"We seem to get loads of views on our profile by hardly any messages. Any advice? Xx
Responses on here only please xx"
Hi K and G, welcome back to fab. I had a look at your profile and have some suggestions.
From your pictures and text it seems Bdsm is a big deal for you. The marks and bruises might scare some people off but i wouldn't change it. At least people who look have some idea of what you are into and can make an informed choice if it's for them.
Your profile text is ok but has a lot of negatives in it (i.e who you wont meet).
Maybe it would be good to tweak it a little. Perhaps say our preference is to meet x,y,z instead.
You could add more about anything you especially want from meets and any fantasies you want to fulfil too. |
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Don't worry, think peeps like to look at other peeps profiles I certainly look sometimes,it's a good thing that peeps are looking, the messages will come soon just keep adding some pics. Seems the more pics the more people like  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks both of you, we do really enjoy bdsm and we have stated that we are able to play more vanilla. When we have previously had meets on our old profile we played vanilla with others. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"We seem to get loads of views on our profile by hardly any messages. Any advice? Xx
Responses on here only please xx"
Your profile seems fine to me I suspect its just a lack of true bdsm lovers on here being the cause of your mail box not over flowing .stick in there as I'm sure the approaches you do and will get will be from genuine lovers of bdsm . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe those looking are black, Asians with beards and beer bellies with fat wives?
That's a joke btw....but a big list of exclusions can come across as negative as a previous poster said. May be more positive to say what you ARE looking for? |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
"We seem to get loads of views on our profile by hardly any messages. Any advice? Xx
Responses on here only please xx
Hi K and G, welcome back to fab. I had a look at your profile and have some suggestions.
From your pictures and text it seems Bdsm is a big deal for you. The marks and bruises might scare some people off but i wouldn't change it. At least people who look have some idea of what you are into and can make an informed choice if it's for them.
Your profile text is ok but has a lot of negatives in it (i.e who you wont meet).
Maybe it would be good to tweak it a little. Perhaps say our preference is to meet x,y,z instead.
You could add more about anything you especially want from meets and any fantasies you want to fulfil too."
this poster is dead on you in a area of pain and whips chains and bondage so small fan base on fab [other sites for what you likeyou be getting lots]we players but not into whips ect.so we wouldnt message you. at clubs you will meet folks that are into that we have watched folks useing prods and all sorts .so good luck |
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