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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
Sarah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
Sarah "
we have done a cpl of times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is something we do and have been for a while.
The sex once a get home is very horny.
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Yeah that ^ 
Mrs uses to meet alone and/or they'd come back to ours and have fun upstairs alone. Sex afterwards is really horny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There also seems to be this misconception that people play like this because the bf/husband is some how inadequate and that there has to be humiliation involved. Nope it's just fun and a real turn on.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The male half of a couple I have met a couple of times told me he wants to drop his Mrs off and just leave her in my hands muhahahaha I had no idea it was called "Hotwifing "Thanks OP  |
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"This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
Sarah "
We've also been doing this for the past 7 months. We both enjoy it and have many videos of our adventures. Last Friday Kayla had a guy join her in the hotel room whilst I was sat in the bar. The videos and photos they took we're amazing and Kayla had an amazing time. This is definitely something we won't be changing for a long time as we both get great enjoyment from it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The OPs scenario does sound horny but how does the hubby feel waiting at home knowing that his wife is having sex with another man somewhere else???
Does it ever create any issues especially if the other guy is really good looking??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The "really good looking" thing wouldn't apply for me lol.....but I have done this for several couples over a number of years.
One couple were based in France. I met the wife in a hotel near Chester....we skyped with the husband several times as we stayed overnight and had lots of fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The wife always chooses who she wants to be with always texes first, mainly to let Me know who and where she is, and what time she is likely to be home, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The wife always chooses who she wants to be with always texes first, mainly to let Me know who and where she is, and what time she is likely to be home, "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've done it and wow sex was amazing when I got home and told hubby all about it. "
Thats what its about, Makes our sex life better, and relationship stronger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've done it and wow sex was amazing when I got home and told hubby all about it.
Thats what its about, Makes our sex life better, and relationship stronger."
That's exactly what being on this site should be all about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've done it and wow sex was amazing when I got home and told hubby all about it.
Thats what its about, Makes our sex life better, and relationship stronger.
That's exactly what being on this site should be all about. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We love doing it xx sex with hubby after is so intense esp as I tell him and he recivies pics or even the odd phone call"
Cannot beat the Phone pictures . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like the hot wife gets twice as much fun!! "
Unfortunately there is that.
But for whatever reason women don't seem attracted to Mr, even tho I think he is sexy.
We have threesomes.
He is happy for me to have fun as long as I include him with pic's updates and graphic details when I get home.
But as I have only done it once I am perhaps not the best person to comment. |
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"Sounds like the hot wife gets twice as much fun!!
Unfortunately there is that.
But for whatever reason women don't seem attracted to Mr, even tho I think he is sexy.
We have threesomes.
He is happy for me to have fun as long as I include him with pic's updates and graphic details when I get home.
But as I have only done it once I am perhaps not the best person to comment. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We re convinced lol just need to find someone
It takes time to find the right situation , and person "
The situation we re happy with got someone in mind but happy to consider options |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
Sarah "
I do that with a few women before. I found it to be a turn on being told in a swinging club that her husband sent her out to be naughty! Turned me on more and made me make sure that she left with good stories and amazing pictures.
Fun for all I say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me too. I always book a hotel room and the husband drops his wife off for all night sex then picks her up in the morning. The sex is incredible and I'm surprised how many of the hot wives leave their mobile phones on so that their husbands back at home can listen in. Been doing it for 12 years now, and its always fantastically erotic. xxx, Mike |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have ventured into this before now. I think what's important is that the male half of the couple is involved. I always try and form a trusting friendship with the guy as well. Just because you are with his wife it's not a 'fuck you' attitude.
Word of warning though..... I once had a bad experience of this where I got invited to a couples house and his wife was waiting upstairs for me. Within a matter of mins it was obvious she was doing it for him, so made my excuses and left. |
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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago
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"The OPs scenario does sound horny but how does the hubby feel waiting at home knowing that his wife is having sex with another man somewhere else???
Does it ever create any issues especially if the other guy is really good looking???"
