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Bisexual , straight or?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right I've got this question to throw out there. What are people's views on bisexuality ? I kind of don't understand it in a way that I feel if your gay your gay if your straight your straight. I've been with woman but I'm straight as in il play with woman but not and never would want a long term sexual relationship as such. If a man has anal or sexual contact with a man but he's straight does that make you bi or pansexual or sapiosexual or just sexually open like myself.
I hate labels and they seem to pigeon hole people and then it's hard for others to relate. I'd genuinely love to hear others views x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right I've got this question to throw out there. What are people's views on bisexuality ? I kind of don't understand it in a way that I feel if your gay your gay if your straight your straight. I've been with woman but I'm straight as in il play with woman but not and never would want a long term sexual relationship as such. If a man has anal or sexual contact with a man but he's straight does that make you bi or pansexual or sapiosexual or just sexually open like myself.
I hate labels and they seem to pigeon hole people and then it's hard for others to relate. I'd genuinely love to hear others views x
Isn't sexuality about sex not relationships. If you play with the same sex you're gay. If you play with both you're bi. I struggle to understand when people say they're not bi but happy to play with both sexes.
That said I think there's too many labels for people anyway and we should stop trying to put people in pidgeonholes and just accept differences.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not a fan of labels and don't think everyone's idea of bisexuality is identical.
I class myself as bi however I only find women attractive although I find the sexual side with men arousing . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I answered this on the other identical thread
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/533854
Bi may not be the perfect label, but it opens the possibility if you are into same and opposite gender sexual fun. straight or gay are more restrictive as labels.
But all are useful in adverts for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I answered this on the other identical thread
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/533854
Bi may not be the perfect label, but it opens the possibility if you are into same and opposite gender sexual fun. straight or gay are more restrictive as labels.
But all are useful in adverts for sex."
This - would prefer to avoid labels but with using this site you have to categorise yourself sometimes. Plus with the hostility towards man on man action from some people, we've found best to make it clear so we know who to avoid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Right I've got this question to throw out there. What are people's views on bisexuality ? I kind of don't understand it in a way that I feel if your gay your gay if your straight your straight. I've been with woman but I'm straight as in il play with woman but not and never would want a long term sexual relationship as such. If a man has anal or sexual contact with a man but he's straight does that make you bi or pansexual or sapiosexual or just sexually open like myself.
I hate labels and they seem to pigeon hole people and then it's hard for others to relate. I'd genuinely love to hear others views x
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If you play with other lady's even occasionally you are not straight you are Bi......Same with men.
Bi means you have sex with both genders.
It doesn't make you not Bi if you don't want a same sex relationship
What part do you not understand????
There was a similar thread to this last week, try searching for it.
Bi is Bi
Straight is straight
Gay is gay
Simple
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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago
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"Right I've got this question to throw out there. What are people's views on bisexuality ? I kind of don't understand it in a way that I feel if your gay your gay if your straight your straight. I've been with woman but I'm straight as in il play with woman but not and never would want a long term sexual relationship as such. If a man has anal or sexual contact with a man but he's straight does that make you bi or pansexual or sapiosexual or just sexually open like myself.
I hate labels and they seem to pigeon hole people and then it's hard for others to relate. I'd genuinely love to hear others views x
I
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it makes you bisexual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gay people only have attraction with their own gender.
Straight people only have attraction with the opposite gender.
Bi have an attraction to both.
That's the simple part. Now for the murky part.
A gay man can kiss a woman, play with her boobs, even finger her and he's still gay. But if he's sexually attracted to her and women in general then he's gotta go look at himself. There are lots of women who will kiss another woman. Doesn't mean they are bi. Just means they are kissing a woman. In my humble opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP - the fact that you are unable to understand something doesn't make it unreal..!!!
If it isn't for you, then just step away please...
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No need for rudeness, the op surely is allowed to ask questions.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm bisexual. Where on the spectrum I am though varies from time to time and depends on who I'm having sex with. "
Now you are just being difficult... how dare you allow mood, or person to interfere with the labeling system  |
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"I'm bisexual. Where on the spectrum I am though varies from time to time and depends on who I'm having sex with.
Now you are just being difficult... how dare you allow mood, or person to interfere with the labeling system "
Label Mabel Smabel. It's a vague description 'bisexual' as the devil Iain the detail. |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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Gay here, but happy to play with anyone I find attraction & trust with.
I clicked a button when I joined Fab that says sexual preference Gay, as I'm mostly attracted to men.
That said, Fab has helped broaden my horizons, but then they were pretty broad anyway before Fab.
Clicking a button isn't going to change my preference, but neither is society going to stop me from exploring with the right people in the right circumstances. My Fab friends know that & accept me for who I am, what my preferences are, & are supportive if I broaden my choices when I choose to.
Clicking a button doesn't pigeon hole me or mean I'm ever going to be rigidly caged in any given category unless I choose to.
Labels... pah!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm exactly the same as the OP, but as a male. I like playing with other men (not fully, yet) and I'd not consider a relationship with one. I put the lable as Bi-curious on my profile.
But in the end lables are just that, and they mean different things to different people. Just explain what you enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Gay people only have attraction with their own gender.
Straight people only have attraction with the opposite gender.
Bi have an attraction to both.
That's the simple part. Now for the murky part.
A gay man can kiss a woman, play with her boobs, even finger her and he's still gay. But if he's sexually attracted to her and women in general then he's gotta go look at himself. There are lots of women who will kiss another woman. Doesn't mean they are bi. Just means they are kissing a woman. In my humble opinion"
. . not forgetting that many gay men and women have fathered children either before they "came out" or still "in the closet".
To be a bisexual is to be open-minded and gregarious, we're possibly some of the most tolerant to "likes and dislikes" that, at times, plaster this site with "anti" views . . yet we are also the most condemned, disliked and "blocked" group on here.
Bisexuals are rarely bigots . . most of those are "straight". |
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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago
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"Gay people only have attraction with their own gender.
Straight people only have attraction with the opposite gender.
Bi have an attraction to both.
That's the simple part. Now for the murky part.
A gay man can kiss a woman, play with her boobs, even finger her and he's still gay. But if he's sexually attracted to her and women in general then he's gotta go look at himself. There are lots of women who will kiss another woman. Doesn't mean they are bi. Just means they are kissing a woman. In my humble opinion"
a woman whose 100% straight will never kiss another woman unless its a peck on the cheek merry Christmas kind of kiss. Not a full on snog, EVER. if she does shes aint straight. |
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