated

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i play with couples in two different scenarios.. 1 equal three way dynamic, where we all get on, or at a club as a sub under my Dom. i play he only directs.

ive played ff in a club and had an audience, depends on what people want..but i dont do soft swap with a couple on my own..x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can get that. Hubby has even said that he would be willing to watch.

Thanks for the reply "

I think more single bisexual women would be more open to playing with both of you rather than playing with you and letting hubby watch, as that way we end up feeling like performing seals

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If it's not like the three musketeers it looses a certain dynamic...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I can understand why you would feel like that. We especially both want to play. I'm bi-curious/bi-sexual but it's my fantasy to have my hubby play with me and another woman it's not something he came out with.

PandMp Xxx

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I can understand why you would feel like that. We especially both want to play. I'm bi-curious/bi-sexual but it's my fantasy to have my hubby play with me and another woman it's not something he came out with.

PandMp Xxx "

you should put 'seeking equal way dynamic' on your profile sweet..its what i have found most bi singles look for, when looking at a couples profile, if the above is the case xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

PandMp Xxx

you should put 'seeking equal way dynamic' on your profile sweet..its what i have found most bi singles look for, when looking at a couples profile, if the above is the case xx"

Stolen...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

PandMp Xxx

you should put 'seeking equal way dynamic' on your profile sweet..its what i have found most bi singles look for, when looking at a couples profile, if the above is the case xx"

Thank you very much for your help

xxx

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Bisexual women are just that - bisexual not gay so usually meet couples to have sex with both. If there's only FF on offer, why would they meet a couple when they only need another fem?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

when we play with a bi fem we all play together - make her centre of our attentions and before all that we talk - usually a fair bit and chat over everybodies wants and needs -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can get that. Hubby has even said that he would be willing to watch.

Thanks for the reply

The ones we have spoke to on here are up their own arse

Probably more chance of it happening at a club on couples and single female night x"

The couples I have spoken on here have been up their own arses too. A lot are the woman wanting to give hubby a treat, hubby wanting to watch FF, couples expecting a female to perform for them. Jealous females or just the male half actually is wanting it. With at attitude like yours no wonder you can't get an mff meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That reminds me. Friday night dinner is on tonight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we have been looking for the same thing exactly, I, Scottie, have no intention in having full sex with whoever and would be quite happy to only physically interact with Becs.

We just want the experience, we can play as little or as much as is wanted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

can anybody point us in the right direction to actually make this happen as we dont have any luck on here

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"can anybody point us in the right direction to actually make this happen as we dont have any luck on here

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im not saying you wont find what you are looking for but at least you are honest about what you want.. soft FF play for me with a couple is a no no. you having sex with your partner in front of me, but not with me..is in my mind being treated like your fantasy play toy...thats how i feel about it. however if i was to meet with a partner it would be different..you are more likely imo to find this dynamic with another couple..good luck to you, if not having luck on here, get to some clubs xxx

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"can anybody point us in the right direction to actually make this happen as we dont have any luck on here

If you want your exact scenario and can't find it on here, maybe pay? There are sites that cater for that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find that most couples forget I have my own likes and wants that I want from a meet and just focus on getting their pleasure. Strangely I've had more luck meeting with couples solo from my couples profile than this one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"can anybody point us in the right direction to actually make this happen as we dont have any luck on here

If you want your exact scenario and can't find it on here, maybe pay? There are sites that cater for that

were not interested in paying for sex. Both myself and my hubby are very much in agreement here as it's not something that we agree with due to the fact that most sex workers are pressured into it due to certain reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"can anybody point us in the right direction to actually make this happen as we dont have any luck on here

If you want your exact scenario and can't find it on here, maybe pay? There are sites that cater for that

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By *mallteaserWoman over a year ago

Central

If only was closer xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we would like to have a 3way 3some but understand (as a woman myself) that single women may think it's a bit daunting to meet a couple but firstly we are not madly experienced and secondly I would like to think that a threesome will be whatever we ALL want it to be,we only don't do water sports and bum love!

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