I'm extremely good looking and it's never caused a problem  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, come home to find hubby incredibly horny we talk about it, show any pictures or videos that have been taken, end up having hot steamy horny sex again.  |
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"There also seems to be this misconception that people play like this because the bf/husband is some how inadequate and that there has to be humiliation involved. Nope it's just fun and a real turn on. "
What if the husbands inadequate, suits being a girl better, and needs humiliating ? |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"There also seems to be this misconception that people play like this because the bf/husband is some how inadequate and that there has to be humiliation involved. Nope it's just fun and a real turn on.
What if the husbands inadequate, suits being a girl better, and needs humiliating ? "
Then the guy they meet will understand that and play to both their desires. J |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
Sarah "
It works very well for the right couple. Lots of getting to know her lover first is sometimes safer to lessen an anxieties. Good luck in your quest.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we experimented with this a few years back. My wife has met guys, girls and couples on her own for fun. We both really enjoyed it, the 'after' sex was amazing.
It's not something we we're into now for various reasons, but never say never.
Our advice to any couple thinking of trying this is be very clear and honest about your expectations and boundaries with each other, as well as with any one the 'hotwife' is potentially meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we experimented with this a few years back. My wife has met guys, girls and couples on her own for fun. We both really enjoyed it, the 'after' sex was amazing.
It's not something we we're into now for various reasons, but never say never.
Our advice to any couple thinking of trying this is be very clear and honest about your expectations and boundaries with each other, as well as with any one the 'hotwife' is potentially meeting. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do this both ways
Love it all. Getting ready through to sex afterwards x
But its alot easier for me to find a play mate.
Lou"
You sound like such a fun couple. I can imagine it would be tough for the other half to find fun, guys are slightly outnumbered on here...
Some of my couples find the dressing part and anticipation the most exciting part.. |
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"This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
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it works very well for us x |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it "
Hope it all goes well and it's what ye both expect. Any guy who would be disrespectful would be a complete idiot. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"we would also like to drop the missus off with a couple and then have her dropped off with us .The sex when she comes home or gets picked up is amazeballs anticipation is all the build up for usxx"
Do you like to be teased while the meet is ongoing or prefer to wait and get all the details while "reconnecting" with each other?
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"we would also like to drop the missus off with a couple and then have her dropped off with us .The sex when she comes home or gets picked up is amazeballs anticipation is all the build up for usxx Do you like to be teased while the meet is ongoing or prefer to wait and get all the details while "reconnecting" with each other?"
no not teased so much no just know shes having a good time, best to save whats happening till shes with me and tells me all about it |
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"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it "
We've experienced the same. Lots of guys send the most vile and grotesque messages once Kayla shows an interest in meeting them and they end up on the block list. Our way of thinking is, if you can't remain polite and respectful in messages what will you be like face to face and alone with my partner. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it
We've experienced the same. Lots of guys send the most vile and grotesque messages once Kayla shows an interest in meeting them and they end up on the block list. Our way of thinking is, if you can't remain polite and respectful in messages what will you be like face to face and alone with my partner."
Why on earth would they act like this?!! It makes no sense..idiots... |
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"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it
We've experienced the same. Lots of guys send the most vile and grotesque messages once Kayla shows an interest in meeting them and they end up on the block list. Our way of thinking is, if you can't remain polite and respectful in messages what will you be like face to face and alone with my partner.Why on earth would they act like this?!! It makes no sense..idiots..."
It's even worse when we approach a guy for a meet. For some reason their egos grow massively and they start writing with their cock rather than their brain. Such a shame but we've now accepted it as part of the Fabs experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it
We've experienced the same. Lots of guys send the most vile and grotesque messages once Kayla shows an interest in meeting them and they end up on the block list. Our way of thinking is, if you can't remain polite and respectful in messages what will you be like face to face and alone with my partner.Why on earth would they act like this?!! It makes no sense..idiots...
It's even worse when we approach a guy for a meet. For some reason their egos grow massively and they start writing with their cock rather than their brain. Such a shame but we've now accepted it as part of the Fabs experience."
This is partly why we took a break from hotwifing, just as many couples were like this as single guys. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it
We've experienced the same. Lots of guys send the most vile and grotesque messages once Kayla shows an interest in meeting them and they end up on the block list. Our way of thinking is, if you can't remain polite and respectful in messages what will you be like face to face and alone with my partner.Why on earth would they act like this?!! It makes no sense..idiots...
