We've had a couple of FFM plays but have lately discussed trying MFM. My only real issue is finding a guy that would happily submit to me. I don't like pushy and demanding men and I like to be in charge....ask Mr Bond! So this is a question for you single guys I suppose. Would that put you off?
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"That's good to know. Also is it taboo to ask for a guy to wear a condom? I'm genuinely clueless and need to know the right way to go about it so the first time isn't a complete failure. "
Most certainly not! Indeed most swingers would insist on it. You should make this clear from the outset. |
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As with all "swinging" decide what you want, be clear about what you're after and then the people who you meet know what to expect. If they don't like what you are after, don't meet them. |
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As single guy - I have realised the the best way to do it is for some build up - ie I chat to the husband on the phone - so he can get sense of me and also lay the ground rules. Likewise I like to chat to the lady (to make sure she is real). I always tell them on the phone - I won't be upset if we meet and they decide no on the day - it means everyone feels they can back out
Likewise I think it really important to meet for drink in bar/pub the first time. That way they can get to know me - and get a sense of me. And check out the vibe. If people don't want to have a drink - for me - that is red flag
Likewise, during the drink, I always make sure I make an excuse and go to the toilet and that way the couple can chat in private - and the lady can say yeah or no without me being there....
you have to let everyone feel comfortable and not pressured. |
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"We've had a couple of FFM plays but have lately discussed trying MFM. My only real issue is finding a guy that would happily submit to me. I don't like pushy and demanding men and I like to be in charge....ask Mr Bond! So this is a question for you single guys I suppose. Would that put you off?
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What turned me off was the submit to me line. If it were an equal thing would be fine but not into power plays..... Maybe bondage but not with a stranger. |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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"We've had a couple of FFM plays but have lately discussed trying MFM. My only real issue is finding a guy that would happily submit to me. I don't like pushy and demanding men and I like to be in charge....ask Mr Bond! So this is a question for you single guys I suppose. Would that put you off?
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As long as your ordering me to lick your pussy i wouldn't have a problem with it. |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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"That's good to know. Also is it taboo to ask for a guy to wear a condom? I'm genuinely clueless and need to know the right way to go about it so the first time isn't a complete failure. "
Not taboo at all. It's your body, your in charge of what goes in it so if it has to have a condom on then it has to have one on.
Some guys will try to go bareback so always make sure you reach round and line it up yourself so you can feel it he has a condom on.
Within this lifestyle you should always play safe
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