It's even worse when we approach a guy for a meet. For some reason their egos grow massively and they start writing with their cock rather than their brain. Such a shame but we've now accepted it as part of the Fabs experience."
Surely any guy looking to get involved in this dynamic knows he is playing a role based around being a respectful stud who will treat the hot wife like she is a princess out side of the bedroom and a sex goddess between the sheets . |
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"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it
We've experienced the same. Lots of guys send the most vile and grotesque messages once Kayla shows an interest in meeting them and they end up on the block list. Our way of thinking is, if you can't remain polite and respectful in messages what will you be like face to face and alone with my partner.Why on earth would they act like this?!! It makes no sense..idiots...
It's even worse when we approach a guy for a meet. For some reason their egos grow massively and they start writing with their cock rather than their brain. Such a shame but we've now accepted it as part of the Fabs experience.
This is partly why we took a break from hotwifing, just as many couples were like this as single guys. "
Yeah we've encountered a few couples also. Such a shame as some were very local and were an ideal fit. |
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"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it
We've experienced the same. Lots of guys send the most vile and grotesque messages once Kayla shows an interest in meeting them and they end up on the block list. Our way of thinking is, if you can't remain polite and respectful in messages what will you be like face to face and alone with my partner.Why on earth would they act like this?!! It makes no sense..idiots...
It's even worse when we approach a guy for a meet. For some reason their egos grow massively and they start writing with their cock rather than their brain. Such a shame but we've now accepted it as part of the Fabs experience.
Surely any guy looking to get involved in this dynamic knows he is playing a role based around being a respectful stud who will treat the hot wife like she is a princess out side of the bedroom and a sex goddess between the sheets ."
Exactly. Although we still like to try and incorporate some of what the guy wants/likes also to ensure everyone is happy. But this sometimes back fires. But we have had some amazing meets so every cloud and all that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have ventured into this before now. I think what's important is that the male half of the couple is involved. I always try and form a trusting friendship with the guy as well. Just because you are with his wife it's not a 'fuck you' attitude.
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Yes I think this would be the way we'd like it to be.
Thanks everyone for all the replies, been really interesting to read and gives a good insight.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Exactly. Although we still like to try and incorporate some of what the guy wants/likes also to ensure everyone is happy. But this sometimes back fires. But we have had some amazing meets so every cloud and all that "
Yep you have to remember and enjoy the good experiences and learn from the bad experiences and then put them aside. We took the decision to quit while we're ahead lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it
We've experienced the same. Lots of guys send the most vile and grotesque messages once Kayla shows an interest in meeting them and they end up on the block list. Our way of thinking is, if you can't remain polite and respectful in messages what will you be like face to face and alone with my partner.Why on earth would they act like this?!! It makes no sense..idiots...
It's even worse when we approach a guy for a meet. For some reason their egos grow massively and they start writing with their cock rather than their brain. Such a shame but we've now accepted it as part of the Fabs experience.
Surely any guy looking to get involved in this dynamic knows he is playing a role based around being a respectful stud who will treat the hot wife like she is a princess out side of the bedroom and a sex goddess between the sheets ."
Too many think with their cock ! At the slightest chance of a meet they assume it's happening rather than being polite, courteous etc to make it happen
I'm sure it won't be our last time hotwifing and we would look to offer ourselves as a couple should any other couple want to send their wife to us for a threesome to then report back to Hubbie in the future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can out the idiots by their first message !!
You only get one chance to make a good first impression !
A select few get past me , I then pass them over to the Mrs to see what she thinks and she takes over the conversation with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm sure it won't be our last time hotwifing and we would look to offer ourselves as a couple should any other couple want to send their wife to us for a threesome to then report back to Hubbie in the future "
You guys sound like a lot of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the reason I joined fab.
Most conversations start with the male of the couple and if we get along then we chat as a threesome and usually follow with a social. Everyone has to be happy and comfortable. As much as things may get carried away on the night I always remain respectful to hubbys needs even though he is not there. Sometimes it's sending photos, ringing him so he can listen or letting him watch via Skype. Most often it's just respecting any boundaries they have set as a couple. The dynamics are so erotic that everyone gets pleasure......hot wife usually gets double the pleasure. If you please Hotwife AND hubby you will be invited for more and more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm sure it won't be our last time hotwifing and we would look to offer ourselves as a couple should any other couple want to send their wife to us for a threesome to then report back to Hubbie in the future
You guys sound like a lot of fun. "
Well thank you
We do try and have lots of fun for all concerned ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We ve read with much interest and thank you ,it appears to be no more involved than the mild cuck scenarios we ve done.We ve always been aware that with hubby present its always felt awkward to let go so to speak even though hes totally comfortable ,so its definitely on our to do list |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We ve read with much interest and thank you ,it appears to be no more involved than the mild cuck scenarios we ve done.We ve always been aware that with hubby present its always felt awkward to let go so to speak even though hes totally comfortable ,so its definitely on our to do list "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We ve read with much interest and thank you ,it appears to be no more involved than the mild cuck scenarios we ve done.We ve always been aware that with hubby present its always felt awkward to let go so to speak even though hes totally comfortable ,so its definitely on our to do list tapping his foot impatiently "
And your proposal is ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have ventured into this before now. I think what's important is that the male half of the couple is involved. I always try and form a trusting friendship with the guy as well. Just because you are with his wife it's not a 'fuck you' attitude.
Yes I think this would be the way we'd like it to be.
Thanks everyone for all the replies, been really interesting to read and gives a good insight.
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I'm glad a little of what I said made sense because there is a massive difference between hotwife and other things. In fact I always find it a privilege and meaning much more than meeting a single woman.
(If I can be any assistance in your search.... ) |
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"We ve read with much interest and thank you ,it appears to be no more involved than the mild cuck scenarios we ve done.We ve always been aware that with hubby present its always felt awkward to let go so to speak even though hes totally comfortable ,so its definitely on our to do list tapping his foot impatiently And your proposal is ?"
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"I can out the idiots by their first message !!
You only get one chance to make a good first impression !
A select few get past me , I then pass them over to the Mrs to see what she thinks and she takes over the conversation with them"
Mr is exactly the same! |
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By *eendeeCouple
over a year ago
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Mrs Dee as done this once I mr dee found it so hot but Mrs dee was a bit 50/50 on it she likes it the opposite way for me to play and comeback and tell her all which is equally as horny to be honest xx |
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"I'd love a hot wife within an hours drive from me
What if she is an hour and five minutes away?
Is it a no go?
Lol "
I've travelled 2000+ miles for the right person. An hour was a figure of speech. If it was a definite I'd obviously travel further, I got offered a beauty in Norwich... but most couples aren't consistent.  |
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"Mrs Dee as done this once I mr dee found it so hot but Mrs dee was a bit 50/50 on it she likes it the opposite way for me to play and comeback and tell her all which is equally as horny to be honest xx"
Will have to pick her one night |
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"The OPs scenario does sound horny but how does the hubby feel waiting at home knowing that his wife is having sex with another man somewhere else???
Does it ever create any issues especially if the other guy is really good looking???"
Not sure how it's any different to doing it in person. Either you like your wife having sex with others or you don't. I can understand why couples only play same room, but in principle it's the same - only just a bit more naughty. The same "feelings" are involved.
If anything guys are more likely to worry about the emotional aspect.
If it created issues every time Kate played with guys better looking than me... Then she wouldn't have many play meets.
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My wife and I enjoy this experience massively! It isn't a regular thing, maybe 3 or 4 times a year. The excitement and anticipation of getting her dressed and heading out is really intense. I prepare for the massive emotional reactions i'll feel through the evening. So horny! Then really nervous that she might not be enjoying it. Excitement as the imagination goes berserk! Frustrated that you haven't heard from them. And then body flooding with adrenaline when a text or picture comes in.
I would be happy to chat with any Hubbys of a couple who are considering trying this for the first time and are wondering how it will be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife and I enjoy this experience massively! It isn't a regular thing, maybe 3 or 4 times a year. The excitement and anticipation of getting her dressed and heading out is really intense. I prepare for the massive emotional reactions i'll feel through the evening. So horny! Then really nervous that she might not be enjoying it. Excitement as the imagination goes berserk! Frustrated that you haven't heard from them. And then body flooding with adrenaline when a text or picture comes in.
I would be happy to chat with any Hubbys of a couple who are considering trying this for the first time and are wondering how it will be "
I couldnt have said it better myself
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"My wife and I enjoy this experience massively! It isn't a regular thing, maybe 3 or 4 times a year. The excitement and anticipation of getting her dressed and heading out is really intense. I prepare for the massive emotional reactions i'll feel through the evening. So horny! Then really nervous that she might not be enjoying it. Excitement as the imagination goes berserk! Frustrated that you haven't heard from them. And then body flooding with adrenaline when a text or picture comes in.
I would be happy to chat with any Hubbys of a couple who are considering trying this for the first time and are wondering how it will be
I couldnt have said it better myself
Jason "
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over a year ago
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There's obviously lots of couples where the hotwife meets guys on her own, but are there any hotwives who meet couples on their own? It's been mentioned in this thread but just wondered how common it is. |
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"This is how we got started . I'd been on at mrs for a long time to have sex with another guy . She was nervous but ended up with her ex husband was the horniest thing ever "
Wow, her ex? That must have been quite intense. |
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"There's obviously lots of couples where the hotwife meets guys on her own, but are there any hotwives who meet couples on their own? It's been mentioned in this thread but just wondered how common it is. "
Kayla does but only if it's very local. It's quite hard to find a couple local that will allow videos/photos to be taken if Kayla meets solo so doesn't happen that often sadly. Seems guys are more willing and accommodating with regards to our travel restraints than couples are that we've encountered so far. |
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"There's obviously lots of couples where the hotwife meets guys on her own, but are there any hotwives who meet couples on their own? It's been mentioned in this thread but just wondered how common it is.
Kayla does but only if it's very local. It's quite hard to find a couple local that will allow videos/photos to be taken if Kayla meets solo so doesn't happen that often sadly. Seems guys are more willing and accommodating with regards to our travel restraints than couples are that we've encountered so far."
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"There's obviously lots of couples where the hotwife meets guys on her own, but are there any hotwives who meet couples on their own? It's been mentioned in this thread but just wondered how common it is. "
we want to do this and are on the lookout currently , we would also like there mrs in return one night |
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"There's obviously lots of couples where the hotwife meets guys on her own, but are there any hotwives who meet couples on their own? It's been mentioned in this thread but just wondered how common it is.
we want to do this and are on the lookout currently , we would also like there mrs in return one night "
Oh yes, we did something like this once. |
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We've had it where Mrsdpt has met a couple on her own, only don't it once but it was great.
I've met couples on my own a few times too.
Just a different dynamic of swinging that we like to indulge in every now and again |
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"There's obviously lots of couples where the hotwife meets guys on her own, but are there any hotwives who meet couples on their own? It's been mentioned in this thread but just wondered how common it is.
we want to do this and are on the lookout currently , we would also like there mrs in return one night
Oh yes, we did something like this once. "
it sounds great |
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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago
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Hi has played with both couples and singles on her own. But only people we have meet and played with previously... Very horny especially when you receive some text pictures |
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"Once in a blue moon, Frisky will go to a club without me...
Exquisite torture waiting for her to get home...
She might be going to one when I am working nights, that will be torture...lol "
Fingers crossed she doesn't lose her nerve... |
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As the single guy meeting couples, I have met wide variety of kinks. one couple I know rare into the whole hotwife thing - ie hubby will drop off the good lady at the hotel bar. All three of us will have a chat and then hubby will go home. I and the good lady will have our fun and send pics off to hubby. He gets off on the pics and knowing while he is going about his biz, his wife is being service! What they talk about afterwards, I am not privy to |
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"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it "
We decided to choose someone we'd already met so we knew he was polite and respectful.
So many guys just want to fuck n go!
I want more than that.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone.
But I want it to be sexy. Is that so much to ask???? |
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"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it
We decided to choose someone we'd already met so we knew he was polite and respectful.
So many guys just want to fuck n go!
I want more than that.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone.
But I want it to be sexy. Is that so much to ask????"
Not too much to ask at all !
You want someone that can do the job , with manners , and respect |
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yes - definitely want to choose someone you have player with before - almost a given. the hotwife that I play with - originally I meet both the lady and the hubby and we had a MFM. Gradually evolved into her and I playing together while hubby was back at home. |
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"This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
Sarah "
We are building up to this, we've met single guys with me ( male ) just watching, very horny!
Recently at Cap dAdge when in a club I've chosen a guy and she has gone and given him a blow job.
We've read stories of husbands dropping their wives off at a guys home and awaiting a phone call to say "we're done" and have to say I admire the husband who can do this.
We are building to one day, me taking my wife to a Black Man's Fan Club party and waiting outside for her, perhaps one day? |
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"This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
Sarah
We are building up to this, we've met single guys with me ( male ) just watching, very horny!
Recently at Cap dAdge when in a club I've chosen a guy and she has gone and given him a blow job.
We've read stories of husbands dropping their wives off at a guys home and awaiting a phone call to say "we're done" and have to say I admire the husband who can do this.
We are building to one day, me taking my wife to a Black Man's Fan Club party and waiting outside for her, perhaps one day? "
Love the bit about you choosing the guy whom your good lady gives a BJ to?! |
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I've done this once with her hubby at home and a few times with him downstairs or in another room, loved it every time.
Curious though, is there any truth in the rumour of 'hotwives' wearing an anklet as an indicator of their indulging in such activities..?? |
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"This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
Sarah "
Done this in the past. Got to meet a sexy redhead at a hotel. When she got home I got to watch her and hubby on cam as they had sex and she told him all that went on.
Ah - happy memories |
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"I've done this once with her hubby at home and a few times with him downstairs or in another room, loved it every time.
Curious though, is there any truth in the rumour of 'hotwives' wearing an anklet as an indicator of their indulging in such activities..??"
I don't think so ! |
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"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it
We decided to choose someone we'd already met so we knew he was polite and respectful.
So many guys just want to fuck n go!
I want more than that.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone.
But I want it to be sexy. Is that so much to ask????
Not too much to ask at all !
You want someone that can do the job , with manners , and respect "
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"I've done this once with her hubby at home and a few times with him downstairs or in another room, loved it every time.
Curious though, is there any truth in the rumour of 'hotwives' wearing an anklet as an indicator of their indulging in such activities..??"
I don't think this is true, but would nice if it was. There's whole thread about this in the forums, and that was the general opinion. |
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over a year ago
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Best advice is chat with the guy your going to meet, build trust and set a time you'll leave.
I used to love this with a hotwifing couple as he'd wait in the hotel bar whilst I had some very sexy fun with his wife - then she would leave and from what I'm told it made them both super horny!
Amazing for all three of us!!!! |
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"This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
Sarah "
Yes we do this and it works very well for us as a couple, I've met 2 couples so far and a few single guys |
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"This is something we do and have been for a while.
The sex once a get home is very horny.
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I couldn't agree more it's extremely arrousing telling my hubby and showing him pics and videos, and when we make love it's out of this world |
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"It's awesome. A little bit like cuckolding but without the cuckolding, if that makes sense."
I say it's like cuckolding but without the humiliation side |
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"This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
Sarah "
We love it! |
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"This isn't something we've done to date, but both been thinking about it, so Mr sends me off to play with someone and I get video or photos for him. Plus tell him all about it afterwards. Not in a cuckold way though.
Anyone into this and does it work well?
Sarah "
it can work very well yes.... also he could listen in on the phone give instructions or watch via skype |
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"We are doing this next week
We have both chosen the guy , she needs to fancy him, I need to know he will be respectful and trustworthy
Had hundreds of offers but too many just want to treat her like a piece of meat !
Very much looking forward to it
We decided to choose someone we'd already met so we knew he was polite and respectful.
So many guys just want to fuck n go!
I want more than that.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone.
But I want it to be sexy. Is that so much to ask????
Not too much to ask at all !
You want someone that can do the job , with manners , and respect "
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"yes - definitely want to choose someone you have player with before - almost a given. the hotwife that I play with - originally I meet both the lady and the hubby and we had a MFM. Gradually evolved into her and I playing together while hubby was back at home. "
This is how it started with us. We met the guy twice, had mfm fun, then I met him alone in a hotel room whilst hubby was at work. We tried to send pics and regular updates but we got too caught up in the moment (so to speak). Hubby did get some pics. And the sex when I got home was amazing, we couldn't keep our hands off each other! We still get very turned on talking about it now. We're keen to do it again |
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